PSYchology

Tinowanzovatsoropodza nekuda kwekusava nehanya, nungo, hucheche, kushaya dzidzo, kushaya tsika, hupenyu hwakanaka. Uye vanozviona sei - avo vava nemakore 16-26? Ramangwana richange rakaita sei kana vanhu ava vazvisarudzira? Pamusoro peizvi - "kuongorora" kwedu.

Shanduko yezvizvarwa haigoni kuva nerunyararo: kana vakunda chete madzibaba avo, vana vanowana kodzero yekutora nzvimbo yavo. Vabereki vari kugadzirira kurwira simba, vachiedza kuona muvana vavo zvinhu zveBazarovs itsva. “Zviratidze,” vanodaro. "Ratidza kuti wakangwara, wakasimba, wakashinga." Uye mukupindura ivo vanonzwa: "Ndiri nani."

Iyo yaimbova "isina kuvhurika" chizvarwa cheDecembrists haina kungokunda Napoleon, asiwo yakapikisa tsar. Chizvarwa chekutanga mushure meSoviet chinoratidzika kunge chakapfuura mukana wayo wenhoroondo.

Panzvimbo penhetembo dzakajeka - rap rap uye kutevedzera Brodsky. Panzvimbo pezvakagadzirwa - zvezuva rimwe nharembozha. Panzvimbo yemapato uye manifestos, kune mapoka eVKontakte. Vazhinji vemazuva ano vane makore makumi maviri vakafanana nechikoro chesekondari "vakachenjera", vakagadzirira kuva nemakakatanwa maduku nevadzidzisi, asi kwete kuchinja nyika.

Pano neapo unogona kunzwa kugunun'una kwevakuru: vacheche, "shkolota"! Vari kuparadza zvakarwiwa nemadzitateguru avo uye vakatambura nhamo. Havana kudzidza kuda uye kuzvipira. Sarudzo yavo iripo iri pakati peApple ne Android. Basa ravo kuenda kutemberi kunobata Pokemon.

Kufunganya kunosanganiswa nekuregeredza: ko kana hondo, nzara, kushaikwa kwemabasa? Hongu, ivo, zvichida, vacharonga Chernobyl itsva, vachizadza dashboard ne cappuccino kubva mukapu yekadhibhodhi.

Vatsoropodzi havaneti nokuratidza kuzviparadzanisa nevamwe: “Kana une flash drive ine ruzivo rwose rwenyika, unogona here kuvaka dumba musango kana kucheka appendix yako kana pasina chiremba pedyo?” Asi hatisi kuwedzerera here? Uipi hwouduku hune zvahwaikanganisa here? Ngatiedzei kuzvinzwisisa.

Ivo vatengi! Asi, vanoedza

Apo nyanzvi yepfungwa yokuAmerica Abraham Maslow akaumba dzidziso yake yezvinodikanwa, iyo vateveri vake vakapa muchimiro chepiramidhi, Kuderera Kukuru Kwoupfumi kwakanga kuchipisa muUnited States. Vashoma vaigona kusvika pamusoro «pasi», ndiko kuti, zvikuru yepamusoro zvinodiwa.

MuRussia, dambudziko rakawedzera. Zvizvarwa zvakakura zvine kushomeka uye kusava nechokwadi kuti izvo zvakawanwa zvinogona kuchengetedzwa zvakangwarira uye zvinokoshesa zvine mwero. Vechidiki vanoedza kusvika pane zvose, kuedza zvose, vanoita sevasina musoro kwavari.

Uyezve, pauriri hwepamusoro hwe "piramidhi" pane kwete zvemweya chete, asiwo zvenyama zvinodiwa. Semuenzaniso, kudiwa kwekuwirirana kwepabonde (uye kwete kungogutsikana kwekukwezva), zvinofadza zvekudya uye mamwe mafaro enyama. Vechidiki vakava pickier uye vakanzi hedonists.

Asi kurarama muzvizhinji hakurevi hako kukurumidza kubva pane chimwe chiitiko chakajeka kuenda kune chimwe. Kudzungaira ne "supermarket yemanzwiro", vechidiki vanodzidza kuziva yavo.

“Pazera ramakore 16, ndakatanga kufambidzana nomumwe murume muduku,” anoyeuka kudaro Alexandra ane makore 22 okukura. - Ndakanyungudika zvachose mairi: zvakaratidzika kwandiri kuti iyi ndiyo nzira iyo rudo runofanira kuva - "mweya kumweya", sasekuru nasekuru vangu. Takatanga kugara tese. Handina chandakaita ndakangogara ndakamirira kuti auye kubva kubasa. Ndakazviona sezvinoreva kuvapo.

Ipapo ndakaona kuti ndine zvandinoda, ndakatanga kupa nguva yakawanda yekudzidza, ndakawana basa, ndakatanga kuenda kune imwe nzvimbo neshamwari pasina iye. Pane vanhu vaindinakira, rudo rusingaite.

