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“Ndomuwanepi mupfumi? Pese pandinofamba padanho rimwe chete - nei zvakadaro? Chii chandinoita kana ndikasafonerwa mushure mekuda kufambidzana? Mupepeti wesaiti, Yulia Tarasenko, akapinda hurukuro dzakati wandei nenyanzvi yepfungwa Mikhail Labkovsky kuti aone kuti ndeapi mibvunzo inouya nevateereri uye kana zvichiita kuti uwedzere kufara muawa nehafu.

Pakati pevhiki, manheru, pakati peMoscow. Chando. Imba yekutandarira yeCentral House yeArchitects yakabatikana, pane mutsara muimba yekupfeka. Iviri pasi pamusoro pehurukuro yaLabkovsky.

Musoro unoti "Nzira yekuroora sei", kuumbwa kwevakadzi kwevateereri kwakajeka mberi. Ruzhinji rwevakadzi vane makore makumi maviri nemanomwe kusvika makumi mana (kune mitsaukano mumativi ese). Kune varume vatatu muhoro: cameraman, mumiriri wevanoronga uye Mikhail pachake.

Hurukuro yeruzhinji haisi monologue yenyanzvi inozivikanwa, asi ipfupi, ingangoita maminetsi gumi, sumo uye nekuwedzera kupindirana: bvunza mubvunzo - wana mhinduro. Pane nzira mbiri dzekutaura chironda chinorwadza: kupinda maikorofoni kana kupfuudza chinyorwa chakanyorwa chakakura, chinooneka uye chine mubvunzo.

Mikhail haapinduri zvinyorwa pasina mubvunzo: izvi, zvichida, zvingava kutonga kwake kwechinomwe. Ekutanga matanhatu:

  • ita zvaunoda
  • usaita zvausingadi
  • ingotaura zvausingadi
  • usapindure kana usina kubvunzwa
  • pindura mubvunzo chete
  • kugadzirisa zvinhu, taura nezvako chete,

Imwe nzira kana imwe, mumhinduro dzake kumibvunzo yevateereri, Mikhail anoataura. Kubva pamibvunzo, zvinova pachena kuti musoro wacho wakapamhama uye wakakura kupfuura zvaungaite.

Pamaikorofoni pane mutsvuku wechidiki. Paive nehukama nemurume "akanaka": akanaka, akapfuma, maMaldives uye mamwe mafaro ehupenyu. Asi unemotional. Scandal, akapararira, iye zvino anofananidza munhu wose naye, hapana anogona kumira makwikwi.

"Uri mutsinga," Mikhail anotsanangura. — Murume iyeye akakukwezva nokuti akanga asina ushamwari newe. Tinofanira kuzvishandura pachedu.

Seri kwenyaya yechipiri yega yega kunotonhora, kuramba madzibaba. Nokudaro kukwezva kune avo vanokuvadza

— Zvinoita sokuti unoda kushamwaridzana: kuva nomumwe munhu waunogona kutaura naye. Asi iwe unofanirwa kuvakazve hupenyu hwako, dururira pasherufu muwadhiropu, bvisa zvinhu kure ... - ane makore makumi matatu nemanomwe ebrunette anoratidza.

"Iwe sarudza," Labkovsky anokanda maoko ake. - Kana kuti iwe nemumwe mugere zvakanaka, wobva wagamuchira mamiriro acho sezvaari. Kana kuti hauna hukama hwakakwana - saka unofanirwa kushandura chimwe chinhu.

Seri kwedzimwe nyaya dzose kunotonhora, kuramba vanababa vasipo paupenyu hwevanasikana vavo kana kuti kuoneka zvisina kujairika. Nokudaro kukwezva kune avo vanokuvadza: "zvose zvakashata pamwe chete, uye zvakasiyana zvachose." Mamiriro ezvinhu anodzokorora: vateereri vaviri vanotaura pamusoro peidi rokuti mumwe nomumwe ane michato mishanu shure kwavo. Zvisinei, izvi handizvo zvoga zvingaitika.

- Ndingakwezva sei murume - akachengetedzwa, kuti awane mari yakapetwa katatu kupfuura ini, anogona kutarisira kana ndikaungana pazororo rekusununguka ...

— Saka unhu hwemunhu hahuna kukosha kwauri zvachose?

- Handina kutaura izvozvo.

Asi iwewe wakatanga nemari. Uyezve, vakazivisa: mari yacho inopetwa katatu pane yako. Kwete maviri nehafu, kwete mana…

— Zvakanaka, chii chakaipa?

