Imwe yematambudziko ehukama hwemazuva ano kusagadzikana. Tinoenda pamazuva uye tinoda kuva pedyo nevakasarudzwa, asi zviito zvavo zvinoratidza kuti chido ichi hachina kufanana. Tiri kuedza kuwana tsananguro ine musoro nei munhu asingadi kuva nesu. Mutori wenhau Heidi Prieb anopa mhinduro kudambudziko.
Tinokwenya pfungwa dzedu, tichiedza kunzwisisa kuti nei munhu akakosha kwatiri asati aita sarudzo, anozeza. Zvichida aive nechiitiko chinoshungurudza muhukama hwekare? Kana kuti akaora mwoyo uye haasi kwatiri, asi muchirimo rudo rwako ruchabudirira zvakare?
Izvi hazvienderane neunhu hweakasarudzwa, asi zvinoratidza kusava nechokwadi kwedu uye kutya: manzwiro ekusachengeteka, mhosva yekuputsika kwehukama hwekare, kunzwisisa kuti hukama hutsva hunogona kukanganisa basa, kunzwa kwatisingagoni kukanganwa. aimbove shamwari yedu…
Mumamiriro ezvinhu apo munhu nguva nenguva anonyangarika uye haapindure kune mameseji, hapagone kuve nechikonzero. Chinhu chimwe chete chakakosha ndechekuti uyo wawakapa manzwiro kwaari, anokubata nenzira iyi.
Kana munhu asina chokwadi nemanzwiro ake, iwe haungafari naye.
Iwe wakawira murudo nemunhu asingadzorere, uye kuedza kusvika pasi pezvikonzero zvekusada kunokuvadza kuzviremekedza kwako. Munhu uyu haasiriye waurikuda izvozvi, haakwanisi kupa rudo rwaunokodzera. Kana munhu asina chokwadi nemanzwiro ake, haungafari naye, kana kunyengedza kana kunyengetedza zvichabatsira pano.
Kuongorora kuti hukama hunoenderana sei zviri nyore: hapana chikonzero chekutevera, kururamisa, kunyengerera, kupa mikana kana kutsvaga tsananguro dzezviito zvinopwanya moyo wako. Munhu "mumwechete" pakutanga anokutendai, iwe unogara uri panzvimbo yekutanga kwaari, haazodzoki kubva pamanzwiro ake.
Ngatiregei kuona kusava nehanya sechakavanzika chinogadziriswa. Iwe unogona kufunga nezvezvikonzero zvakawanda nei munhu achionekwa uye anonyangarika kubva muhupenyu hwedu, asi hazvina basa. Iwe haugone kushandura chero chinhu. Kukwezva kwako kwakanyanya kunoratidzira iwe, kwete munhu uyu.
Nguva inotevera yaunonzwa kunge gweta remumwe munhu, edza kugamuchira chokwadi chinorwadza: unozvipa zvikonzero.
Zvinoda kuti udzidze kuzvida zvakakwana kuti urambe kutaura nevaya vanokugumbura. Kana basa rako riri rokunyengetedza, kubvumirana pane zvisina kufanira, edza kubvumirana newe umene: “zviri nani kuva woga pane kuva nomunhu ari wose zvake.”
Kukwezva kune vanoshungurudza uye "zvipoko" zvinoratidza kuti hauremekedze zvishuwo zvako uye zvaunoda, kufuratira pfungwa dzako nezvemunhu anofanirwa kunge aripo, kuparadzira zvidiki uye kushandura mikana yekufara kuita mhute yemweya.
Nguva inotevera yaunonzwa kunge gweta remumwe munhu, edza kugamuchira chokwadi chinorwadza: unozvipa zvikonzero, nekuzvidira kusiya hupenyu hunogutsa, rudo, uye hukama hwaunoshuvira. Kana vese vari vaviri vakayemurana uye vasingade kuvhiringika pamusoro pezvishuwo zveasingafungidzike, asingafungidzirike, asingaoneki mumwe.
Munhu mumwe chete anosungirwa kuratidza rudo kwauri iwe pachako.
Kunobva: Kufunga Catalog.