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Iyo psychology yekushaya mbereko: 4 zvikonzero nei pasina nhumbu, uye zvekuita
Kana vaviri vakaroora vanga vachirota zvemwana kweinopfuura gore, uye vanachiremba vachikwenya chete mapendekete avo, chikonzero chekusavapo kwepamuviri chingangodaro chiri mumusoro wevabereki venguva yemberi.
Kuongororwa kwe "kushaya mbereko" munyika medu kunoitwa mukushayikwa kwepamuviri mushure megore rehupenyu hwepabonde pasina kubata pamuviri. Maererano nehuwandu, muRussia kuongororwa uku kuri mumamiriyoni matanhatu evakadzi nevarume mamirioni mana.
- Zvinotaridza kuti mushonga wemazuvano wasvika padanho zvekuti dambudziko rekushaya mbereko rinofanirwa kuve chinhu chekare. Asi munhu haasi mutumbi chete, asiwo psyche, yakanyatsobatana nenhengo yega yega - - vanoti vanoongorora nezvepfungwa Dina Rumyantseva naMarat Nurullin, vanyori vehurongwa hwepfungwa dzekushaya mbereko. - Uyezve, maererano nehuwandu, 5-10% yevakadzi vanoonekwa kuti vane idiopathic kushaya mbereko, ndiko kuti, kusavapo kwezvikonzero zvehutano.
Kune akati wandei mabhuroko epfungwa ayo mukadzi asingakwanise kurarama nawo ari ega, kunyangwe akagwinya mumuviri kana kurapwa zvakachengeteka nachiremba. Zvakavanzika zvakavanzika zvakavanzika zvakanyanya uye, sekutonga, hazvitombo zadzikiswa.
Kana vanachiremba vachikwenya mapendekete avo uye vasingaone chikonzero, unogona kunge uine chimwe chezvinhu izvi.
Kutya kubereka. Kana mukadzi achitya kurwadziwa nekuvhunduka, saka huropi, kuita kune uku kutya, hakubvumidze kubata. Ichi chimiro chepfungwa chakabatana nezvakamboita zvirwere, kukuvara uye mashandiro. Muchiitiko ichi, zvakakosha kuti uzive kuti marwadzo ekushanda ndeemuviri, inokurumidza kukanganikwa kana zvese zvapera.
Kutya kuva mubereki. Sezvo mutemo, seri kwekutya uku kune kudzvinyirirwa kusada kwemukadzi kuwana vana, sezvo iye asinganzwe akagadzirira kuve amai. Midzi iri mumhuri yake. Nekushanda kuburikidza nematambudziko ehudiki pazera diki, kutarisisa maitiro nezve zvazvinoreva kuva amai, uye kutya kuchapera.
Kusava nechokwadi mune mumwe wako. Constant neurosis muhukama ibwe risingabvumike pakuzvara. Kana mukadzi achigara achipa mumwe wake mhosva yekusabereka kwehukama nekuda kwekuti iye haagamuchire mhedzisiro kubva kumubatanidzwa kana kubva mukusavimba, kushushikana kwese kunofanirwa kubviswa. Mune ino kesi, mukadzi anoda kuita sarudzo yakasimba: anonyatsoda mwana kubva kumurume waasingavimbe naye.
Basa. Kuzvara mumukadzi kunogona kuratidza kuti, kunyangwe kuziviswa kwekunze, muchokwadi haadi kana kutya kusiya tsika yekuita basa kuti arege kurasikirwa nechinzvimbo chakanaka kana mukana wekuenderera mberi. Ichi chiitiko chinotove chine zita - basa rekushaya mbereko. Maonero ekuziva kune ako ehupenyu hwekutanga zvinogona kuita kuti zvinhu zvifambe.
Ko kana iwe ukazviziva iwe pachinyorwa ichi?
Tsvaga rubatsiro kubva kune wepfungwa. Izvo zvakaoma kuumbiridza yakazara katalog yevakadzi phobias iyo inopesana nepamuviri. Uye zvakare, inogona kuve imwe kana akati wandei, seyakaiswa imwe pamusoro peimwe. Naizvozvo, iro basa repfungwa nachiremba ndere kugadzirisa mafungire asina kunaka uye zvishoma nezvishoma kusvika zviyo zvechinetso.
- Iine nerubatsiro rwezviitiko zvedu, izvo zvakaumbwa pahwaro hwekugona kwakanyanya kwemishonga yekuberekesa yepasi rese, zvinokwanisika kugadzirisa matambudziko ekushomeka dzimwe nguva muzvitatu, uye dzimwe nguva muzvikamu gumi. Sezvo mutemo, nhumbu inowanzoitika mukati megore kubva pakutanga kwebasa. Kwemakore gumi ekudzidzira kwedu muKazan zvepfungwa nzvimbo "White Kamuri" 70% yevakaroora vakakumbira rubatsiro vakava vabereki, "anodaro Marat Nurullin. - Isu tinonyatso shandisa matanda ese epfungwa dzevanhu uye tinoaenzanisa. Nekuda kweizvozvo, kuongororwa kwe "idiopathic infertility" kunobviswa.
Unogona kuzvibata iwe pachako here?
Zvichida kurudziro huru, kana zvese zvakanaka kubva pakuona kwekurapa, uye nhumbu isingaitike, ndeyekumira kunzwa senge akabatwa nemamiriro ezvinhu. Mukadzi, asingatombo fungidzira, padanho rekuziva anopa kumisikidza kumuviri: hapana chikonzero, mira zvishoma, hazvikoshe, munhu asiriye, nguva isiri iyo. Izvo zvakaoma kwazvo kuzvimiririra kuzvimirira mumusoro chishuwo chekuva nemwana uye kusada kuzvishandura pachako nehupenyu. Naizvozvo, iko kubatsira kwepfungwa kunogona kugadzirisa mamiriro ezvinhu anopokana.
Uye danho rekutanga mukuzvishandira iwe pachako rinogona kunge riri kuburitsa rako rechikadzi. Shanda kuburikidza nekutya kuve wakashata mune zvese, mune chero basa. Tenda mukufunga: "Ini ndiri mubereki akanakisa kumwana wangu chaiye, akanakisa kwandiri." Kushanda kuburikidza nemamiriro ezvinhu anorwadza kubva paudiki zvakare kunopa hombe zviwanikwa, kuvhura rutsigiro kubva kune mumwe wako, shamwari uye hama. Uye kunyangwe izvi zvichingova zvimedu zvoga, zvinogona kuumba hwaro hwenyaya izere nezve kuberekwa kwemunhu mutsva.