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Hurukuro pamusoro pechirango chekurohwa paEkho Moskvy
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Chirango chepanyama kuunza manzwiro emuviri asingafadzi kana anorwadza.
Pasina kutsanangura zvatiri kutaura, varume vanowanzoreva mbama yakaoma pamagaro, vakadzi — kurova nebhandi.
Nechirango chemuviri vanoreva zvakasiyana-siyana zvezvinhu: kubva ku-squats kuburikidza nekubvumirana kusvika pakurohwa nguva dzose. Chinonyanya kukosha ndechokuti ndiani anorova, mumamiriro ezvinhu api uye nechekumashure kwehukama hupi: chinhu chimwe chete amai vakadhakwa vanogara vachipa mwanakomana wavo macuffs, uye pamberi pevanhu vose, uye imwe nguva inonyadzisa uye inorova nemashoko, imwe. chinhu ndibaba vakasimba uye vane rudo, avo mwanakomana anodada naye, vakamborova mwanakomana wavo paakazvibvumira kutuka mai vake. Saizvozvowo, kutaura pamusoro pekubvumirwa kana kusabvumirwa kwechirango chemuviri uye zvinyorwa kune zvimwe zvidzidzo hazvina musoro kusvikira zvajekeswa kuti ndezvipi chirango chemuviri chiri mubvunzo.
Zvinonzi zvakafanana, chirango chemuviri chakasiyana zvakanyanya kubva kune mumwe nemumwe, kunyanya izvo zvinoshandiswa nevabereki vakasiyana mumamiriro akasiyana kune vana vezera rakasiyana uye mavara. Uku kungava kuedza kwevabereki kukwevera ngwariro kune zvavari kutaura apo mwana anenge asingazvinzwi kana kuti asingadi kuzvinzwa. Pane imwe nguva, iyi ishoko kumwana pamusoro pekusadiwa kwezvimwe zvezviito zvake, kana mwana asinganzwisisi kukwezva kwekutaura kana kusarudza kusanzwisisa. Mbama yakapfava inogona kuva simbisiro yakapfava, isingadiwi; mbama chaiyo inogona kuva chirango chakarurama chinosunungura mwana pamhosva. Maonero evana echirango chemuviri akasiyanawo zvakanyanya. Dzimwe nguva kunongova kurwadza kwesimba rimwe chete kana rimwe, uko mwana anorondedzera nenzira yakafanana nekurohwa panguva yekuwa. Mune imwe mamiriro ezvinhu, izvi zvinoonekwa sekunyadziswa, kunyanya kana zvikaitika pamberi pevanhu zvakakosha kumwana. Mune zvimwe zviitiko, chirango chepanyama ihondo yesimba pakati pevabereki nemwana, uye kamwe kutsiva kudiki kwevabereki kumatambudziko avo ega.
Ndeipi miuyo yenguva refu yokurangwa kwomuviri? Nyaya ine nharo zvikuru. Kune rimwe divi, zviedzo mumunda wesocial psychology zvinoratidza kusakosha kwemhedzisiro yenguva refu yekushungurudzwa kwemuviri kunowanikwa muhudiki, pamwe nekunyanya kusakosha kwemamiriro emhuri panguva yehudiki pane maitiro uye hupenyu hwemunhu mukuru, etc. Kune rumwe rutivi, vamwe vatsvakurudzi vanopikisa kuti vana vari pasi pechirango chemuviri, vane nhamba yakawanda yezvinetso zvepfungwa uye maitiro, kunyanya avo vanobatanidzwa nechisimba, kuora mwoyo uye chisimba kune vamwe.
Mubvunzo wakatonyanya kuda kuziva: chii chinorwadza, chii chinonyanya kushanda. Chii chinonyanya kushungurudza - chirango chemuviri kana chetsika? Varume vanowanzoshandisa chirango chemuviri - mumaonero avo, ivo vanonyanya kushanda uye njodzi yekushungurudzika kwepfungwa haina kunyanya kukwirira (zvakanyanya kuoma kuti varume vatsungirire misodzi yaamai, mweya unoremerwa nemhosva).
Kuongorora kugamuchirwa uye kushanda kwechirango chemuviri chakaoma. Zvirango zvinyoro-nyoro zvinogona kugamuchirwa, uye zveutsinye hazviwanzo. Kubva kune mumwe munhu mukuru vanobvumirwa uye anenge mubairo, kubva kune imwe - kutuka kusingagamuchirwi, kunyange kana kuri kwechikonzero. Varume, sekutonga, vanonzwira tsitsi chirango chemuviri, vakadzi vanowanzopikisa zvakasimba. Kufurira panyama nechinangwa chekunyadzisa, kukuvadza uye kukuvadza mumwe munhu, kunyanya mwana, hazvibvumirwi zvachose. Zvinogoneka uye zvakakosha kupesvedzera mumuviri kuitira kuti umise zvakaipa (hasha, hysteria, kuyedza simba) mune yakaenzana fomu, asi nguva imwe neimwe inofanirwa kunzwisisa.
Senzira yekurera vana, chirango chemuviri chinoonekwa sechinhu chinogamuchirika mune mamwe maitiro echirango mukurera uye chinoshorwa zvakanyanya mukurera vakasununguka.