Mukati
Ini nemumwe wangu takanga tagara tese, taidanana uye ndaida chaizvo kuita vana. Akanga asinganyanyi kukurudzirwa, asi akabvuma musimboti. Pashure pemakore maviri, hapana! Zvakandinetsa, ndakaona zvisinganzwisisike, mumwe wangu akandiudza kuti zvinhu zvose zvinoitika nenguva yacho uye kuti taizosvikako. Iye, haambomanikidzira magumo. Ndiri kunyanya kuzvidya mwoyo, uye ndinoda kumutsa zviitiko. Ndakaenda kwana gynecologist kuti ndinzwe kuti chii chaiitika. Kuongororwa kwechiremba kwakaratidza kusaenzana kwehomoni kudiki, asi kusiri kwakakomba. Ndaigona kuita mwana zvakakwana. Ndakaerekana ndakumbira mumwe wangu kuti atarise kana zvinhu zvose zvakanga zviri kufamba zvakanaka. Akatora nguva yakareba chaizvo achiita spermogram, akaita seaifungira kuti ane dambudziko uye aitya kuziva. Ndakamusvina ganda kwemwedzi mitanhatu manheru ega ega, ndakashatirwa zvikuru uye ukama hwedu hwakaparara. Akazopedzisira aenda uye kuongororwa kwakaratidza kuti airwara neazoospermia, aive nemakore makumi maviri nemapfumbamwe, uye pasina urume mumurume wake.
Vakawana bundu mumurume wangu!
Ndakasarudza kuenda kunoona chiremba wezvekubereka naye. Tose taida kutsvaga solution kuti tiite mwana. Ndakaongororwazve, machubhu angu akanga asina kuvharika, chibereko changu chakanga chakamira zvakanaka, uye nzvimbo yangu yezai yakanga yakakwana. Ukuwo, kuongororwa kutsva kwakaitwa mumwe wangu kwakaratidza bundu mumachende. Chirwere ichi chinogona kurapwa zvakanaka, haana kuisa upenyu hwake pangozi, yakanga iri zororo. Asi mashoko akaipa aya akandivhundutsa. Ndainge ndava nemakore makumi matatu uye nyika yangu yakanga ichiparara! Humai kwandiri hwaive mubvunzo weupenyu nerufu, kusaita vana kwaive kusuwa hupenyu hwako, changu chaive chisina chirevo kana ndisina kuita mai. Nyanzvi yakabvisa bundu remumwe wangu yakawana mbeu nhatu pakuvhiyiwa. Zvishoma kuita IVF neICSI (mbeu inopinzwa muzai), asi isu takatora mukana wedu. Ndakanga ndisina tariro, handina kuzvibvuma. Takaedza kaviri tisina kubudirira. Vaviri vedu vatowedzera kuipa. Zvino ndakapenga, hupenyu husina vana hwaive husingaite, hwaitova mubvunzo nezvese, takaparadzana kwegore. Zvaiva zvechisimba, ndakadyara mumwe wangu gomarara rake, asi ndakanga ndanyanya kuda mwana, ndakazvikanganwa. Akasangana nomumwe munhu, akavazve nechivimbo muurume hwake, uye ndakakurumidza kuona kuti upenyu pasina iye hwaisabvira! Ndakaona kuti ndaida "Hapana mwana naye", pane "mwana asina iye". Akanga adimbura hukama neni. Kamwe chete pamwedzi, ndaimupa nhau dzangu pamushini wake wokupindura. Pashure pegore akandifonera ndikamuudza kuti ndakanga ndichiri kumuda, ndakanga ndakamumirira, kuti ndakanga ndagadzirira kubvuma kusava nevana kuti ndigare naye zvakare. Takawanana uye vaviri vedu vakabuda mukuparadzana uku vakasimba.
The 12 vhiki ultrasound yakaratidza dambudziko
Sezvo mumwe wangu aive asina mbereko, mhinduro yaive yekutorwa kana IAD (insemination nemupi asingazivikanwe). Aive weIAD. Ndainge ndave bhureki. Zvakanditorera makore maviri ekurapa kwepfungwa kuti ndibvume nzira iyi yekubatsira kubereka. Kusazivikanwa kwandakaitwa ndiko kwaindidya moyo, ndisingazive kuti ndiyani ari kwakabva chipo ichi. Ndakanga ndabatwa nefungidziro dzisina kunaka, mupi anogona kunge ari psychopath akatsvedza nepakati? Uyezve, vabereki vangu vakafunga kuti yakanga iri pfungwa yakaipa. Panguva iyoyo, takasangana neshamwari dzinoverengeka dzakanga dzabereka vana vavo neIAD. Takataura zvakawanda, vakatibatsira kuti titange.
