Kana munhu achifunga kazhinji kazhinji nezvekuparadzaniswa kwevakweguru apo tinotaura pamusoro pokuparadzana kwemhuri, ikoku kunogonawo kutapura vana navakuru vanoshanda. Tarisa padambudziko rakanyanya kupararira kumadokero.

Kubva pakurohwa kwekutanga kwemoyo wake, mudumbu raamai vake, mwana anoona manzwiro ake, kugadzikana kwake kana kuti zvinopesana, kunetseka kwake. Mushure memwedzi mishoma, anonzwa izwi rababa vake uye matauriro akasiyana eavo vari pedyo naye. Mhuri saka zvese zviri zviviri mavambo emanzwiro asiwo uye pamusoro pezvese zvemagariro uye tsika. Kukurudzira kunoshanda uye ruremekedzo rwevabereki kumwana zvinhu zvose zvichapesvedzera unhu hwake mukuru.

Uyu mutoo mumwe chetewo unodzokororwa chero bedzi vana vachisarudza kuva vabereki mujana ravo. Cheni yakasimba yemirangariro neyetsika inobva yaumbwa pakati pemitezo yemhuri imwe cheteyo, zvichiita kuti kuzviparadzanisa kunowanzova kwakaoma kutsungirira.

Kubuda kunze kwenyika, dambudziko revapoteri, mabasa anoda kukosha kwemhuri, nyaya dzekuzviparadzanisa nevamwe dzakawanda kupfuura zvatinofunga. Uku kure kure kunogona mune zvimwe zviitiko kutungamirira muchimwiro. Kana yaonekwa, kutsigirwa uye kubatana kwemhuri kunogona kumiririra mhinduro dzinoshanda.

Vana vanogonawo kusangana nekuzviparadzanisa nevamwe kana kusawirirana nemhuri. Kurambana kana kuparadzana kwevabereki vaviri kunogona kutungamirira kukuparadzana kunomanikidzirwa kubva kune mumwe wevabereki vaviri (kunyanya kana wekupedzisira ari mutorwa kana kuti achigara munzvimbo iri kure kwazvo). Chikoro chebhodhingi panguva yezvidzidzo chinowanikwawo nevamwe sechinhu chakanyanya kuoma chemhuri kugara nacho.

Hapana mubvunzo kuti vakwegura ndivo vanonyanya kukanganiswa nekuzviparadzanisa nevamwe. Izvi zvinogona kutsanangurwa zviri nyore nekudzikama uye kufambira mberi kubva munharaunda yemagariro, kunze kwechimiro chemhuri.

Zvechokwadi, vakwegura havachashandi uye kazhinji vanosarudza kuzvipira kumhuri dzavo (kunyanya nekusvika kwevana vaduku). Vaanoshanda navo vavakasangana navo vanenge zuva nezuva vanokanganikwa kana zvirinani, misangano iri kuwedzera kushomeka. Kuonana neshamwari zvakare kushoma nekuti vekupedzisira vanotorwawo nemabasa avo emhuri.

Makore anofamba uye humwe hurema hunooneka. Vakwegura vanozviparadzanisa nevamwe uye vanoona shamwari dzavo zvishoma nezvishoma. Anopfuura makumi masere, kuwedzera kumhuri yake, anowanzo kugutsikana nekutsinhana kushoma nevavakidzani, vatengesi uye vashoma vanopa masevhisi. Mushure memakore makumi masere nemashanu, nhamba yevanopindirana inoderera, kunyanya kana munhu akwegura ari kuvimba uye asingakwanisi kufamba-famba ari oga.

Kufanana nokuzviparadzanisa nevamwe, kuzviparadzanisa nemhuri kunofambira mberi. Vana vari kushanda, havawanzogara muguta rimwe chete kana dunhu, nepo vana vadiki vari vanhu vakuru (kazhinji vachiri vadzidzi). Kungava kumba kana kuti kuchipatara, pane zvingaitwa zvingabatsira vakwegura kuti vasasurukirwa.

Kana vachida kugara pamba, munhu akura ari oga anogona kubatsirwa kuburikidza ne:

• Nharaunda dzebasa remunharaunda (kuunza chikafu, kurapwa kumba, nezvimwewo).
• Masevhisi ekufambisa evakweguru kusimudzira kushamwaridzana uye kufamba.
• Masangano ekuzvipira anopa hushamwari kune vakura (kushanya kumba, mitambo, mashopu ekuverenga, kubika, gymnastics, nezvimwewo).
• Makirabhu ezvekushamwaridzana nemakofi kuti akurudzire misangano pakati pevakwegura.
• Rubatsiro rwepamba rwebasa repamba, kutenga, kufamba imbwa, nezvimwe.
• Vadzidzi vekune dzimwe nyika vanogara mukamuri mumba mukutsinhana nekambani nemasevhisi madiki.
• Iwo EHPAs (Establishments Housing Vakwegura Vanhu) anopa kuchengetedza kumwe kuzvitonga (hupenyu hwestudio semuenzaniso) uchinakidzwa nezvakanaka zvehupenyu hunotariswa hwemubatanidzwa.
• The EHPAD (Accommodation Establishment for Dependent Elderly People) gamuchirai, perekedzai uye chengetai vakwegura.
• IUSLDs (Nguva Yenguva Yakareba Yekuchengetedza Vakwegura Muchipatara) inotarisira vanhu vanonyanya kuvimba.

Kune masangano akawanda anouya kuzoyamura vakwegura uye vari voga, usazeza kubvunza pahoro yetaundi yako.

Masangano akati wandei anoitawo kuti zvibvire kudzivirira kusurukirwa uku uchizorodza mhuri dzepedyo dzisingawanzo kuwanikwa.

Kuzviparadzanisa nevamwe kana kuparadzaniswa kwemhuri inguva yakaoma zvakanyanya kugara nayo, kunyanya kana ichiita senge isingadzoreki (saka zvichemo zvinodzokororwa zvevakweguru vanotambura nekusurukirwa). Kutora matanho anobatsira ekuvabatsira kunoita kuti vachembera vakagadzikana uye kuderedza kuzvidya mwoyo.