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Hélène Goninet, nyamukuta uye murapi wezvepabonde, munyori we "Kuberekwa pakati pesimba, chisimba uye kufara", rakabudiswa neMamaeditions
Kunzwa kufara mukusununguka kunowanzoitika kana iwe uri kubereka mwana. Izvi ndizvo zvinosimbiswa naHélène Goninet, nyamukuta: “Ndiko kureva kuti pasina chirwere chepundutso, uye mumamiriro ezvinhu anokurudzira kushamwaridzana: rima, kunyarara, vanhu vanovimbwa, nezvimwewo. Ndakabvunzurudza vakadzi 324 muongororo yangu. Ichiri chibharo, asi chakajairika kupfuura zvaunofunga. Muna 2013, chiremba wepfungwa akanyora 0,3% yevana vakazvarwa muFrance. Asi akanga angobvunza vananyamukuta nezvavaifunga! Ini pachangu, sanyamukuta anosununguka achiita zvekuzvarirwa kumba, ndingati 10% yakawedzera. Vakadzi vazhinji vanowana mafaro, kunyanya panguva yekuzvarwa kwemwana, dzimwe nguva nekunyarara kwega kwega pakati pezvisungo. Vamwe kusvika orgasm, vamwe kwete. Ichi chiitiko chinogona kuenda chisingaoneki neboka rezvokurapa. Dzimwe nguva kunzwa kwekunakidzwa kunopfuura zvakanyanya. Panguva yekuberekwa, kune uterine contractions, kuwedzera kwemwoyo, hyperventilation, uye (kana kusingadzivisiki) kuchema kwekusunungurwa, sepanguva yepabonde. Musoro webeche unodzvanya kumadziro emboro nemidzi yebeche. Chimwe chokwadi: maseketi etsinga anotapurira marwadzo akafanana neaya anofambisa mafaro. Chete, kuti unzwe chimwe chinhu kunze kwekurwadziwa, iwe unofanirwa kudzidza kuziva muviri wako, kurega uye pamusoro pezvose, kubva kunze kwekutya uye kutonga. Hazvisi nyore nguva dzose!
Celine, Amai vemusikana ane makore 11 uye mwana mukomana ane mwedzi miviri.
"Ndaigara ndichiti pandiri: kubereka kwakanaka!"
“Mwanasikana wangu ane makore gumi nerimwe. Zvakakosha kwandiri kuti ndipupure nokuti, kwemakore, ndakanga ndichinetseka kutenda zvandakanga ndasangana nazvo. Kusvikira ndasangana nechivhiti vhiti paipindirwa nanyamukuta. Akataura nezvekukosha kwekubereka pasina epidural, achiti inogona kupa vakadzi manzwiro anoshamisa, kunyanya kufara. Ipapo ndipo pandakaona kuti ndakanga ndisati ndamboita makore gumi nerimwe apfuura. Ndakanyatsonzwa kufara kukuru… pakabuda rukuvhute! Mwanasikana wangu akazvarwa nguva isati yakwana. Akakurumidza kubuda mwedzi nehafu. Kaive kamwana kadiki, chibereko changu chaive chatodirwa nemwedzi yakati wandei, chichinyatsopfakanyika. Kutumirwa kwacho kwaikurumidza zvikuru. Ndaiziva kuti aiva munhu ane huremu uye ndaimutyira, asi kuzvara ndaisatombotya. Takasvika kumaternity ward kuma half past twelve and my daughter was born kuma 11:13 pm Panguva yese yekubara, kugwinya kwacho kwaikwanisa kushingirira. Ndakanga ndaita zvidzidzo zvekugadzirira kuzvara mwana sophrology. Ndanga ndichiita "positive visualizations". Ndakazviona ndine mwana wangu pandakambozvarwa, ndakaona gonhi richivhurwa, zvakandibatsira zvakanyanya. Zvainge zvakanakisa. Ndakasangana nekuzvarwa chaiko senguva yakanaka. Ndakatozonzwa abuda.
