Mukati
Nzira yekuzivisa sei pamuviri wako?
"Pamuviri + mavhiki matatu". Pamiyedzo mitsva, izwi rave kuratidzwa zvakazara, sekunge kupa chokwadi chakawanda kune izvo kusvika panguva iyoyo zvaingova "zvichida". Kune avo vakaverenga ma cycles nemoyo murefu, vakawedzera tembiricha curves, uye kune avo vane nhumbu yakaitika "netsaona" vasina kunyatsoda. Kutanga chaiko kwenhumbu kune nhoroondo yayo. Mukadzi anofunga kuti ane pamuviri angangonzwa, kunyange kusati kwanonoka kuenda kumwedzi, kuchinja mumuviri wake: kunzwa kunhuhwirira kwakapinza, mazamu akasimba… Asi pasinei nezvose, kune vazhinji vavo, zvinoda kusimbiswa. bvunzo kana maonero ekurapa kuti akwanise kunyatsotaura kuti: “Ndine pamuviri”. “Zvakangofanana nechiziviso chengirozi Gabrieri”, anotsanangura kudaro Myriam Szejer *, chiremba wepfungwa uye chiremba wepfungwa dzevana. «Shoko rekurapa rinoisa mukadzi pamberi pechokwadi chemimba yake. Haakwanisi kusava nechokwadi, kushamisika: mwana akarota anova kongiri. “ Amai vemangwana dzimwe nguva vanonzwa kutya panguva imwe chete nemufaro. Dzimwe nguva anonzwa aine mhosva pamusoro pekuva nekunzwa kusinganzwisisiki. Nokuda kwomuongorori wepfungwa, pane musiyano pakati penzvero inoitwa pachivande chemba, neicho cherabhoritari: “Sezvo rabhoritari inotoziva nezvepamuviri uye ichikusimbisa, iyi bvunzo inonyoresa mwana munzanga. . Kune rumwe rutivi, apo amai vemangwana vanozviita pamba, vanogona kusarudza kuchengeta chakavanzika. »Izvi zvinotogadzira vertigo: zvekuita neruzivo urwu? Fonera baba vamangwana ipapo kana kumuudza zvakawanda gare gare? Kufonera mai vake kana shamwari yake yepamoyo? Imwe neimwe inosarudza maererano nenhoroondo yayo, zvido zvayo panguva iyoyo.
Murume anozvigadzira sababa
Hazvisi nyore nguva dzose kuchengeta ruzivo kwauri kwenguva yakareba. Emilie, nguva dzose dziri mbiri, akaudza murume wake norunhare, pashure pokunge aita bvunzo muzvimbuzi zvekambani yake kuti: “Ndakanga ndichikurumidza zvikuru kumirira kusvikira manheru. Pamimba yangu yechipiri, ndakatora bvunzo, ndichiri kuhofisi, izvo zvakaratidza kuti hazvina kunaka. Ndakafonera Paul ndichimuzivisa, ndakaziva kuti aizopererwa. Akati kwandiri, “Hazvina kunaka, zvisinei, haisi nguva yakanaka. “Hafu yeawa gare gare, Émilie anodaidza murume wake kuti adzoke nekuti bhawa yechipiri yepingi yabuda:” Unoyeuka here pawakandiudza kuti yanga isiri nguva chaiyo? Zvakanaka, chaizvoizvo, ndine pamuviri! ”
Madiki akaiswa slippers, akaiswa uye akapihwa bvunzo, pacifier kana teddy bear yakaiswa papiro, chiziviso kuna baba venguva yemberi chinogona kurongwa. Virginie, somuenzaniso, akapa ultrasound yake yokutanga chaiyo kumudiwa wake, pamavhiki matanhatu e<em>amenorrhea: “Akatora nguva yakati kuti anzwisise, ipapo akati kwandiri:” Uri kutarisira mwana “uye ipapo, misodzi yake. yakasimuka pameso. ” Paanoziva nezvenhumbu yemumwe wake, murume anogona kupedzisira azviratidza sababa. Kuitira kuti amai kana vakanzwa zviratidzo kana kunonoka kutevera, vawane nguva yekuzvigadzirira. Nokudaro, vamwe vanababa venguva yemberi vanoramba vakakatyamadzwa. François haana kutaura shoko paakawana muedzo. Akaenda kunorara nokukurumidza pashure pacho, mumaziso eshamwari yake yainetseka, nepo aida uyu mwana sezvaanoita: “Chiziviso kuna baba chinyongano chaicho,” anopfuurira kudaro Myriam Szejer. "Inounganidza zvinhu zvakasimba zvisingazive. Dzimwe nguva zvinotora nguva shoma kuti vamwe vanababa vanzwe nhau uye vagokwanisa kufara nazvo. “
Verenga zvakare: Vanhu: 15 zvechokwadi zviziviso zvepamuviri zvepakutanga
Kuudza mhuri, kune mumwe nemumwe wavo!
