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- Sei zvakaoma kuti vaviri vaende paMAP kosi?
- Hukama kumuviri uye kuhushamwari hunogumbura zvakare ...
- Iwe unopa zano kune vakaroorana kuti vataure zvakavanzika kune vavanofambidzana navo?
- Ndiani murwendo rwekubatsirwa kubereka anogona kubatsira vaviri vacho kukunda matambudziko?
- Kubatsirwa kubereka kunoita kuti vamwe vakaroorana vaparadzane here?
- Muvhidhiyo: Kubatsirwa kubereka injodzi here panguva yekuzvitakura?
Sei zvakaoma kuti vaviri vaende paMAP kosi?
Mathilde Bouychou: « Kutadza kuita chimwe chinhu chakasikwa - kuita rudo kuva nemwana - kunokonzera ronda rakadzika narcissistic. Marwadzo aya haatombobvumwa nevakaroorana. Zvinotowedzera kurwadza kana pasina chikonzero chekurapa chekutsanangura kuongororwa kwekushaya mbereko.
Pane zvakasiyana, zvikonzero zvekurapa zvine simba rekudzikisa mhaka nokupa zvinoreva mamiriro acho ezvinhu.
Pakupedzisira, kumirira pakati pebvunzo, pakati pekuedza, chinhu chakaoma zvakare nekuti chinosiya nzvimbo yekufunga ... Kana vaviri vachinge vapinda muchiitiko, zvinova nyore, kunyangwe kunetseka, kutya kukundikana kunoramba kwakazara.
Panewo nyaya dzekusanzwisisana kunopedza simba vakaroorana zvakadzama. Somuenzaniso, murume kana mudzimai asingaperekedzi mumwe wake pabvunzo, asinganyatsoteveri zviri kuitika. Murume haararame WFP mumuviri wake, uye mukadzi anogona kupedzisira ave kumupomera mhosva yekusavapo uku. Mwana ane mbiri. “
Hukama kumuviri uye kuhushamwari hunogumbura zvakare ...
MB : “Hungu, kubatsira kubereka kunonetesawo mumuviri. Inonetesa, inopa mhedzisiro, inoomesa sangano rehupenyu hwehunyanzvi uye hupenyu hwezuva nezuva, kunyanya kumukadzi anorapwa zvese, kunyangwe kushaya mbereko kune dambudziko. chikonzero chemurume. Natural Healing (acupuncture, sophrology, hypnosis, homeopathy ...) inogona kuunza hutano hwakawanda kuvakadzi mumamiriro ezvinhu aya.
Kana dziri hukama hwepedyo, dzinoiswa nekarenda chaiyo, ichiva nguva dzekumanikidzwa uye chisungo. Kuparara kunogona kuitika, zvichiwedzera kuomesa mamiriro acho ezvinhu. Nyaya yebonhora, iyo dzimwe nguva inofanirwa, inoitawo kuti vamwe vakaroorana vasagadzikana. “
Iwe unopa zano kune vakaroorana kuti vataure zvakavanzika kune vavanofambidzana navo?
MB : “Kutaura nezvekunetseka kwako pakuva nemwana kuri kutaura nezvazvo Zvepabonde. Vamwe vakaroorana vachabudirira nehama, vamwe zvishoma. Chero zvazvingava, haina kusimba nekuti kutaura kwevaunganidzi dzimwe nguva kunonetsa. Shamwari hadzizive zvese zvese zvekuongororwa, kuomesesa kwemaitiro acho, uye havazive kuti kurwadza kuri kuita vaviri. “Rega kufunga nezvazvo, zvinongouya zvoga, zvese zviri mumusoro!”… Nepo zvisingaite nekuti PMA inopinda muhupenyu hwemazuva ese. Tisingatauri zviziviso zve pamuviri uye kuberekwa kunonaya kunonaya vakaroorana uye kunosimbisa kunzwa kwokusaruramisira: “Nei vamwe vachizviita kwete isu?” “
Ndiani murwendo rwekubatsirwa kubereka anogona kubatsira vaviri vacho kukunda matambudziko?
MB : “Mungave muchipatara kana kuti mukubvunzana kwakavanzika, tsigiro yea mupfungwa wepfungwa kana chiremba wepfungwa haangopiwi pakarepo. Zvisinei, zvinobvumira vakaroorana kuti vave nemunhu wekutaura kuti vataure nezverwendo rwavo, tariro yavo, kusava nechokwadi kwavo, kukundikana kwavo. PMA inopa mukana we " patanichikamu “. Vakaroorana vanoda kutsigirwa nhanho dzose dzenzira. Vanobva vapinda mupinyi wepfungwa chaiwo. Uye vanofanira kuzvibvunza mibvunzo isingatariswe nevamwe vakaroorana panguva yekuzvitakura. Vanozviratidzira ivo pachavo, vanozviisa ivo pachavo kwenguva refu. Somuenzaniso, zvokuita kana 4th kuedza IVF (yekupedzisira kudzoserwa neSocial Security muFrance) inotadza, ungavaka sei ramangwana rako usina vana? Ndinokurudzira zvikuru kubvunza nyanzvi yakajaira nyaya dzekushaya mbereko. Zvidzidzo zvishoma zvingakwana. “
Kubatsirwa kubereka kunoita kuti vamwe vakaroorana vaparadzane here?
MB : “Sezvineiwo izvi zvinoitika. Zvose zvinoenderana nekusimba kwezvigadziko zvevaviri pakutanga. Asi zvakare nzvimbo ye chirongwa chekuzvarwa mukati mevaviri. Ipurojekiti yevanhu vaviri here, kana kuti ipurojekiti yakawanda yemunhu? Asi vamwe vanokunda chipingamupinyi chacho, vanokwanisa kutarisana nezvinorwadza, kuzvivandudza vamene. Izvo zvine chokwadi ndezvekuti hazviwanikwe ne "kuisa kutambura kwese pasi pekapeti".
Uye zvinopesana neizvo munhu angafunga, njodzi dzekuparadzana dziripowo mushure me kuberekwa yemwana. Mamwe matambudziko anomuka (ayo vabereki vese vanofanira kukunda), ronda renarcissistic rinoramba riripo, vamwe vakaroorana vanopera simba mumatambudziko avo. hupenyu hwepabonde. Mwana haagadzirise zvese. Nzira yakanakisisa yekudzivisa njodzi yekusanzwisisana kwenguva refu: tauriranai, fambai mumatanho pamwe chete, musagara pachedu mukurwadziwa. “