— Ndizvo chaizvo kana mukadzi ane hunhu hwakanaka achitsvaga murume akaenzana naye. Ndizvo zvose.

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Vamwe vanhu vanouya kukirasi vakagadzirira. Sezvo akadzidza mitemo uye achiedza kuitevera, musikana anobvunza mubvunzo: ane makore anopfuura makumi matatu, ave ari pamwe chete nejaya kwemakore maviri nehafu, asi achiri kuramba kutaura zvakanyanya nezvevana uye muchato - ndizvo here? zvinobvira here kutanga kufambidzana nomumwe munhu panguva imwe chete? Nguva chinhu chinoenda.

"Sei kuroora": mushumo kubva hurukuro Mikhail Labkovsky

Vateereri vanoseka - kuedza kuwana kunakidzwa kunoratidzika kunge kusina maturo. Horo yacho inowanzobvumirana: inogomera netsitsi mukupindura dzimwe nyaya, inofefetera dzimwe. Kunyange vateereri vanouya panguva imwe chete: kuhurukuro yekubuda muukama hwepfungwa pachine nguva, kune hurukuro yekuzviremekedza - kunonoka. Nenzira, hurukuro pamusoro pekuita purojekiti yakabudirira kubva mukuzviremekedza kwako inounganidza huwandu hwevarume - 10 vanhu kubva muimba ye150 vanhu.

Tinouya kuhurukuro dzavose nekuda kwechikonzero chimwe chete icho makore anoda kusvika makumi matatu apfuura vabereki vedu vakaungana pazviratidziro zveTV kuti vaone zvikamu zveKashpirovsky. Ndinoda chishamiso, kurapwa nokukurumidza, zvichida, kubviswa kwezvinetso zvose mune imwe hurukuro.

Muchidimbu, izvi zvinogoneka kana iwe ukatevera mitemo mitanhatu. Uye tinobvuma zvimwe zvatakanzwa nemufaro: munyika, apo munhu wose anodana kuti abve munzvimbo yekunyaradza, kuti azviedze pachake, Labkovsky anorayira zvakasimba kuti asaita izvi. Haunzwe kuda kuenda kugym? Saka usaenda! Uye "Ini handina kuzvimanikidza, asi ndakazonzwa simba rekuwedzera" - chisimba pamusoro pako.

Michael anotaura izvo vazhinji vedu tinoda kunzwa: zvide iwe sezvauri iwe.

Asi kunyanya "kuregeredzwa" zviitiko, Mikhail anotaura nokutendeseka: tinofanira kushanda nenyanzvi yepfungwa (mune dzimwe nguva, chiremba wetsinga, psychotherapist kana psychiatrist). Kunzwa izvi, vazhinji vanogumburwa: kuverenga kwechishamiso chekukurumidza kwakakura kwazvo, kutenda mune zvemashiripiti "piritsi kune zvese."

Pasinei neizvi, hurukuro dzinoramba dzichiunganidza horo huru, uye kwete muMoscow chete: ane vateereri vake muRiga neKiev, Yekaterinburg, St. Petersburg nemamwe maguta. Kwete zvishoma nekuda kwehunhu hwake, kusununguka, kuseka. Uye misangano iyi inobatsira vatori vechikamu kuti vanzwisise kuti havasi vega mumatambudziko avo, zviri kuitika kwavari zvakajairika zvekuti zvinogona kutorwa sechinhu chitsva.

“Manzwiro anonakidza: zvinoita sekuti vanhu vese vakasiyana, munhu wese ane mamiriro akasiyana, uye mibvunzo yacho yakafanana! - anogovera Ksenia, 39 makore. "Nezve chinhu chimwe chete isu tese tine hanya nazvo. Uye izvi zvakakosha: kunzwisisa kuti hausi wega. Uye hapana kana chikonzero chekutaura mubvunzo wako mumakrofoni - chokwadi, panguva yehurukuro, vamwe vanokuitira, uye iwe uchawana mhinduro.

“Zvinofadza zvikuru kunzwisisa kuti kusada kuroora hakuna kunaka! Uye kusatsvaka “magumo ako echikadzi” ndokwomuzvarirwo,” anobvuma kudaro Vera, ane makore 33 okukura.

Zvinoitika kuti Michael ari kutaura izvo vanhu vazhinji vanoda kunzwa: kuzvida iwe sezvauri. Chokwadi, kune basa shure kweizvi, uye kuzviita kana kusazviita ibasa remunhu wese.

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