Unoziva rudo here? Unoziva rusununguko here? Iwe unoshuvira kune imwe, kune imwe, nekuva netsanangudzo chaiyo yega yega? Ndaifunga kuti ndaiziva zvese nezvese. Hapana chandaiziva. Kana njodzi, kana kukurumidza, kana rusununguko rwechokwadi. Ndihwo hupenyu hwaamai vangu hwakandidzidzisa izvozvo.
Ndakaroorwa naNicolas, takava nevana vatanhatu vakanaka kwazvo. Zvino rimwe zuva takapotsa chimwe chinhu. Takazvibvunza mubvunzo wemwana anotevera, wechinomwe: uye nei? Nekuchimbidza, pfungwa yekubvuma yakasvika. Izvi ndizvo zvakaita muna 2013, takagamuchira Marie. Marie mwana ane Down's syndrome watakasarudza kugamuchira zvisinei neyambiro, kutarisisa kwepadivi… Hongu, isu takaorera, saka ndeipi pfungwa yekurera? Taionekwa seanopenga. Mwana akaremara futi! Takarwa zvakasimba kuti rimwe zuva tiwane kodzero yekugamuchira Marie mudiki wedu. Usaite hako kusarudza kureruka kuitira kuti zvese zvirambe zvichimhanya semazuva ese, uye kunyaradza kukuru kwehupenyu hwezuva nezuva pasina chero zvinoshamisa. Ndakaona kuti hachisi chishuwo nguva dzose chinofanira kutungamira hupenyu hwedu, uye kuti sarudzo yakakosha. Hazvingave zviri nyore here kungove mugwara? Derailing, dzimwe nguva, ndiyo nzira yakanakisa yekuenda yakatwasuka.
Munhu wose akabvuma uye, nguva zhinji, takavimbiswa kurasikirwa kwedzikamo mumhuri yedu yakaisvonaka nemhaka yokuvapo kwomumwe mwana. Asi zvakasiyana naani? Enough to ? Marie ane encephalogram yakafanana, angave akarara kana akamuka: bhora rekiristaro rekurapa rakafanotaura kufambira mberi kwake, kana paine… Nhasi, Marie ane makore mana. Anoziva kuita "roronette", izwi raanoshandisa nemufaro kureva scooter yake. Anotsvedza, anoenda kumberi. Atiita kuti tienderere mberi zvakanyanya zvakare… kuravidza hutsva hwega hwega zvakapetwa kachuru zvine simba kupfuura isu. Kumuona achiravira girazi rake rekutanga resoda zvakandishamisa. Mufaro unotora ukuru hwakadaro naye! Aiziva nzira yekuumba hukama nenhengo yega yega yemhuri. Uye tiratidze isu tese kuti mutsauko hausi iwo watinofungidzira. Musiyano uripo pakati pake nesu uri nyore kuti Marie ane chimwe chinhu. Kurarama hakusi kuramba uri pane zvaunenge wagona uye pane zvauri chokwadi. Rudo rwechokwadi ndeuyo anoona chokwadi cheumwe, uye izvi ndizvo zvakaitika kwatiri naye, uye vanhu vose vane hurema hukuru kana huduku hwatakawana mushure. Rimwe zuva, Marie akatsamwa uye ndakaona kero yake chimwe chinhu chisingaoneki. Ndakafamba ndokunzwisisa kuti akanga achipopotera nhunzi yakanga yamhara pachikafu chake. Akataura zvese zvaiva pamoyo pake kunhunzi iyi yaidongorera mundiro yake. Kutarisa kwake kutsva, kutsva uye kwakanaka pazvinhu, zvechokwadiwo, kwakavhura pfungwa dzangu, manzwiro angu, kusvika risingaperi. Simply ! Isu takadai, tinofanira kuzviita seizvi… Zvakanaka kwete. Vamwe vanoita zvakasiyana, uye zvakajairwa hapana kwazvino. Hupenyu hausi mashiripiti, hunodzidzisa. Hongu, tinogona kutaura zvachose nenhunzi!
Zvichienderana nechiitiko ichi chinoshamisa, ini naNico takasarudza kutora mumwe mwana uye ndiwo maziviro akaita Marie-Garance. Same story. Tingadai takarambwawo. Mumwe mwana akaremara! Pashure pemakore maviri, takazoita chibvumirano uye vana vedu vakasvetuka nomufaro. Takavatsanangurira kuti Marie-Garance haadyi sesu, asi ne gastrostomy: ane valve mudumbu, iyo iyo diki chubhu inovharwa panguva yekudya. Utano hwake husina kusimba, tinoziva, asi patakasangana naye kekutanga, takabatwa nerunako rwake. Hapana nhoroondo yezvokurapa yakanga yatiudza kuti kusvika panguva iyoyo, maitiro ake, chiso chake chakanaka.
Kubuda kwaakaita kekutanga, ndakazviita takatarisana naye, uye pandakazozviona ndamusundidzira stroller yake munzira isina tsvina, pakarepo yakavharwa netambo yakanyanyisa, ndakanzwa kutya kundibata uye kuda kusiya zvese. Ndichaziva nzira yekugadzirisa hurema hunorema zuva nezuva? Ndakarohwa nehana ndikaramba ndisinei, ndichiona mombe dzichifura mumunda waiva pedyo. Uye pakarepo ndakatarisa mwanasikana wangu. Ndaitarisira kuwana simba rokuenderera mberi mumaziso ake, asi maziso ake akanga akavhara zvokuti ndakaona kuti ndakanga ndisiri pakupera kwenhamo dzangu. Ndakaenda kumugwagwa zvakare, mugwagwa waive nemakomba zvekuti mufambisi wetsoka akatinhira, uye ipapo, pakupedzisira, Marie-Garance akabva atanga kuseka! Ndakachema ! Hongu, hazvina musoro kutanga rwendo rwakadaro, asi rudo rune musoro harwurevi chinhu. Uye ndakabvuma kuti nditungamirirwe naMarie-Garance. OK, zvakaoma kuchengeta mumwe mwana anoda kurapwa kwakakosha, asi kubva zuva iroro zvichienda mberi, kusava nechokwadi hakuna kuzondizadza zvakare.
Vanasikana vedu vaviri vekupedzisira havasiri misiyano yedu miviri, asi avo vakanyatsochinja hupenyu hwedu. Zvechokwadi, Marie akatibvumira kuti tinzwisise kuti munhu mumwe nomumwe akasiyana uye ane zvaanoda. Marie-Garance haana kusimba mumuviri uye haana kuzvimirira. Isu tinoziva zvakare kuti nguva yake yave kupera, saka akaita kuti tinzwisise kupera kwehupenyu. Kutenda kwaari, tinodzidza kunakirwa zuva nezuva. Isu hatisi mukutya kwekupedzisira, asi mukuvakwa kwezvino: inguva yekuda, nekukurumidza.
Matambudziko inzirawo yekuwana nayo rudo. Chiitiko ichi ndihwo hupenyu hwedu, uye tinofanira kubvuma kurarama takasimba. Uyezve, munguva pfupi, ini naNicolas tichagamuchira mwana mutsva kuti atishamisire.