Kazhinji tinonzwa nezve “girazi remvura” kubva kuhama neshamwari vasingakwanisi kumirira kusvikira tava nevana. Sokunge chikonzero chega chekuzvarwa kwavo girazi remvura mukukwegura. Asi vanhu vashoma vanoziva kuti chirevo ichi chiri pamusoro petsitsi, nezvetsitsi, nezvehukama hwepamweya.
"Nei tichida vana?" - "Kupa mumwe munhu girazi remvura mukukwegura!" uchenjeri hwevanhu hunopindura. Izwi rake rine ruzha zvekuti dzimwe nguva haritibvumiri isu (vese vabereki nevana) kunzwa mhinduro yedu pachedu kumubvunzo wabvunzwa.
“Girazi remvura rinotaurwa nezvaro rakanga riri rutivi rwetsika yokuonekana nayo mutsika yokuRussia: raiiswa pamusoro womunhu akanga achifa kuitira kuti mweya ugezwe ndokuenda,” anodaro murapi wendangariro wemhuri Igor Lyubachevsky, “uye yairatidzira kwete zvikuru kwazvo. rubatsiro rwemuviri sechiratidzo chetsitsi, sarudzo yekuva pedyo nemunhu mumaawa ekupedzisira ehupenyu hwake. Hatipesani netsitsi, asi nei kutaura uku kuchiwanzokonzera kushatirwa?
1. Dzvinyiriro yokubereka nayo
Aya mazwi, anotaurirwa kune vakaroorana vechidiki, anoratidza nenzira yekufananidzira kudiwa kwekuve nemwana, pasinei nokuti vane chido chakadaro uye mukana, murapi wemhuri anopindura. - Panzvimbo yekukurukurirana kwechokwadi - cliché inoda. Hazvina kana kujeka kwazvinobva! Asi pwere dzinoratidzika kuva dzinofanira kuteerera. Chirevo chegirazi remvura chinodzikisira vavariro dzevangangove vabereki uye chinova chiratidzo chemhirizhonga yekuzvara. Uye, semhirizhonga chero ipi zvayo, ichakonzera kurambwa uye kupikisa pane kubvumirana.
2. Pfungwa yebasa
Ichi chirevo chinowanzoita basa remhuri. “Iwe ndiwe uchandipa girazi remvura pakuchembera kwangu!” — shoko rakadaro rinoita kuti mwana ave nhapwa yemunhu mukuru. Muchokwadi, iyi ndiyo yakavharwa hurongwa "raramira ini", Igor Lyubachevsky inoshandura "kubva kuvabereki kuenda kuRussia". Ndiani achakwanisa kufara muidi rokuti iye akatongerwa kugovera zvinodikanwa zvomumwe, uye kunyange “mukuru”?
3. Chiyeuchidzo chorufu
Chimwe chisingaoneki, asi chikonzero chisingakoshi chemafungiro asina kunaka kune "girazi remvura mukukwegura" ndeyokuti nzanga yemazuva ano inozeza kuyeuka kuti hupenyu hahuna magumo. Uye izvo zvatinoedza kunyarara pamusoro pazvo zvakazara nekutya, ngano uye, hongu, stereotypes, iyo inotsiviwa nehurukuro yakananga yedambudziko.
Asi chinetso hachiendi: kubva pane imwe nguva, vakuru vedu vanoda kutarisirwa uye panguva imwe chete vanotya kushaya simba kwavo. Kuvira nehasha, kudada, kuhwihwidza uye kushatirwa zvinoperekedza vatori vechikamu mumutambo uyu.
Mumwe nomumwe wavo anova nhapwa kune stereotype pamusoro pegirazi remvura: vamwe vari kumirira, vamwe vanoita sevanosungirwa kupa iyo painoda uye pasina vamiririri.
“Kuchembera kwevabereki panguva imwe cheteyo kukura kwevana. Hutungamiri hwemhuri huri kuchinja: tinoita setinofanira kuva vabereki kuna amai vedu nemadzibaba, - chiremba wepfungwa anotsanangura maitiro emakakatanwa. - Avo vatakafunga kuti vakasimba, kamwe kamwe vanova "vaduku", vanoshaya.
Vasina ruzivo rwavo pachavo uye vachivimba nemitemo yevanhu, vana vanozvipa kutarisira uye kukanganwa nezvezvavanoda. Vabereki vangapikisa kana "kurembera" pamwana kuitira kuti vagoverane naye kusurukirwa uye kutya rufu. Vose vari vaviri vanoneta, uyewo vanovanza uye kudzvinyirira kutsamwa kune mumwe nemumwe.
Tinopfupikisa
Munhu wese ane zvaanotya, kurwadziwa kwake. Tingabatsirana sei uye kuchengeta rudo munguva yekushandurwa kwechinzvimbo? “Hazvifanirwe kupedza nguva yako yese uri padivi pemubhedha wehama kana kugadzirisa nyaya dzekurapa wega. Vana nevabereki vanogona kusarudza miganhu yekugona kwavo uye kupa chikamu chebasa kune nyanzvi. Uye kuva kune mumwe nemumwe chete rudo, vanhu vepedyo, "anopedzisa Igor Lyubachevsky.