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mukwikwidzi wemakwikwi "Amai veGore"

Kuva amai kunorevei kwauri, hupenyu nemafungiro zvakashanduka sei mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana? Nguva yokutanga yandakava amai ndakanga ndine makore 24 okuberekwa. Iye zvino ndine makore 36, uye ndiri kugadzirira kusangana nemwana wedu wechitanhatu kuti ndive amai vakanaka kwaari. Nekuberekwa kwemwana, zvose maonero uye hupenyu hwose hunoshanduka. Kutanga kubva pakuti iwe unocherechedza bvudzi rimwe nerimwe, shinda pasi iyo mwana anogona kukwevera mumuromo make, uye kusanganisira zvose zvakamutswa zvakagadzirirwa kudzivirira uye kutarisira mwana.

Ndechipi chidzidzo chikuru cheupenyu chawakadzidza kubva kuna amai vako uye chauchadzidzisa mwana wako? Amai vedu vane mutsa zvikuru uye naizvozvo havana kumbotiranga, kunyange zvazvo vaigara vachitityisidzira nechirango: Ndichaiisa pakona, haungaendi kudhisiko, handitengi siketi itsva. Uye semwana, ndakanzwisisa nheyo yekurera vana: Ndakati - ita! Ndinoedza kudzidzira izvi nevasikana vangu nevakomana. Tinoisa miganhu nemisimboti uye tinoitevedzera.

Munzira dzipi wakafanana nemwana wako, uye munzira dzipi dzausina kufanana nazvo? Kana tikataura pamusoro pechitarisiko, saka vana vedu vakanyanya kufanana nababa. Uye zvakafanana ndezvekuti isu tese tinoda kunonoka kumuka uye kumuka gare gare mangwanani. Vanasikana vangu havadi chingwa, seni, asi isu tinoda chaizvo mabhegi akanaka uye dzimwe nguva tinoachinja. Isu tinodawo kumbundirana nekutaurirana, kuchovha mabhasikoro pamwe chete, kunyangwe ndisati ndave kushingaira sezvavari - havazorori!

Unhu hupi hwaunodzidzisa mwana wako? Kuremekedza uye kuremekedza vanhu vakuru. Tinodzidzisa vana vaduku kuremekedza vanhu vakuru. Kukanganwira - kunyange kana zvichirwadza, regerera uye shuvira munhu wacho zvakanaka. Uye zvakare kuti mhuri iboka! Uye tinofanira kuchengetana.

Nheyo huru yedzidzo ndeye… muenzaniso womunhu.

Amai vangaite sei zvese? Ronga nguva yako nebhizinesi, sanganisira vana vakura mubhizinesi uye usaramba rubatsiro rwababa. Uye chinhu chikuru ndechekuzorora! Zvinobatsira kugara uine mafungiro akanaka uye kutaridzika zvakanaka.

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25 ane makore ekuzvarwa, mutambi, mukuru weNo Rules dance school (mutori wenhau nedzidzo), wekupedzisira weDance project (TNT)

amai vemwanasikana Anfisa

Kuva amai kunorevei kwauri, hupenyu nemafungiro zvakashanduka sei mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana? Ndakava amai pazera ramakore 18 uye ndinofara zvikuru kuti hakusati kuchizova gare gare. Iye zvino tava sevasikana-hanzvadzi. Isu tine kuvimba uye hapana zvakavanzika muhukama hwedu. Anfiska wangu anondiudza zvese zviri munyika uye anonzwa kuti ndichagara ndichimutsigira. Ichi chinhu chakakosha muhukama pakati paamai nemwanasikana. Kana izvi zvisiri izvo kubva paudiki, saka izvi hazvizombofi zvakawanikwa.

Ndechipi chidzidzo chikuru cheupenyu chawakadzidza kubva kuna amai vako uye chauchadzidzisa mwana wako? Chidzidzo chikuru. HM. Hongu, kune zvakawanda zvavo. Asi, kutaura zvazviri, isu tine maitiro akasiyana zvachose kune dzidzo uye tinoshandisa nzira dzakasiyana. Amai vangu vakasimba, vakaunganidzwa, vane mutoro. Uye kubvira ndichiri muduku, ndaigara ndichiziva kuti kana ndikasaita chimwe chinhu, vaizondiitira. Ngatiti zvakandikanganisa zvishoma. Ndinounza Anfiska yangu zvakasiyana. Ndinoda kuti adzidze kuzvimirira iye zvino. Saka kuti akanzwisisa kuti aiva amai, asi kana iye pachake asina kuita chimwe chinhu, hapana achamuitira. Hauna kutakura bhegi rako rechikoro manheru here? Anomuka mangwanani-ngwanani ndokusimudza pamberi pechikoro. Handizorari zvakakwana. Nguva inotevera haazokanganwi nezve "mabasa" ake.

Munzira dzipi wakafanana nemwana wako, uye munzira dzipi dzausina kufanana nazvo? Takafanana munzira dzakawanda. Mukuona kwangu, kunze kwechitarisiko, iyi ikopi yangu, chete kusvika pamwero wakanyanyisa. Zvinondibata. Asi dzimwe nguva ndinonetseka nehumwe hunhu hwehunhu hwake, uye vabereki vangu vainetsekawo neunhu uhwu, vachindirera. Uye zvino ndava kunzwisisa amai nababa vangu zviri nani.

Unhu hupi hwaunodzidzisa mwana wako? Ndinodzidzisa zvese kamwechete. Zvakakosha kuti mwana ave munhu anoshamwaridzana, asi ane mwero. Zvakakosha kuva neushamwari! Kuzvidavirira uye kuda chinzvimbo. Zvose zvinofanira kuva zvine mwero, pasina kunyanyisa. Ndinodada nenzira yandinayo ikozvino uye ndinogona kutaura ndakachengeteka kuti haina kugadzirwa kwemakore angu!

Nheyo huru yedzidzo ndeye… kugona kutaura, ndinofunga. Zvose zvinogona kutsanangurwa zvakadzikama! Hapana kuridza mhere! Pasina "bhanhire" uye pasina ultimatums (idzi nzira ini handinzwisisi uye handibvumi).

Amai vangaite sei zvese? Mubvunzo mukuru. Nakidzwa nekuve amai! Uye kana "mabasa" achinakidza - zvinhu zvose zvinobudirira pachazvo.

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Makore makumi matatu nemashanu, Sachigaro weANO "Center for the Development of Charitable Programs" Edge of Mercy ", Musoro we LLC" Bureau of Property Assessment uye Nyanzvi "

Amai vevana vatatu

Kuva amai kunorevei kwauri, hupenyu nemafungiro zvakashanduka sei mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana? Ndakawana mufaro wokuva amai pazera ramakore 25. Ndinorangarira nokudedera kwandakaita ndakatarisa mhino, maziso, miromo, zvigunwe zvigunwe zvidiki, ndichifemerwa nekunakirwa munhuwi webvudzi rake, kutsvoda tumaoko ake nemakumbo. Ndakaremerwa nekunzwira mwana wangu tsitsi. Maonero pamusoro pako somunhu akaparadzana nomwana ari kuchinja. Hapasisina ini, pane "isu".

Ndechipi chidzidzo chikuru cheupenyu chawakadzidza kubva kuna amai vako uye chauchadzidzisa mwana wako? Chinhu chokutanga chandakadzidziswa nevabereki vangu chaiva chokuva ini, izvi ndizvo zvandinodzidzisa vana vangu. Chechipiri hunhu kugona kuda, chetatu kuve nekutsungirira mukuzadzisa zvinangwa.

Munzira dzipi wakafanana nemwana wako, uye munzira dzipi dzausina kufanana nazvo? Mune mumwe nomumwe wevana, ndinoona maitiro angu: kutsungirira, kuda kuziva, kutsungirira - uye izvi zvinotibatsira kuti tive pedyo. Vanakomana vangu vanofarira mitambo: mukuru ari kudzidzira munzvimbo yekuchengetedza yeFC Kuban, mudiki ari kutora matanho ake ekutanga mune acrobatics. Mwanasikana ari kuita rhythmic gymnastics.

