Mukati
“Musoro wemhuri”, “Mudzimai wedu ndiye anosarudza zvose”, “Ndichabvunza murume wangu zvaachati” … Ndiani anofanira kuva mutungamiri pavaviri? Haisi nguva yekufunga zvakare maitiro echinyakare uye kudzidza kubva kumhuri idzodzo uko pasina chinhu chikuru, kana kuti, izvo zvikuru ndizvo zvese? Chii chinowanzoita kuti vaviri vanofara vari pamwe chete kwemakore akawanda? Murairidzi webhizinesi Radislav Gandapas ane resipi, inoratidzirwa neruzivo rwemunhu.
Chero mhuri haingori sosi yekurudziro uye mufaro, asiwo sosi huru yekukonana nematambudziko, murairidzi webhizinesi uye nyanzvi yehutungamiriri Radislav Gandapas anogutsikana. Igakava remhuri rinouya pekutanga pakurongwa kwezvikonzero zvikuru zvedambudziko.
Pachinzvimbo chechipiri pane makakatanwa ari munharaunda yehunyanzvi. “Munguva yokusava nesimba, munhu ane chishuvo chomuzvarirwo chokubvisa bviro yezvinetso, ndiko kuti, kurega ukama, kusiya basa. Asi iyi ndiyo nguva dzose nzira yokuzvipedza nayo here? - inodaidzira kufunga bhizinesi murairidzi.
Unganidza zvinoonekwa zvakazara
Kazhinji vakaroorana vanogara pamwe chete pasinei nekusawirirana kuri pachena. Sezvingabvira, havasati vasvika papfundo rinokosha.
"Ndine chokwadi chekuti hapana midziyo yakabatana kana vanawo zvavo zvichaita kuti vadyidzani vasarambane kana dambudziko rasvika pakakwirira," anoenderera mberi Radislav Gandapas. - Muchiitiko chekurambana uye "zviito zvehondo" zvinofambidzana nazvo, vanobatana vanoparadza pfuma yakabatana. Nzvimbo yekugara iri kuchinjaniswa kune mvura shoma uye yakanaka. Mukukwikwidzana, hazvishamisi kuti bhizinesi rakabudirira mukubatana kufa. Uye kunyange kuvapo kwevana hakuregi munhu wose, uye, sekutonga, vanababa vanosiya, vachikanda mutoro, uye vana vanosara naamai vavo.
Saka chii chichaita kuti vaviri ava varambe vari pamwe chete ipapo? “Musaunganidze midziyo yemubatanidzwa, izvi hazvina kumboponesa wanano. Unganidza zvinoonekwa! inopa zano murairidzi webhizinesi. Izvi ndizvo chaizvo zvaanoita muhukama uye anodada zvikuru kuti ane "vana vana kubva pamakore mana kusvika ku4, uye vese kubva kumukadzi mumwe anodiwa."
Upenyu hwemhuri huru huzere nemaitiro, uye naizvozvo Radislav nemudzimai wake Anna vanouya nezviitiko zvemhuri yose kakawanda pagore uye vanopedza mazuva anosungirwa pamwe chete, vachisiya vana kuna vanambuya vavo. Vakatosarudza kuroora chaizvo kuitira kuti vave chimwe chiitiko chakajeka muupenyu, kunyange panguva iyoyo vakanga vatova nevana vaviri uye pakanga pasina mubvunzo kuti vaizova pamwe chete.
Wakanga uri mutambo wakanaka wematanho akawanda nerwendo muchikepe uye chirevo chemuchato, umo munhu wese aifarira - vachangobva kuchata, uye hama, uye shamwari dzakabatanidzwa munharembozha inopenya yakagadzirwa nechikomba (64 nhare dzine mazwi " Anya, taura» Hongu » akagamuchira mwenga kwemaawa mashomanana achifamba pedyo nerwizi).
Maonero akajairika uye manzwiro ekugovana ndizvo chaizvo zvinobatanidza vanhu vaviri vakaparadzana mune vaviri, uye kwete zvachose nzvimbo yekugara kana chitambi mupasipoti.
"Uyu muchato, uye rwendo, uye kana mwana ane tembiricha iri pasi pe40, uye unomhanya-mhanya nemukadzi wako usiku kubva kune imwe kiriniki kuenda kune imwe uchitsvaga chiremba akakodzera," anotsanangura kudaro Radislav. - Hazvina basa kuti toni ipi - yakanaka kana yakaipa - maonesheni ane mavara, zvakakosha kuti akabatana.
Kana isu takakura mune mumwe nemumwe nemiriyoni zviitiko zvakajairika uye neruzivo manzwiro, zvakaoma kuti isu tiparadzane. Uye kana pasina nyaya dzinowanzoitika muwanano, saka hapana chekuchengetedza: mudzimai anotarisira vana, anowana mari, uye paanodzokera kumba, anoramba achitaura pafoni nezvebhizimisi. Kana kuti anoti aneta, okumbira kusamubata, anodya ega oenda kunoona TV muhofisi, obva arara imomo. Vane hupenyu huviri hwakafanana, havana chavanorasikirwa nacho. "
Rangarira kuti mutungamiri inzvimbo inoshanda
Nyanzvi yehutungamiriri ine chokwadi chekuti mhuri yemazuvano inoda hutongi hwakachinjika.