Maitiro acho akareba kwazvo, tinoenda kuCECOS (Center for Study and Conservation of Eggs and Sperm), tichiri kuongororwa, tinosangana navanachiremba, kuderera, kuona kana isu tichinyatsoziva kuti nzira iyi inosanganisirei uye kuti munhu anofungidzira sei. kuva mubereki. Kana tangotongwa kuti "zvakakodzera", vanosarudza mupi ane phenotype pedyo nemurume - ruvara rweziso, ruvara rweganda, morphology ... Hakuna vanopa vakawanda, nguva yekumirira mwedzi gumi nemisere. Panguva iyoyo, ndakanga ndatova nemakore 18 uye ndakaona kuti ndaizova amai pamakore 32! Sezvo isu tichigona kuderedza nguva kana tikapa mupiro kuCECOS, shamwari yemumwe wangu yakabvuma kuita mupiro usingazivikanwe kune dzimwe hama. Mamiriro edu ezvinhu akamubata, chakanga chiri chiito chapachena, hatimbofi takamutenda zvakakwana! Sezvakangoita shamwari yangu yepamoyo yagara ichititsigira mukurwa kwedu. Pashure pemwedzi 35, ndakabaiwa kaviri. Asi izvozvo hazvina kushanda. Zvino maviri maIVF asina kushanda zvakare. Ndakaona kupera simba, nyanzvi mukubereka, uye ndakaona kuti ndakanga ndichine kufunganya kumwe chete pamusoro pomupi. Pakupedzisira, kuiswa kwechi5 kwakashanda, ndakazopedzisira ndabata pamuviri! Taifara zvedu. Asi iyo 12 svondo ultrasound yakaratidza nuchal translucency ye 6mm, uye vanachiremba vakasimbisa kwatiri kuti mwana wedu aive nechirwere chemoyo chakakomba. Pashure pekurukurirano neboka ravanachiremba, takasarudza kusamuchengeta. Ndakasununguka zvisina tsarukano pa 16 weeks gestation, ndakaradziswa, ndakasangana nazvo serobhoti. Akanga ari musikana, ndaisada kumuona, asi ane zita rokutanga uye rakanyorwa mubhuku redu rekodhi remhuri. Pashure pechiitiko ichi, ndakaramba zvachose pamusoro pezvakanga zvaitika. Zvakanga zvakaomera mumwe wangu, aive nedepression. Saka takasarudza kuroorana, kuita mabiko makuru neshamwari dzedu nemhuri yangu kuti tikunde kusuruvara kwedu. Sisi vangu vakaronga muchato wangu, wanga wakanaka. Ndakatangisazve kuita zvemasemination, ndakapiwa mupiro wechipiri, uye mimwe mitanhatu yekuedzesera. Pazuva rechishanu, ndakabata pamuviri. Ndakanga ndisiri kufara zvachose. Ndainge ndave kubuda ropa zvishoma uye ndaive nechokwadi kuti ndaizorasikirwa nemwana wangu. Pa 2th week ultrasound ndaichema. But everything was fine, mwana wangu was normal. Ndakaita mimba yairwadza, pakanga pasina dambudziko, asi ndakanga ndine stress, ndakakonzera mikoko mikuru, ndakabatwa netoxoplasmosis nekatsi, ndakadya Babybel chete!
Mwana akanaka, asi akanaka!
Uye musi waAugust 23, 2012, ndakabereka Aaron, mwana akanaka, asi akanaka! Ini nemurume wangu taive pa cloud nine, hatina kumbodemba sezvo kuzvarwa kwemwanakomana wedu kwainakidza. Ndakaita kamini baby-blues mumaternity ward, murume wangu aigara neni nguva dzese. Kudzokera kumba kwainge kwakaoma, ndainetsekana nekufa kwevacheche. Murume wangu, aigara akasiyana nevamwe, akandisimbisa, ndokutora. Ndibaba vanoshamisa. Akarega kushanda kuti atarisire Aaron. Yakanga iri pasina mubvunzo kwaari nzira yekutsiva chokwadi chekuti mwanakomana wake aive asina majini ake. Aifanira kuvapo kuti aumbe chisungo chakasimba zvikuru pakarepo. Kwapera gore, takava nomukomana wechipiri, Enio. Zvakandinyevenutsa moyo kuti vaive vakomana vaviri, zvakazonyanya kurwadza nemwanasikana wedu. Murume wangu ndiye anovachengeta zuva nezuva. Aroni akapika nababa vake kusvika ava nemakore maviri, uye kuna Enio, zvakafanana. Murume wangu anoziva kuti basa rangu rinondikoshera zvikuru, anonditenda kuti handina kumbosiya nyaya yacho, ndakaimirira, ndatambura kuti ndikwanise kutanga mhuri, nyangwe zvodini. Anozivawo kuti zvinondisimbisa kuti anovatarisira. Isu tiri timu, tinofara zvakadaro! Chandinozvidemba ndechekuti handikwanise kupa mazai angu nekuti ndava nemakore anopfuura makumi matatu nemasere. Ndingadai ndakafarira kupa mukadzi izvo zvatakaitirwa nemupi…