PSYchology

Maonero emudiki akajairika nezve nzira iyi.

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Hatisati tose takagamuchira kurerwa kwechinyakare, asi kunyange kana tikazvibata zvomuenzaniso, tinofanira kukurukura navanhuwo zvavo, vanhuwo zvavo. Uye vanhuwo zvavo, kunyange kana vasingazvibati mukukakavadzana, mukukurukurirana kazhinji vanobvumira zvinopesana. Gu.e.st, matauriro akapinza, kushaya hanya, mazwi ane chinzvimbo chepamusoro - zvese izvi hazvifadzi uye haudi kuzvipotsa. Uye kuita sei kwazviri?

Zviri pachena kuti chinhu chikuru ndechekuita mukati zvakadzikama, zvino zvichava nyore kusarudza yakakwana yekunze maitiro ekuita. Rugare rwemukati chinhu chinodhura, asi chaicho. Chokutanga pane zvose, mushanduri wemukati anobatsira pano - kukwanisa kunzwa munhu ari pedyo nesu nenzira yakanaka kana kunzwisisa. Kure kubva nguva dzose mhirizhonga ichibhururuka munzira yedu nemaune, dzimwe nguva munhu ari mumanzwiro kana kuti haatevedzere zvaanotaura uye sei. Asi kana asina kurerwa zvakakwana kuti ataure zvakarurama, tingava nouchenjeri hwokushandura mashoko ake sezvaanganzwika nenzira inogamuchirika zvikuru. Saka, tenzi maitiro ekushandura kwemukati, uye mune chero hurukuro iwe uchanzwa uine chivimbo zvakanyanya.

Kunze, iwe unogona kuita nenzira dzakasiyana: hapana, zano, teerera, ndapota ... Ona →

Iko kune kashoma chero mitemo inofanana kune wese munhu: iyo yakakwana kune imwe haina kukodzera kune imwe. Zvisinei, tarisa, zvichida chimwe chinhu chichakufadza iwe.

Tsika yekukurukurirana kune vechidiki: Vabereki vane chinangwa mumhuri ine hutano vanodzidzisa vana vavo vari kuyaruka zvinhu zvinotevera kuti vataurirane…


mubvunzo. Ndiudze, ndapota, hanzvadzi duku (musiyano ndeyemakore 9) inowanzobvumira kuita chiso chakafinhwa mukukurukurirana uye kudonha zvishoma: Handifariri. Izvi ndezvekuti kana musoro wehurukuro usina kutaurwa naye. Zvinoita kwandiri kuti iyi inzvimbo yehukuru. Izvi hazvindifadze kwazvo, nekuti misoro yacho haina kwayakarerekera, isina kusarongeka. Ndapota, ndiudze kuti ndotaura sei nehanzvadzi yangu kuitira kuti arege kuzvibvumira nzvimbo yakadaro. Chinhu chimwe chete chinouya mumusoro ndechekugara kure uye kusatanga hurukuro. Ndichatenda mhinduro.

Response. Pane zvakawanda zvingasarudzwa: zvinosetsa, zvinodziya, zvakakomba, uye zvakaoma. Zvinogara zvakanaka kutanga nekudziya, asi kana izvo zvisingabatsiri, zvingave zvakakosha kuisa zvaunotarisira zvakaoma, zvakare. Imwe musiyano wepakati unogona kunzwika seizvi:

“Lena, ndine chikumbiro chako… Takataura newe, ndikatanga kutaura nezvekudyara munyika, uye wakafinyama ukati haufariri. Zvakajairika kuti iwe unogona kufarira musoro wenyaya, asi matauriro awakaita, maitiro ekutaura kwako - ini handina kuzvifarira. Kana ukandimbundira uye ukandikumbira noushamwari kuti nditaure pamusoro pechimwe chinhu chinonyanya kufadza kwauri, zvese zvingave zvakasiyana… Usagadzirise chiso chakadaro. Lena, wanga usingadi kundigumbura, handiti?"


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