Vatariri vemapepanhau eVremena (ACT) vakaburitsa bhuku rezve psychology rakagadzirirwa kwete revakuru, asi revana.
Zita raJulia Borisovna Gippenreiter rinofanira kunge rakanzwika nemubereki wese. Kunyangwe mumwe munhu asina kumbobvira afarira mabhuku ezvepfungwa dzevana anozivikanwa kwazvo. Yulia Borisovna ndiye purofesa paMoscow State University, anoshanda mumhuri psychology, neurolinguistic programming, psychology yekuona uye kutarisisa. Iye ane risingadaviriki nhamba yezvinyorwa, anopfuura makumi manomwe neshanu mapepa esainzi.
Iye zvino bhodhi rekunyora reVremena (ACT) rakaburitsa bhuku nyowani naJulia Gippenreiter, yakatsaurirwa kune psychology yemwana, "Vakanaka Neshamwari Dzake". Iri bhuku rakagadzirirwa vanhu vakuru, asi vana. Asi, chokwadika, zviri nani kurirava pamwe nevabereki vako. Bvumiranai, zvakaoma kutsanangurira mwana chinonzi mutsa, kururamisira, kutendeseka, tsitsi. Uye mubhuku, hurukuro ichaenda chaizvo nezve izvi. Achishandisa iyo muenzaniso wemienzaniso yakapusa uye nyaya dzinonakidza, mwana anozogona kunzwisisa, uye zvakanyanya kukosha, kunzwa zviri panjodzi.
Uye isu tiri kutsikisa chidimbu kubva mubhuku rino, chakagadzirirwa kubatsira mwana kuti anzwisise chinonzi hana.
“Hana ishamwari uye mudziviriri wezvakanaka.
Pakarepo mumwe munhu asina mutsa, shamwari iyi inotanga kunetsa munhu. Ane nzira dzakawanda dzokuzviita: dzimwe nguva "anokwenya mweya wake", kana sokunge chimwe chinhu "chinopisa mudumbu," uye dzimwe nguva inzwi rinodzokorora: "O, zvakashata sei ...", "Handifaniri kuva nazvo! ” - kazhinji, zvinoshata! Uye zvichingodaro kusvika wazvigadzirisa, kukumbira ruregerero, ona kuti waregererwa. Ipapo Makanaka achanyemwerera otanga kushamwaridzana newe zvakare. Asi hazvisi nguva dzose zvinopera zvakanaka. Semuenzaniso, chembere mu "Tale yeHove neHove" haina kuvandudza, yakapika neharahwa nguva dzose, kubva pakutanga kusvika pakuguma kwenyaya, kunyange akarayira kuti amurove! Uye handina kumbokumbira ruregerero! Sezviri pachena, Hana yake yakanga yakarara, kana kuti yakatofa! Asi nepo Hana ichiri mhenyu, haitibvumiri kuita zvinhu zvakaipa, uye kana tikazviita, ipapo tinonzwa tichinyara. Hana painongotaura, zvinokosha kuiteerera! Zvakakodzera!
Ndichakuudza nyaya yemukomana. Ainzi Mitya. Nyaya yacho yakaitika kare kare, anopfuura makore zana apfuura. Iye mukomana akanyora nezvake paakazova munhu mukuru uye akatanga kunyora mabhuku. Uye panguva iyoyo aive nemakore mana ekuberekwa, uye nanny akwegura aigara pamba pavo. Iye nanny aive ane mutsa uye ane rudo. Vaifamba pamwe chete, vachienda kuchechi, vakabatidza makenduru. The nanny akamuudza nyaya, dzakarukwa masokisi.
Kamwe Mitya airidza bhora, uye nanny akanga akagara pasofa uye achiruka. Bhora rakaumburuka pasi pasofa, mukomana ndokudaidzira kuti: "Nian, tora!" Uye nanny anopindura: "Mitya achazviwana iye, ane mwana mudiki, anonzwisisa ..." "Kwete," akadaro Mitya akasindimara, "unozviwana!" Iye nanny anomurova mumusoro uye anodzokorora achiti: "Mitenka achazviwana oga, akangwara nesu!" Uyezve, fungidzira, uyu "musikana akangwara" anozvikanda pasi, mapaundi uye kurovera, anotinhira nehasha uye achidanidzira achiti: "Tora, tora!" Amai vakauya vachimhanya, vakamusimudza, vakamumbundira, ndokubvunza kuti: "Ko, chii chakaipa newe, mudiwa wangu?" Uye iye: "Iyi ndiyo yakaipa nanny inondigumbura, bhora rinoshaikwa! Mudzinge, umudzinge! Moto! Ukasamudzinga, saka unomuda, asi haundidi ini! ”Uye zvino mutsa, wakanaka nanny wakadzingwa nekuda kwekukanganisa kwakaitwa nemukomana asina basa uyu!
Unobvunza kuti, Hana iyi inei nazvo? Asi pane chii. Munyori mukomana uyu ave kunyora kuti: "Makumi mashanu emakore apfuura (fungidzira, makore makumi mashanu!), Asi kuzvidemba kwehana kunodzoka pandangorangarira iyi nyaya inotyisa nebhora!" Tarisa, anorangarira iyi nyaya muhafu yezana ramakore. Akazvibata zvakaipa, haana kunzwa izwi raGood. Uye zvino kuzvidemba kwakaramba kuri mumoyo make uye kwakamutambudza.
Mumwe munhu angati: asi amai vangu vakanzwira mukomana urombo - akachema zvakanyanya, uye iwe pachako wati kuzvidemba chiito chakanaka. Uye zvakare, nezve nezve "Chirevo cheMubati wehove neHove", isu tichapindura: "Kwete, yanga isiri Chibvumirano Chakanaka! Izvo zvaive zvisingaite kupa mukuda kwemwana uye kupisa iye mukoti wekare, uyo akaunza naye mumba chete kudziya, kunyaradza uye kunaka! ”Iye nanny akabatwa zvisina tsarukano, uye izvi zvakashata kwazvo!