Unhu hupi hwaunodzidzisa mwana wako? Mutsa, kugona kunzwira tsitsi. Ndinoedza kudzidzisa nemuenzaniso wangu, ndinofunga kuti iyi ndiyo nzira inonyanya kushanda, asi ngano uye nyaya dzinodzidzisa zvinobatsirawo.

Nheyo huru yedzidzo ndeye… pedza nguva yakawanda nevana vako.

Amai vangaite sei zvese? Ini ndinongoda kupindura: kwete! Asi zvakakomba, iwe unofanirwa kuronga zvinhu, uye chinhu chinonyanya kukosha kugona kuzorora. Usaedza kuva amai vepamusoro sekondi yega yega. Naizvozvo, zvakanyanya kukosha kumira, kusiya bhizinesi uye kufunga kuti zvakanaka sei kuti uve nevanhu vepedyo, unogona kuvada uye kuvatarisira, uye ivo vari pamusoro pako.

Muchinda wangu

“Ndaigara ndichiziva kuti ndaizotora mwana. Uye mushure mokuberekwa kwomwana wake wechipiri, princess-ballerina, akapinda chikoro chevabereki vokurera, akatanga kutsvaga mwana. Apo, pashure pechinguvana, runhare rwakarira: “Uya, pane mwana ane makore matatu,” mwoyo wangu wakarova nomufaro. Ndinomhanyirako, pfungwa imwe chete mumusoro mangu - ndiri kuenda kumwanakomana wangu, kuna Prince.

Musangano wekutanga. Muchinda akagara nemusana, ndokucheuka, ndikaona mwana mutorwa zvachose, asina kufanana neni kana murume wangu. Muchinda pachake akabva aswedera pedyo neni, ndakamugarisa pamakumbo angu, ndakamubata ruoko rwake, akanga akanyarara, dzimwe nguva aingonditarisa mudenga achivhiringika. Ndakasaina chibvumirano. Musangano wechipiri. Paigadzirwa mapepa takabva tauya kwaMuchinda nedangwe redu. Mwana wacho aifara zvikuru pamusoro pedu zvokuti aitaura asingaregi, akandidana kuti amai, uye nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero akadana mwanakomana wake kuti baba.

Pakupedzisira, tose tava kuenda kumba. Muchinda akarara kuback seat. Pamusuwo, ndichipfuura nepane concierge nemuchinda mumaoko angu, ndakaita kunge handisi kuona kushamisika kwake ... Uye Princess wedu akatikwazisa neushamwari, akati: "Ndichava nemukoma!" ndokumumbundikira. Asi idyll haina kugara kwenguva refu. Vana vakatanga kugovera ndima, matoyi, chikafu, miti kunze kwehwindo uye, zvinonyanya kukosha, kutarisirwa kwevabereki vavo. Ini, sezvandaigona, ndakavanyaradza, ndichitsanangura, ndichitaura navo.

Kugadzirisa. Muchinda akajaira zvishoma ndokutanga kutyora hake zvese. Pashure pokupenda madziro (atakapenda vhiki bedzi yapfuura), akanditungamirira kwariri namashoko okuti: “Amai, ndakuitirai iyi katuni!” Zvakanaka, ungati kudii ... Dzimwe nguva ndaifunga kuti handizovi nemoyo murefu, asi zvino ndakatarisa chiso chake chaiva nemufaro, uye manzwiro ose akadzikama. Asi kujairana kwacho hakuna kumboita sekwapera.

Mubatsiri. Asi nekufamba kwenguva, makona akapinza akadzimwa. Muchinda wedu akave ainyanya kushanda nesimba: nguva yake yaanofarira ndeyekubatsira amai kuchenesa pasi. Paanopfuura makore matatu, ane hanya zvisingaite: "Amai, ndichavhara makumbo enyu", "Amai, ndichakuvigirai mvura." Ndatenda mwanangu. Iye zvino handigoni kufungidzira kuti chii chaizoitika dai akanga asina kuonekwa mumhuri yedu. Akafanana zvikuru neni - anodawo mafirimu madema uye machena, tine zvatinoda zvekudya zvakafanana. Uye kunze anotaridzika sababa vake. PS Prince mumhuri ye1 gore. “

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Makore makumi matatu nemanomwe, gweta, sachigaro wesangano reKrasnodar "Mubatanidzwa wemhuri huru" Kuban Mhuri "

mai vevanasikana vaviri nevanakomana vaviri

Kuva amai kunorevei kwauri, hupenyu nemafungiro zvakashanduka sei mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana? Pana July 5, 2001, mwanasikana wedu wokutanga, Angelika, akaberekwa. Ndaive nemakore 22. Unyoro hunobaya kudaro, mufaro unorwadza wakadaro kubva kunhuhwirira kwekorona yemwana, misodzi yakadaro yemufaro kubva pamatanho ekutanga emwana, kubva kunyemwerera kune iwe kana baba vako! Kudada kwakadaro kubva mundima yekutanga pamuti wekireshi. Kunzwa kunodziya kamwe kamwe kwemufaro kuti mumwe munhu ari kukurumbidza kwete iwe, asi mwana wako. Kushamisika kuti paEvha Idzva Idzva, pasi pechimes, iwe unokurudzira kuzadzikiswa kwete kwezvishuwo zvako, asi zvezvishuwo zvevana vako. Nekuzvarwa kwevana vanotevera Sophia, Matthew naSergey, hupenyu hwakava hunonakidza uye hune chinangwa!

Ndechipi chidzidzo chikuru cheupenyu chawakadzidza kubva kuna amai vako uye chauchadzidzisa mwana wako? Ndakagamuchira rudo rwakawanda, nhungamiro uye tsika kubva kuna amai vangu, izvo zvandakaendesa kumhuri yangu. Semuenzaniso, Svondo yega yega, mushure mekudzoka kubva kuchechi, tinogara patafura huru, tinokurukura zviitiko zvose zvevhiki inobuda, matambudziko ose, mafaro, kubudirira uye zvakaitika, kudya kwemasikati uye kuronga zvinhu zvevhiki itsva. Dzimwe nguva tinogara pamba togadzirira vhiki yebasa kana kuti kufamba-famba mupaki.

Munzira dzipi wakafanana nemwana wako, uye munzira dzipi dzausina kufanana nazvo? Vana vedu vakasiyana. Asi mubereki wese anoda kuona kuenderera kwavo mumunhu mudiki. Vanhu vose vakasiyana, uye zvisikwa zvakagadzirisa nekuchenjera, zvichigadzira zvakasiyana-siyana zvakadaro. Iwe unofanirwa kubvuma kuti zvingave zvinofinha kusimudza uye kudzidzisa kopi yako chaiyo.

Unhu hupi hwaunodzidzisa mwana wako? Tinodzidzisa vana kuva vanoshamwaridzana, vanonzwira urombo, vanoteerera, vane mutsa, vane mutoro, vanotungamirira, vakatendeseka, vanoremekedza vanhu, vanokoshesa kunaka, vanoshingirira kuzadzisa zvinangwa, vanozvininipisa, vakarurama uye vasina udyire. Mushoko - unofanira kuziva uye kuchengeta mirairo gumi yatakapiwa naIshe!

Nheyo huru yedzidzo ndeye… rudo. Kurera kwese kunouya kuzvinhu zviviri chete: kuita zvinodiwa nemwana uye muenzaniso wako wega. Hapana chikonzero chekudyisa mwana kana asingadi, kana kusadya paanoda. Vimba nemwana uye iwe pachako, uye wobva wavimba nevanopa mazano uye mabhuku akachenjera. Muenzaniso wako wega uchagara uchishanda. Kana iwe ukataura chinhu chimwe, uye woisa muenzaniso wakapesana, ipapo mugumisiro hauzove wawakatarisira.

