Iyo selfie craze ingakuvadza vana vedu here? Sei iyo inonzi "selfie syndrome" ine ngozi? Publicist Michel Borba ane chokwadi chekuti kushushikana kwenharaunda nekuzvitora wega kunogona kuve nemhedzisiro isingatarisirwe kuchizvarwa chitsva.
Makore mashoma apfuura, chinyorwa chemanyepo chakaonekwa paInternet uye chakabva chave hutachiona hwekuti hupenyu chaihwo uye vane chiremera American Psychological Association (APA) yakawedzera muchikamu chayo chirwere che "selfitis" - "chishuwo chekumanikidza kutora mifananidzo yemunhu." woisa mapikicha aya pasocial media. Chinyorwa chacho chakabva chakurukura nenzira inosetsa nhanho dzakasiyana dze "selfitis": "borderline", "acute" uye "chronic"1.
Kuzivikanwa kwe "utkis" nezve "selfitis" kwakanyatso nyora kushushikana kweruzhinji nezve mania yekuzvitora mifananidzo. Nhasi, nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzemazuva ano dzinotoshandisa pfungwa ye "selfie syndrome" mukuita kwavo. Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Michel Borba anotenda kuti chikonzero chechirwere ichi, kana kuomerera pakuzivikanwa kuburikidza nemifananidzo yakatumirwa paWebhu, inonyanya kutarisisa iwe pachako uye kuregeredza zvinodiwa nevamwe.
“Mwana anogara achirumbidzwa, obva azvisungirira okanganwa kuti munyika mune vamwe vanhu,” anodaro Michel Borba. - Mukuwedzera, vana vemazuva ano vanonyanya kuvimba nevabereki vavo. Isu tinodzora miniti yega yega yenguva yavo, asi isu hativadzidzise hunyanzvi hwavanoda kuti vakure. "
Kuzvitora ivhu rakaorera renarcissism, inouraya tsitsi. Tsitsi manzwiro ekugoverana, ndi "isu" uye kwete "ini" chete. Michel Borba anopa zano rekugadzirisa manzwisisiro edu ekubudirira kwevana, kwete kudzidzikisa kusvika pazvibodzwa zvepamusoro mubvunzo. Hunokosha zvakaenzana kukwanisa kwomwana kunzwa zvakadzama.
Mabhuku echinyakare haangowedzere kugona kwemwana chete, asiwo anomudzidzisa kunzwira tsitsi, mutsa uye hunhu.
Sezvo "selfie syndrome" ichiziva kudiwa kwe hypertrophied yekuzivikanwa uye kutenderwa nevamwe, zvinodikanwa kumudzidzisa kuziva kukosha kwake uye kurarama nezvinetso zvehupenyu. Zano repfungwa rekurumbidza mwana nekuda kwechikonzero chipi nechipi, chakapinda mutsika yakakurumbira muma80s, chakakonzera kubuda kwechizvarwa chose chine egos yakawedzera uye zvikumbiro zvakawedzerwa.
“Vabereki vanofanira kuita zvose zvavanogona kukurudzira kukwanisa kwomwana kukurukura,” anonyora kudaro Michel Borba. "Uye kuwirirana kunogona kuwanikwa: mukupedzisira, vana vanogona kutaurirana muFaceTime kana Skype."
Chii chinogona kubetsera kukudziridza tsitsi? Semuenzaniso, kutamba chess, kuverenga classics, kuona mafirimu, kuzorora. Chess inokura kufunga kwakadzikama, zvakare kutsausa kubva pakufunga nezvemunhu wako.
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa David Kidd naEmanuele Castano veChikoro Chitsva cheSocial Research muNew York2 akaita chidzidzo pamusoro pezvinoita kuverenga paunyanzvi hwemagariro evanhu. Zvakaratidza kuti mabhuku echinyakare akadai saKuuraya Mockingbird haangowedzere kugona kwemwana chete, asiwo anomudzidzisa mutsa nehunhu. Zvisinei, kuti unzwisise vamwe vanhu uye uverenge manzwiro avo, mabhuku ega haana kukwana, unoda ruzivo rwekutaurirana kwehupenyu.
Kana wechidiki akashandisa paavhareji kusvika kumaawa 7,5 pazuva aine zvishandiso, uye mudzidzi mudiki - maawa matanhatu (pano Michel Borba anoreva data rekambani yeAmerican Common Sense Media.3), anenge asina mikana yekutaurirana nemumwe munhu "kurarama", uye kwete mukutaura.
1 B. Michele "UnSelfie: Sei Vana Vane Tsitsi Vachibudirira Munyika Yedu Yese-About-Me", Simon naSchuster, 2016.
2 K. David, E. Castano "Kuverenga Literary Fiction Inovandudza Dzidziso Yepfungwa", Sainzi, 2013, №342.
3 "The Common Sense Census: Media Use by Tweens and Teens" (Common Sense Inc, 2015).