Iko kuzorora kwakanyanya, kunakidzwa chaiko
Paakaberekwa, chiremba akandiudza kuti pakanga pachine kusununguka kweplacenta. Ndakagomera, handina kuona kwaiperera. Asi panguva iyi ndipo pandakanzwa kufara kukuru. Handizivi kuti zvinoshanda sei, kwandiri haisi yepabonde chaiyo, asi kusunungurwa kwakanyanya, kunakidzwa kwechokwadi, kwakadzama. Panguva yekusununguka, ndakanzwa zvatinogona kunzwa kana orgasm ichikwira uye ichitikurira. Ndakaita ruzha rwekunakirwa. Zvakandinetsa, ndakamira zvishoma, ndakanyara. Chokwadi ndakanga ndanakidzwa panguva iyoyo. Ndakatarisa chiremba ndokuti, “Ehe, ikozvino ndanzwisisa kuti sei tichiti deliverance”. Chiremba haana kupindura, iye (luck) haana kunzwisisa kuti chii chakanga chaitika kwandiri. Ndakanga ndakanyatsogadzikana, zvakanaka uye ndakasununguka. Ndakanzwa kufara chaizvo. Ndakanga ndisati ndamboziva izvi uye handina kuzombozvinzwa zvakare mushure mezvo. Pakuzvarwa kwemwana wangu wechipiri, mwedzi miviri yapfuura, handina kumbosangana nechinhu chimwe chete! Ndakazvara ndine denda. Handina kana kumbonakidzwa. Ndakanga ndakaipa chaizvo! Ndakashaya kuti kuzvara kunorwadza sei! Ndaiva nemaawa gumi nemaviri ebasa. Epidural yakanga isingadzivisiki. Ndakanga ndaneta uye handizvidembi kuti ndakaparara, handigoni kufungidzira kuti ndaizozviita sei ndisina kubatsirwa nazvo. Dambudziko nderekuti ndakanga ndisisina kana mafeelings. Ndakange ndave chiveve chose kubva pasi. Ndinozviona zvinonyadzisa kuti handina chandakanzwa. Kune vakadzi vazhinji vanozvara vane epidural, saka havagone kuzvinzwisisa. Pandakati pedyo neni: "Kuberekwa, ndinofunga kuti kwakanaka", vanhu vakanditarisa nemaziso makuru akatenderera, sekunge ndaiva mutorwa. Uye pakupedzisira ndakapwiswa kuti zvakanga zvakafanana nokuda kwavakadzi vose! Magirlfriends akandizvara vaisataura zvemafaro zvachose. Kubva ipapo, ndinopa zano shamwari dzangu kuti dzizviite pasina kuparara kuitira kuti ndigone kusangana nekunzwa uku. Iwe unofanirwa kusangana nazvo kamwechete muhupenyu hwako! “
Sarah
Amai vevana vatatu.
“Ndakava nechokwadi chokuti kubereka kwairwadza.”
“Ndini dangwe pavana vasere. Vabereki vedu vakatipa pfungwa yekuti kubata pamuviri uye kuzvara inguva yechisikigo, asi zvinosuruvarisa kuti nzanga yedu yakange yave yakanyanyisa, zvichiita kuti zvinhu zviome. Zvisinei, sezvakaita vanhu vakawanda, ndaiva nechokwadi chokuti kubereka kunorwadza. Pandakanga ndava nepamuviri kekutanga, ndaiva nemibvunzo yakawanda pamusoro peidzi ongororo dzokuzvidzivirira nadzo dzokurapa, uyewo nezvechirwere che<em>epidural, chandakaramba pakusununguka kwangu. Ndakawana mukana wekusangana nambuya nyamukuta panguva yenhumbu yangu uyo akandibatsira kutarisana nekutya kwangu, kunyanya kufa. Ndakasvika musi wandakazvarwa ndakazorora. Mwana wangu akaberekerwa mumvura, mukamuri yakasikwa yekiriniki yakazvimirira. Ndakanga ndisingazivi panguva iyoyo kuti kwaibvira kuFrance kunoberekera kumusha. Ndakanonoka kuenda kukiriniki, ndinorangarira kuti mazamu airwadza. Kuva mumvura pashure kwakaderedza marwadzo zvikuru. Asi ndakatambura kutambura, ndichidavira kuti hakunzvengeki. Ndakaedza kufema zvakanyanya pakati pemacontractions. Asi pakangodzoka kukokera kwacho, kwatowedzera chisimba, ndakarumanisa mazino angu, ndakatsikitsira. Ukuwo mwana paakasvika, kuzorora kwakadii, kunzwa kwakanaka. Zvinoita sekunge nguva yakamira, sekunge zvese zvapera.