Amai vangaite sei zvese? Kana iwe ukazvisarudzira mitemo, ichaita kuti hupenyu huve nyore. Somuenzaniso, unofanira kuronga zuva rako, vhiki, nezvimwewo. Ita zvose nenguva, kugovera mabasa akapoteredza imba kunhengo dzose dzemhuri. Zvese muhupenyu zvinotanga nemhuri! Uye ndinofara zvikuru kuti munguva pfupi yapfuura kudavira mutsika dzemhuri, uko mukadzi ari zvikurukuru amai, muchengeti wembavha, kwakavamba kumutsidzira. Baba muriritiri uye muenzaniso kuvana vavo. Zvakakosha kudzokera kutsika dzedu dzemhuri huru. Pagara paine vana vatatu kana kupfuura mumhuri dzeKuban!

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Makore makumi matatu nematatu, murairidzi webhizinesi, nyanzvi mune manejimendi evashandi, muridzi wekambani "Rosta Resources"

amai vemwanasikana

Kuva amai kunorevei kwauri, hupenyu nemafungiro zvakashanduka sei mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana? Ndagara ndichida vana nemhuri huru. Ini ndiri munhu akapindwa muropa, mapurojekiti ebasa, kudzidziswa kusingagumi kwakasundidzira kumashure kuzvarwa kwemwana zvishoma, asi mushure memakore makumi maviri nemashanu chimwe chinhu mukati chakadzvanya, handina kugona kufunga nezve chimwe chinhu, chishuwo chekuva amai chakava chinhu chikuru. Handizivi kuti hunhu hwangu hwakazochinja sei mushure mekuzvarwa kwemwanasikana, pamwe ndakanzwa kuti zvino pane munhu anodiwa chaizvo, kutya kusurukirwa kwakapera. Kutanga kwangu hakusi kuberekwa kwemwana, asi kuziva kuti ndakagadzirira kuva amai, ndinoda kuudza shamwari dzangu kuti ndakagadzirira sei pamuviri, ndakafungidzira kuti ndakasarudzwa sei saamai. Ndakaverenga mabhuku e obstetrician-gynecologist Luule Viilma, ndakanga ndichigadzirira kusangana nemweya wemwana wangu pakarepo, uye kwete panguva yekuzvarwa, ndakachengeta diary uye ndakanyora tsamba dzemwana panguva yose yekuzvitakura, ikozvino tinoda verenga nemwanasikana wangu.

Ndechipi chidzidzo chikuru cheupenyu chawakadzidza kubva kuna amai vako uye chauchadzidzisa mwana wako? Mubvunzo wakanaka. Ndine amai vane rudo, vane mutoro, vangangondidzidzisa zvinhu zvakakosha zvekuita, kuti ndisazvikwevera mungoro yekupedzisira, asi kutaura chokwadi, handina kufunga nezvezvidzidzo, ndakawana rudo rwakawanda uye ndiri. ndinotenda kuti ndinewo wandinoda.

Munzira dzipi wakafanana nemwana wako, uye munzira dzipi dzausina kufanana nazvo? Kunze, isu hatina kufanana zvakanyanya, asi vamwe vanoti Zlata ikopi yangu, ndinofunga, nokuti anonditevedzera mune zvose: kutaura, tsika, inzwi, maitiro, maitiro, kufunga, kufunga. Uye mune zvazvakasiyana - pamwe, haashiviriri sezvandakaita pazera rake.

Unhu hupi hwaunodzidzisa mwana wako? Isu tine kapoka kumba mune zvese kuratidzwa kwayo: panofanirwa kuve nekurongeka, chikafu chemumba chinofanira kugadzirirwa, nezvimwe. Hunhu hwakadai hunoiswa. Asi kazhinji, ndinodzidza zvakawanda ini, ndinogadza muenzaniso, ndinogadza mitemo uye ndinorayira kuti zvibvumirano zvizadziswe.

Nheyo huru yedzidzo ndeye… nzwisisa uye regerera… Tine mwero wakamisa wemakakatanwa nematambudziko, zvakakosha kumbundirana, kutaura nezvemanzwiro, kubvuma kukanganisa, kukumbira ruregerero uye kuregerera.

Amai vangaite sei zvese? Ini ndinoblogi pa Instagram uye ndinogovera mitemo yangu yehupenyu nevanonyoresa. Pakati pezvinokosha, semuenzaniso, zvakadai - handipedzi nguva mumigwagwa yemigwagwa (ndinoshanda kumba kana muhofisi pedyo neimba yangu), handioni TV zvachose, ndinoronga zororo rangu zvakanaka.

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33 makore, economist, muturikiri, mushandi wehurumende, blogger

mai vevana vaviri

Kuva amai kunorevei kwauri, hupenyu nemafungiro zvakashanduka sei mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana? Ndine vanakomana vaviri - ane makore 7 uye 3 makore. Hupenyu huviri hwakasiyana kwazvo. Akazvara mwanakomana wake wekutanga pazera remakore makumi maviri nematanhatu, uye zvinhu zvose zvakatanga kutenderera kumwana, kwaiva nekutya kwakawanda uye kusarura kweamai vaduku vasina ruzivo. Ndakararama mararamiro e“pamba,” ndakachengeta mwana wangu uye ndakakanganwa nezvangu. Zvese zvakachinja nekuenda kubasa kubva kumaternity leave. Ndakanzwisisa - mwana mwana, asi iyi haisi hupenyu hwangu hwose! Ndakatanga kubuda, ndakachinja zvakanyanya chimiro changu, ndakatangazve makirasi ekusimba. Uyezve pamuviri wechipiri. Uye apa ndipo pakaitika shanduko huru iyi. Handina kudzokera ku“upenyu hwangu hwegomba” uye ndakaramba ndichirarama upenyu hwokushingaira. Semuenzaniso, ndave ndichifarira zvekushongedza kwenguva yakareba, ndakatanga kutora chikamu mukuratidzira "Nyika yeMukadzi".

Asi, sezviri pachena, zvese izvi zvainge zvisina kukwana…. Uye ndakavhura chirongwa cheInternet "Vana muKrasnodar". Iye zvino tine zvinhu zvakawanda zvokuita pamwe chete: kushanya kumamyuziyamu, kubatanidzwa mumapati evana, mapurogiramu ane nzvimbo dzevana. Muboka, ndakakwanisa "kuzviratidza" kubva kune rimwe divi risingatarisiri kwandiri.

Ndechipi chidzidzo chikuru cheupenyu chawakadzidza kubva kuna amai vako uye chauchadzidzisa mwana wako? Amai vakandidzidzisa kushanda nesimba, kutendeseka uye kusamboita chero chinhu chisina musoro. Ndinoedza kudzidzisa vana vangu unhu hwakafanana. Kunyange zvazvo zvisingaiti nguva dzose.

Munzira dzipi wakafanana nemwana wako, uye munzira dzipi dzausina kufanana nazvo? Pakuva nepamuviri, ndakapedza mwedzi ndiri mugungwa nemwanakomana wangu mukuru uye ndakatokwanisa kubhururuka kunze kwenyika! Ikoko ndakaona kuti takafanana sei nemwanakomana mudiki: takaenda chero kwataida, takashanyira macafe, nzvimbo dzekuvaraidza.

Unhu hupi hwaunodzidzisa mwana wako? Ndinodzidzisa vana vangu chinhu chimwe chete icho amai vangu vakandidzidzisa: kutendeseka, mutoro, kushanda nesimba.

Nheyo huru yedzidzo ndeye… muenzaniso wake pachake, kufarira kwechokwadi muzvinhu uye nyika yemukati yemwana wake uye rudo - zvisingagumi uye zvisingaverengeki.

Amai vangaite sei zvese? Kutanga, ini handimbozorori, uye chechipiri, chinhu chikuru ndechokugovera nguva! Amai vemazuva ano vanoda kutonga nguva, zvikasadaro unogona "kutyaira wega", uye chechitatu, wakawanepi pfungwa yekuti ndine nguva yekuita zvese ...

