Mukati
Lola, 6, anouya naamai vake kuhofisi yaAnne-Laure Benattar. Musikana mudiki anoita seakadzikama uye akapfava. Anotarisa mukamuri uye kunyanya makona. Amai vake vanonditsanangurira kudaro kwemakore mashoma ikozvino, mhungu dzave kumutya, uye anokumbira kuti mubhedha wake utariswe manheru ega ega asati arara. Anofunga nezvazvo kanenge nguva yese kubva pavakatamira muimba itsva iyi uye vane “kukwana” nguva dzose.
Vese vakuru nevana vanogona kukanganiswa ne phobias. Pakati peizvi, kutya kwakanyanya kwedandemutande kwakajairika. Inogona kuremadza, nekuti inogadzira maitiro anodzivirira kurarama kwemazuva ese.
Chikamu naLola, chinotungamirwa naAnne-Benattar, psycho-body therapist
Anne-Laure Benattar: Ndiudze zviri kuitika kwauri maererano ne…
Lola : Usataure chinhu! Usataure chinhu! Ndichakutsanangurira… Shoko rinondityisa! Ndinotarisa kwese kwandinoenda mumakona uye zvakare mumubhedha wangu ndisati ndarara ...
A.-LB: Uye zvakadini kana ukaona imwe?
Lola : ndinodanidzira ! Ndabuda mumba, ndiri kukachidzwa! Ndinotya kufa ndofonera vabereki vangu!
A.-LB: Hongu ! Yakasimba kwazvo! Kubva pakutama?
Lola : Hongu, paive nemubhedha wangu husiku hwekutanga uye ndaitya kwazvo, pamusoro pekurasikirwa neshamwari dzangu dzese, chikoro chandaida nekamuri yangu ...
A.-LB: Hongu, kufamba dzimwe nguva kunorwadza, uye kuwana imwe pamubhedha zvakare! Unoda kutamba mutambo here?
Lola :Hongu !!!
A.-LB: Unotanga wafunga nezvenguva yaunenge wakanyarara uye uine chivimbo.
Lola : Pandinotamba kana kudhirowa ndinonzwa zvakanaka, ndakasimba uye ndine chivimbo!
A.-LB: Zvakakwana, funga kumashure kune idzo nguva dzakasimba, uye ndinoisa ruoko rwangu paruoko rwako kuti uchengete kunzwa uku newe.
Lola : Ah, zvinonzwa zvakanaka!
A.-LB: Iye zvino unogona kuvhara maziso ako uye uzvifungidzire uri muchigaro che cinema. Wobva wafungidzira chidzitiro chaunoona chichiri mufananidzo mutema uye chena usati wafamba, mumba mako. Iwe unorega firimu richienderera mberi kwechinguva, kusvikira "dambudziko" ragadziriswa uye iwe unonzwa zviri nani zvikuru. Iwe unotora kunzwa kwekugadzikana uye kuvimba newe panguva iyi firimu uye unogara wakasununguka pachigaro chako. Handeyi ?
Lola : Hongu ok, ndiri kuenda. Ndiri kutya… asi zvakanaka… Ndizvozvo, ndapedza firimu. Hameno, zvainge zvasiyana, kunge ndaiva nechekure pacheya pangu apo mumwe wangu airarama nyaya yacho. Asi ini ndichiri kutya mhungu, kunyange shoko risingachandinetsi.
A.-LB: Hongu ndizvo zvakajairika, neniwo zvishoma!
Lola : Pane imwe pakona apo, uye haitombondityi!
CHENA: Kana iwe uchida kuve wakanyarara zvishoma, tinogona kuenderera mberi nechiitwa nemamwe matanho maviri. Asi danho iri rakatokosha zvikuru.
Chii chinonzi phobia? Iyo decryption yaAnne-Laure Benattar
A phobia ikubatana kwekutya nechimwe chinhu (zvipembenene, mhuka, rima, nezvimwewo). Kazhinji, kutya kunogona kureva mamiriro epakatanga dambudziko. Semuenzaniso, pano kusuruvara kwekufamba uye spider pamubhedha zvakabatanidzwa muuropi hwaLola.
Zvishandiso zvekubatsira Lola kukunda phobia yake yemadandemutande
PNL Dissociation Nyore
Chinangwa ndecheku "kuparadzanisa" kusuruvara kubva kune chinhu chekutya, uye izvi ndizvo zvinobvumira chiitiko ichi, mushanduro yaro yakapfava, kuitira kukwanisa kuishandisa kumba.
Kana izvo zvisina kukwana, tinofanira kubvunza murapi anoshanda muNLP. Imwe kana yakawanda sesheni ichave yakakosha zvichienderana nedzimwe nyaya dzinogona kuvanza iyo phobia. Muhofisi, kurovedza kunenge kwanyanya kuoma (kaviri dissociation) nekusunungurwa kwakazara.
Bach maruva
Maruva eBach anogona kupa zororo kune kutya kwakanyanya: seRock Rose kana Rescue, mushonga wekuyamura kubva kuna Dr Bach, unoderedza kushushikana kwakanyanya uye nekudaro kuita kwephobic.
Anching
"Anchoring" pane chikamu chemuviri, paruoko, semuenzaniso, yekunzwa kunofadza, serunyararo kana kusatya, kunoita kuti zvikwanise kurarama zvirinani imwe nguva nekubatanidza kune sosi.
Trick : Iyo anchoring inogona kuitwa nemwana pachake uye inogadziriswa nguva dzose kuti uwane chivimbo mune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu. Kuzvisungirira.