Le narcissistic hunhu kusagadzikana sezvatakatsanangura chinhu chisingawanzoitiki. Chatinoona kakawanda mukiriniki vanhu vane humwe kana humwe hunhu hwehunhu uhu, vasina ese. Sachiremba, handina kugadzikana neshoko rekuti "narcissistic perversion" kuratidza mamiriro aya.

Kuve "kukanganisa", maererano Le Petit Robert, zvinoreva: “Uyo anoda kuita zvakaipa, anoda kuita zvakaipa”, zvakafanana ne“kuora”, “kushata”, “akaipa”, “ane utsinye”. Munhu ane “narcissistic personality disorder” haazadzise tsananguro iyi.

Kana, paunenge uchiverenga pepa rino, uchiita seunozviona iwe pachako mune izvo zvatinotsanangura, maitiro ako ekutanga achange ari kuramba kuona ichi chokwadi nekuti haugone kubvuma kuti chimwe chinhu chinogona kuvhara mufananidzo wako wesimba uye kukwana. Asi chokwadi chinoramba chiripo chekuti ungangove uine matambudziko mune akati wandei ehupenyu hwako, senge hukama hwehukama padanho rewanano yako, mhuri uye hupenyu hwemagariro, pamwe nebasa rako. Unganzwa wakasuruvara uye kazhinji kazhinji kuvhiringidzika nemirangariro inorwisana. Unoonawo kuti vanhu vaunotandara navo havanyatsokukoshesa kuvapo kwako uye hukama hwako hahugutsi.

Kana mamiriro aya akafanana neako, funga kuona chiremba wepfungwa kana chiremba waunovimba naye. Kurapwa kwakakodzera (munhu, mhuri, kana kurapa kweboka) kunogona kuita kuti hupenyu hwako huve nemubairo uye hunakidze.

Dr Jacques Allard MD FCMFC