Iyo Cobley bvunzo inoyera chaiwo maficha emusikirwo ekuzvarwa maitiro ekugadzira. Cathy Colby anoona kuti hunhu huri pamusimboti wehunyanzvi hwevanhu uye yakagadzira nzira yehunyanzvi hwako hwekuzvarwa. Muedzo uchakuudza nzira yekuzvitaura zvakanaka.
JK Rowling, nemabhuku ake eHarry Potter, akati dai asina kutanga kunyora - pakati pekushaiwa basa uye aine mwana mumaoko, asina murume - angadai akapenga, uye ndicho chinhu chikuru chaainzwisisa. ndechokuti mumwe nomumwe wedu haasi mukuru kupfuura zvaari. Tinokundikana muhupenyu kana tikaedza kuva mumwe munhu asiri isu. Akatadza kusvika atanga kuita chimwe chinhu chaaifarira chaizvo. Masikirwo anonzwisiswa naColby semigero ye subconscious simba, ndosaka mamwe mabasa achitipa simba uye anoita kuti tinzwe kusafara zvakanyanya mune vamwe.
Mutambi wacho haazokwanisi kutarisira hofisi. Munyori haazokwanisi kutengesa. Muzvinabhizinesi anotadza kuita basa rekunyora, uye munyori haakwanise kuve maneja anopesana nedambudziko. Etc.
4 MAMODZI ECHIITA (kutanga, sekutaura) yakasimbiswa naColby kumunhu:
- CHOKWADI MUTSVIRI - mune iyi modhi tinoita se: pragmatist, muongorori, arbiter, nyanzvi, mutongi kana realist.
- SIMBA KUPEDZA - mune iyi modhi, tinoita se: kuronga, mugadziri, programmer, theorist, classifier, mugadziri wemufananidzo.
- FAST KUTANGA - mune iyi modhi, isu tinomhanyisa zvinhu, wedzera, kusimudzira, kuita bhizinesi, kusimudzira, kuita senge munhu anoona.
- DIMONI - mune iyi modhi, tinoita, kukanda, kuvaka, kuruka, kuratidza hunyoro hwemanyorero, kukura.
Aya maitiro echiito akavakirwa zvakateerana pahunhu:
- tsvakurudzo yakadzama,
- tsanangudzo dzechimiro,
- intuitive kusangana nekusavimbika (njodzi),
- kushandura pfungwa kuita zvinhu zvinobatika.
Chimiro chega chega chinoratidzirwa nehumwe simba uye kusvika pamwero mukuru kana muduku. Anokwanisa kutitungamirira zvakasimba, uye zvino basa rinoenderana rinotipa simba - uye iyi ibasa rinokosha rekuita kwatiri. Ndiko kuti, kana tichida kana kuti tisingadi, tinonangidzira simba redu munzira yatinotsanangura kukurumidza, kana, zvakanaka, kuramba kwekukurumidzira. Dzimwe nguva kutanga kwomunhu kuomerera pakusaita chimwe chinhu. Semuenzaniso, JK Rowling anoramba zvakasimba kuvaka chero nhare kunze kwemauto emhepo. Sekureva kwaColby, iri zvakare tarenda! Uye takazviona mukuita.
Muenzaniso wakasiyana wekusimba kwesimba redu remuzvarirwo unomira pachena. Iyo yakasara yesimba inowira pane yakasara maitiro echiito, umo isu tinoedza kuchengetedza simba nekudzivisa matambudziko ane chekuita nebasa iri, kana zvimwe kana zvishoma nekuzvipira kugadzirisa zviito zvedu kune imwe nhanho munzira iyi. Nokudaro, simba remusikirwo wega wega rinozviratidza nenzira nhatu - nzvimbo yekukurumidzira, kuramba kana kugadzirisa.
Zvose pamwe chete zvinowedzera kumubatanidzwa wako wakasiyana-siyana, kubva ipapo panogona kutorwa mhedziso dzinosvika kure maererano nebudiriro muzviitwa, mukutaurirana, mukudzidza.
Kushungurudzika kunobviswa zviri nyore - kana iwe uchiomerera pane imwe pfungwa - ita izvozvo. Kana zvisina kudaro, usazviita. Usazvimanikidza. Zvimwe gare gare. Unogona kuwana pfungwa yakapfava yezvatiri kutaura nezvazvo nekutarisa bvunzo yeColby yevana - mumubvunzo wega wega, mhinduro dzinongoratidza kuratidzwa kweimwe yezvatingaziva, uye kutarisa patafura 1 ne2. (Tafura. 2 inoratidza Mode Operandi (Modhi Yechiito) zvichienderana nenzvimbo yekukurumidzira - kuramba, pekugara, kana (pazasi) kukurumidza kune yakapihwa njere).
Tafura 1
Mhando dzekudzidza dzinobva pane iyi pfungwa uye humwe humwe hunhu hwevanhu, zvichienderana negwara rezvipo zvavo:
Rakabudiswa mubhuku raR. Kiyosaki "Rich Kid, Smart Kid"
Tafura 2
Inoratidza Modus Operandi (Modhi Yechiito) zvinoenderana nenzvimbo yekukurumidzira - kuramba, pekugara, kana (pazasi) kukurumidza kweichi hunhu.
Zvinyorwa
- Index (bvunzo) Colby