Mukati
- Estelle, ane makore 35, amai vaVictoria (9), Marceau (6) naCôme (2): “Ndinonzwa ndine mhaka nokuda kwokusabereka kwomuzvarirwo.”
- Elsa, 31, amai vaRaphaël (1 gore): "Nekuda kweiyo haptonomy, ndakafungidzira kuti ndiri kuperekedza mwana wangu pakubuda."
- Emilie, ane makore 30, amai vaLiam (2): “Kwandiri, mwana uyu akanga ari munhu wandaiziva pasina nguva.”
Estelle, ane makore 35, amai vaVictoria (9), Marceau (6) naCôme (2): “Ndinonzwa ndine mhaka nokuda kwokusabereka kwomuzvarirwo.”
“Kumwana wangu wechitatu, ndakarota ndichikwanisa kubata mwana wedu mumawoko panguva yekusununguka kuti ndipedzise kumubudisa. Chaive chikamu chehurongwa hwangu hwekuzvarwa. Kunze kwekuti paD-Day, hapana chakafamba sezvakarongwa! Pandakaboorwa mubhegi remvura muchipatara chevakadzi, rukuvhute rwakapfuura pamberi pemusoro we "fetus" ndokumanikidzwa. Chii chinonzi mujargon yezvokurapa tambo prolapse. Nekuda kweizvozvo, mwana akange asisanyatsozadzwa neokisijeni uye aive panjodzi yekudzipwa. Yaifanira kubviswa nokukurumidza. In less than 5 minutes, ndakabuda muworkroom ndichidzika kuOR. Mumwe wangu akaendeswa kukamuri rokumirira asina chaakamuudza, kunze kwokuti fungidziro inokosha yomwana wedu yakanga yavimbiswa. Handifungi kuti akambonamata zvakadaro muupenyu hwake. Pakupedzisira, Como yakakurumidza kubudiswa. Zvakandizorodza pakuti akanga asingadi kumutswa.
Murume wangu anga akawanda actor kupfuura ini
Sezvo ndaifanira kugadziridzwa uterine, handina kumuona pakarepo. Ndakazongonzwa ochema. Zvakandisimbisa. Asi sezvo takanga takachengeta kushamisika kusvika kumagumo, ini handina kuziva kuti murume wake here. Zvinoshamisa sezvazvinganzwika, murume wangu aive mutambi kupfuura ini. Akafonerwa Como achangosvika muimba yekurapisa. Nokudaro akakwanisa kupinda mukutorwa kwezviyero. Kubva pane zvaakazondiudza gare gare, mubatsiri wokuchengeta vana akabva ada kupa mwanakomana wedu bhodhoro, asi akamutsanangurira kuti ndaigara ndichiyamwisa uye kuti kana, kunze kwekuvhunduka kwechikamu checesarean, ndaisagona kuzviita izvi. nguva yapera, handina kuzozvipedza. Saka akaunza Como mukamuri rokupora kuti ndimupe zvokudya zvokutanga. Nehurombo, ndine ndangariro shoma dzenguva iyi sezvo ndakanga ndichiri pasi pesimba reanesthesia. Mazuva akatevera, muwadhi yevakadzi, ndaifanirawo "kupa" rubatsiro rwekutanga, kunyanya kugeza, nokuti ndakanga ndisingakwanisi kusimuka ndega.
Sezvineiwo, izvo hazvina kuyera zvachose pane chisungo chandiinacho neComo, pane kudaro. Ndaitya kurasikirwa naye zvekuti ndakabva ndatova pedyo naye. Kunyange kana, mushure memwedzi makumi maviri, ndichiri kunetseka kupora kubva pakuzvara uku "kwandakabiwa" kubva kwandiri. Zvekuti ndaifanira kutanga psychotherapy. Zvechokwadi ndinonzwa ndine mhaka zvikuru yokuti handina kubudirira kubereka Como nomuzvarirwo, sezvakwakanga kwakaita kuvana vangu vokutanga. Ndinonzwa sekuti muviri wangu wanditengesa. Hama dzangu dzakawanda dzinoomerwa nokunzwisisa izvi uye dzinoramba dzichindiudza kuti: “Chinhu chikuru ndechokuti mwana wacho ari kupora. “Sokunge, pasi pasi, kutambura kwangu kwakanga kusiri pamutemo. ”
Elsa, 31, amai vaRaphaël (1 gore): "Nekuda kweiyo haptonomy, ndakafungidzira kuti ndiri kuperekedza mwana wangu pakubuda."
