Kupinda mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, kusangana nedambudziko muhukama kana kurasikirwa pamberi pesarudzo, tinowanzo kutsvaga zano: tinobvunza shamwari, vatinoshanda navo kana Indaneti. Isu tinotungamirirwa nemusimboti wakadzidzwa kubva paudiki: sei kugadzira chimwe chinhu chakatogadzirwa pamberi pedu. Nekudaro, mukugadzirisa nyaya dzemunhu, musimboti uyu kazhinji haushande, uye zano rinokonzeresa kushatirwa panzvimbo yekuzorodzwa. Sei izvi zviri kuitika uye nzira yekuwana mhinduro?
Apo vatengi vanotsvaka rubatsiro, vanowanzokumbira mazano. Semuenzaniso, nzira yekubuda nayo muhukama kana kuti ingagadzirisa sei. Vanobvunza kana zvakakodzera kusiya basa, inguva yekuva nemwana, chii chaunofanira kuita kuti uve nechivimbo, kurega kunyara.
Zvingaite senge mizhinji yemibvunzo yakura sepasirese - havasati vauya neimwe mhando yemutemo wakajairika kana piritsi rekuchengetedza rinogona kubatsira chero zvakadaro? Vamwe vanhu vanobvunza zvakananga pamusoro paikoku, somuenzaniso, kuti: “Munofunga kuti kune nguva yemberi yokurara nomunhu uyu here?” Maiwe, pano ndinofanira kugumbuka: ini kana vandinoshanda navo vane mhinduro yepasirese. "Saka toita sei?" - iwe unobvunza. "Ita vhiri," ndinopindura.
Rudzi rwevanhu rwakagadzira michina yakawanda iri nyore inoita kuti upenyu huve nyore zvokuti kudzorera zvagara zviripo kutambisa nguva. Asi kana zvasvika kunyaya dzakaita sekuvaka hukama, kuwana chivimbo, kurarama neshungu, kana kubvuma kurasikirwa, hapana imwe sarudzo kunze kwekutangazve vhiri. Hongu, iyo yakatinakira.
Ndinoyeuka, somwana, takachinjanisa mabhasikoro nomukomana wemuvakidzani nokuda kwokuda kuziva. Aiita kunge bhasikoro rakajairika, asi zvaisagadzikana: tsoka dzake dzaisasvika pamapedali, uye chigaro chairatidza kuoma. Zvichava zvakafanana kana ukakurumidza kutevera mazano emumwe munhu uye wotanga kuronga upenyu maererano nemaitiro emumwe munhu: seshamwari, sezvakarayirwa paTV kana kusimbiswa nevabereki.
Kurarama manzwiro edu uye kuvhura kune vatsva, isu zvishoma nezvishoma - isu pachedu kana nerubatsiro rwe psychotherapist - tinounganidza bhasikoro redu.
Muchikamu, psychotherapy inzira yekudzorerazve vhiri, kunyatsotsvaga, nekungwarira kutsvaga mhinduro dzemibvunzo "ndinofanira kuva sei" uye "chii chichandikodzera." Hukama haugone kudzidzwa kubva mumabhuku, kunyangwe achigona kubatsira kana akakubatsira iwe kuzvibvunza mibvunzo yakakodzera. Ngatitii njere dzekugadzira dzakasarudza mufambidzani akakwana kwatiri. Asi kunyange kusarudza mudiwa maererano neyakagadziriswa fomula, semhedzisiro tinosangana nemunhu mupenyu, uye isu hatina sarudzo kunze kwekurarama hukama uhu isu pachedu, tichiedza nekuvandudza mavari.
Zvekutaura kune umwe wako kana mapopota? Nzira yekubvumirana pane zvemari, ndiani achabvisa marara? Iwe unofanirwa kugadzira mhinduro iwe pachako. Ndeupi wavo achave wechokwadi, iwe unogona kusarudza chete nekuteerera iwe pachako. Uye, zvinokwanisika kuti ivo vanozove vakasiyana zvachose kubva kune vanokurudzirwa neshamwari kana Internet.
Kubvuma kurasikirwa, hapana imwe nzira kunze kwekuirarama. Kuti ndiwedzere kuzvivimba, zvakakosha kufunga kuti inobva kupi, kunyanya kusachengeteka kwangu. Chii chandinoteerera chinondinyadzisa?
Saka, kurarama kuburikidza nemanzwiro uye kuzarura kune vatsva, isu zvishoma nezvishoma - isu pachedu kana nerubatsiro rwe psychotherapist - tinounganidza bhasikoro redu. Mumwe munhu achange aine marabhoni epingi uye tswanda yemabhuku, mumwe munhu ane matai akazara nemavhiri ane simba. Uye chete mushure mekusunda pasi pabhasikoro ratakazvigadzirira, tinotanga kuchovha takananga pachedu.