Ndeipi nguva bhomba muhukama? Nzira yekutevera sei nzira yekuparadza, uchiri pasi pechiperengo chekuwira murudo? Nei mimwe mibatanidzwa ichiparara, uye kurega kunorwadza kungabatsira sei? Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Galina Turetskaya anotsanangura.
Kazhinji hukama hunotanga nemutambo wekare-kutamba: anoteedzera, anonzvenga. Anoda kutarisirwa, kushamwaridzana, kudiwa, uye iye anomufuratira kana kunyepedzera. Ipapo anobvuma kuenda kumwe kwekudya kwemasikati, kudya kwemanheru, uye munguva pfupi musungo wakabva wavharika.
Hapana aibata nemaune, haana kukwezva chero munhu mumambure, sedandemutande rakamirira munhu akabatwa kuti arege, pane zvinopesana, zvese zvakaitwa nekufarira kwechokwadi uye nekubvumirana. Uku kutendeseka uye kunamata kwechido kwechinhu chinoshuviwa ndizvo zvese. Zvinonyevenutsa kusvinura: anoramba achizviona samambokadzi webhora, uye panguva iyi vhiri rezviitiko rinoshanduka risinganzwisisike, uye zvino: “… Nezuro ndakarara patsoka dzangu, zvakaenzana nesimba reChinese. Pakarepo akabvisa maoko ese… «.
Sei zvichigara zvichishamisa kunyange kune vakadzi vakangwara uye vakakura? Zvose zvinoitika zvakasikwa: zvakaoma kuti mukadzi arambe kufarira kwechokwadi, chido mukati make. Iye aikoshesa zvatakanakira anongoerekana asimuka mumaziso edu, uye paakangokanda ziso rakanaka munzira yake nepfungwa yekuti “Chii? Haana kunyanya kushata, asina kutaridzika uye haana kufinha, ”kutenderera kunotanga kusimuka kune rimwe divi.
Kubva pakukanda mukati, anogona kutizira kune humwe hukama huchava chiratidzo chekusununguka.
Pane zvakasiyana-siyana zvekuvandudzwa kwezviitiko. Chekutanga ndechekuti ane dziviriro yakasimba kune mafeni, akangojaira kwavari. Sezvo heroine yakashata yeimwe firimu yakarota, varume vanowira patsoka dzake uye vanozvirongedza mumirwi. Asi kubva kune vazhinji, mumwe acharamba aine rombo rakanaka - akasindimara, ane rupo, ane njere, kana kungove pedyo nenguva yakanaka. Achazviratidza sechipo chehumambo, achitarisira kuti hukama hwavo hucharamba huripo, kunyangwe huri bumbiro, asi humambo. Kunyanya kurwadza kuguma. Kubva kushamisika.
Yechipiri sarudzo ndeyekuti iyo nhare inodzivirirwa zvine simba kubva pakudonha neimwe yakabatanidzwa, yakasimba uye isingagoneki. Sei zvisingaiti? Somuenzaniso, unrequited. Kana kuti ave akaroora kwenguva yakareba uye akaroora zvakasimba - zvakare chinyorwa chemutambo. Kana munhu wechitatu achionekwa pachikuva, uyo anodzokera kwaari manzwiro ekukosha kwake, kukwezva, kudiwa - mushoko, anomusimudza kune pedestal - nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare achamutarisa nekudziya uye kutora mushonga kubva mumaoko ake. nokudada kwevakadzi vakakuvadzwa, uye chii ipapo, verenga pamusoro .
Unogona kuramba, asi uchazvidemba. Iye zvino anonzvenga, otevera. Anomira pamusiwo achiita semurwere ari pachigaro chachiremba wemazino, akabata maoko ake, machira ebhachi rake, bhegi rake rezvinhu. Uye zvatove zvisingabviri kushandura zvisingadzivisiki, kunze kwekuzvimisa.
Tese hatina kugamuchira rudo rwakakwana muhudiki uye tinotarisira kuti vatinoshanda navo varatidze kukosha kwedu, tinokumbira kucherechedzwa.
Pane imwe nzvimbo pakati pane nguva inofadza yekuenzanisa: vose vachiri kuda, vachiri kuyeuka kutanga. Ne inertia, zvinoratidzika kwaari kuti ndiye anosarudza kana kuva muukama kana kuti kwete. Asi nyaya yacho yave kutoenda kune denouement nemarita emisodzi uye bonde rekupedzisira rekuonekana, izvo, zvechokwadi, zviri nani kupfuura zvose zvakapfuura.