Ndakaona kuti ndaida kusvirana pachena. Zvakanga zvakaoma kuti mumwe wangu abvume izvi, asi takataura zvakawanda pamusoro pezvakaitika zvedu uye takasarudza kusaenda. Iye zvino tave nemakore matanhatu tiri tese ... Zvakazoitika kuti mune iyi fomati tese takagadzikana.

Vane nungo! Kana kusarudza?

"Kusununguka, kusingaunganidzwe, kusati kwakura" - mapurofesa ekuyunivhesiti, varairidzi nevashandirwi havarembere pamashoko akashata. Dambudziko remukati-kati rinoonekwawo nevaya vanotukwa.

"Kare, pamakumi maviri nemaviri, vanhu vanga vatokura," Elena ane makore makumi maviri nemana anoratidza. - Yakanga isiri tsika yekuzvitsvaga iwe kwenguva yakareba - waifanira kutanga mhuri, kuwana basa, kusimuka. Zvino isu tinopa mahara kuzvishuvo, tinoedza kutsvedza munguva dzinofinha uye dzisingafadzi. Pamusana pemamiriro evabereki vavo, vechidiki vanova vatatu nekusingaperi uye nhungirwa.

"Vabereki vanoonekwa nevana ve90s semagamba makuru - ane simba, anokwanisa kutsungirira matambudziko," anodaro psychotherapist Marina Slinkova. - Hupenyu hwavo hwaive nhevedzano yekukunda: kuda kana kusada, iwe unofanirwa kuve wakasimba. Asi vabereki vakapona, kusimba kwekuchiva kwakadonha, zvese zvatovepo zvekufara. Vana vakafemerwa: ikozvino hapana chiri kukumisa, enda mberi!

Asi apa ndipo apo "reach-machine" inokundikana. Pakarepo zvinoitika kuti nokuda kwe "advanced level" mitemo yevabereki haichashandi. Uye dzimwe nguva vanotopinda munzira.

"Muenzaniso wekufamba zvishoma nezvishoma kune kubudirira wakakuvadzwa," anodaro Validata vezvemagariro evanhu vakadzidza mararamiro e "vana ve90s". Kukunda muOlympiad uye diploma tsvuku inogona kuramba iri kukunda kukuru.

"Uye ndizvo zvese?" anofemesa munhu ane hunyanzvi apedza kudzidza nekuodzwa mwoyo, uyo anopihwa kutengesa zviroto zvake nechigaro chakasununguka mushongwe yekambani. Asi zvakadini nevaya vanochinja nyika?

Zvichida zvinotora zvinopfuura zvidzidzo zvakadzidzwa zvakanaka? Uye kana ndisina izvi, saka zvakachengeteka kuramba uchingori mutauriri anonakidza uye ari “ane ruzivo” amateur, pasina kupinda mumakwikwi anorwadza, uko kune njodzi yekuona kuti uri mediocrity.

Vane rough! Uye zvakadaro panjodzi

Trolling, kushandiswa kwese kwese kwekutuka, kuda kuseka chero zano uye kushandura chero chinhu kuita meme - zvinoita sekunge chizvarwa chemapiyona etiweki chinoshaya kunzwira uye kugona kunzwira tsitsi.

Asi nyanzvi yecyberpsychologist Natalia Bogacheva anoona mufananidzo wacho zvakasiyana: "Trolls hadzisi iyo yakawanda pakati pevashandisi, uye kazhinji vanhu vanojaira kunyengedza, narcissism uye psychopathy. Uyezve, nharaunda yepamhepo inowanzova nzvimbo yaunogona kuwana rubatsiro rwepfungwa.

Tinoona mienzaniso apo vashandisi vanobatana kubatsira mumwe munhu, kuwana vanhu vasipo, kudzorera kururamisira. Pamwe tsitsi dzinoshanda zvakasiyana kuchizvarwa chino, asi haugoni kutaura kuti hachipo.”

Zvakadini netsika yokukurukurirana kure? Zvinotadzisa vechidiki kunzwisisana here?

“Hongu, reshiyo yezvikamu zvekutaura nezvisiri zvemashoko zviri kuchinja; tiri kure, tinonzwisisa zvakanyanya manzwiro ari kusangana neanopindirana, "anoenderera mberi Natalia Bogacheva. - Asi isu tinodzidza kucherekedza izvo uye nekuzvidudzira: isa chiso chinonyemwerera kana kwete, kunyangwe paine doti pakupera kwemeseji. Zvese izvi zvine basa uye zvinopa mazano. "

Mutoo wekurukurirano wepwere unoratidzika kuva usina kunaka uye wakaoma kumunhu ane mwoyo panzvimbo pa“Ndinoda” asingafungiki. Asi mutauro mhenyu unochinja nehupenyu.

Vakapararira! Asi vanochinjika

Ivo vanochinja nyore kubva kune imwe kuenda kune imwe: ivo vanotsenga sandwich, kuronga musangano mune mutumwa uye vateedzere zvigadziriso pamasocial network, zvese zvakafanana. Chiitiko checlip consciousness chave chichinetsa vabereki nevadzidzisi kwenguva yakareba.

