Mubasa rangu rekubvunzana, ndinoda kushandisa bvunzo dzakasiyana siyana: nyaya dzekufungidzira, bvunzo dzekudhirowa. Vazhinji ini ndinozvigadzira ini, semuenzaniso, nguva yekupedzisira pandakabvunza mukadzi kuti apindure mubvunzo, kana aive fenicha, zvino ndiani chaizvo. Iye, pasina kuzeza, akati "armchair." Uye zvakava pachena kuti basa rake mumhuri nderipi, maitiro emhuri. Mune imwezve hurukuro, zvakava zvakadaro.
Imwe yemitambo yekirasi yandinopa vatengi muti. Munyori waro ndiV. Stolyarenko «Fundamentals of Psychology» Muti pachawo chiratidzo chehupenyu. Uye ukobvu hwehunde nematavi zvinongoratidza kuti munhu ane simba rakadii, akasimba sei. Kukura kwemuti pashizha, kunowedzera chivimbo munhu maari uye mukukwanisa kwake.
Matavi anotungamirirwa pasi. Zviri pachena kuti munhu ane matambudziko akawanda asina kugadziriswa. Kana vakakwevera zvakananga willow, saka uku kuora mwoyo uye kuzviparadzanisa pane zvakapfuura.
Matavi anotungamirirwa kumusoro. Muti unomira wakasimba pasi, matavi kumusoro, munhu ane hupenyu hunobudirira, anoedza kukura uye simba, matavi nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana - kutsvaga kwekuzvisimbisa. Kana mutengi achikwevera trunk nematavi emutsara mumwechete pasina kukanganisa, ichi ndicho chido chake chekupukunyuka kubva kune chokwadi, kuramba kunyatsotarisa zvinhu. Kana matavi ose akabatanidzwa mudenderedzwa, semufananidzo wemutengi wangu, zvino ichi chido chekubatsira vamwe.
Kuwanda kwematavi, zvakasvibirira (iniwo ndine shiri), chido chekutarisira ini, kukura kwangu.
Midzi yemuti inotorwa, iyi kuvimba kune vamwe, uyewo chido chekunzwisisa iwe pachako, kuchinja kwemukati.
Kana spruce yakadhonzwa, ichi chishuwo chekutonga.
Munhu anokwevera makomba, mapfundo - uku kuvhiya, dzimwe nguva dzisingafadzi.
Chiitwa ichi chine kuenderera mberi.
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Zvichienderana nekuti munhu anoronga sei zvinhu izvi mumufananidzo, munhu anogona kuona matambudziko ake uye mararamiro ehupenyu.
Muchiitwa, zvikamu zvakadaro zvekudhirowa zvinoratidzwa: ndeipi imba ine multi-storey kana diki. Iyo ine denga rudzii, pamwe inhare kana imba yekumusha. Pane gonhi here kana kuti kwete. Pane mukova - munhu wakazaruka, kwete kuvharwa. Denga inzvimbo yekufungidzira. Mahwindo anotaura zvakafanana. Utsi kubva tu.e. - kushushikana kwemukati. Imba iri kure, munhu anonzwa arambwa. Masitepisi nemakwara zvakakosha. Yakakwevedzwa zvakanaka - pfungwa yekudzora. Nzira refu - pfungwa yekureba. Nzira yepakutanga yakafara, asi inoderera pamberi peimba - kuedza kuseri kweushamwari hwekunze kuti ude kuva wega. Chinokosha imamiriro ekunze ari pamufananidzo. Ndiani mumwe aripo. Vanhu, miti. Mufananidzo uri pakona yei? Kurutivi rworudyi kumusoro kwepepa - mutengi akabatana nenguva iripo kana kutungamirirwa kune ramangwana. Aya mafungiro akanaka. Kana iyo dhizaini iri pazasi kuruboshwe - kutungamira kune yakapfuura, manzwiro asina kunaka uye passivity. Iyo inoswedera pedyo iyo kudhirowa iri kumucheto wepamusoro, iyo yakakwirira yekuzviremekedza uye kusagutsikana nechinzvimbo chemunhu munzanga. Kana mufananidzo uri pazasi, zvinopesana ndezvechokwadi.
Iwe unogona zvakare kutarisa kune ruzivo rwemunhu. Asi…
Kwandiri chinhu chikuru. Handiyeuki zvakanyorwa mubhuku, unongova mukana wekuona munhu, kuti anodhirowa sei, zvaanotaura, kuti chiso chake chinoshanduka sei. Ndinowanzo wedzera chimwe chinhu kubva kwandiri chandinonzwisisa apo munhu anenge achidhirowa. Saka kudhirowa uku chingori chishandiso munguva pfupi yekuziva munhu zviri nani uye kupa kurudziro yaanoda.
Verenga zvakawanda: V. Stolyarenko «Zvinokosha zvePsychology»