Kuratidzira kutsva kuri kutarisirwa munyika yose kupera kwesvondo rino. Asi chii chinoita kuti vanhu vaunganidze ichi kana iyo pfungwa? Uye simba rekunze rinokwanisa here kugadzira muridzi uyu?
Mhepo yekuratidzira yakatsvaira muBelarus; kuungana uye kufamba muKhabarovsk kwakamutsa dunhu rose; mhomho dzinopenya dzichirwisa njodzi yezvakatipoteredza muKamchatka… Zvinoita sekuti nhambwe yemagariro haina kuwedzera, asi, zvakasiyana, iri kuderera nekukurumidza.
Pickets uye rally, zviitiko zvakakura zvekuda pasocial network, iyo "anti-handicapping project" Izoizolyatsiya, ine nhengo dze580 pa Facebook (sangano rinopfurikidza rakarambidzwa muRussia). Zvinoita sokuti pashure pokunge tambonyarara, taidazve kuva pamwe chete. Ndiyo chete matekinoroji matsva, ayo akawedzera zvakanyanya kukurumidza kwekutaurirana, chikonzero cheizvi? Chii chakaitwa "Ini" uye "isu" muma20s? Social psychologist Takhir Bazarov anoratidza izvi.
Psychologies: Panoratidzika kunge paine chiitiko chitsva chekuti chiitiko chinogona kuitika chero kupi pasi pano chero nguva. Isu takabatana, kunyangwe mamiriro ezvinhu achiita seanokonzeresa kusabatana ...
Takhir Bazarov: Munyori uye mutori wemifananidzo Yuri Rost akambopindura mutori wenhau mubvunzurudzo uyo akamuti munhu akasurukirwa: “Zvose zvinoenderana nokuti kiyi inopinzwa kurutivi rwupi pasuo. Kana kunze, uku kusurukirwa, uye kana mukati, kuva wega. Munogona kuva pamwe chete, muchiva muri moga. Iri ndiro zita - "Seclusion seMubatanidzwa" - iro vadzidzi vangu vakauya naro kumusangano panguva yekuzviparadzanisa nevamwe. Munhu wose akanga ari pamba, asi panguva imwe cheteyo pakanga pane kunzwa kwokuti tiri pamwe chete, taiva pedyo. Zvinonakidza!
Uye mupfungwa iyi, mhinduro kumubvunzo wako kwandiri inonzwika seizvi: tinobatana, tichiwana chitupa chemunhu. Uye nhasi tiri kufamba zvine simba kuti tiwane isu pachedu, munhu wese anoda kupindura mubvunzo: ndini ani? Sei ndiri pano? Zvandinoreva ndezvipi? Kunyangwe pazera nyoro sevadzidzi vangu vane makore makumi maviri. Panguva imwecheteyo, isu tinorarama mumamiriro ezvinhu ekuzivikanwa kwakawanda, patinenge tine mabasa mazhinji, tsika, uye zvakasiyana-siyana zvakabatanidzwa.
Zvinoitika kuti "ini" yakave yakasiyana, uye "isu", kupfuura makore mashomanana uye kunyanya makumi emakore apfuura?
Zvirokwazvo! Kana tikafunga nezve pre-revolutionary Russian mafungiro, ipapo pakupera kwechiXNUMX - kutanga kwezana ramakore rechiXNUMX pakave nekuputswa kwakasimba, izvo zvakazokonzera shanduko. Munharaunda yese yeHumambo hweRussia, kunze kweiyo matunhu "akasunungurwa" - Finland, Poland, nyika dzeBaltic - manzwiro ekuti "isu" aive echivanhu. Izvi ndizvo zvakatsanangurwa nemuchinji-tsika dzepfungwa nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Harry Triandis weYunivhesiti yeIllinois seyakachinjika kuunganidzwa: kana "isu" tichibatanidza munhu wese akanditenderedza uye padivi pangu: mhuri, musha.
Asi kunewo vertical collectivism, apo "isu" ndiPetro Mukuru, Suvorov, kana inofungidzirwa mumamiriro ezvakaitika kare, zvinoreva kubatanidzwa kwevanhu, nhoroondo. Horizontal collectivism chishandiso chinoshanda chemagariro, chinoisa mitemo yeboka pesvedzero, kuenderana, umo mumwe nemumwe wedu anogara. "Usaenda kumamongi emumwe munhu nechata chako" - izvi zviri pamusoro pake.