Izvo hazvisati zvanyatsojeka kuti tingadzivisa sei kutsauswa nguva dzose, kana isu zvino tichigara mune dutu uye heterogeneous ruzivo runoyerera.

Maererano naNatalia Bogacheva, "chizvarwa chedigital" chinonyatsofunga zvakasiyana kunyange pamwero wehutano hwemunhu mumwe nomumwe: "Dzimwe nguva vangada kuisa pfungwa pane chimwe chinhu, asi havakwanisi."

Uye kune avo vakura, hazvisi pachena kuti ungaita sei zvinhu zvitatu panguva imwe chete. Uye zvinoratidzika kuti gaka iri richakura chete - chizvarwa chinotevera chiri munzira, icho chisingazivi nzira yekufamba nayo nzvimbo isina mamepu eGoogle uye kuti ungararama sei pasina kutaurirana nenyika yose kamwechete.

Nekudaro, muzana ramakore rechiXNUMX BC. e. muzivi Plato akatsamwira chokwadi chokuti nekuuya kwekunyora, takarega kuvimba nendangariro uye takava "sham-wise." Asi mabhuku akapa vanhu kukurumidza kuendeswa kwezivo uye kuwedzera kwedzidzo. Unyanzvi hwekuverenga hwakaita kuti tichinjane pfungwa, kuwedzera maonero edu.

Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinocherekedza muvanhu vechidiki kuchinjika kwepfungwa, kugona kufambisa mafambiro eruzivo, kuwedzera kwekushanda ndangariro uye kutarisisa nguva, uye tsika yekuita zvakawanda. Vanyori vemabhuku pamusoro pekubudirira vanokurudzira vanhu vemazuva ano kuti varege kuchema kukwanisa kufa, asi kuti vateerere zvakanyanya kumimhanzi ye "digital revolution" uye kufamba nenguva nayo.

Somuenzaniso, mugadziri wokuAmerica anonzi Marty Neumeyer anodavira kuti munguva apo masimba epfungwa achakamurwa pakati peuropi nomuchina, unyanzvi hwokuita zvakasiyana-siyana huchadiwa.

Yakagadziridzwa intuition uye fungidziro, kugona kukurumidza kuunganidza mufananidzo wakakura kubva kune dzakasiyana data, kuona hunoshanda hunogona hwemazano uye kuongorora nzvimbo nyowani - izvi ndizvo izvo vechidiki, mumaonero ake, vanofanira kutanga kudzidza.

Ivo vatsoropodzi here? Kwete, mahara

"Pfungwa dzakadonha, sezvakaita zvinangwa zvakatakurwa nemagamba ezana ramakore rechiXNUMX," anonyora mudzidzi Slava Medov, mushandisi weTheQuestion. -Usazviita gamba nekupa muviri wako mudiki. Munhu wemazuva ano haazooni ichi sechiito chaDanko. Ndiani anoda moyo wako kana paine tochi kubva ku «Gadzirisa Mutengo»?

Apoliticality uye kusada kugadzira chirongwa chakanaka kunopomerwa hipsters, iyo huru yevechidiki subculture yemakore achangopfuura. Vane makore makumi maviri vane makore anenge asina tsitsi dzezvematongerwo enyika, asi kune kunzwisisa kwakafanana kwemiganhu yavakagadzirira kudzivirira, nyanzvi yezvematongerwo enyika Anna Sorokina anoti.

Iye nevamwe vake vakabvunzurudza vadzidzi vanobva kumayunivhesiti eRussia XNUMX. "Takabvunza mubvunzo: "Chii chichaita kuti hupenyu hwako husagadzikana?" anoti. "Pfungwa yekubatanidza yaive kusabvumidzwa kwekupindira muhupenyu hwemunhu uye tsamba, kudzikisira kupinda paInternet."

Muzivi wekuAmerica, Jerrold Katz akafanotaura kare pakati pemakore ekuma90s kuti kupararira kweInternet kwaizogadzira tsika itsva yakavakirwa pahunhu hwemunhu pane hutungamiriri.

"Iyo chete pfungwa huru yetsika yenharaunda itsva ichave rusununguko rweruzivo. Pane kudaro, munhu wese anoedza kuisa ruoko rwake pane izvi anonyumwira - hurumende, makambani, masangano ezvitendero, masangano edzidzo uye kunyange vabereki, "muzivi anotenda.

Zvichida ichi ndicho chinonyanya kukosha chechizvarwa «pasina mambo mumusoro» - rusununguko rwekuva ani zvake uye kusanyara narwo? Iva munjodzi, edza, shandura, gadzira hupenyu hwako usingatarise chiremera. Uye kumukira uye "mapurojekiti makuru ekuvaka", kana iwe uchifunga nezvazvo, munhu wese atozara.

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