Hazvinei kuti akaenda kune mumwe munhu. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuti haasi pedyo. Uye zvinoitika panguva iyoyo inonyengera zvikuru apo iye pakupedzisira akamira kusava nechokwadi mubvunzo wekuti akanga akakodzera rudo rwake, uye akamugamuchira nehusiku hwehusiku, masokisi ane tsvina, chido chemitambo yepakombiyuta uye culinary whims. Ndakarota majoini kuchembera. Panguva iyoyo, vose vakanga vatozivana, apo kupesana kwese uye kurwadziwa kwekukura kwakakundwa nekurasikirwa kukuru kana kuduku, umo akarasikirwa nechido chake chepakutanga.
Chirwere chinotyisa chinonzi kufinhwa chinotanga. Rimwe zita rayo kutya kubatanidzwa, mutoro, kushaya rusununguko. Sezvakataurwa negamba reimwe firimu, "... uye ndakaerekana ndafunga kuti mukadzi uyu aizopenya pamberi pemeso angu zuva nezuva ..." - uye kuenderera kusingatauriki kwegamba renguva yedu: "... uye ini handizove nekodzero kune vamwe vakadzi ?».
Zvechokwadi, anonzwisisa kuti nechishuvo chikuru anogona kureva nhema, kuvanza, kugadzirisa, asi iyi haisi rusununguko rwekuva nemunhu chero upi zvake, nguva uye kupi kwaunoda, uye ndiwe wakamunyima mukana uyu. Pano, ruvengo rusina mufungo runowedzerwa kukutya.
Nevakadzi vakangwara, vane njere zvakatonyanya kuoma - navo, chimiro chakashata chinowedzerwa pamusoro pechigadziko chinoputika: iye mukati anomhanya pakati pekutya uye rudo uye anotanga kunzwa ruvengo kwaari, uye kunyara kwauri. Anonzwisisa kuti hapana chawakamutadzira. Kana zvakasiyana: kunyara iwe pachako, ruvengo kwauri. Somugumisiro, anozvisimbisa amene kuti ari kukanganisa upenyu hwako. Anoedza kukupwisa pamusoro peizvi, pasinei nemafungiro ako pachako panyaya iyi. Kubva pakukanda mukati, anogona "kupukunyuka" kune humwe hukama, hunova chiratidzo chekusununguka.
Nekubudirira kwakaenzana, anogona kukanganwa, kunwa pasi kana kukora, iyo yekupedzisira inonyanya kukodzera kune vanhu vane sangano repfungwa shoma. Kukanganwa mune iyi nyaya ndeyekungoita zvechisimba uye kusaziva kudzivirira kwehukama, pavanenge "vakanganwa" kukufonera, kukuyambira nezve zvirongwa zvakachinja, zadzisa chivimbiso.
Apo munyoro anotanga kunyunyuta pamusoro pekuyeuka kwake, hukama hwakatopinda mupamusoro. Aparadzaniswa nokupokanidza, aigona kusiririswa kudai mirangariro yake amene, yakaputswa kuva zvidimbu, isingakuvadzi zvikuru.
mubvunzo unopedza simba
Sei izvi zvaitika, kwechiuru anozvibvunza mubvunzo uye kwenguva yechiuru anopindura: "Nekuti ndakanga ndisina kungwara zvakakwana, ndakanaka zvakakwana, sexy zvakakwana." Apo dzimwe shanduro dzinooneka pakati pemhinduro, somuenzaniso: “Haasi munhu akanaka,” muitiro wacho wakatendeukira kukunaya. Kunyange kurwisa hasha kuri nani pane kuzvishora.
Zvisinei, mhinduro dzose hadzina kururama. Kuzvipa mhosva zvinoreva kushandisa pfungwa yomunhukadzi yomuzvarirwo yokuva nemhaka; yakatogara yakagadzirira kuwedzera kuora mwoyo kwako. Kumupomera mhosva zvakare. Dai aiva mhuka ine nyanga, yakasindimara, yamakatumidza zita rake, waisamutendera kuti aswedere pedyo newe.
Aitya, zvinoreva kuti maive pedyowo, padhuze zvaityisa. Zvirumbidze nokuda kwayo uye uchinje kwauri. Maronda akavhurika chipo! Sokunge wanga uchichera mugodhi kwenguva yakareba uchitsvaga zvicherwa, uye zvino inoramba ichiita mafambiro ekupedzisira, uye goridhe dema rinouya kumusoro setsime. Zvichengete iwe pachako zvino usati wasimbisa shaft yako yepfungwa kuti udzivise kudzokorora kunorwadza kuitira kuti pasave nemumwe munhu angakukuvadza.
