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"Chakanyanya kuoma maziso evamwe".
Hélène naFernando, vabereki vaLisa, ane mwedzi 18.
“Tiri mapofu kwemakore gumi, mwanasikana wedu haaoni. Isu takafanana nevabereki vese, isu takachinja mararamiro edu kusvika kwemwana wedu. Kuyambuka mugwagwa panguva yekumhanya-mhanya nemusikana wechidiki ari kuzara nesimba, kutenga musupamaketi yakazara vanhu, kubika, kugeza, kugadzirisa matambudziko… Tawana zvinonwisa mvura shanduko iyi yehupenyu, pamwe chete, murima.
Kurarama nepfungwa ina dzako
Chirwere chekuzvarwa nacho chakaita kuti tisaone tave nemakore gumi. Nekuti kutoona kunomiririra zvakawanda. Iwe hauzombokwanisi kufungidzira bhiza, kana kuwana mazwi ekutsanangura mavara somuenzaniso, kune mumwe munhu asati amboona rimwe muupenyu hwavo, anotsanangura kudaro Fernando, mumakore ake makumi mana. Yedu Labrador inochinjana kutiperekedza kubasa. Ini, ndiri kutungamira nzira yedhijitari paFederation of the Blind neAmblyopes yekuFrance, Hélène muraibhurari. Kana kuisa mwanasikana wangu mustroller kunogona kusunungura musana wangu, anodaro Hélène, iyo haisi sarudzo: kubata stroller neruoko rumwe uye nzimbe yangu yeteresikopu nerumwe zvingava nengozi zvikuru.
Dai takanga taonekwa, tingadai takava naLisa nekukurumidza. Kuva vabereki, takazvigadzirira neuchenjeri nehuzivi. Kusafanana navaroorani vanogona zvikuru kana kuti zvishoma kusarudza kuva nomwana nechido, isu taisagona kuzviwana, anobvuma kudaro Hélène. Isu takaitawo rombo rakanaka kuwana rubatsiro rwemhando yepamusoro panguva yangu yenhumbu. Vashandi vemadzimai vakanyatsofunga nesu. ” “Mushure mezvo, tinopfuurira nekanhu aka mumaoko edu … sevamwe vese!” Fernando anoenderera mberi.
Chimiro chekumanikidzwa kwevanhu
“Takanga tisina kutarisira maonero matsva patiri. Chimiro chekumanikidzana munharaunda, senge mbereko, yadzika patiri, ”akadaro Fernando. Chinonyanya kuoma kutarisa kwevamwe. Nepo Lisa aingova nemavhiki mashomanana ekuberekwa, mazano akawanda akanga atopiwa kwatiri nevasingazivi: "Chenjerera musoro wemwana, zviri nani uubate seizvi..." takanzwa mukufamba kwedu. Manzwiro anoshamisa zvikuru kunzwa vanhu vausingazivi vachibvunza zvisina nyadzi basa rako semubereki. Chokwadi chekusaona hachina kufanana nekusaziva, inosimbisa Fernando! Uye kwandiri, hapana mubvunzo wekuzvidzwa, kunyanya mushure memakore makumi mana! Ndinoyeuka pane imwe nguva, muchitima chinofamba nepasi pevhu, kwaipisa, kwakanga kuri nguva yokumhanya-mhanya, Lisa akanga achichema, apo ndakanzwa mumwe mukadzi achitaura nezvangu: “Asi uyai, achadzipa mwana. , chimwe chinhu chinofanira kuitwa! ”akachema. Ndakamuudza kuti mashoko ake akanga asina basa nemunhu uye kuti ndaiziva zvandaiita. Mamiriro ezvinhu anorwadza anoita seanopera nekufamba kwenguva, zvisinei, sezvo Lisa anofamba.
Isu tinovimba neimba automation
Alexa kana Siri inoita kuti hupenyu hwedu huve nyore, ichokwadi. Asi zvakadini nekuwanikwa kwemapofu: muFrance, gumi muzana chete emawebhusaiti anowanikwa kwatiri, 10% yemabhuku akachinjirwa kwatiri uye kubva pamafirimu mazana mashanu anobuda mumitambo gore rega rega, zana chete ndiwo anotsanangurwa odhiyo *… Handizivi kuti Lisa anoziva kuti vabereki vake mapofu here? Fernando anoshamisika. Asi akanzwisisa kuti kuti “aratidze” chimwe chinhu kuvabereki vake, aifanira kuchiisa mumaoko avo!