Nei mudziyo uyu wakarega kushanda?
Nemhaka yokuti zvakanga zvakakodzera kuti pave nekugadzirwa kwemaindasitiri, vashandi vaidiwa, asi musha wacho hauna kurega. Uye zvakare Pyotr Arkadyevich Stolypin akauya neshanduko yake - yekutanga kurova kune yakachinjika "isu". Stolypin yakaita kuti zvikwanisike kuti varimi vanobva kumapurovhinzi epakati vaende nemhuri dzavo, misha yeSiberia, Urals, Far East, uko goho rakanga risiri shoma pane chikamu cheEurope cheRussia. Uye varimi vakatanga kugara mumapurazi uye vane mutoro wekugovewa kweminda yavo, vachitamira kune yakamira "isu". Vamwe vakaenda kufekitari yePutilov.
Kwakanga kuri kuchinja kwaStolypin kwakatungamirira kuchimurenga. Uye ipapo mapurazi ehurumende akazopedzisira apedza kubva kune yakachinjika. Chimbofungidzira zvakanga zvichiitika mupfungwa dzevagari vokuRussia panguva iyoyo. Pano vaigara mumusha umo munhu wose akanga ari munhu mumwe nokuda kwavose, vana vaiva shamwari, uye pano mhuri yeshamwari yakatorerwa pfuma, vana vomuvakidzani vakakandirwa kunze muchando, uye kwakanga kusingabviri kuvaendesa kumusha. Uye yaive kupatsanurwa kwepasirese kwe "isu" kuita "Ini".
Ndiko kuti, kupatsanurwa kwe "isu" mu "Ini" hakuna kuitika netsaona, asi nechinangwa?
Hongu, dzaive zvematongerwo enyika, zvaive zvakafanira kuti nyika izadzise zvinangwa zvayo. Nekuda kweizvozvo, munhu wese aifanira kutyora chimwe chinhu mukati make kuti iyo yakachinjika "isu" iparare. Yakanga isiri kutozosvikira Hondo Yenyika II apo yakachinjika yakadzokera shure. Asi vakasarudza kuitsigira neinomira: zvino, kubva kumwe kusingakanganwiki, magamba enhoroondo akaburitswa - Alexander Nevsky, Nakhimov, Suvorov, akakanganwa mumakore apfuura eSoviet. Mafirimu pamusoro pevanhu vakatanhamara akapfurwa. Nguva yesarudzo yakanga iri kudzoka kwezvisungo zvepafudzi kumauto. Izvi zvakaitika muna 1943: avo vakadambura tambo dzepamapfudzi makore makumi maviri apfuura zvino vakazvisona zvakare.
Iye zvino yaizonzi rebranding ye "Ini": chekutanga, ndinonzwisisa kuti ndiri chikamu chenyaya yakakura inosanganisira Dmitry Donskoy uye kunyange Kolchak, uye mumamiriro ezvinhu aya ndiri kuchinja unhu hwangu. Chechipiri, tisina tambo dzepamapfudzi, takadzokera shure, tasvika paVolga. Uye kubvira muna 1943, takarega kudzokera. Uye pakanga paine makumi emamiriyoni e "ini" akadaro, achizvishongedza kune nhoroondo itsva yenyika, uyo akafunga kuti: "Mangwana ndingafa, asi ndinobaya minwe yangu netsono, nei?" Yaiva teknolojia ine simba yepfungwa.
Uye chii chiri kuitika nekuzvifunga iye zvino?
Takatarisana, ndinofunga, kufunga patsva pachedu. Pane zvinhu zvakawanda zvinosangana pane imwe nguva. Chinonyanya kukosha ndeye kukurumidza kwekuchinja kwechizvarwa. Kana kare chizvarwa chakatsiviwa mumakore gumi, zvino nemusiyano wemakore maviri chete isu hatinzwisisane. Chii chatingataure pamusoro pekusiyana kukuru kwezera!