"Kune rumwe rutivi, iyi inonzi oxymoron, nokuti shoko rokuti" hierarchy "rinoratidza kuti mumwe munhu ari pasi peumwe munhu," mudzidzisi webhizimisi anotsanangura nzvimbo yake. - Nekune rumwe rutivi, mhuri yemazuva ano yevaviri vanoshamwaridzana vanoshamwaridzana vanoda kuzviratidza zvakanyanya sezvinobvira zvinoreva kugarisana kwakaenzana. Kana, zvisinei, mumwe munhu muvaviri akaomerera paukuru hwakamira, ipapo rimwe divi richamanikidzwa kuisa pasi zvido zvaro kune rimwe.
Kune mibatanidzwa yaanotambira, uye iye anotarisira imba nevana. Chibvumirano chakadaro chinoita sechinokodzera munhu wese. Vamwe vevakaroorana ava vari kufara. Asi ini kazhinji ndinoona kuti nhamba huru yevakadzi havaratidzi kugona kwavo kunze kwemba.
Pane imwe nguva, mumwe munhu mune vakaroorana kamwe kamwe anonzwa afa. "Ah, manzwiro edu atonhora." Kana kuti "Hatina chekutaura nezvazvo." Zvakanaka, kana vakafungidzira kuenda kune zvidzidzo, kune nyanzvi yezvepfungwa, kutanga kuverenga mabhuku anokosha, saka pane mukana wekuona kuti kuroorana hakuna kuvharwa nechibvumirano chewanano, vana uye pfuma, asi nekubatana kwemanzwiro emanzwiro. Uye, zvichida, vaviri vacho vachachinja maitiro avo ehukama "musoro wemhuri - pasi."
Iyo yakachinjika hierarchy inobvumira vaviri vakaroorana kuti vazvione uye panguva imwechete vaviri vacho vese. Asi sei kugovera hutungamiri mukuita?
“Kukurukurirana ndiko kunovimbisa hukama hwakakura, hwakazara. Muchato inyanzvi yekubvumirana, anodaro Radislav Gandapas. — Unofanira kutaura zvaunoda muwanano, zvaunoda kunze kwewanano, zvakakosha uye zvinokufadza.
Vazhinji vanorarama uye vachikanganisa vanofunga kuti rimwe divi rinogutswa nekukasira, sezvo rikanyarara. Uye kana kamwe kamwe chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka, saka sei ari kuita, sekunge iye ane zvese. Uye dzimwe nguva zvatinoda zvingasaitwa kunyange nesu pachedu. Kusvikira taenda kuzororo ini ndaive nekakona kangu kega muguest house, handina kuziva kuti ndozvandaidawo kumba. Uye ndakaudza mudzimai wangu nezvazvo, iye zvino tiri kufunga nezvekuzvishongedza muimba yedu.
Nehumambo hwakachinjika, hapana chinodiwa kuti zvinofarirwa nemumwe ndezvepamusoro, zvakakosha kupfuura zvinofarirwa nevamwe. Pano munhu wese ane kodzero dzakaenzana, zvisinei nekuti ndiani anounza mari huru kumba kana kuchenesa imba uye kugadzira chikafu.
Ipana kodzero yekuita sarudzo
Nzira yekusiyanisa sei mutungamiri? Uye nzira yekuwana hunhu hwehutungamiriri mukati mako? Hutungamiri hahutsananguriki nechinzvimbo. Mutungamiri chaiye, zvose mubhizinesi uye muhukama, ndiye anotora nzvimbo yehupenyu hunoshanda uye anobvumira vamwe kukura pedyo naye, uye kwete zvachose uyo ane "Chief" chiratidzo pamusuwo uye anotarisa pasi kune vamwe. .
“Shoko rokuti “mutungamiriri” rine zvarinoreva uye dudziro dzakawanda,” anodaro Radislav Gandapas. - Hutungamiri hunogona kunzi nzira yehupenyu yakanangana nekutanga uye basa. Mutungamiriri ndiye anozvisarudzira zvaanoda. Haararame kubva pachinzvimbo che "O, chii chandingaite, mamiriro ezvinhu akakura." Iye pachake anogadzira mamiriro ezvinhu anodiwa.