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ane makore 39, art maneja, mudzidzisi wekutengesa mitambo muSt.

mai vevana vaviri

Kuva amai kunorevei kwauri, hupenyu nemafungiro zvakashanduka sei mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana? Vana vangu ndivo vabatsiri vakuru. Iye zvino hupenyu hwebasa hwawedzera. Asi zvakanga zvisina kudaro nguva dzose. Apo mwanasikana wokupedzisira Vasilisa akanga achiri muduku, mwanakomana Mishka, uyo panguva iyoyo akanga ari muchikoro chepuraimari, akanyora murondedzero pamusoro pavabereki: “Baba vangu muvaki, uye amai vangu vanogara pasofa nekombiyuta zuva rose.” Zvaiva zvisingatarisirwi uye zvaityisa! Zvinoratidza kuti vana vangu havagoni kudada neni. Hongu, kwaiva neInternet yakawanda, asi ndiyo chete nzira yekuzvichengeta ndiri nyanzvi, uye hupenyu hwangu hwose, huzere nemapupa, soups, kuchenesa, hazvina kureva chinhu kuvana vangu! Kwemwedzi yakati wandei ndaifamba sekunge ndapwanywa nerunyoro urwu ... .. Asi pakanga pasina nzira yekubuda nayo. Ndaida kuti vana vadade neni. Uye ndakaita yekutanga theatre marketing workshop. Mazano, mazano, vanobatana, vanhu vanofarira uye maguta - zvese zvakawira pandiri semvura yegoridhe! Uye ndakaona kuti zvagara zvakadaro. Vanhu vese ava vaive pedyo, ini handina kuvanzwa, handina kuvaona. Nhasi, mumapurojekiti angu ese, Mishka naVasilisa vanogara vari parutivi rwangu. Vanogovera mapepa, vanomisa zviteshi, vanoshongedza zviratidziro, vanogadzira mishumo yemifananidzo nemapeji epanhau, vanobatsira neshanduro yevashandi vekune dzimwe nyika. Havana kumboramba kundibatsira. Vese vandinoshanda navo vanoziva Vasilisa naMishka, vanoziva kuti ndine timu ine simba yekutsigira. Uye zvino mwanasikana wangu, achipindura mubvunzo mumwe chete wechikoro pamusoro pevabereki, akaunza mharidzo kukirasi, iyo yakatanga nemashoko okuti "Amai vangu mutariri wemifananidzo. Kana ndakura, ndinoda kuita saamai. “

Ndechipi chidzidzo chikuru chehupenyu chawakadzidza kubva kuna amai vako uye uchadzidzisa mwana wako Pane chidzidzo chakadaro. Murume ari mumba ndimambo, mwari uye mutungamiriri wehondo. Rudo, chikomba, teerera uye nyarara pazvinenge zvakakodzera. Uye zvechokwadi, pakutanga, sarudza izvozvo chete. Kuti arege kupokana kusakwana kwake uye hutungamiriri husina mubvunzo.

Munzira dzipi wakafanana nemwana wako, uye munzira dzipi dzausina kufanana nazvo? Nemwanakomana wangu isu takafanana zvakanyanya muchitarisiko, uye nemwanasikana wangu - muhunhu. NeMishka tine kurwisana kusingaperi, kunyange zvazvo tichidanana zvikuru. Ndinonzwa Vasilisa sokunge tine tsinga imwe chete yevaviri. Asi chizvarwa chinotevera. Zvimwe zvine simba uye zvine chinangwa.

Unhu hupi hwaunodzidzisa mwana wako? Iva nehanya. Iwe pachako, vadiwa vako, zviito zvako.

Nheyo huru yedzidzo ndeye… Chinhu chikuru ndechekufara. Iva nechivimbo mubhizinesi rako, mumhuri yako. Vana vanofanira kuona nyaya dzebudiriro chaidzo dzevabereki vavo, dada nadzo.

Amai vangaite sei zvese? Iwe hauzove nenguva yezvose! Uye nei uchida zvose? Nakidzwa nezvaunowana kuti uve nenguva.

Wafarira here nyaya yaEugenia? Muvhotere papeji yekupedzisira!

ane makore makumi mana nemashanu, director weBlue Bird charity organization

amai vevana vatanhatu

Kuva amai kunorevei kwauri, hupenyu nemafungiro zvakashanduka sei mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana? Ndakazvara mwana wangu wekutanga pazera re20 - seavhareji mukadzi akanaka muUSSR. Asi ini ndainyatsonzwa saamai makore gumi chete apfuura, apo mwanakomana wangu wokurera Ilyusha akaonekwa muhupenyu hwangu. Kungoda mwana weropa rimwe chete newe ndewechisikigo, chakarurama, akadzikama kunzwa: anodiwa uye anoziva. Manzwiro ehumai kumwana wemumwe munhu waunobvuma akakosha. Ndinotenda mukomana wangu nenyaya yekuti ari muhupenyu hwangu, nekuti akandivhura ini.

Ndechipi chidzidzo chikuru cheupenyu chawakadzidza kubva kuna amai vako uye chauchadzidzisa mwana wako? Ichi chidzidzo chine hutsinye, asi ndiye akandiita seizvi. Ichi chidzidzo kubva kune zvakapesana - unofanirwa kuda vana vako! Kuva pedyo nepazvose. Zadza imba nekutarisira uye mufaro, vanhu vanofara nemhuka, mabiko anonakidza uye hurukuro dzechokwadi.

Munzira dzipi wakafanana nemwana wako, uye munzira dzipi dzausina kufanana nazvo? Kana tikanyora zvose zvakafanana uye zvakasiyana nevana vangu, hatizove nenguva yakakwana. Ndinofarira kuti tese tiri Mhuri ine vara guru uye tinonamatira pamwe chete. Chinhu chimwe chete ndechekuti ini, pamwe, zvakanyanya manzwiro. Ndinoshaya kutonga kwevana vangu.

Unhu hupi hwaunodzidzisa mwana wako? Iva ane hunhu uye ane mutoro, dzimwe nguva kunyange kuzvipira. Ndinoyeuka nyaya inotevera: apo Ilyusha akanga ari mugiredhi rokutanga, akadonha ndokurova, mhino yake yakanga ichibuda ropa (uye sezvo Ilyusha achirwara, kubuda ropa kunogona kuva nengozi zvikuru). Chinhu chokutanga chaakaita, apo mudzidzisi akamhanyira kwaari, akamumisa noruoko rwakatambanudza ndokuti: “Usaswedera pedyo neni! Izvi zvine ngozi!” Ndakabva ndaziva kuti: Ndine murume chaiye arikukura.

Nheyo huru yedzidzo ndeye… rudo rusingachinji kuvana vako. Chese chavanoita, chero chavakaita, vanoziva - ndichavagamuchira.

Amai vangaite sei zvese? Hazviite! Ndinoshuva kuti dai ndaiva nenguva yakawanda yekupira kumhuri yangu, vana vangu.

Nyaya yemwana mumwe

Vakawana Igor netsaona - mugomba rakasviba. Mukamuri rakasiiwa risina mahwindo. Paingova nemusuwo wecarpet chete. Kwemakore akawanda ekusabhadhara, gasi, mvura nemagetsi zvakadzimwa kare kare. Pakati pe "kamuri" pakanga pane zvakasara zvesofa iyo Igor, amai vake, vamwe vanhu vakauya ku "dose" uye imbwa yakanga yakarara. Chinhu chekutanga chakaitika kumunhu akaona imba iyi: mwana angararama sei mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, kunyanya munguva yechando. Igor akadyiswa chete nechingwa nemvura.

