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Zvinorevei kuva baba nhasi?
Muongororo ichangobva kuitika ine musoro unoti "Kuva baba nhasi", yakabudiswa neUNAF muna Chikumi 2016, inoda kusvika hafu yemadzibaba vakaongororwa vakati vanozvibata "zvakasiyana" kubva kuna amai vevana vavo. Uyewo nezvababa vavo chaivo. "Vanoti vanonyanya kuteerera, kutaurirana zvakanyanya, kuva pedyo nevana vavo, zvakanyanya manzwiro, uye kuva nechekuita muchikoro chavo kupfuura zvavakanga vaitwa nababa vavo navo", inodaro kudzidza. Kumubvunzo wekuti "Baba vakanaka chii?" ", Varume vanomutsa nzira yekuve baba nekuve" kuvapo, kuteerera, nekupa nzvimbo yakachengeteka iyo vana vanogona kukura ", kana nekuva baba" vanoteerera uye vane hanya ". ongororo iyi inoburitsa nzira yekuve baba mukupokana zvachose neiyo yaitonga muma70s, pane hutongi. Chimwe chidzidzo: vanababa vakati vainyanya kutora semienzaniso… amai vavo chaivo (43%)! Hongu, kunyanya kubva kuna amai vavo chaivo kuti vaizokurudzirwa kudzidzisa vana vavo. Chimwe chidzidzo: 56% ye "vanababa vatsva" vanotenda kuti nzanga inoona basa ravo se "risina kukosha pane iro raamai". Nepo muchokwadi, chokwadi chakanyanya kuwanda.
Vana baba vaiisa mari zuva nezuva
Ongororo yacho inoratidza zvakajeka chishuvo “chakasimba” chavanababa chokubatanidzwa, kunyange kana chaizvoizvo, vari vakadzi vanopedza nguva yakapetwa kaviri nevana kupfuura varume. Chikonzero chikuru chakapiwa namadzibaba vakabvunzurudzwa inguva inopedzerwa kubasa. Vamwe vanopupura kuti: "Ndiri kwemaawa anopfuura gumi pazuva kubasa kwangu, ndisingaverenge mugwagwa uye kujairika kwemotokari", kana zvakare: "Ini ndisipo panguva yekudya kwemasikati, uye nekuda kwezvikonzero zvehunyanzvi vhiki imwe kubva paviri", inopupurira. -ivo. Humwe uchapupu, hwaMathieu, baba vaHelios muduku, ane mwedzi gumi. “Ndiri mukuru mubazi rezvekufambiswa kwemashoko rechimwe chipatara, saka ndine maawa akawanda ekushanda. Chandinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti ndivepo kumwanakomana wangu nepandinogona napo, mangwanani uye manheru. Kubva na10am kusvika na7:7 am, ndiamai vanochengeta Helios, ndobva ndatora ndomusiya na30:8 am kucreche. Ndinopedza inenge awa kuseni ndinaye. Iyi inguva yakakosha. Manheru, ndinouya kumba kuma30 manheru uye ndinomuchengeta kweawa yakanaka zvakare. Ndinomupa kugeza tichichinjana naamai, kuti tigovane zvakawanda sezvazvinogona,” anodaro.
