“Ndiri kunzwa senge ndiri kubuda ovulation. Ndakatarisa Cécile, mudzimai wangu, ndichishamisika. Isu takanga tadzoka kubva kukiriniki kuMadrid airport, maawa mana mushure mekuiswa kwake. She looked so sure of himself zvekuti neniwo ndainzwa kuti zvakanaka. Aitaura chokwadi. Kuiswa kwembeu kwakanga kwashanda kekutanga. Zvakanga zvatitorera rwendo rurefu, isu pachedu uye semurume nomudzimai, kuti tisvike ikoko.
Ndakasangana naCécile makore gumi nerimwe apfuura. Mudiki kwandiri nemakore matanhatu. Takanga tava nevhiki mbiri tose, paakandibvunza kana ndaida vana. Ndakabva ndangopindura hangu. Takarega makore mashoma apfuura, zvino pandakanga ndava kusvika kumakumi mana, ndakanzwa kurumidziro kuita kudaro. Nokukurumidza, mubvunzo we "baba" wakamuka. Takafunga kuti, kuitira kuti mwana wedu azokwanisa kuwana kwaakabva, kuita “hunyanzvi *” kuisirwa nemupi anozivikanwa. Asi patakasangana nevanoda kupa, takaona kuti zvakanga zvisina kunaka kuti tibatanidze mumwe munhu.
Pashure paizvozvo, hatina kuzotaura nezvazvo kwegore nechidimbu. Uye mamwe mangwanani, ndisati ndaenda kubasa, muimba yekugezera, Cécile akandiudza: “Ndinoda kuva nemwana uye ndinoda kumutakura… ndisati ndasvitsa makore makumi matatu nemashanu. Bhavudhe rake rakanga riri mwedzi mishoma gare gare. Ndakapindura kuti: “Zvakanaka, ndinoda mwana akafanana newe. Chirongwa chakatangwa. Asi kuenda kupi? France haina kuzvibvumira kune vakaroorana vevakadzi. Kunyika dzekuMaodzanyemba uko vanopa vasingazivikanwe, varume vashoma vanobvuma kusangana nevana zvichibva mukupa kwavo. Takabva padonor asingazivikanwi. Takasarudza Spain. Mushure mekutanga Skype kugadzwa, taifanira kuita bvunzo, asi gynecologist wangu panguva iyoyo akaramba kutitevera. Takawana mumwe, ane rudo rukuru, akabvuma kutiperekedza.
Pandakasvika kuMadrid, ndakafunga kuti ndaiva mufirimu yeAlmodóvar: vashandi vose vane hanya, vane ushamwari zvikuru, vanotaura chiFrench nechiSpanishi uye vanotaura newe. Muedzo wekutanga wepamuviri, mazuva gumi nemaviri gare gare, aive asina kunaka. Asi takati mumwoyo medu: tichazoita imwe mangwana. Uye zuva rakatevera, apo takaona mabhawa maviri achioneka, takanga tadzikama nenzira yechienzi. Takaziva kubva pakutanga kuti zvakanga zvashanda. Mwedzi wechina wenhumbu ndakati handichada, ndikaziva kuti kamusikana kadiki, zvakandisvota. Mutemo weroorano yavose wakanga wapasiswa kweanenge makore maviri. Saka, mavhiki matatu asati aberekwa, ndakaroora Cécile pahoro yetaundi yenzvimbo yechi12, pamberi pemhuri dzedu neshamwari. Delivery yakafamba zvakanaka chose. Cléo, kubva pakuzvarwa, akanga akanaka uye aitaridzika saamai vake. Panguva yekugeza kwokutanga, maawa 18 gare gare, apo mukoti akatibvunza kana taida imwe, ndakati: “Haiwa! “Uye Cécile, panguva imwe cheteyo, pasinei zvapo ne<em>episiotomy yake nemisodzi yake, akadanidzira kuti: “Hongu, chokwadika! “.
Yakanga iri hondo refu. Ndakaita nharo dzakawanda. Ndakafunga kuti ndakanga ndanyanya kuchembera, ndakanga ndava kuda kusvitsa makore 45. Uye kwakanga kuri nhamo yomudzimai wangu, aida vana vaviri, iyo yakasarudza kuti ndibvume kwaari. Takadzokera kuSpain, uye kwakashanda zvakare nguva yokutanga. Mukuwedzera, takakwanisa kushandisa mupi mumwe chete, uyo watakanga takachengeta muenzaniso. Patakaona kuti akanga ari mukomana muduku, takanzwa kugutsikana zvikuru. Pakupedzisira mukomana mudiki kuti apedze rudzi rwedu rwevakadzi! Uye takamupa zita rekutanga Nino, iro ratakanga tafunga nezvaro kubva pakutanga kumukomana mudiki.
PMA kune vese yaizoita kuti zvibvire kubuda muhunyengeri hwazvino, uyewo kupa munhu wose mikana yakafanana. Nhasi, vakadzi vasina kuroorwa kana kuti ngochani vanoda mwana vanofanira kuva nebhajeti rokuita kudaro. Sezvineiwo, zvinhu zviri kufamba, sezvo munguva pfupi iri kutevera, bhiri rekuwedzera kwechirongwa cheART kumadzimai ese richasvitswa kuParamende. Izvi zvaizoita kuti zvikwanisike kuita kuti chido chevana vevarume vakaroorana nevakadzi vasina kuroorwa zvive pamutemo mumaziso evanhu vose. Uyezve, sezvatinoziva, kana mutemo wangopasiswa, gakava rinorega kuitika. Iyi ingave nzira yekurwisa njodzi dzekusabatanidzwa uye kuomerwa kwevana vane chekuita nekugamuchira kusiyana kwavo. “
* Mbeu yeanopa inobaiwa nejekiseni (isina tsono) yakananga munhengo yesikarudzi panguva yekuvhiya.
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