Pane imwe nguva mapurisa akauya kumba, mukomana akaendeswa kuchipatara chezvirwere zvinotapukira. Inogara ine ruzha muwadhi yevana vakasiiwa: mumwe munhu ari kutamba, mumwe munhu ari kukambaira, mumwe munhu ari kubvongodza zvinonzwika kune nanny. Igor paakasumwa, akavhunduka: akanga asati amboona chiedza chakawanda, matoyi nevana. Akamira achishamisika ari pakati pekamuri apa painzwikwa matsimba mukoridho. Mukova wakavhurwa nemukadzi akapfeka jasi jena, uye Igor akamutarisa nemeso ake aitya. Vese vaive vasati vaziva kuti hupenyu hwavo hwaizoshanduka sei kubva panguva iyoyo zvichienda mberi.

Akanga atova nemakore maviri nehafu, asi aifamba zvakashata, haana kutaura zvinonzwika, aitya kurara mumubhedha, marigolds akanga akura muganda, nzeve dzakashambidzwa nemushonga chaiwo, pakanga pasina nhamba. purulent scratches. Mwana paakanzwa zita rake, akasvetukira mubhora ndokumirira kurohwa. Mwana haana kuona zita rake sezita, sezviri pachena, akafunga kuti yaive mhere.

Sezvo ari muchipatara nguva dzose nokuda kwebasa rake reunyanzvi, akaona mukomana zuva nezuva, achitaura uye pane imwe nzvimbo mukatikati memweya wake aiziva kuti havachakwanisi kuparadzana. Manheru, mushure mekudyisa mhuri, kuisa vana pamubhedha, akabhururuka kuchipatara kunoona Igor. Ndakambofunga kutaura nemurume wangu. Hurukuro yacho yakanga yakareba uye yakaoma: mwana ari kurwara zvakanyanya, matambudziko edzimba, vana vake, kusagadzikana kwezvinhu - akataura chinhu chimwe chete: "Ndinomuda."

Iye zvino mukomana wacho anogara nemhuri. Iye zvino ane vanun'una vakuru, amai, baba, ane mafuta, akaoma pug Yusya, turtles mbiri Mashka naDasha, uye inogara ichipopota parrot Roma. PaKubhabhatidzwa Kutsvene, Amai nababa vakamupa zita idzva - maererano nekarenda - uye zvino vakabhabhatidza Ilya muimba yemamongi.

Maererano nechirongwa chekudzivirira, kuongororwa kwehuwandu hwehepatitis kwakaitwa. Zvishamiso hazvina kuitika - zviratidzo zviri kukura. Hepatitis C ndiyo chete yemhando nhanhatu dzehepatitis, iyo vanachiremba vanodana kuti "muurayi ane rudo" nokuti chirwere chacho hachioneki, asi chaizvoizvo kufa kunononoka. Hapana vimbiso. Kana iwe uchigara uchiyeuka izvi, unogona kupenga, uye Ilya haadi chisikwa chinochema chine mavanga pasi pemaziso ake ari pedyo, asi amai vane rudo vane rudo vanonyaradza nekutsvoda. Uye chero ramangwana rakamirira uyu mwana mutsvuku nekunyemwerera kwengirozi ine misikanzwa - amai vanogara varipo!

Lina Skvortsova, amai vaIlyusha.

Kufanana nenyaya yaLina? Muvhotere papeji yekupedzisira!

27 makore, General Director weCorporation for Good.

mai vevanakomana vaviri

Kuva amai kunorevei kwauri, hupenyu nemafungiro zvakashanduka sei mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana? Mwana wangu wekutanga, Edward, akaberekwa ndiine makore 22, ndichipedza kudzidza payunivhesiti. Ndinoyeuka kuti zvingani zvakaitika kwandiri: kusava nechokwadi pamusoro pekugona kwevabereki vangu, kutya kwekuchinja kukuru kwehupenyu, kunetseka nezveramangwana rangu reunyanzvi. Asi mwana paakangoberekwa, kunetseka kwose kwakapera! Mumwe mwanakomana wangu, Albert, achakurumidza kuva negore rimwe, uye ndaimutarisira kuva munhu akasiyana zvachose: munhu mukuru, akadzikama uye anozvivimba. Kuva amai chiitiko chinokosha cheupenyu umo, semubasa ripi neripi, mugove webasa renguva dzose wakakwirira zvikuru. Ini pachangu, ndakaita mhedziso inokosha: amai vanofara, mwana anofara. Ndosaka ndakaronga kambani yangu ndega yandinogona kusimudzira hunyanzvi pasina kusungirirwa kubasa remuhofisi.

Ndechipi chidzidzo chikuru cheupenyu chawakadzidza kubva kuna amai vako uye chauchadzidzisa mwana wako? Handifunge kuti zvine musoro kurojera mhedziso dzehupenyu hwangu kumwana wangu: mushure mezvose, idzi ndidzo mhedziso dzangu dzandakaita semugumisiro wezviito zvangu. Muhupenyu hwake, zvinhu zvose zvinogona kunge zvakasiyana.

Munzira dzipi wakafanana nemwana wako, uye munzira dzipi dzausina kufanana nazvo? Handina kumboedza kutsvaga kufanana uye kusiyana nevanakomana vangu.

Unhu hupi hwaunodzidzisa mwana wako? Ndinofungidzira zvakawanda nevana uye ndinoona vana vachigadzira nekutamba kwavo. Ndinoona basa rangu semubereki pakuva pedyo nemwana sezvinobvira chero bedzi kutora chikamu kwangu nesimba uye rubatsiro zvichidiwa. Sezvavanokura, vana vangu vanodzidza kuita mabasa avo vari voga, vachionana neni kana zvakakodzera.

Nheyo huru yedzidzo ndeye… kuenzanisa pakati pekuomesa uye rudo, iva nemoyo murefu uye nemwoyo wose mumanzwiro ako.

Amai vangaite sei zvese? Zvinonyanya kukosha kuti amai vakwanise kuisa mberi nenzira yakarurama: zvimwe zvinhu zvakakosha zvikuru, kushandiswa kwavo kunofanira kurongwa pachine nguva, chimwe chinhu chinowanzoitika chinogona kuitwa nemwana, kuderedza maitiro. Amai havadi kuwana nguva yekuita zvose ivo pachavo, asi vanofanira kudzidza nzira dzekugadzirisa matambudziko: kukwezva vabatsiri, kugovera chimwe chinhu, kuramba chimwe chinhu (zvichida kushambidza pasi kaviri pazuva hakuna kukosha, asi. maminitsi mashanu ega anokosha). Diary inondibatsira muhupenyu hwangu, umo ndinonyora mabasa nemaoko uye ndinomaka kupera kwawo. Kubatsira mukadzi - nharembozha uye masevhisi, makarenda uye zviyeuchidzo. Iva anofara uye anowirirana!

Wafarira here nyaya yaNatalia? Muvhotere papeji yekupedzisira!

36 makore, mukuru wedhipatimendi rekushambadzira

amai vemwanasikana

Kuva amai kunorevei kwauri, hupenyu nemafungiro zvakashanduka sei mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana? Ndakava amai pa28! Amai ndivo chete munhu pasi pano anoperekedza mwana kubva pakuzvarwa kusvika pakufa kwake, kunyange zvazvo dzimwe nguva vachiparadzaniswa nenzendo refu. Pachiitiko ichi, ndinoyeuka mazwi erwiyo: "Kana amai vachiri vapenyu, iwe unofara kuti kune mumwe munhu pasi pano, ari kunetseka, kuti akunyengeterere ...". Upenyu pashure pokuberekwa kwomwana hunochinja nenzira yomuzvarirwo. Uye kubva pakunzwa - kwekutanga ndakanzwa semukadzi chaiye mushure mekusununguka. Kunzwisisa kwakauya kuti ikozvino isu tiri mhuri chaiyo, isu tisu tinogona kupa uyu mudiki mudiki nyika yese, kuziva zvese zvatinoziva isu pachedu - kazhinji, kwaive uye kwasara iko zvino kufarira kukuru muhupenyu.