“Sezvo mwedzi yangu yokutanga yenhumbu yakafamba zvakanaka, pakutanga ndakanzwa rugare rukuru pamusoro pokusununguka. Asi pa8e mwedzi, zvinhu zvave kushata. Ongororo yakaratidza zvechokwadi kuti ndaiva mutakuri we streptococcus B. Sezvingatarisirwa kuvapo mumuviri wedu, utachiona uhu kazhinji hahukuvadzi, asi mumukadzi ane pamuviri, hunogona kukonzera matambudziko akakomba panguva yekusununguka. Kuderedza njodzi yekutapurirwa kumwana, saka zvakarongwa kuti ndaizopihwa mushonga wekudzivirira mutsinga pakutanga kwekurwadziwa uye saka zvese zvaifanira kudzokera kune zvakajairika. Uyezve, pandakaziva kuti homwe yemvura yakanga yatsemuka mangwanani emusi wa4 October, handina kunetseka. Senzira yekuzvidzivirira, takanga tichiri kuda, pawadhi yemadzimai, kuti nditange ndashandisa tampon yePropess kuitira kuti basa rikurumidze. Asi chibereko changu chakanyatsoita zvekuti chakapinda muhypertonicity, kureva kuti ndakaita macontractions pasina kuzorora. Kuti ndinyaradze marwadzo, ndakakumbira chirwere chechirwere chechirwere.
Moyo wemwana wakabva watanga kuita zvishoma. Kushungurudzika kwakadini! Kushushikana kwakawedzera apo bhegi rangu remvura rakaboorwa uye amniotic fluid yakaonekwa iine greenish. Izvi zvaireva kuti meconium - tsvina yekutanga yemwana - yakanga yasanganiswa nemvura. Kana mwanakomana wangu akafema zvinhu izvi panguva yekuzvarwa, aive panjodzi yekufema. Mumasekonzi mashoma, vashandi vose vaanamukoti vakanga vatanga kufamba vakandipoteredza. Nyamukuta vakanditsanangurira kuti vaizofanira kuita Kesariya. Ndakashaya kuti chii chaiitika. Ndaingofunga hupenyu hwemwana wangu. Sezvo ndakanga ndaita epidural, iyo anesthesia serombo rakanaka yakatanga kushanda nekukurumidza.
Ndakanzwa vave kupinda mukati-kati mangu vachitsvaga mwana wangu
Ndakavhurwa na15:09 pm. Na15:11 pm, dzakanga dzapera. Nemunda wekuvhiya hapana chandakaona. Ndakangonzwa kuti dzave kupinda mukati meura hwangu kutsvaga mwana, zvekusvika pakundipedza simba. Kuti ndidzivise kunzwa kusava nehanya zvachose mukuzvarwa uku kunokurumidza uye kwechisimba, ndakaedza kudzidzira zvidzidzo zvehaptonomy zvandakanga ndatora panguva yangu yekuzvitakura. Ndisina kumbosundidzira ndaingofunga kuti ndini ndaitungamirira mwana wangu ari mudumbu ndichimuperekedza kunobuda. Kutarisa pamufananidzo uyu kwakandibatsira zvakanyanya mupfungwa. Kusununguka kwandainge ndaita ndainge ndisisina. Chokwadi ndaifanira kumirira awa yakanaka kuti nditore mwana wangu mumaoko angu ndimuyamwise, asi ndakanzwa kudzikama uye kugadzikana. Pasinei nekuvhiyiwa, ndakanga ndakwanisa kugara pedyo nemwanakomana wangu kusvika kumagumo. “
Emilie, ane makore 30, amai vaLiam (2): “Kwandiri, mwana uyu akanga ari munhu wandaiziva pasina nguva.”