Nhumbu imwe neimwe yakasiyana uye inonzwika nenzira yayo pachayo mumhuri. Yasmine akati: “Ndini dangwe mumhuri huru. Ndakakumbira mhuri yangu kuti vaungane uye ndikaita rwendo. Vanhu vose pavakanga vakaungana patafura, ndakazivisa kuti taizova nomuenzi mumwe chete. Ndakadzoka ne Ultrasound yangu ndiri munzvimbo hombe ndikazivisa kuti vaizova vana sekuru namainini. Vanhu vese vakatanga kusheedzera nemufaro. “Edith akamirirawo kuti mhuri yake ibatanezve pazuva rokuberekwa kwababa vake rechi50:” Pandakasvika pakudya, ndakaudza amai vangu kuti posvo akanga akanganisa uye akanga anditumira tsamba. izvo zvakaitirwa ivo. Ndakanga ndanyora kadhi sekunge mwana ari kuzivisa kuuya kwake: “Maswera sei Sekuru naAmbuya, ndiri kuuya muna February. “Misodzi yakabuda mumaziso ake, amai vangu ndokudanidzira kuti” Hachisi chokwadi! “, Vakabva vapa kadhi kuna baba vangu, ndokuzopa ambuya vangu … Munhu wese akabva apa mufaro wavo. , yaibaya mwoyo. ”
Céline, akasarudza kusimudza amai vake achangoburuka muchitima: “Takazivisa amai vangu nehanzvadzi yangu nezvepamuviri pangu pekutanga nokuenda kunovamirira pachiteshi nemasaini, nezvetekisi pavanenge vakamirira. vanhu. , patakanga tanyora kuti "Mbuya Nicole naTata Mimi". Mushure mekushamisika, vakakurumidza kuona kana mudziyo wangu watotenderedzwa! Laure, kumwana wake wekutanga, akange asarudza emhando yepamusoro "Papy Brossard" uye "Café Grand-Mère", iyo yaakatumira mumapasuru kuvabereki vake. “Kwaive kuseka mumhuri. Takakura neichi chiziviso chekofi apo baba vechidiki vanozivisa kuna amai vake kuti achava mbuya. Vabereki vangu ndainge ndavavimbisa kuti musi wavachaita muzukuru wavo wekutanga taivatumira. “Kunze kwokuti pavakagamuchira pasuru yacho, sekuru naambuya vaisanzwisisa nokukurumidza kuti nei mwanasikana wavo akanga avatumira zvokudya! “Baba ndivo vakatozotsanangurira amai kuti sei vaiwana izvi! Laure anoyeuka achiseka. Kuna Myriam Szejer, kuzivisa nezve nhumbu kuvabereki vake kwakakosha, nekuti inodzosera kumashure chizvarwa chebhokisi rimwe, ichivaswededza pedyo nerufu. : “Zvinogona kuoma kugara navo. Vamwe mbuya vamangwana vanotya kuchembera. Vamwe vakadzi dzimwe nguva vanova vasina kuroorwa, kana kuti vakabereka. Vanozviwana vava mumakwikwi nemwanasikana wavo chaivo. “
Ndoudza sei vakuru?
Apo patova nevana vakura mumhuri, dzimwe nguva "vanonzwa" kuti amai vavo vane pamuviri, kunyange ivo pachavo vasati vaziva! Izvi ndizvo zvakaitika kuna Anne, kumwana wake wechipiri. “Mwanasikana wangu ane makore maviri nechidimbu akatanga kuita weti zvakare mubhurugwa rake mushure mekunge agara akachena kwemwedzi yakawanda. Ndakabva ndangobatanidza nyaya yekuti ndaifunga kuti ndine pamuviri. Apo, nababa vake, patakataura naye, akabva angomira. Zvaiita sokuti zvakanga zvamusimbisa kuti taitaura naye nezvazvo. Myriam Szejer anosimbisa kuti izvi zvinoitika kazhinji: “Mwana muduku, anokurumidza kunzwisisa zviri kuitika mudumbu ramai vake. Inonzi pacifier test. Mwana anowana pacifier yakakanganwa pane imwe nzvimbo mumba, anoiisa mumuromo make uye anoramba kuparadzana nayo, kunyange zvazvo akanga asina kumboda imwe kare. Dzimwe nguva vana vanovanza makusheni pasi pejuzi ravo, kunyange zvazvo amai vavo pachavo vasina kuziva nezvemimba yavo. “ Tinofanira kutaura nezvazvo nokukurumidza zvakadaro kumwana anzwisisa zvinhu here? Nyanzvi yepfungwa inotsanangura kuti chinhu chiri chose chinotsamira pamwana: “Kwandiri kunoratidzika kuva kunoremekedza zvikuru kutaura nezvazvo naye, zvikurukuru kana akaratidza zviratidzo zvokuti anzwisisa. Tinogona kubva taisa mazwi kune maonero ayo. Saka, kunyange asati aberekwa, mwana wemangwana atova nenyaya, zvichienderana nekuti takazivisa sei kusvika kwake kune avo vakamupoteredza. Nhoroondo dzatinogona kumuudza gare gare: “Unoziva, pandakaziva kuti ndaiva nepamuviri pako, hezvino zvandakaita …” Uye kuti mwana wako haambofi akaneta nokunzwa vamwe vachitaura. uye !
Verenga zvakare: Achave mukoma mukuru: kumugadzirira sei?