Ndechipi chidzidzo chikuru cheupenyu chawakadzidza kubva kuna amai vako uye chauchadzidzisa mwana wako? Gadzirira zvese uye ubate zvese chaizvo (mupfungwa yekudzikama uye zvine chinangwa, uye kwete kusava nehanya). Yokutanga yakakosha kuitira kuti munhu, kana kuti chimiro chake chemukati, hachibvi pane mamiriro ehupenyu hwake. Zvakakosha kugadzirira zvakanaka nezvakaipa, zvinobatsira uye zvinokuvadza, zvinofadza uye zvisingafadzi, nokuti vanhu havapiwi kuti vasarudze zvavanofanira kuva nazvo. Vanhu vanopiwa kodzero yokusarudza zvokuita nezvavanazvo. Zvisinei, havasi vose vakagadzirira kugamuchira mamiriro avo ezvinhu sezvavari. Maonero akadzikama uye ane chinangwa chete paupenyu anogona kubatsira kuwana mhinduro dzemibvunzo inokosha uye kudzivisa kukanganisa kunouraya.

Munzira dzipi wakafanana nemwana wako, uye munzira dzipi dzausina kufanana nazvo? Vana vanotora zvese zvinoitika zvakavakomberedza: vanopindura kumashoko, mafambiro, masaini, zviito. Uye mubereki anogara ari uye achava muenzaniso iwoyo, munhu iyeye, uyo mwana achacherechedza nguva yose yekukura kwake, kuunganidza ruzivo uye maonero.

Unhu hupi hwaunodzidzisa mwana wako? Iva nzvimbo yakachengeteka - gadzira nzvimbo yakachengeteka yemwana wako uye iva nechokwadi chokuti hukama hwakanaka uye hunogara hunosimbiswa pakati penyu, gadzirira mwana upenyu chaihwo - mupe zvaanoda, kwete zvaanoda, uye mubatsire kunzwisisa zvazvinoreva. zvinoreva kuva chikamu chenzanga yakakura.

Nheyo huru yedzidzo - Izvi… muenzaniso womunhu.

Amai vangaite sei zvese? Munyika yemazuva ano, mukadzi anoda kuzviziva kwete chete saamai uye mudzimai akanaka, asiwo kushanda, achishandisa zvose zvaanogona kugadzira. Haisi chakavanzika chekuti isu tinofara kana tichigona kuwiriranisa nzvimbo dzese dzehupenyu hwedu uye nekupa iyo inodiwa nguva yenguva kune yega yega. Kubva pane zvakaitika kwandiri ndinogona kutaura kuti iwe unogona kuita zvose kana uchida. Ndine mwanasikana mumwe chete, uye handina kumbobvira ndave mudzimai wemba mupfungwa yechinyakare yeshoko, kunze kwezororo rekusununguka. Chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuisa pekutanga pane zvese zvaunoita.

Unoda here nyaya yaLarisa? Muvhotere papeji yekupedzisira!

26 makore, chiremba anovhiya, kuyamwisa consultant

mai vevanakomana vaviri

Kuva amai kunorevei kwauri, hupenyu nemafungiro zvakashanduka sei mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana? Pandakangosangana nemumwe wangu, ndakabva ndatanga kurota mhuri yakakura. Nguva pfupi mushure memuchato, takava nemwanakomana, Gleb. Gleb paakanga ava nemwedzi misere, ndakaona kuti ndakanga ndava nepamuviri zvakare. Uye kunyange zvazvo takanzwisisa kuti kwaizova kwakaoma sei kwatiri nevana vemamiriro okunze, aya mashoko akanga achifadza zvirokwazvo! Saka tine mumwe mwanakomana, Misha. Zvechokwadi, hupenyu hunochinja nekuzvarwa kwevana. Handingaite hunyengeri, humai hakusi nyore. Pfungwa yemutoro wevabereki, kufunganya kunouya. Hunhu hutsva huri kubuda. Asi kunewo mabhonasi akawanda anonzwisiswa nevabereki chete: kunzwa kunhuwira kwekuzvarwa kwebvudzi remwana wako, kunzwa manzwiro asingatsananguriki pakungoona kwemwana, kunzwa unyoro panguva yekudyisa. Vana vanopa fulcrum muhupenyu - unotanga kuona kuti ndiwe ani chaizvo, zvawakaunganidza mumakore ehupenyu hwako uye kuti zvese izvi ndezvei.

Ndechipi chidzidzo chikuru cheupenyu chawakadzidza kubva kuna amai vako uye chauchadzidzisa mwana wako? Pandakanga ndava nemakore 16, ini naamai vangu takatanga kukurukura nezvewanano. Amai vakabvunza kana ndaida kuroorwa uye kuti ndaizosarudza sei murume wangu. Ndakamuudza kuti ndaida kuroorwa nemurume ane mari. Uye akabva atsikitsira, inzwi rake rakachinja uye akabvunza, "Asi zvakadini nerudo? Sei usingati unoda kuroora mudiwa wako? ” Ndakabva ndamuudza kuti handitendi murudo. Vachinzwa izvi amai vangu vakachema vakati rudo chinhu chinoshamisira chingaitika pamunhu. Kwapera makore chete ndipo pandakaona kuti akanga akarurama. Ndakaita rombo rakanaka rekusangana nemanzwiro aya pandakasangana nemumwe wangu. Ndinorota vana vangu vachinyatsoda uye rudo urwu rwaive rwese. Uye ndinotenda zvikuru amai vangu kuti vakabva vawana mashoko chaiwo akachinja maonero angu enyika.

Munzira dzipi wakafanana nemwana wako, uye munzira dzipi dzausina kufanana nazvo? Nemwanakomana wedangwe (yakanyanya kukasika kutonga nezvekufanana kana kusawirirana nemudiki), isu tine psychotypes dzakasiyana zvachose - iye ari classic introvert, uye pane zvinopesana, ini ndiri extrovert. Uye izvi zvinounza mamwe matambudziko mukunzwisisa kwedu tese. Dzimwe nguva zvakandiomera zvikuru ini naye. Asi ini ndinoedza kuva amai vakanakisisa kwaari, kunzwisisa uye kubatsira kuona matarenda ake ose, izvo, ndine chokwadi, kune uwandu hwose. Asi maererano nekufamba kune chokuita, mune izvi vanakomana vangu vaviri uye ini tiri kopi - varidzi vemutengo usingagumi wesimba. Kune ruzha, ruzha, nekukurumidza, asi kunonakidza nesu!

Unhu hupi hwaunodzidzisa mwana wako? Kana ndikataura kuti tinorera humwe hunhu muvana vedu vane makore maviri nemwedzi 2, hazvizove chokwadi. Ndinotenda kuti vabereki vanofanira kuzvidzidzisa, nokuti vana vanongoona muenzaniso uye kutevedzera muenzaniso wevabereki.

Nheyo huru yedzidzo ndeye… rudo rusina magumo. Mwana anokura aine rudo mumwoyo make anenge ava munhu mukuru anofara. Kuti tiite izvi, isu, vabereki, tinofanira kuda mwana sezvaari, nezvose zvaakanakira nezvaasina.

Amai vangaite sei zvese? Kuve pazororo rekusununguka nevana vaviri vemamiriro ekunze, ndinoita zvakawanda: Ndakapedza zvidzidzo zvekuyamwisa, ikozvino ndinobatsira vakadzi kugadzirisa matambudziko ane chokuita nekuyamwisa, ndinoenda kune zvemitambo, ndinodzidza mitauro yekunze, ndinodzidza pachikoro chekutsvaga mifananidzo. , Ini ndinotungamira nharaunda yevanaamai veKrasnodar uye kumucheto pa instagram (@instamamkr), kuronga misangano uye zviitiko uye nekushingairira kuchengetedza yangu Instagram peji @kozina__k, kwandinogovana ruzivo rwangu rwehuamai, kuburitsa zvinyorwa zvangu zvekuyamwisa, kuita makwikwi ekuzorora kwevana uye zvakawanda. Ndoita sei?! Zviri nyore - ndinoedza kuisa pamberi nemazvo, kuronga zvese nemazvo (dhayari ndiye mubatsiri wangu mukuru) uye kuzorora zvishoma.