* Maererano neFederation of the Blind and Amblyopes yeFrance
Ndava quadriplegic. Asi kuna Luna, ndiri baba sevamwe vese!
Romain, baba vaLuna, makore manomwe
Ndakaita tsaona yekutsikirira muchando muna January 2012. Mumwe wangu aiva nepamuviri pemwedzi miviri. Taigara muHaute Savoie. Ndakanga ndiri nyanzvi yokudzima moto uye ndiri mumhanyi zvikuru. Ndakadzidzira ice hockey, nzira yekumhanya, mukuwedzera kukuvaka muviri uko chero mupi wemoto anofanira kuzviisa pasi. Panguva yakaitika tsaona yacho, ndaiva neburi dema. Pakutanga vanachiremba vaizeza nezvechirwere changu. Kusvika paMRI ndipo pandakaona kuti musana wainge wakuvadzwa chaizvo. Mukuvhunduka, mutsipa wangu wakatyoka uye ndakava quadriplegic. Kune mumwe wangu, zvakanga zvisiri nyore: aifanira kuenda mushure mebasa rake kuchipatara kupfuura maawa maviri kubva kana kuenda kunzvimbo yekudzorera. Sezvineiwo, mhuri yedu neshamwari vakatibatsira zvikuru, kusanganisira kuita nzendo. Ndakakwanisa kuenda kune yekutanga ultrasound. Kakanga kari kekutanga kuti ndigare ndakagara zvishoma ndisina kuwira murima. Ndakachema nechemumoyo panguva yose yebvunzo. Kuti ndigadziriswe, ndakazvigadzirira kudzoka nenguva kuti ndinotarisira mwanasikana wangu pashure pokunge asununguka. Ndakabudirira… mukati memavhiki matatu!
"Ndiri kutarisa zvinhu nenzira yakajeka"
Ndakakwanisa kupinda pakusununguka. Chikwata chakaita kuti tiite kureba kweganda-kune-ganda munzvimbo ine-recumbent nekusimudza Luna kumusoro nepiro. Ndiyo imwe yendangariro dzangu dzinofadza! Kumba, zvakanga zvakaoma zvishoma: ndakanga ndisingakwanisi kumuchinja, kana kumugezesa ... Asi ndakaenda nerubatsiro rwepamba kune nanny kwandakanogara pasofa kweawa yakanaka nemwanasikana wangu kusvikira amai vadzoka manheru. . Zvishoma nezvishoma, ndakawana kuzvimiririra: mwanasikana wangu aiziva chimwe chinhu, nokuti haana kufamba zvachose pandakamuchinja, kunyange kana inogona kupedza maminitsi gumi nemashanu! Ndakabva ndawana motokari yakakodzera. Ndakatangazve basa rangu mukamba makore maviri tsaona yaitika, ndiri seri kwedhesiki. Mwanasikana wedu paakanga ava nemakore 15, takarambana naamai vake, asi takaramba tichiwirirana. Akadzokera kuTouraine kwatakabva, iniwo ndakatama kuti ndirambe ndichirera Luna tichibva tasarudza kubatana. Luna aingondiziva nehurema chete. Kwaari, ndiri baba sevamwe! Ini ndinoenderera mberi nematambudziko emitambo, sekuratidzwa neangu IG * account. Dzimwe nguva anoshamiswa nezvitarisiko zvevanhu mumugwagwa, kunyange kana vachigara vaine mutsa! Kubatana kwedu kwakakosha. Zuva nezuva, ini ndinosarudza kutarisa zvinhu padivi rakajeka: pane zvakawanda zvezviitiko zvandinogona kugadzirisa kuti ndizviite naye. Nguva yake yaanofarira? Pakupera kwevhiki, ane kodzero yekuona katuni refu: tose tinogara pasofa kuti titarise! ”
* https://www.instagram.com/roro_le_costaud/? hl = fr
“Taifanira kuchinja midziyo yose yokuchengeta vana. “
Olivia, ane makore 30, vana vaviri, Édouard, ane makore 2, uye Louise, ane mwedzi mitatu.
