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Maitiro ekuita zvakanaka nehupenyu hwako hwezuva nezuva nevana mapatya: zano redu!
Kuva vabereki vemapatya hakusi nyore nguva dzose. Kusagadzikana kukuru mumhuri. Nzira yekubata sei zuva nezuva vana vake vaviri vari mumwechete uye fusional? Dzimwe mhinduro naÉmilie, amai vaInès naElsa, mapatya ane makore matanhatu nhasi, naClotilde Avezou, chiremba wepfungwa uye nyanzvi yekubata mapatya.
Vabereki vemapatya vanoziva kuti hupenyu hwezuva nezuva hunogona kukurumidza kuomeswa nevaviri vevana kuti vatarisire panguva imwe chete. Nzira yekunyatsoronga sei zuva kuitira kuti usakanganwa chero chinhu? Ndeapi mazano ekuti zvese zvifambe zvakanaka? Tinokuudza zvese…
Iva ne "quasi-military" sangano
"Mutemo nhamba 1 kana iwe uri amai vemapatya: iva nesangano remauto rakapusae! Hatigoni kusiya nzvimbo yezvisingafanoonekwi. Uyezve, tinoinzwisisa nokukurumidza zvikuru! », anodaro Émilie, amai vaInès naElsa. “Vabereki vemapatya vanouya kuzobvunzana kazhinji vane vana vane makore 2-3. Iri izera rekuwana kuzvitonga, uye hazvisi nyore nguva dzose, "anotsanangura kudaro Clotilde Avezou, nyanzvi yezvepfungwa, nyanzvi yekubata mapatya. Kwaari, zviri pachena kuti zvese zvinofanirwa kuverengerwa zuva nezuva nemubereki. Pashure pacho, zvichienderana nokuti mapatya akanambwa sei, vanaamai vangazvibvumira kana kuti vangasazvibvumira kukumbira mumwe wavo rubatsiro. ” Kana mapatya akaberekwa ari ega, vanaamai vavo vachakwanisa kuratidza kuneta kwavo uye kubvunza mumwe wavo, kana vanasekuru, zviri nyore kutora. Ukuwo, vanaamai vakaita mapatya neIVF havawanzozvibvumira kutaura kuti vakaremerwa, ”anotsanangura kudaro nyanzvi.
Gadzirira zvinhu zvose manheru apfuura
"Paunofanirwa kubata" kaviri "zuva riri mberi, zviri nani kuzviita husiku hwapfuura. Isu tinogadzirira mabhegi, zvipfeko zvezuva rinotevera, kuitira kutambisa nguva shoma sezvinobvira mangwanani ”, inotsanangura amai vemapatya. Rimwe zano rakanaka: “Ndinoisa mamenu ese ekuchikoro parutivi. Ndinochinja mavhiki mashoma uye ndinotora kurudziro kubva kumamenu akasimbiswa kuronga chikafu chevhiki, pamberi, kubva pakupera kwevhiki pandinoenda kunotenga. Zvinondiponesa nguva yakawanda. Apo vanasikana vangu vakachengetwa nananny, ndakagadzira kabhuku kandainyora zvose zvaiva nechokuita navo. Zvandakanga ndagadzirira kudya kwemanheru, mishonga yekunwa… Muchidimbu, zvese zvaidiwa nananny zuva nezuva,” anotsanangura kudaro.
Kupera kwevhiki, hupenyu hunoshanduka
“Kune rimwe divi, kusiyana nevhiki apo zvinhu zvose zvakarongwa pachine nguva mberi, kupera kwevhiki hupenyu hwemhuri hwakanga hwakasiyana zvachose. Ndakaedza kuunza kushanduka-shanduka maererano nevhiki, kunyanya nekuda kwechikoro chevasikana uye nguva yangu yekushanda, "vanotsanangura kudaro amai vemapatya. Kubva ipapo, vanasikana vake vakakura, izvo zvino zvinobvumira amai kuti vakurukure navo pachine nguva zvavanoda pakudya kana kuti kubika pamwe chete, somuenzaniso neMugovera.
Siyanisa pakati pemabinoculars
“Nokuda kwezviitiko zvavo zvekunze kwechikoro, pakutanga, ndaida chose kuti vanasikana vangu vanyoreswe mukosi yemitambo imwe cheteyo. Chokwadi, pashure penguva yakati Ndakaona kuti vaisada zvechivanhu kana maworkshops », Details the mother. Ditto zvekuchikoro! Kubva kukireshi, Émilie aida kuti vanasikana vake vave mukirasi yakasiyana. “Zvakakosha kuchengetedza hunhu hwemapatya akafanana. Ndinoyeuka kuti ndaigara ndichivapfekedza zvakasiyana uye izvi kubva pakuzvarwa kwavo. Sezvakaita magadzirirwo ebvudzi, haana kumbonyorwa zvakafanana! Anowedzera. Iwe unofanirwa kuteerera kune mumwe nemumwe wavo, gamuchira misiyano, uye pamusoro pezvose usazvienzanisa kune mumwe! "Ndaigara ndichizviudza kuti vacheche vaviri vakazvarwa pazuva rimwe chete, asi ndizvo chete, hapana kana vakafanana mune zvese," anodarowo.
Dzivisa kukwikwidzana
“Pane kunetsana zvakare pakati pemapatya. Uye sezvo vari vadiki, ndinoedza "kutyora" duo iyi, uye kunyanya mutauro wavo chaiwo.. Mushure mechinguva, mapatya akanga atanga nzira yekutaura yakasiyana navo, izvo zvaisabatanidza vabereki. Basa rangu raive rekumanikidza chokwadi chekuti vanogona kutaura nenzira iyo munhu wese anogona kunzwisisa, "vanopupurira amai vaInès naElsa. Inzira yekuparadzanisa vaviri nekuisa izwi remubereki, kune vanodzikira. “Kuti ndidzivise makwikwi pakati pevanasikana vangu, ndinowanzodaidza misangano yemhuri, uko tinokurukura pamwe chete zviri kuitika kana kuti kwete,” anotsanangura kudaro. "Mapatya anowirirana semukoma, asi kazhinji vanenge vari muhukama hwegirazi umo vanokwikwidzana kuti vazvisimbise uye vakure. Usazeza kuisa pasi rakajeka uye rakananga gadziriro. Izvi zvinogona kuitika nemufananidzo muhombe, mavara makodhi anochinja zvinoenderana nemaitiro evana, "anopedzisa nyanzvi yepfungwa.