"Ndiudze zvishoma pamusoro pako": sei kupindura mubvunzo uyu?

Muchokwadi, mubvunzo uyu muyedzo weunyanzvi hwekutaura hwemunyoreri, saka kunyora mhinduro uchienda kune njodzi. Asi kana iwe ukakwanisa kuita kuti mushandirwi afarire nhoroondo yenzira yako yebasa, zvichabatsira zvakanyanya mukupindura mibvunzo yese inotevera. “Kutaura nezvako ndicho chinhu chikuru chebvunzurudzo. Zvinokupa mukana wekuti vabvunzurudzo vabvume kuti wakakwana pachinzvimbo ichi,” anodaro Judith Humphrey, muvambi wekambani inodzidzisa vashandi.

Murairidzi mukuru uye chipangamazano Sabina Nevaz, uyo akashanda kuMicrosoft kwemakore gumi nemana, anotsanangura kuti anogadzirira vatengi vake kupindura mubvunzo uyu pakutanga. "Nekutaura nezvavo, mukwikwidzi anowana kutonga pamusoro pekubvunzurudza uye anogona kutarisa pane izvo zvebasa ravo izvo zvinonyanya kukosha kune mushandirwi mutsva."

Kuti ugadzirire nyaya yakanaka pamusoro pako, uchafanirwa kuita zvakawanda. Hezvino izvo zvakakosha kuteerera.

Usaita zvikanganiso zvakajairika

Mubvunzurudzo angangodaro atoverenga tangazve yako, saka usazvidzokorora zvakare. "Hazvina kukwana kuti nditi: Ndine ruzivo rwakadai, ndakawana dzidzo yakadai, ndine zvitupa zvakati nezvakati, ndakashanda pazvirongwa zvisina kujairika," anonyevera kudaro Josh Doody, aimbova maneja wehanda uye murairidzi anodzidzisa. vatengi. kutaurirana mihoro. Vazhinji vanotsvaga basa vanotaura nezveizvi, asi iyi ndiyo nzira iri nyore. Isu tinongotanga kunyora zvese zvatova pane yedu kutangazve. "

Paunotora nzira iri nyore, unorasikirwa nemukana wekutaura chimwe chinhu chitsva nezvako. "Haufanire" kukanda kunze "gomo reruzivo nezvako kumubvunzurudzo," anosimbisa Judith Humphrey.

Taura pfungwa huru zvakajeka

Humphrey anokurudzira kuvaka nyaya pamusoro pako pachirevo chikuru, achipa humbowo hutatu hwacho. Somuenzaniso: “Ndine chivimbo chokuti ndine unyanzvi hwokugadzira zvinhu. Ndine ruzivo rwakakura munharaunda iyi. Ndiri kufarira chinzvimbo ichi sezvo chichandipa mukana wekuvandudza hunyanzvi hwangu.”

Kuti neimwe nzira imire kubva kune vamwe vese vanonyorera, unofanirwa kugonesa vabvunzurudzo kuti kusvika kwako kuchawedzera kugona kwevashandi. Zvakakosha kuziva zvakadzama pachine nguva kuti ndeapi mabasa ari kugadziriswa neboka rako remangwana, uye kutaura chaizvo izvo mamaneja anoda kunzwa.

“Semuenzaniso, unofarira chinzvimbo chemutengesi. Iwe unoona kuti timu yako nyowani iri kutsvaga kuve inoshanda zvakanyanya pasocial media, inotaura Josh Doody semuenzaniso. — Paunenge uchibvunzwa kuti utaure nezvako pabvunzurudzo, unogona kuti: “Ndiri kufarira zvikuru masocial network, ndave nemakore gumi ndichiashandisa, zvese nezvinangwa zvehunyanzvi uye zvemunhu. Ndinogara ndichitsvaga mukana wekuunza iyo pfungwa kune vakawanda vateereri vachishandisa mapuratifomu matsva. Ndinoziva kuti timu yako yave kutsvaga mikana mitsva uye iri kuyedza kuita mushandirapamwe wekushambadzira pa Instagram. Zvingandifadza zvikuru kuti nditore chikamu mune izvi. "

Ndapota cherechedza kuti wakataura zvakawanda pamusoro pako, asi ruzivo rwese urwu rwakanangana nezvinangwa uye zvinangwa zveboka rekushanda raunoda kujoina.

