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Ma psychotherapists akapfuma here? Ndeupi musiyano uripo pakati pechiremba wepfungwa uye chiremba wepfungwa? Clinical psychologist John Grohol anopindura mibvunzo inonyanya kufarirwa, uye isu tinowedzera mhinduro dzake, dzakagadziridzwa kune chokwadi cheRussia.
Vese vaviri vepfungwa uye psychotherapists vanogara vachinzwa mibvunzo yakawanda kubva kushamwari uye kunyange vasingazivi. Clinical psychologist John Grohol akacherechedza mashanu eakanyanya kufanana nawo. "Zvinosetsa kuti mibvunzo yese iyi inongouya nguva nenguva: kashoma mugadziri wepombi kana nyanzvi yezvemuchadenga anofanira kutaura pamusoro pechinhu chimwe chete kakawanda," anonyemwerera.
Chii chiri “vanoporesa mweya” vanobvunzwa pamusoro pacho, uye ivo vanowanzopindura sei iyi mibvunzo?
1. "Uri kundiongorora izvozvi?"
Vazhinji vanowanzotenda kuti chiremba wepfungwa anogara achitsvaga vavariro dzakavanzwa mumabatiro anoita vanhu uye zvavanotaura. Muzviitiko zvakawanda, izvi hazvisizvo.
Kuve psychotherapist yakanaka ibasa rakaoma, inosimbisa Dr. Grohol. Nyanzvi inoedza kwete chete kunzwisisa murwere wake, asiwo kunzwisisa zvakaitika kare, ruzivo rwehupenyu uye kuti anofunga sei. Nekuunza zvese izvi pamwe chete, unogona kuwana mufananidzo wakazara, uyo murapi anotarisa paari panguva yekurapa kubatsira munhu kutsungirira matambudziko.
Iyi haisi imwe mhando ye "superpower" iyo murapi anogona kungoshandisa kune waasingazivi, nyore kudzidza zvose pamusoro pake. “Kunyange zvazvo kwaizova kwakanaka kudai kwakanga kwakadaro,” nenzira inoshamisa John Grohol.
2. "Ingave iyo ma psychotherapist akapfuma kwazvo?"
Zvinowanzogamuchirwa kuti vazhinji vezvepfungwa uye vepfungwa vanowana mari yakawanda. Chokwadi, mumaguta makuru eUS, psychoanalysts vanogona kugamuchira muhoro wakanaka kwazvo. Kune vakawanda psychotherapists, zvisinei, mufananidzo wacho wakasiyana chaizvo, zvose kuMadokero uye muRussia.
Nyanzvi dzinobhadharwa zvakanyanya ndivana chiremba vepfungwa. Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzepfungwa uye psychotherapists havazvioni se "vakapfuma" zvachose, uye varapi vekutanga vanowanzosangana nematambudziko emari zvachose. Iko kuenderera mberi kwekudzidziswa, kurapwa kwemunhu uye kutarisirwa kunofanirwa kuitwa nenyanzvi yega yega inozviremekedza inodawo kuisirwa mari.
Muchidimbu, ruzhinji rwevarapi vepfungwa vanoita basa ravo kwete nekuti rinobhadhara zvakanyanya. Kune dzimwe nzvimbo dzakawanda dzinobhadhara zvirinani, Grohol anosimbisa. Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzinoita psychotherapy nekuti dzinoda kubatsira vamwe.
3. "Unotora matambudziko evatengi kumba here?"
Zvinoshamisa, maererano nenyanzvi, mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu ndeyekusimbisa. Pasinei nechokwadi chokuti, pavanenge vachiwana dzidzo uye vachivandudza zvidzidzo zvavo, vanodzidza kuparadzanisa basa nehupenyu, mukuita izvi hazviiti nguva dzose. Zvingava zvakaipa kufunga kuti varapi havaunzi “basa” kumba.
Ehe, mamiriro ezvinhu anogona kusiyana kubva kune mutengi kune mutengi, asi maererano naJohn Grahol, vashoma varapi vanogona kusiya zvakachengeteka "hupenyu" hwevatengi muhofisi. Ichi ndicho chimwe chezvikonzero nei zvichinetsa kuve akanaka psychotherapist, uye chimwe chezvikonzero zvikuru mukuneta kwehunyanzvi. Nyanzvi dzepamusoro dzinodzidza kubatanidza zvavanoita muhupenyu hwavo pachavo vachichengetedza miganhu yakasimba.
4. "Ndeupi musiyano pakati penyanzvi yepfungwa uye chiremba wepfungwa?"
Uyu mubvunzo unogara uchinzwika nevamiriri vemabasa maviri. Mhinduro yenyanzvi yokuAmerica iri nyore: “Chiremba wepfungwa chiremba uyo muUnited States anopedza yakawanda yenguva yake achirayira zvinodhaka nokuda kwehosha dzepfungwa, nepo nyanzvi yepfungwa inyanzvi pamarudzi akasiyana-siyana okurapa pfungwa uye inonangidzira ngwariro pakuongorora munhu nemaitiro ake. . Nyanzvi dzepfungwa hadzitauri mishonga, kunyange zvazvo dzimwe nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzakanyatsodzidziswa mune dzimwe nyika dzingadaro.”
Muchokwadi cheRussia, chiremba wepfungwa chiremba ane hunyanzvi anobata kusagadzikana kwepfungwa uye anogona kupa mushonga. Ane chikoro chekurapa kumashure kwake, ane nyanzvi yezvekurapa "psychotherapist", uye kushandiswa kwemaitiro ekurapa kwepfungwa kunosanganisirwa muhunyanzvi hwake hwehunyanzvi.
Mumwe chiremba wepfungwa, kune rumwe rutivi, ndiye akapedza kudzidza kubva kuFaculty of Psychology, akagamuchira diploma yakakodzera, ane ruzivo rwezvidzidzo uye anogona kuita mazano epfungwa. Nyanzvi yepfungwa inogonawo kuita psychotherapy, yawana dzidzo yekuwedzera uye kugona maitiro akakodzera.
5. “Unoneta here kunzwa nezvezvinetso zvavanhu muswere wose wezuva?”
Hongu, anodaro Dr. Grohol. Kunyange zvazvo varapi vachiwana rovedzo chaiyo, ikoku hakurevi kuti hapana mazuva apo basa rinova rinonetesa nokunetesa. "Kunyange zvazvo nyanzvi dzichiwana zvakawanda kubva mukurapa kwepfungwa kupfuura zvavanopa, kunyange ivo vanogona kutambura pakupera kwezuva rakaipa pavanongoneta nekuteerera."
Sezvimwe mune mamwe mabasa, nyanzvi dzakanaka dzinodzidza kubata nazvo. Vanoziva kuti mazuva akadai anogona kuva nyevero yokuti vakanyanyoshanda kana kuti vakaomerwa uye vanofanira kuzvitarisira zvikuru. Kana kuti zvimwe ingori chiratidzo chekuti yave nguva yezororo.
“Yeuka, varapi vanhuwo,” anogumisa kudaro John Grahol. "Kunyangwe kudzidziswa kwakakosha uye ruzivo rwehunyanzvi zvinovagadzirira mabasa emazuva ese ekurapa kwepfungwa, sevanhu vese, havagone kuve vakakwana zana yenguva."
Nezve Nyanzvi: John Grahol ikiriniki yepfungwa uye munyori wezvinyorwa nezvehutano hwepfungwa.