Solo moms: vanopupura

“Ndakagadzira sangano rakasimba! “

Sarah, amai vevana 2 vane makore 1 ne3

“Ndine mwedzi minomwe ndisina kuroorwa, ndine rombo rakanaka kuti ndakakwanisa kuchengeta imba yangu nekuti ex wangu akaenda neshamwari yake itsva. Sezvinei, nyangwe imba yacho yaive mumazita edu maviri, ndini ndaibhadhara rent nemabills. Sezvo ndiri kuRSA, ndinorongeka: mwedzi woga woga, ndinotsaura hafu yezvandinazvo zverendi, mabhiri epeturu, inishuwarenzi yemba nekantini yevana. Nezvimwe zvacho, ndinotenga, ndinobhadhara Indaneti uye ndinozvibvumira kuita zvekutandara pazvinogoneka… Ndinofunga kuti isangano chete kuva nazvo. Kupfuura zvese, hatifanire kuzvibvumira kukurirwa nemabhiri. “

“Ndakawana dzikamo. “

Stéphanie, amai vemwana ane makore mana

“Nhasi, pashure pemakore matatu okuparadzana, sangano rakatangwa uye ndawana dzikamo. Ndinotenda nekuda kwesimba iri kuedza kupa zvakanakisisa kumwana wangu, ndinogona kutaura kuti hupenyu hweamai vega hwakanaka! Ndakava nenguva dzakaoma, izvo chete vakadzi vakaparadzana vanogona kunzwisisa. Isu takasiyana mumeso eshamwari muhukama kana vamwe vatinoshanda navo. Mhinduro chete ndeyokuwana shamwari dziri mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana, uyewo vabereki vari voga. ” 

“Vanakomana vangu zvinhu zvangu zvinokosha. “

Chrystèle, amai vevakomana vaviri, 9 ne5 nehafu yemakore

“Chinonyanya kuoma kana uri amai vega kusambokwanisa kuzendamira pane mumwe munhu, kunyangwe kumbofurwa nemhepo, kana kumborara… Une mutoro wega, maawa makumi maviri nemana pazuva. Kubva pakuparadzana, ndakanga ndiri pabhiriji kuchengetedza mwero wakafanana kuvana vangu: hupenyu hunofadza, hunofadza, huzere neshamwari uye mimhanzi. Basa rakabudirira! Handina kuita kuti vanzwe masaisai angu kumweya. Gore rakapera muviri wangu wakakanda mapfumo pasi. Ndakaiswa pazororo rekurwara, uye zvishoma nezvishoma ndakatangazve basa mukurapa hafu yenguva: chisungo chekuzvichengeta! Kuparadzana kwandakaita kwakandirwadza zvishoma nezvishoma… Mushure megore ndichinyepa, ndakaona kuti aimbove murume wangu aidanana nemumwe wandaishanda naye izvo zvakanga zvagara kubva pamuviri pangu. Ndakatsvaga kurambana ndokuchengeta imba yacho. Aiva neduplicate yemakiyi okuenderera mberi nekuendesa mukuru kuchikoro mangwanani. Vavariro yakanga iri yokuchengeta chisungo chababa nomwanakomana pasinei zvapo nokusagadzikana kweroorano. Pamari, ndakabatikana zvishoma. Kusvika munaGunyana, ex yangu yaindibhadhara 24 € pamwedzi, ipapo 24 chete kubva paakakumbira kusungwa pamwe chete; iyo inobhadhara mari yecanteen yevana vaviri. Kuhofisi, handina kuverenga maawa angu, ndaigara ndichikudza mafaira angu. Asi sezviri pachena, zvandaiva amai vasina murume, ndaifanira kurega basa rangu nokukurumidza pavakanga vachirwara kana kuti chii. Kubasa, zvishoma zviripo zvekugadzirisa zvematongerwo enyika, ndakazviwana ndiri mu "goridhe wadhiropu", kunze kwemamwe mabasa. Zvinonyadzisa kuti, pamusoro pezvimwe zvese, makambani anotishoresa sevanaamai vasina murume, nepo tekinoroji yedhijitari inoita kuti zvikwanise kushanda kure kure (zvinoita chero basa rangu). Chandinonyanya kudada nacho mufaro wekurarama kwevanakomana vangu, kubudirira kwavo muzvidzidzo: vane mwero uye vane hutano hwakanaka. Misimboti yangu yedzidzo: rudo rwakawanda uye rwakawanda… uye kugoneswa. Uye ndakura zvakanyanya, ndichichengeta mweya wangu wehudiki! Vanakomana vangu ndivo vandinokosha, asi kuziva kwangu nzanga kwawedzera. Ndinobatanidzwa musonganiro dzakasiana-siana, uye zvirokwazvo, ndinobatsira sezvinobvira vanhu vanouya kwandiri. Saka kuti pakupedzisira, ndinovimba, humwe huchenjeri hunokunda!

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