Nekungotsanangura pfungwa huru yenyaya yako, iwe unoratidza mubvunzurudzo zvekutanga kutsvaga. Sabina Nevaz anopa uyu muenzaniso wenyaya yake pachake: “Ndingati ndine unhu hutatu hwakaita basa rinokosha zvikuru mubasa rangu, uye huchandibatsira zvikuru [munzvimbo itsva]. Ndichakupa muenzaniso. Muna 2017, takatarisana nedambudziko - [nyaya yedambudziko]. Dambudziko raive [iroro]. Hwaive hunhu uhu hwakandibatsira kutsungirira dambudziko - [nenzira ipi]. Ndosaka ndichivaona sesimba rangu.”

Iwo maviri anonyanya kukosha ekutanga kugadzirira

Basa rako harisi rekunyora chete chokwadi chebiography yako, asi kutaura nyaya inowirirana nezvako. Ichafanirwa kugadzirwa pachine nguva.

Kuti utaure nyaya yakanaka, tanga wazvibvunza wega kuti ndezvipi zvebasa zvaunonyanya kudada nazvo uye kuti izvo zvakabudirira zvinosimbisa sei kugona kwako. Ndeupi paunhu uhwu huchabatsira kwauri mune ramangwana?

Usave banal. “Chero munhu angati akangwara, anoshanda nesimba uye anokwanisa kuzadzisa zvinangwa zvake. Pane kudaro, tiudze nezve yako yakasarudzika maficha, nezve iwo hunhu hunokusiyanisa kubva kune vamwe, Sabina Nevaz anopa zano. "Nei zvakakosha kubasa rako idzva?"

Nzira yekuunganidza mimwe mienzaniso yezvawakaita? "Ini ndinokurudzira kuti vatengi vangu vataure nevandinoshanda navo, vandinoshanda navo, shamwari isati yabvunzurudzwa - vachakubatsira kuyeuka nyaya dzinonakidza dzaungave wakanganwa nezvadzo," Nevaz anopa zano.

Izvo zvakakoshawo kuti unzwisise kuti sei kambani iri kutsvaga mushandi weichi chinzvimbo zvachose. "Kutaura zvazviri, mubvunzurudzo unobvunzwa:" Mungatibatsira sei? Kana ukauya wakagadzirira, unotoziva zvinodiwa nemushandirwi wako,” Josh Doody ane chokwadi.

Kugadzirira uku chii? Doody anokurudzira kuti unyatso ongorora tsananguro yebasa, tsvaga paInternet kuti uwane ruzivo nezvekambani, edza kutsvaga mablogiki kana mavhidhiyo evauchazoshanda navo. "Chinangwa chako ndechekunzwisisa izvo kambani inoita, zvibodzwa zvainoteedzera, matambudziko api ainosangana nawo munzira yekuzvizadzisa," anosimbisa.

Usakwevera kunze nyaya

"Kudzivirira vateereri kuti vasarase kufarira, edza kuita kuti nyaya yako itore inenge miniti. Nekufamba kwenguva, haugone kuve nenguva yekutaura zvese zvakakosha, asi kana ukanonoka, mhinduro yako inogona kutanga kuita senge monologue, "anokurudzira Judith Humphrey.

Ehe, zvinotora huchenjeri hwepfungwa hwakakudziridzwa kuti unzwisise kuti vateereri vanofarira sei. Edza kunzwa mafungiro evateereri. Zvakakosha kuti vanobvunzurudza vave nekunzwisisa kwakajeka kwepfungwa yako huru. Iyo incoherent nyaya "zvese zvese" inoratidza kuti munyoreri haana pfungwa yakazara yeuXNUMXbuXNUMXbhimself.