“Wakanga uri Chivabvu 15, 2015. Husiku hunokurumidza kupfuura mamwe ose muupenyu hwangu! Pandakanga ndichidya kudya kwemanheru nemhuri yangu makiromita makumi matanhatu kubva pamba, ndakanzwa semudumbu mangu. Sezvo ndanga ndichiuya kumagumo e60 dzangue mwedzi, handina kunetseka, ndichifunga kuti mwana wangu akanga ashanduka… Kusvikira panguva yandakaona ropa richiyerera mumajeti pakati pemakumbo angu. Mumwe wangu akabva angonditora ndokuenda neni kukamuri raiva pedyo. Vanachiremba vakaona kuti ndakanga ndine praevia tab, inova chidimbu che placenta chakanga chabuda uye chakanga chichivharira chibereko changu chechibereko. Senzira yokuzvidzivirira nayo, vakasarudza kundichengeta pakupera kwevhiki, uye kundibaya jekiseni re<em>corticosteroids kuti rikurumidze kukura kwemapapu emwana, kana ndaizosununguka mumaawa 48. Ndakaisirwawo infusion yainzi yaizomisa kubata uye kubuda ropa. Asi mushure menguva inopfuura awa yekuongorora, chigadzirwa chakanga chisati chave nemigumisiro uye ndakanga ndichibuda ropa. Ndakabva ndachinjirwa muimba yekusunungukira. Mushure memaawa matatu ekumirira, ndakatanga kunzwa mazamu uye kunzwa kuda kurutsa. Panguva imwe chete ndainzwa moyo wemwana wangu uchidzikira pakutarisisa. Vananyamukuta vakanditsanangurira kuti ini nemwana wangu taiva panjodzi saka vaifanira kusununguka nekukurumidza. Ndakabva ndatanga kuchema.
Handina kuzvishingisa kumubata
In musimboti, pamuviri anofanira kugara mwedzi mipfumbamwe. Saka zvaisaita kuti mwana wangu asvike manje. Kwainge kwave kukasika. Ndaisanzwa kugadzirira kuva amai. Pandakaendeswa kuOR, ndakanga ndiri pakati pekuvhunduka. Kunzwa kutindivadza kukwira nepakati petsinga dzangu kwakatoda kurerukirwa. Asi pandakazopepuka kwapera maawa maviri, ndakanga ndarasika. Mumwe wangu angave akanditsanangurira kuti Liam akazvarwa, ndakagutsikana kuti akanga achiri mudumbu mangu. Kuti andibatsire kuziva, akandiratidza pikicha yaakanga atora paserura masekonzi Liam asati aendeswa kunochengetwa varwere zvikuru.
Zvakanditorera anopfuura maawa masere kusangana nemwanakomana wangu "muhupenyu chaihwo". Ne 1,770 kg ne 41 cm, aiita kunge mudiki muincubator zvekuti ndakaramba kubvuma kuti mwana wangu. Kunyanya sezvo nemurwi wewaya uye probe yakaviga chiso chake, zvakanga zvisingagoneki kuti ndione kufanana kuduku. Kana yaiswa pandiri ganda kuti ganda, saka ndakanzwa kusagadzikana. Kwandiri mwana uyu akanga ari mutorwa. Handina kuita chivindi chekumubata. Mukati mokuchengetwa kwake muchipatara, uko kwakatora mwedzi nehafu, ndakazvimanikidza ndimene kumutarisira, asi ndakanzwa sokunge ndakanga ndichitamba rutivi. Izvi zvimwe ndizvo zvakaita kuti ndisave nemukaka wemukaka ... ndaingonzwa kunge amai. kubuda kwake muchipatara. Ikoko, zvaive pachena. ”