Amai vevana vatanhatu vakanyora mitemo gumi ichabatsira kurera munhu akakodzera.
Blogger Erin Spencer akawana nemazvo zita rekuti "nyanzvi mubereki". Apo murume wake ari kubasa, ari kurera vana vatanhatu ari oga. Iye zvakare anokwanisa kunyora makoramu pamwe nezano kune vanaamai vadiki. Zvisinei, Erin anobvuma kuti muhondo yezita rekuti "amai vakanaka" uye akakunda.
“Mhoro chizvarwa chitsva chevasingaongi vanozvikudza! Erin anodaro. "Makore mashoma apfuura ndakaona kuti neniwo ndiri kusimudza zvakafanana."
Yakanga iri nguva yeKisimusi apo Erin aironga bhajeti rezororo, achifunga kuti angachengetera kupi imwe dhora yezvipo zvevana.
"Mweya weKisimusi waive mumhepo, uye ndakagara pahuro yangu muzvikwereti, ndichisarudza kuti nditengerei nhengo kuti ndiwane zvipo," vanodaro vamwe amai vane vana vakawanda. "Uye kamwe kamwe mwana akura anouya kwandiri ndokuti:" Amai, ndinoda mateki matsva, "uye izvi kunyangwe hazvo isu takamutengera vaviri vekupedzisira mwedzi mishanu yapfuura."
Nekuremekedza uye zvakadzikama, Erin akatsanangurira mwanakomana wake kuti vabereki vake vaisakwanisa kugara vachimutengera shangu dzemhando yepamusoro.
"Matauriro ake akaita kuti ndizvibvunze: ndekupi kwandakamukira semubereki? Erin anonyora. "Mwanakomana akagomera zvakanyanya ndokupinda muhutongi hwemunhu aisatenda."
“Uri kuedza kundiomesera hupenyu nguva dzese! - mukomana akatsamwa. - Iwe unoda here kuti munhu wese andisekere ?! Ndinovenga zvese! Ini handisi kuzopfeka benzi maVelcro sneakers! "
“Chii chinoita kuti ufunge kuti vachakutengera maVelcro sneakers? Une makore maviri here, kana kuti makumi masere nemasere? ”- amai vechidiki vakatsamwa.
"Ichi chiitiko chakandiita kuti ndifungisise maitiro angu semubereki," anodaro blogger. - Ini ndinotarisa-tarisa uye ndoona vakomana vakapfeka majean akaomarara, vachisvinira matete, ayo kunyangwe gonhi riri pamberi pako risingabatise, uye kunyangwe zvakadaro harizopa kutakura masaga anorema. Rega zvandinotaura zvinotevera zvindiendese zviri pamutemo kuenda pachinzvimbo chekare mhiripiri shaker, asi vechidiki mazuva ano havana hunhu zvachose! "
Mushure mechiitiko chakapfekwa nemwanakomana waErin, akafunga kuchinja mararamiro emhuri yake. Heino mitemo yake, iyo, seye blogger ine chokwadi, ichabatsira vabereki vadiki kusimudza munhu akakodzera.
1. Rega kupa vana vako sarudzo nekukumbira rubatsiro. Wakatakura zvakapota kwemwedzi mipfumbamwe, iwe unobhadhara zvikwereti, zvinoreva kuti unogadza mirau uye wovaudza zvekuita. Kana iwe uchida kupa mwana wako sarudzo, murege asarudze: angaite sezvaunotaura, kana kuti haazove akanaka.
2. Reka kuzvityaira muchikwereti uchiedza kutenga mwana wako chimwe chinhu chiri nani kubva kuunganidzwa dzichangoburwa.
3. Ita kuti vana vashande pane zvavanoda. Basa diki harina kukuvadza chero munhu parizvino.
4. Vadzidzisei tsika: iti ndapota, maita basa, vhurai uye mubatirire vamwe madhoo. Kana iwe urikurera mwanakomana wako, enda pazuva uchimukumbira kuti abhadhare masikati vachishandisa mari yaakawana pane rairo mundima yechitatu. Hazvina mhosva kuti chero munhu anotii, hunhu hwechirume hwakadai hahuzombobuda mufashoni.
5. Shanyira imba yekugara pamwe chete kana kuzvipira ipapo. Rega mwana anzwisise zvinorehwa neshoko rinoti "kurarama zvakaipa".
6. Kana uchitenga zvipo, tevera mitemo mina. Ipa chimwe chinhu icho: 1) chavanoda; 2) ivo vanoda; 3) ivo vachapfekwa; 4) ivo vanoverenga.
7. Zvirinani, kudzidzisa muvana zvinorehwa nemazororo. Vadzidzise kupa, batsira kunzwisisa kuti zvinonyanya kunakidza kupfuura kugamuchira. Handina kumbobvira ndanzwisisa nei Jesu aine zuva rekuzvarwa, asi isu tichigamuchira zvipo?
8. Shanyira nemwana akaremara varwi, veterans, nherera, shure kwezvose. Ratidza chinonzi kuzvipira chaiko.
9. Vadzidzise kuti vanzwisise musiyano uripo pakati pehunhu uye huwandu.
10. Vadzidzisei kuwedzera rudo rwavo netsitsi kune avo vakavakomberedza. Dzidzisai vana venyu kudanana, itai kuti vanzwe migumisiro yesarudzo dzavo, uye vanokura vave vanhu vakanaka.
Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa yekiriniki yevana "CM-Chiremba" muna Maryina Roshcha
Kana iwe uchinzwisisa kuti mwana, nematauriro kana zviito zvake, anokukurudzira uine mhosva, pamoyo mabhaisikopo ("haundide!") Kana anokanda kutsamwa, ipapo iwe unenge uine mudiki diki. Uku ndiko kunyanya kukanganisa kwevabereki. Vakatadza kuvaka nemazvo hutongi hwemhuri, kuti vatungamirirwe mune izvo nyaya izvo pazvinodiwa. Uye mwana anoenda kuburikidza nezera dambudziko rimwe nerimwe anonzwa kushaya simba kwakakwana - zvishoma nezvishoma anozowana mamiriro ezvinhu kwaari apo munhu wese ane chikwereti naye, asi haana chikwereti kuna ani zvake.
Manomano evanyengeri haana kugumira pakutsamwa uye kubiridzira. Anogona kutorwara, uye nekurevesa - psychosomatics inoshanda nenzira yekuti mwana anorwara kuti awane kutariswa nevabereki. Mwana anogona kudzidza kubata kumeso zvine hungwaru - izvi zvinoitika kana mumhuri amai nababa vatamba chinzvimbo chemapurisa akanaka uye akaipa. Kana pamwe kutyisidzira, kutyisidzira kubva pamba kana kuzviitira chimwe chinhu.
Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, simba rako chete rinobatsira: unofanirwa kuchengetedza kuzvidzivirira, kwete kukundwa nekudenhwa. Asi panguva imwecheteyo, mwana anofanirwa kugashira hunhu hwakaringana kuitira kuti asanzwe asina kubatwa nekugumburwa.
Kuti udzidze maitiro XNUMX% kunyatsoziva diki maneja, verenga mberi