Wafarira here nyaya yaCatherine? Muvhotere papeji yekupedzisira!

31 makore, mufesi, murairidzi wekusimba

amai vemwanakomana

Kuva amai kunorevei kwauri, hupenyu nemafungiro zvakashanduka sei mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana? Ndaimboshanda pane imwe kambani hombe yemishonga. Uye rakanga riri basa rinonakidza zvikuru: vanhu vatsva, nzendo dzebhizimisi nguva dzose, motokari yokutanga muupenyu hwangu iyo kambani yakandipa. Hongu, uye ini nomudzimai wangu hatisi vanoda kuungana kwepamba: tisina kumirira kupera kwevhiki, takakurumidza kuunganidza PPP (* zvinokosha) uye takamhanyira kune imwe nzvimbo sebhoti. Asi makore maviri apfuura, hupenyu hwakachinja zvakanyanya. Mwanakomana wedu Ilya akaberekwa, akashandura muchato wedu kuva mhuri chaiyo. Ndachinja here? Hungu, akatendeudzira pfungwa dzangu madhigirii 2! Chitarisiko chake chakandizunungusa ndokuratidza zvizere kugona kwangu. Hupenyu hutsva hwatanga, huzere nenguva dzakajeka uye "adventures"! Kutenda kuna Ilya uye nekutora kwake zvakananga kuti @Fitness_s_baby insta chirongwa chakaonekwa: chirongwa chekuti amai vanogona sei kugara vaine chimiro chakanakisa chemuviri kana mwana mudiki ari mumaoko ake.

Ndechipi chidzidzo chikuru chehupenyu chawakadzidza kubva kuna amai vako uye chauchazopa kumwana wako. Kune hupenyu humwe chete. Rarama nguva yega yega! Usaisa miganhu, usave wega mukati memiganhu yako. Tarisa zvakafara: nyika yakakura uye yakanaka! Iva akazaruka kune zvese zvitsva - chete ipapo iwe uchafema zvakadzama uye unokwanisa kurarama hupenyu hwakanaka, hwakajeka, hwechokwadi!

Munzira dzipi wakafanana nemwana wako, uye munzira dzipi dzausina kufanana nazvo? Ndofunga amai vese vanofara kutaura kuti mwana ikopi yavo. Uye neniwo handisi mutsauko! Mwanakomana wedu akafanana nemurume wangu neni: kutarisa kwake uye kunyemwerera kwakafanana nababa. Asi paanotsinzinya maziso uye achisimudza tsiye yake yekurudyi zvine unyengeri – handikwanisi kunyemwerera – mushure mezvose, iyi ikopi yangu chaiyo!

Unhu hupi hwaunodzidzisa mwana wako? Nokuti ikozvino, zvichida chete kushivirira. Uyezve, zviri maererano nevabereki vavo. Nokuti maererano nevamwe vanhu uye kunyanya vana, Ilya anonyanya kushivirira: somuenzaniso, haazombobvisi chitoyi kubva kune mumwe mwana. Unofunga kuti haamudi here? Hongu chokwadi! Zvakadaro sezvinodiwa. Asi ane zano rake rinenge risina dambudziko: anongotora ruoko rwangu ondidhonzera kuchitoyi chemumwe munhu. Panguva imwecheteyo, amai vanofanira kunyemwerera uye munzira dzose vanoedza kukwezva muridzi wetoyi, kuitira kuti "atenderwe kutamba."

Nheyo huru yedzidzo ndeye… rudo, mwoyo murefu uye kuomarara kunonzwisisika. Asi chinonyanya kukosha muenzaniso wedu pachedu. Iwe unoda kuti mwana wako atange zuva rega rega nekuita maekisesaizi muhupenyu hwake hwese? Saka tanga kudzidzira iwe pachako!

Amai vangaite sei zvese? Nyaya yangu yandinofarira! Amai havafanire kufunga kuti "mwana acharara uye ini ndichadzika kubhizinesi." Izvi zvakazara nekuneta, kushushikana uye kuneta kusingaperi. Apo mwana ari kurara, rara pasi pedyo naye, zorora, verenga bhuku, tarisa firimu. Uye edza kuita zvinhu pamwe chete nemwana wako. Ilya achiri muduku, ndakamuradzika pedyo naye muimba yekutandarira yevana uye ndakaita basa rangu pamberi pake. Kana akakumbira maoko ake, aitora ndokuita zvaaigona kuita naye mumaoko ake. Nenzira, kutaurirana pa Instagram nezviuru zvevanaamai, ndakaona kuti vazhinji vanoita izvi! Zvechokwadi, mwana haazoiti nguva dzose nekunzwisisa kune izvo "zvaunoda". Edza kutaura naye. Mwana haakwanisi kunzwisisa mazwi, asi inzwi rako rinogutsa richamukanganisa. Uye kana ikasashanda, zvakanaka, saka haina kugutsa. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, tura befu, zorora, bvisa zvinhu zvako zvese uye uwane mufaro chaiwo kubva mukutaurirana nemunhu anodisisa pasi!

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31 makore, chiremba wepfungwa yeVAT, muongorori wehukama hwevabereki nemwana, co-director weSunFamily chirongwa uye foramu yevanaamai vadiki (ichaitwa muKrasnodar munaNovember 29, 2015), inoronga misangano, masemina, master makirasi evakadzi vane pamuviri.

Amai vevana vaviri

Kuva amai kunorevei kwauri, hupenyu nemafungiro zvakashanduka sei mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana? Pamakore makumi maviri nematatu, apo mwanasikana wangu akaonekwa pasi pemwoyo wangu, ndakaverenga ruzivo rwakawanda pamusoro pekugara nemwana zviri nyore uye nerufaro, asi ndichizvigadzirisa kwete saamai chete. Ndakarava, ndakadzidza, ndakashandisa zvakawanda kwazvo zvokuti kuva amai kwakava hunyanzvi hwangu. Saka zvinozoitika kuti kwemakore anopfuura 23 ndanga ndichiitisa uye kuronga misangano, seminamato, kudzidziswa kweMAM, mumwe nemumwe achiraira uye kutsigira chero amai munzira yaamai vake, kutya kwavo, kusava nechokwadi, nyaya kubva kuhupenyu hwezuva nezuva kusvika mukurerwa. Ndinogovera zvandinazvo. Uye ndinowana mufaro uye mufaro kubva muhupenyu hwangu: ndinoyemura murume wangu, hukama hwedu, ndiri kurera vana vaviri (tiri kuronga zvimwe), ndinotaurirana, ndinoita mabasa emaoko neshamwari dzangu, ndinozviziva pachangu mumapurojekiti emagariro nekutengeserana, nezvimwe, nezvimwe. .

Ndechipi chidzidzo chikuru chehupenyu chawakadzidza kubva kuna amai vako uye uchadzidzisa mwana wako Amai vangu vakasiya upenyu uhu kare kare, asi ndinovarangarira serudo, mutsa, uye kushanda nesimba. Kuita kwake kwaishamisa kwandiri: akamuka mangwanani-ngwanani, akakwanisa kubika kudya kwemangwanani, kudyisa munhu wese, akaenda kunoshanda nesimba, uye manheru aitarisira imba huru. Pandakanga ndichiri kuyaruka, ndaisakwanisa kubvumirana nemararamiro ake—ndakaona kuti zvakanga zvakamuomera. Iye zvino, makore akawanda gare gare, vakawanda vanoshamiswa nemararamiro angu okushingaira. Hongu, chokwadi, ndinoita zvinhu zvakawanda zvakapoteredza imba, mumhuri, muupenyu hwemagariro evanhu, nemusiyano mumwe chete, ndinoedza kuita zvandinoda, nekunakidzwa, nekunakidzwa, mune yangu rhythm. Izvi ndizvo zvandinopa kuvana vangu.

