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Ndizvozvo, mwana anozvarwa! Takaonana zvedu kwekutanga, takachema nemufaro ... Uye patinotarisa kachiso chake, tinotsemuka ... Asi mazuva mashoma apfuura, uye tinozviwana isu tichibvunza mubvunzo uyu kakawanda uye kakawanda: ko kana mwana wangu akashata? Kunyangara chaiko? Zvinofanira kutaurwa kuti nemhino yake yakapwanyika, dehenya rake refu, maziso ake ebhokisi, haaenderane nemucheche akakodzera wataitarisira kusangana nawo. # mai vakashata, handiti? Tinodzikama tofunga nezvazvo.
Tinowana mwana akashata here? Usatya !
Kutanga, tinofanira kurangarira mugariro wedu timene wokuneta. Kuzvara idambudziko guru remuviri. Uye kana wakaneta, nyangwe kuri kuzvara mwana, dzimwe nguva tsika dzako dzinomboti dzikamei. Wedzera chokwadi kushaikwa kwekurara, marwadzo episio kana cesarean chikamu, mudumbu kuvava, migero uye chii mushure mekuzvarwa ... kazhinji inopa bhururu (kunyangwe mwana-blues). Mwana uyu watakamirira kwemwedzi yakawanda, chishamiso chechisere chenyika… Izvo zvinogona kupa, muhupenyu chaihwo, kana tikamutarisa kuburikidza neakajeka chikara chake: divergent strabismus, ganda rinokwinya sebulldog, mhino huru, nzeve dzakabuda, huso hwakatsvuka, musoro wakatsetseka, usina bvudzi (kana zvinopesana netuft hombe) … Muchidimbu, makwikwi erunako haasi ezvino! Saka hatisi amai vakashata kana chikara, kungoti mai chaivo vave kuziva mwana wavo, mwana chaiye.
Mwana haana kunaka: vabereki, tinotamba pasi ... uye isu takamirira!
Mira! Tinodzikisira pressure! Uye tinozvibvisa pachedu. Ichokwadi, mwana wedu haana huso hunoyevedza uye hwakatsetseka hwataifungidzira, iyo inopfekwa nevacheche vese mumagazini, mumabhuku emifananidzo, nezvimwe. Zvisinei, tinovimbiswa kuti, mwana wedu haazochengetedzi unhu uhwu upenyu hwake hwose. Achangobva kusununguka, ganda remwana uye chiso chake chinogona kuchinjwa zvishoma, kunyanya nekufamba kwechiuno, forceps, vernix, birthmarks ... Chiso chemwana chichashandukawo kwakawanda mumaawa nemazuva anotevera kuzvarwa., nokuti pfungwa dzake dzichiri kukura, mapfupa edehenya haasati abatanidzwa, fontanelles dziri kufamba, nezvimwewo.
Uyezve, kana mwana akatiyeuchidza nezvaSekuru Robert, nemhino yavo huru, kana kuti Mbuya Berthe, vane matama akakora, usavhunduka. Ehe kufanana kwemhuri kunowanikwa zvakanyanya panguva yehuduku, kusvika kupfundo rokuti dzimwe mhuri dzinonakidzwa nokuenzanisa mapikicha evacheche vezvizvarwa zvakasiyana-siyana, unhu uhwu hunowanzoparara gare gare, nokuda kwekufanana kukuru kwababa naamai, nevanin’ina.
Cherechedza zvakare kuti kunyange zvazvo kazhinji zviri nyore kuziva mumwe munhu waunoziva semunhu mukuru nekucherechedza chiso chemwana wavo kana checheche, zvakanyanya kuoma kufungidzira zvinhu zveramangwana izvo mwana achange aine munhu mukuru. Muchidimbu, tinenge tanzwisisa, parunako, zviri nani tsungirirai pamatambudziko ake pane kunetseka uye kutya kuita mwana akashata.
“Mathis akazvarwa aine simba. Aive nedehenya rakaremara kune rimwe divi, riine bundu guru. Bvudzi dema rejeti, gobvu sechero chinhu. Uye pamazuva matatu ekuzvarwa, jaundice mumwana achangozvarwa yaiita kuti iite yero yeremoni. Muchidimbu, mwana anosetsa zvakadini! Kwandiri, yaive UFO! Saka, ndakanga ndisina chokwadi chekufunga nezvemuviri wake (sezviri pachena, ndakanga ndisiri kuzvitaura, asi ndainetsekana zvishoma). Zvakanditorera mazuva gumi nemashanu kuti ndizviudze - uye kuzvifunga zvakare: wow, akanaka sei mukomana wangu mudiki! ” Magali, amai vevana vaviri
Mwana akashata: mamiriro akatetepa kumhuri yepedyo
Tine shamwari / hanzvadzi / mukoma / mushandirwi achangobva kuita mwana, uye patinomushanyira muwadhi yekuzvara, tinozviwana isu tichifunga… kuti mwana wake, ndingamuisa sei, asi akashata? Achtung, isu tinokwanisa ... nekunaka! Nemhaka yokuti, zvamazvirokwazvo, vazadzwa nomufaro norudo, vabereki vazhinjisa vanowana mwana wavo achangobva kuberekwa asingaenzaniswi murunako. Saka kana tiine hama dzine mwana anoratidzika kunge akashata kwauri, isu zvirokwazvo tinodzivisa kuvaudza! Zvisinei, kana iwe uri mhuri yepedyo, mubvunzo wechiso checheche unogona kazhinji kuuya patafura. Pane kugara uchiti “Mwana akanaka sei!“Kana usingazvitende iwe pachako, tinosarudza kukwevera ngwariro kune chimwe chinhu: uremu hwake, havi yake, maoko ake, chiso chake, ukuru hwake ... Kana kuti kurukura nevaviri vacho mafaro nematambudziko avanosangana nawo mumaawa ekutanga eupenyu hwevadiki vavo: tinovabvunza kana mwana akarara zvakanaka, kana achidya zvakanaka, kana amai vakapora, kana vaviri vacho vakakomberedzwa, zvichingodaro. . Sezvo rudzi urwu rwechidzidzo chinoshanda zvikuru rusingawanzodudzwa, vabereki vaduku vachafara kubvunzwa iyi mibvunzo, pane kugara uchiteerera mucheche.
Uye isu tinoita ongororo shoma yakatitenderedza: isu tichakurumidza kuona izvo vabereki vevaimbova vacheche vasina kunaka vakawanda! Uye kazhinji, vanotiudza nezvazvo nekunyemwerera pachiso chavo!