Pandakanga ndava nemakore 18, manheru emusi wa31 Zvita, ndakaita tsaona: Ndakadonha kubva pavharanda pauriri hwekutanga hweimba yevaenzi muHaute-Savoie. Kudonha uku kwakatsemuka musana wangu. Mazuva mashomanana ndarapwa muchipatara kuGeneva, ndakaziva kuti ndakanga ndaremara uye kuti ndaisazombofa ndakafamba zvakare. Nekudaro, nyika yangu haina kudonha, nekuti ndakabva ndazviratidzira mune ramangwana: ndaizosangana sei nematambudziko akandimirira? Gore iroro, pamusoro pekugadziridzwa kwangu, ndakatora makosi angu ekupedzisira uye ndakapasa rezinesi rangu rekutyaira mumotokari yakagadziridzwa. Muna June, ndaiva nomudzidzi wangu webhachi uye ndakasarudza kupfuuridzira zvidzidzo zvangu muIle-de-France, uko hanzvadzi yangu, yakanga ine makore gumi namatatu okukura, yakanga yagara. Pachikoro chemutemo ndipo pandakasangana nemumwe wangu wandakagara naye kwemakore gumi nemaviri.
Mangwanani-ngwanani, dangwe rangu rakakwanisa kusimuka
Takasarudza kuita mwana wekutanga apo mabasa edu maviri akanga anyanya kugadzikana. Rombo rangu nderekuti rakateverwa kubva pakutanga nesangano reMontsouris, iro rinoona nezvekutsigira vakaremara. Kune vamwe vakadzi, hazvisi nyore! Vamwe vanaamai vanondibata pablogi rangu kuti vandiudze kuti havagone kubatsirwa nekutevera gynecological kana kuita ultrasound nekuti gynecologist yavo haina tafura yekudzikisa! Muna 2020, zvinoita sekupenga! Taifanira kuwana midziyo yakakodzera yekuchengeta vana: pamubhedha, takagadzira yakasimudzwa yakasimudzwa modhi ine sliding gonhi! Kune vamwe vose, takakwanisa kuwana kuchinja matafura uye tabhu yakasununguka yandinogona kuenda nechigaro chemaoko kunogeza ndega. Mangwanani-ngwanani, mwana wangu mukuru akakwanisa kusimuka kuti ndigone kumubata nyore nyore kana kuti kugara ndiri ndoga pachigaro chake chemotokari. Asi sezvo akanga ari mukoma mukuru uye akapinda mu "vaviri vanotyisa", anozvibata sevana vose. Anogona kuita mop pandiri ndega nekahanzvadzi kake kuti ndisamubate. Maonero emumugwagwa anenge akanaka. Handiyeuki mashoko asingafadzi, kunyange pandinofamba ne“hombe” yangu uye duku mukutakura vana.
Chinhu chakanyanya kuoma kurarama nacho: kusagadzikana!
Ukuwo, kusasimba kwevamwe kwakaoma kurarama nako zuva nezuva. Mangwanani ega ega ndinofanira kubva maminitsi 25 mangwanani-ngwanani kuti ndiende kukireshi iyo iri maminetsi matanhatu chete kubva nemotokari. Nekuti vabereki vanosiya mwana wavo vanoenda kuchigaro chevakaremara "maminetsi maviri chete". Zvisinei, nzvimbo iyi haisi pedyo chete, asiwo yakakura. Kana akabatikana, hapana kumwe kwandinoenda, nokuti handingavi nenzvimbo yokubuda, kana wiricheya yangu, kana vana vangu. Akakosha kwandiri uye iniwo ndinofanira kukurumidza kusvika kubasa saivo! Pasinei nehurema hwangu, hapana chandinozvirambidza. Musi weChishanu ndinenge ndiri ndega nevaviri uye ndinoenda navo kuraibhurari yenhau. Pakupera kwevhiki, tinoenda kuchovha bhasikoro nemhuri. Ndine bhasikoro rakagadziridzwa uye hombe iri pabhairi bhasikoro rake. Zvakanaka! “