Munzira dzipi wakafanana nemwana wako, uye munzira dzipi dzausina kufanana nazvo? Ndinoda kutaura kuti "vana ndivo fungidziro yedu." Uye zviripo. Kana iwe uchiri kutora mamwe maitiro, saka mwanasikana wangu neni takafanana zvakanyanya kunyange muchitarisiko. Ane mutsawo, anotsvaka kubatsira, kuronga, uye dzimwe nguva haasi mumood, seni. Akasiyana nekusagadzikana kwake, kureruka, kutamba, izvo zvandiri kudzidza muhupenyu hwangu. Nemwanakomana wangu, ndinonzwa hukama hwakawanda musimba uye kugona kuzadzisa chinangwa changu.

Unhu hupi hwaunodzidzisa mwana wako? Kwandiri chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti vana vangu vafare. Munhu anogona sei kuva anofara kana pane zvikwiriso nokudzika, kusuwa nomufaro, hasha nomutsa? Ndinoona mufaro mukuva munhu chaiye, kuzvigamuchira ini nevamwe sezvavari.

Nheyo huru yedzidzo ndeye… regai mwana anzwe kuti nesu anogona kuva chaiye. Zvino kugamuchirwa uku kunobatsira kuve wakakwana, uine musimboti, wakabatana iwe pachako uye nevamwe. Ipapo ndipo apo vana vedu vane mukana wekusava nemufaro wemwana chete, asiwo kukura kuva munhu anofara, akakura, akabudirira, ane rudo uye anodiwa.

Amai vangaite sei zvese? "Amai vakabudirira" izita reimwe yenguva yangu yekutarisira masemina makosi kune vanaamai. 1. Zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti hazvibviri "kubata zvinhu zvose". 2. Kukwanisa kugovera zvakare zvakakosha uye kwete. 3. Zvichengete iwe, uzadzwe nemafungiro akanaka. 4. Ronga! Kana ukasaronga nguva yako, inozadza zvakadaro, asi kwete nezvirongwa zvako.

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24 makore, maneja

amai vemwanakomana

Kuva amai kunorevei kwauri, hupenyu nemafungiro zvakashanduka sei mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana? Akava amai pamakore 23. Mushure mokuberekwa kwemwana, hupenyu hwakashanduka zvachose, hwakawana mavara matsva. Nguva yose ndakanga ndisingagoni kuzviwana, uye pashure pokuberekwa kwaMark, dambanemazwi rakaungana. Ndiye anokurudzira, zvinoratidzika kwandiri kuti uropi hwangu hahuzorore ikozvino, mazano matsva anogara achionekwa uye ndinoda kuunza zvinhu zvose muupenyu. Ndine basa rekuita - polymer clay modelling. Uye sangano remisangano yemifananidzo yeamai veKrasnodar kuitira kuti vasangane naamai nevana.

Ndechipi chidzidzo chikuru cheupenyu chawakadzidza kubva kuna amai vako uye chauchadzidzisa mwana wako? Amai vangu vaigara vachindidzidzisa kunakidzwa nehupenyu uye kuwana mabhenefits mune zvese, ndichaedza zvakanyanya kusvitsa izvi kumwana wangu.

Munzira dzipi wakafanana nemwana wako, uye munzira dzipi dzausina kufanana nazvo? Zvinoita sekuti hatisi kugara takanyarara. Mark murume mudiki ane hunhu hwakakasharara, anogara achiomerera ari ega, haadi unyoro zvachose. Uye ndiri musikana akadzikama, anotambura, ndingati kudii.

Unhu hupi hwaunodzidzisa mwana wako? Ndinodzidzisa kuva nomutsa, kunzwira tsitsi, kubatsira vadiwa, kukwanisa kugoverana.

Nheyo huru yedzidzo ndeye… kuchengetedza kuenzana kwerudo uye kusimba mumhuri.

Amai vangaite sei zvese? Kuti uite zvese, unofanirwa kunyatso kugovera nguva uye kuchengeta diary. Pakangobuda mwana ndakabva ndatanga kumujairira. Vanhu vazhinji vanondibvunza: "Unokwanisa sei kuita zvese, pamwe akadzikama, anogara achitamba ega?" Chii? Aihwa! Mark mukomana anoshingaira uye anogara achida kutariswa, kana ndakabatikana kweanopfuura maminetsi maviri nechimwe chinhu pamberi pake, injodzi. Naizvozvo, iwe unofanirwa kugovera nemazvo runyorwa rwekuita.

Wafarira here nyaya yaVictoria? Muvhotere papeji yekupedzisira!

33 makore, mukuru wekambani yekufambisa, mudzidzisi paKSUFKST, kutanga-up

mai vevana vaviri

Kuva amai kunorevei kwauri, hupenyu nemafungiro zvakashanduka sei mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana? Ndakava amai ndiine makore 27 ne32. Izvi zvisati zvaitika, ndaigarotarisa neshungu vanhu vaingobvisa chisazita chokuti ini nesu, asi mushure mekuonekwa kwemwanakomana muupenyu hwangu, ndakaona kuti ndaizofanira. chikamu nehuwandu hwekuzvifunga kwangu. Zvakanga zvisina kuoma, ndakadanana naye pakutanga kumuona, asi chii chaungaite nekuda kwemurume wako waunoda?! Kazhinji, hupenyu hwangu hwachinja kuita zvirinani: Ndakadzikama pamusoro pemibvunzo yeupenzi uye zvakanyanya kushivirira zano rakangwara. Zvinorevei kuva amai? Kusaziva! Ndinofungidzira kuti handina ruzivo rwakakwana. Ngatitaurei nezvazvo mushure memwana wechitatu.

Ndechipi chidzidzo chikuru cheupenyu chawakadzidza kubva kuna amai vako uye chauchadzidzisa mwana wako? Mai vangu vairaramira vana vavo. Mukadzi wechidiki anoyevedza uye akangwara - haana kufunga nezvemufaro wake wega! Uye semwana ndakanga ndichiri negodo! Ndichitarira shure, ndinowedzera uye ndinosvika kumhedziso yokuti vabereki vakanakisisa vabereki vanofara! Ndichadzidzisa vana vangu kuzvida uye kufara!

Munzira dzipi wakafanana nemwana wako, uye munzira dzipi dzausina kufanana nazvo? Takafanana papi? Tine pfungwa yokusetsa yakafanana nemukuru. Tinowanzofarira kuseka. Isu tinoitawo mutambo mumwe chete - kick boxing. Zvatinofarira zvekuravira chete ndizvo zvinosiyana, kana tichienda kukudya kweSvondo, mwanakomana wedu anoraira "pizza nechizi" (uye ini ndinopesana zvachose nehupfu), uye ini ndiri hove yake yakagochwa, asi mumhuri medu mune demokrasi, zvakanaka, anenge. Uye mwanakomana wegotwe akaora mwoyo, kubva pakuzvarwa anotitarira sokunge kuti tinopenga. Pamwe uchifunga kuti: “Ndasvika kupi? Uye zvinhu zvangu zviripi? “

Unhu hupi hwaunodzidzisa mwana wako? Handiudzi vanakomana vangu chakanaka nechakaipa. Mushure mezvose, dzimwe nguva zvakanyanya kuoma kuwana 10 misiyano. Ndinongotaura navo kubva pazuva rekutanga ravo, pamisoro yakasiyana. Mukuru (Timur) kazhinji anobvunza maonero angu, asi anotora mhedziso dzake. Chiono chedu chenyika hachiwanzofanana, uye ndinofara nazvo. Dzimwe nguva ndinochinja pfungwa dzangu mushure mekuteerera nharo dzake dzisingarambiki.

Nheyo huru yedzidzo ndeye… kutaurirana nevana vakaenzana!

Amai vangaite sei zvese? Ini handisi weboka revanaamai vanoedza kuita zvese vari vega. Mushure mezvose, ndinogara pasi pechirevo: amai vakanakisisa ndiamai vanofara! Uye kwandiri, mufaro ijoka rezvandinoda, nzendo dzinonakidza, kumbundirwa kwechirume kwakasimba uye kudziya kwemaoko evana vekuzvarwa.

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