Pamimba yangu yechipiri, zvisarudzo zvedu zvoupenyu zvakanga zvatibvisa muguta, ndakasangana nanyamukuta mukuru, Hélène, aidzidzira kusunungutsa mwana pamba. Izvi zvinogoneka zvave pachena. Ukama hwakasimba kwazvo hweushamwari hwakavakwa pakati pedu. Shanyo dzemwedzi nemwedzi yakanga iri nhambo chaiyoiyo yomufaro uye yakandiunzira rugare rukuru. Pazuva guru, mufaro wakadini kuva pamba, wakasununguka kufamba-famba, pasina kunetseka kwechipatara, ndakakombwa nevanhu vandinoda. Asi apo kuzvimba kukuru kwakauya, ndinorangarira marwadzo makuru. Nokuti ndakanga ndichiri mukupikisa. Uye pandairamba, ndipo painyanya kurwadza. Asi ndinorangarirawo nhambo dzinenge dzichinakidza kugara zvakanaka pakati pemazamu nanyamukuta vaindikoka kuti ndizorore uye ndinakidzwe nokudzikama. Uye nguva dzose mufaro uyu mushure mekuzvarwa ...
Kunzwa kwakavhengana kwesimba uye simba kwakasimuka mandiri.
Makore maviri gare gare, tiri kugara muimba itsva munyika. Ndinoteverwazve nanyamukuta mumwe chete. Kuverenga kwangu, kuchinjana kwangu, misangano yangu yakaita kuti ndive nekushanduka-shanduka: Ini zvino ndine chokwadi chekuti kuzvara ndiyo tsika yekutanga inoita kuti tive mukadzi. Ini zvino ndoziva kuti zvinokwanisika kusangana nenguva ino zvakasiyana, kuti usisatsungirire nekuramba kurwadziwa. Pausiku hwekuzvarwa, mushure mekumbundirwa nerudo, bhegi remvura rakatsemuka. Ndaitya kuti chirongwa chekuberekera kumba chaizoparara. Asi pandakafonera nyamukuta, pakati pehusiku, akandisimbisa nokundiudza kuti mazamu anowanzouya nokukurumidza, kuti taizomirira mangwanani kuti tione mhindumupindu. Chokwadi vakauya usiku ihwohwo, zvakanyanyisa. Kuma5 ndakafonera nyamukuta. Ndinoyeuka ndakarara pamubhedha wangu ndakatarisa nepahwindo kunze kwoedza. Hélène akasvika, chinhu chiri chose chakafamba nokukurumidza zvikuru. Ndakagara zvangu nemapillow nemagumbeze akawanda. Ndakaregedza zvachose. Ndakanga ndisingacharambi, ndakanga ndisisarwadzirwe nemarwadzo. Ndakanga ndakarara nedivi, ndakanyatsogadzikana uye ndine chivimbo. Muviri wangu wakavhurika kuti mwana wangu apfuure. Kunzwa kwakavhengana kwesimba nesimba kwakasimuka mandiri uye sezvazvakasvika kumusoro, mwana wangu akazvarwa. Ndakagara ipapo kwenguva refu, ndichifara, ndakabviswa zvachose, mwana wangu achipikisana neni, asingakwanisi kuvhura maziso angu, mukufara kuzere. “
Evangeline
Mai vemukomana mudiki.
"The caresses akamisa marwadzo."
“Rimwe Svondo, kumaXNUMX:XNUMX, mazamu anondimutsa. Vanonditonga zvekuti ndinongofunga nezvavo. Hazvirwadzi. Ndinoedza ruoko rwangu panzvimbo dzakasiyana. Ndainge ndanzi ndinosunungukira kumusha. Ndinonzwa kunge ndiri kutamba. Ndinonzwa kunaka. Ndinonyatsokoshesa nzvimbo yandiri hafu-yakagara, hafu-yakarara pamusoro peBasil, pamabvi angu, anonditsvoda akazara pamuromo. Paanonditsvoda panguva yekubata, ini handichanzwa chero tension, ndinongonakidzwa nekuzorodza. Mashiripiti uye kana akakurumidza kurega, ndinonzwa kushushikana zvakare. Akazoregedza kunditsvoda nekubata kwega kwega. Ndine fungidziro yekuti anonyara pamberi pemeso anyamukuta, asi ane tsitsi. Ave masikati ndinoenda kunogeza naBasile. Anomira kumashure kwangu ondimbundira zvinyoro nyoro. Inotapira kwazvo. Tingori vaviri, zvakanaka, saka wadii kutora nhanho mberi? Nemumaoko ndinomukoka kuti arove mboro yangu kunge kana tichidanana. Ah zvakanaka!