Mutungamiriri haamirire kusvika vakwidza muhoro wake, anozvitanga ega. Asi kwete mupfungwa yokuti zvingava zvakanaka kuwana zvakawanda. Anotora mari semwero wekukura kwake nebudiriro. Achaudza manejimendi kuti anoda kuzviona zviri nani, kusvika padanho idzva rekuita sarudzo, chiyero, mutoro. "
Somuenzaniso, mumwe murume wechiduku Misha anoona pasina tarisiro muguta rake uye anosarudza kuenda kuguta guru. Anopinda kuyunivhesiti, owana basa, okwidza manera ebasa ikoko. Ndiye mutungamiriri here? Hapana mubvunzo. Chii chisingagoni kutaurwa nezvemumwe murume wechidiki Bor, akaberekwa uye akarerwa nevabereki vasina simba, akapinda yunivhesiti yavakasarudza kwaari, apedza kudzidza akawana basa neshamwari yababa vake, uye kwemakore gumi nemaviri iye zvino akabata chinzvimbo chakafanana - nyeredzi dzisina kukwana denga, asi havagone kumupisa kana - shure kwezvose, mwanakomana weshamwari yababa vekare.
Muhupenyu hwake pachake, anozivikanwawo - musikana akakurumidza kuva nepamuviri kubva kwaari, "akaroora" pachake. Aisamuda asi nekuda kwezera rake yakasvika nguva yekuti aroorwe. Ndiani mutungamiri wevaviri ava? Ano. Makore akawanda anopfuura, uye rimwe zuva Borya anoona kuti anoshanda kubasa raasingadi, anogara nomukadzi waasingadi, uye ari kurera mwana waakanga asingadi chaizvoizvo. Asi haasati agadzirira kuchinja upenyu hwake. Saka aripo, asingaratidzi hurongwa hwehutungamiriri.
Hunhu hweutungamiri hunoiswa muhuduku. Asi kana isu "tikaranga" vana nekuda kwekutora danho, tinobva tavhara sarudzo yemutungamiri weramangwana. Mwana akasuka ndiro, akadira mvura pasi. Maitiro maviri anogoneka.
Kutanga: kurumbidza uye kuratidza kuti ungasuka sei ndiro pasina kudurura mvura.
Chechipiri: kupopotera machakwi, kumudaidza kuti benzi, hosha yemidziyo yemumba, kumutyisidzira nevavakidzani vanonzi vakatsamwa.
Zviri pachena kuti muchiitiko chechipiri, nguva inotevera mwana achafunga zvakasimba pamusoro pekuita chimwe chinhu paimba, nokuti inoshanduka kuva inonyadzisa, inoparadza uye isina kuchengeteka kwaari. Initiative inogona kurasika chero pazera. Murume kazhinji anocheka mapapiro emudzimai wake, uye mudzimai kumurume wake. Uye zvino vose vari vaviri vanoshamisika: sei achipedza nguva yose neshamwari dzake, uye kwete kumba, uye anogara akarara pamubhedha.
Saka ndoita sei? Nzira yekuwanazve danho uye chinzvimbo chinoshanda muhukama?
Mhuri kubatana, kushanda pamwe chete. Wese nhengo yemhuri ine izwi nekodzero yekufara chero nguva.
“Unogona kudzosera kumashure kusvika panotangira hukama. Uye bvumirana patsva kuti tichavavaka sei izvozvi,” anodaro Radislav Gandapas. - Zvine musoro kudzima manzwiro uye kuvhura kuchenjera uye zvibvunze: kazhinji, ndiri kufara nemunhu uyu, ndinoda kurarama hupenyu naye here? Kusagutsikana kwedu kunouraya here?
Kana mhinduro kumubvunzo wekutanga iri "Kwete" uye wechipiri "Hongu", saka chiregai kutambudzana uye regai kuenda. Kana iwe uchinzwisisa kuti uyu ndiye munhu wako waunoda kurarama naye hupenyu, kuchembera pamwe chete, saka iwe unofanirwa kutaurirana kana kuenda kunotaura pamberi pemuongorori wepfungwa wemhuri uyo anozobatsira mese kuona hukama kubva kunze uye kuchengetedza. nhaurirano nenzira inovaka.
Chii chichapa mukana kune chero wevadyidzani kuti vatore danho? Manzwiro ekuti inzwi rake rinokosha. Pfungwa yekare - ndiani anowana, anosarudza - ndeyekare.
“Zvose zvinoitwa nomunhu muwanano—angave anoshanda muhofisi, ane bhizimisi kana kuti pamba, anofamba-famba mumaguta nemataundi, kana kuti akagara pamba nevana, haafaniri kunyimwa kodzero yokuita zvisarudzo,” anodaro. Radislav Gandapas. “Rudzi rwevanhu rwakaramba ruripo nemhaka yokukwanisa kubatira pamwe nokutaurirana.
Mhuri kubatana, kushanda pamwe chete. Wese nhengo yemhuri ine izwi nekodzero yekufara chero nguva. Uye kana asina kufara, saka anofanira kuteererwa, uye zvaanoda zvinonzwisisika zvinofanira kugutswa nerumwe rutivi, kunze kwekunge vaparadza mufaro wake.