Kubatanidza hupenyu hwehunyanzvi uye hwemhuri
Mubhuku rake rinonzi “The Big Book of New Fathers”, Eric Saban, chiremba wevana, anonyora mibvunzo 100 iyo vanababa vaduku vanozvibvunza vamene. Pakati pavo, pane izvo zvine chekuita nekuyananisa pakati pehupenyu hwehunyanzvi uye hupenyu hutsva nemucheche. Vanababa vechidiki vanoda zvakajeka kuwana kuenzana pakati pezvipingamupinyi zveunyanzvi uye sangano nemwana wavo. Mazano ekutanga kubva kuchiremba wevana: chido chekuisa miganhu yakajeka kubasa. Hapana basa muchidimbu kumba, cheka iyo nyanzvi laptop pakupera kwevhiki, usabvunzise maemail ako ehunyanzvi, muchidimbu kutema chaiko kunodiwa kuti uwane zvakanyanya kumhuri yako kunze kwemaawa ekushanda. Rimwe zano: gadzira rondedzero kubasa kuti uise pamberi penjodzi, zvinotungamira uye chii chinogona kumirira. Sokutsanangura kunoita Eric Saban: “Pakupedzisira, izvi zvinobvumira nguva yeunyanzvi kuti idzorwe zvakanaka sezvinobvira kuitira kuti isapindira muupenyu hwomunhu oga. Usazeza kugovera vamwe. Isu tinowanzo kukanganwa kuti chokwadi chekugara takaremerwa chinotungamira mukunzwa kumanikidzwa kwakasimba kweizvo zvatinofanira kuita zuva rega rega, uye kunyanya zvinotungamira kuunza basa kumba. Kuve maneja zvinoreva kuziva kuvimba nevamwe vanhu vechikwata chako. Zviri kwauri kugovera basa kune vaunoshanda navo. Pakupedzisira, tinosiya basa panguva dzakatarwa. Hongu, kunyangwe zvakaoma pakutanga, tinozvimanikidza kuvapo pamba pamwana wedu nenguva yakafanira kuti titore mukana wake,” anotsanangura kudaro.
Ita hukama hwepedyo nemwana wako
Baba vaHelios vanocherekedza nekufamba kwenguva chisungo chiri pachena nemwanakomana wavo: “Ndinoona chisungo chakati pakati pedu, kunyangwe iye zvino ari kuedza zvakanyanya, saka tinofanira kuita kuti anzwisise kuti pane mhinganidzo yekufananidzira. kwete kuyambuka. Munzira yangu yokutaura naye, ndinoedza kuva ane tariro, ndinomukurudzira, ndinomutsanangurira zvinhu, ndinomurumbidza. Ini ndinonyoresa zvizere kufamba kwedzidzo yakanaka, ”anowedzera. Sepanguva yavo yekuzorora, baba ava vanobatikana zvachose: “Kupera kwevhiki kwedu kwakanyatso kurongwa kutenderedza mwanakomana wedu Helios. Naamai, isu tiri vatatu tinoenda kune vana vanoshambira, zvakanaka! Zvadaro, mushure mokumborara uye kudya, tinoenda kunofamba naye, kana kushanyira mhuri kana shamwari. Isu tinoedza kuita kuti awane zvinhu zvakawanda zvakasiyana sezvinobvira, ”anodaro.
Kugovana kukuru kwemabasa ezuva nezuva
Ongororo yeUNAF inoratidzawo kuti vanababa ava vanopinda mumabasa emazuva ese, zvikuru pamazuva avanenge vasingashande. Kazhinji, mabasa acho achiri kugovaniswa zvakanaka: vanababa vanotora nguva yekuzorora kana kuperekedza vana vavo kumitambo, nepo vanaamai vachitarisira kudya, nguva yekurara uye kutevera kurapwa. Hapana shanduko huru ipapo. Ruzhinji rwavo (84%), zvisinei, vakazivisa kuti vaive vasina dambudziko mukuita mabasa ekurera vana. Ukuwo, kuongorora dzidzo yemwana, kuenda kunorara uye kudzora kurara ndiko kunovapa zvinetso zvikuru. "Iyo nguva yakareba yekusaenda kumba, ndipo panowedzera huwandu hwevanababa vanotaura kuti wavakaroora vakasununguka nevana kupfuura ivo hunowedzera", inodaro chidzidzo ichi. Asi kusiyana nevakadzi, havawanzofunga nezvekushanda zvishoma kuti vazviwanire. Vatsvakurudzi vakagumisa kuti uyu mubvunzo unoramba usina kupindurwa kune vakawanda vakaroorana: “Iyi inhaka here yekupatsanurwa kwetsika kwemabasa, uko baba vanoita basa romupi mukuru wezviwanikwa zvemari? Kana zvakare mhosva yekuramba kwevashandirwi kurega vanababa vachigadzirisa maawa avo ekushanda, kana hunhu hunoenderana nekusaenzana kwemuhoro uko kuri kuramba kuri muruzhinji pakati pevarume nevakadzi, ”inobvunza ongororo iyi. Mubvunzo unoramba wakavhurika.
* UNAF: National Union yeMhuri Masangano