Bhatani remashiripiti!
Tiri mukuita kusununguka, macontractions akasimba uye ari pedyo zvikuru. Mabheti aBasil anondizorodza panguva yekubatana. Tinobuda mushower. Iye zvino ndave kutanga kurwadziwa. Kuma two o'clock ndinokumbira nyamukuta kuti vatarise pakavhurwa muromo wechibereko. Anondiudza 5 cm yekuwedzera. Iko kutya kwese, ndaitarisira 10 cm, ndakafunga kuti ndaive pamagumo. Ndinochema nenzwi guru ndofunga pamusoro pemhinduro dzinoshanda dzandaigona kuwana kuti dzindibatsire kutsungirira kuneta nemarwadzo. Iyo doula inobuda kunotora Basil. Ini ndiri ndega zvakare uye ndofunga kumashure kwekugezesa uye kubatwa kweBasil izvo zvakaita kuti ndive akanaka. Ndakabva ndapuruzira clitori yangu. Zvinoshamisa sei kundizorodza. Zvakafanana nebhatani remashiripiti rinobvisa marwadzo. Apo Basil anosvika, ndinomutsanangurira kuti ndinoda chaizvo kukwanisa kuzvibata-bata uye kumubvunza kana zvingaita kuti ndigare ndega kwekanguva. Naizvozvo anozobvunza nyamukuta kana zvakanaka kuti ndigare ndega (pasina kutsanangura chikonzero changu). Basil inovhara hwindo kuitira kuti pasave nechiedza chinogona kupinda. Ndinogara ikoko ndega. Ndinopinda muruzevha. Zvandakanga ndisati ndambosangana nazvo. Ndinonzwa simba risingaperi richibva kwandiri, simba rakasunungurwa. Ndikabata mboro yangu hapachinakirwe pabonde sezvandinoziva pandinoita bonde, kungotandara chete kudarika kana ndisina. Ndinonzwa musoro uchidzika. Mumba umu mune nyamukuta ini naBasile. Ndinokumbira Basil kuti arambe achindirova. Maonero anyamukuta haachandinetse, kunyanya kana ndichipihwa mabhenefiti anondiunzira pakuzorodza nekuderedza marwadzo. Asi Basil akanyanya kunyara. Marwadzo acho akanyanya. Saka ndinotanga kusundira kuti zvipere nekukasira. Ndinofunga kuti nekubatwa-batwa ndingadai ndakave nemoyo murefu, sezvo ndichaziva mushure mezvo kuti ndine musodzi inoda matinji matanhatu. Arnold achangobva kukwenya musoro, anovhura maziso. Kubatana kwekupedzisira uye muviri unobuda, Basile anougamuchira. Anoipfuudza pakati pemakumbo angu ini ndomumbundira. Ndinofara zvikuru. The placenta inobuda zvishoma nezvishoma pasina kana kurwadziwa. Dzave kuma 19 pm handichanzwa kuneta. Ndinofara, ndakafara. “
Ecstatic mavhidhiyo!
PaYouTube, vakadzi vanosunungukira kumba havazeze kuzvitora. Mumwe wavo, Amber Hartnell, muAmerica anogara muHawaii, anotaura nezvokuti simba romufaro rakamushamisa sei, apo akakarira kuva mumarwadzo makuru. Anoonekwa mugwaro re "In Journal of Sex Research (" Orgasmic Birth: The Best Chept Secret "), inotungamirirwa naDebra Pascali-Bonaro.
Bonhora uye kurwadziwa
Barry Komisaruk, neuroscientist, uye timu yake paYunivhesiti yeNew Jersey vanga vachidzidza mhedzisiro ye orgasm pauropi kwemakore makumi matatu. Vakaona kuti kana vakadzi vakakurudzira nhengo dzavo dzesikarudzi kana kuti clitoris, vakanga vasinganyanyi kunzwa kukurudzirwa kunorwadza. ()