Iwe unozoshamisika kuti nyore uye nekukurumidza sei nzira yekukura kwemunhu inogona kuve.
Kune makore akawanda anofadza kana kuti asina mufaro zvikuru mberi. Kuita kuti vafare ibasa rako, uye wakangoita chokwadi chekuti mutoro uyu haugone kutamiswa kune mumwe. Kungosanzwisisa kuti ndiani akarurama uye ndiani asina kururama. Mubvunzo mukuru ndewekuti sei ikozvino warasikirwa nechiyero chako zvakanyanya uye unonzwa semwana ari kuchema zvakanyanya ane hupenyu hwakapa kutsemuka kukuru.
Sei mumwe munhu, pasinei nokuti akanga akanaka sei, akave akakosha kwauri, zvokuti iwe wakatozvishandura iwe pachako - kubva pakusava nehanya kune rudo, chido, uye zvino - kune kusakwanisa kurarama pasina munhu akanga asingafariri zvachose kwauri. Uye mumhinduro kumubvunzo uyu, chokwadi chepasirese chehupenyu: isu tese hatina kugamuchira rudo rwakakwana muhudiki uye tinotarisira kuti vatinoshanda navo varatidze kukosha kwedu, tisingazive tichikumbira kuzivikanwa, vatarisire kuti vagadzirise matambudziko edu, vatide uye vatipururudzire sababa avo. vakanga vasingatidi.
Uyo anogona kutipa anobva angodiwa uye ari madikanwa, semutengesi wezvinodhaka kune akapindwa muropa nezvinodhaka. Isu tiri vanhu vakuru maererano nepasipoti, asi tinopinda muhukama sevana, mumwe nomumwe ane bhegi rake rekusuwa, mune tariro yakavanzika yokuti mumwe wake munhu mukuru, anogona kuzvibata. Uye vakanga vasingamudiwo.
Nguva yekushandura
Iwe unogona kutaura pamusoro penyaya inosuruvarisa kwenguva yakareba, asi mazwi haabatsiri kuchema. Iko hakuna vamwe, uye kazhinji, iwe unogona chete kuita chimwe chinhu newe. "Rudo", kukura, zvipe iwe kutarisirwa kwese, kuti urege kuzvitarisira kubva kune mumwe wako, kuvaka iyi module muhunhu hwako, ita kusimudzira wega. Kwete kuitira kuti urege kuda ani zvake, asi kuti urege kuisa mutoro usingatakuriki kune vakaroorana pamusoro pemakore ekuunganidza kusada uye kupinda muukama kubva kune imwe nzvimbo yevakuru nemumwe munhu mukuru.
Pane imwe fungidziro yaungasabvumirana nayo, nekuti hazvifadzi kubvumirana neizvi: vazhinji vedu hatina kukura mukati. Vasikana, “vasingadiwi” namadzibaba avo, vakomana vakakanganiswa nokurerwa kwavakadzi, vanofamba mumigwagwa. Kwavari, kunyange izwi racho rakagadzirwa - vechidiki kusingaperi, puer aeternus (lat.) - uyo asingadi kukura uye kutora mutoro.
Zvichida uchangowana imwe chete? Uye kana izvi zviri izvo, saka mumwe mutemo wehupenyu unofanirwa kutaurwa: kufanana kunokwezvwa nekuda, zvinoreva kuti hauna kukura. Neraki, mutemo uyu une rumwe rutivi rwunofadza: sezvaunokura, ndizvo zvakaita mamiriro ehupenyu, uye vanhu vanokupoteredza. Sei "kuda" iwe pachako? Iwe unozoshamisika kuti iri nyore uye nekukurumidza sei iyi nzira yekukura kwemunhu inogona kuve.
Zvipfuudze iwe nebasa rekunzwa uine chivimbo, kudzikama, kusimba, kukosha kwako pachako, zvisinei nemamiriro ezvinhu uye kuzivikanwa kwekunze, uye ichauya. Sezvo mugodhi wemanzwiro ako akashata ave kupinda mukati memukati mehunhu hwako, kunyangwe shanduko diki ipapo ichapa shanduko huru pamusoro. Iwe unozomutenda zvakare nekukuratidza nzira yechokwadi chako.