Vadzidzi vemazuva ano vanoona ruzivo nekumhanya kwemazwi e450 paminiti, uye ini, purofesa anovadzidzisa, pamashoko mazana maviri paminiti. Vanoisa kupi mazwi mazana maviri nemakumi mashanu? Vanotanga kuverenga chimwe chinhu chakafanana, vachitarisa muma smartphones. Ndakatanga kufunga izvi, ndikavapa basa parunhare, magwaro eGoogle, nhaurirano muZoom. Kana uchichinja kubva kune sosi kuenda kune sosi, ivo havatsauswe.
Isu tiri kurarama zvakanyanya uye zvakanyanya muhunhu. Iine yakachinjika «isu»?
Iripo, asi inova inokurumidza uye yenguva pfupi. Vakangonzwa kuti "isu" - uye vakatotiza. Kumwewo vakabatana ndokupararira zvakare. Uye kune vakawanda vakadaro "isu", kwandinenge ndiripo. Zvakafanana ne ganglia, rudzi rwehubs, node dzakatenderedza vamwe vanobatana kwechinguva. Asi chii chinonakidza: kana mumwe munhu kubva kwangu kana hushamwari hub akakuvadzwa, ipapo ini ndinotanga kubika. "Vakabvisa sei gavhuna weKhabarovsk Territory? Sei vasina kutibvunza?" Tatova nepfungwa yekururamisira.
Izvi zvinoshanda kwete kuRussia, Belarus kana United States chete, uko kwave kuchangobva kuitika kupikisa rusarura. Aya ndiwo maitiro akajairika pasi rose. Nyika uye chero vamiriri vezviremera vanofanirwa kushanda zvakanyatsonaka neiyi "isu" nyowani. Pashure pezvose, chii chakaitika? Kana zvisati zvaitika Stolypin nyaya "Ini" yakanyungudutswa kuva "isu", ikozvino "isu" yakanyungudutswa mu "Ini". Imwe neimwe "Ini" inova mutakuri weiyi "isu". Saka "Ndiri Furgal", "Ndiri chisimbiso chemvere". Uye kwatiri isu ipassword-wongororo.
Vanowanzo taura nezvekutonga kwekunze: varatidziri pachavo havagone kubatana nekukurumidza.
Izvi hazvigoneki kufungidzira. Ndine chokwadi chekuti maBelarusian anoshanda nemoyo wese. Iyo Marseillaise haigone kunyorwa nemari, inogona kungozvarwa munguva yekufemerwa pausiku hwakadhakwa. Ipapo ndipo paakazova rwiyo rwechimurenga cheFrance. Uye pakanga pane kubata kudenga. Iko hakuna nyaya dzakadaro: vakagara pasi, vakaronga, vakanyora pfungwa, vakawana chigumisiro. Haisi tekinoroji, huchenjeri. Sezvakaita Khabarovsk.
Hapana chikonzero chekutsvaga chero mhinduro dzekunze panguva yekubuda kwebasa revanhu. Zvino - hongu, zvinova zvinonakidza kune vamwe kujoinha izvi. Asi mavambo chaiwo, kuberekwa kunongoerekana kwaitika. Ini ndaizotsvaga chikonzero mukusiyana pakati pechokwadi uye zvinotarisirwa. Hazvina mhosva kuti nyaya yacho inopera sei muBelarus kana Khabarovsk, vakatoratidza kuti network "isu" haizobvumiri kutsoropodza uye kusaruramisira kwakajeka. Isu nhasi tinonzwira tsitsi kuzvinhu zvinoita sezvisingagoneki sekururamisira. Kuda zvinhu zvenyama kunoenda parutivi - network "isu" ndeyekufungidzira.
Zvino sei kutonga nzanga?
Nyika iri kuenda pakuvaka zvirongwa zvekubvumirana. Kubvumirana chinhu chakaoma zvikuru, chakashandura masvomhu uye zvose hazvina musoro: vhoti yemunhu mumwe inogona sei kuva yakakura kudarika nhamba yevhoti yevamwe vose? Izvi zvinoreva kuti boka chete revanhu vanogona kunzi vezera ravo vanogona kuita sarudzo yakadaro. Tichaona ani akaenzana? Avo vanogovana zvakajairika nesu. In horizontal «isu» tinounganidza chete avo vakaenzana nesu uye vanoratidza hunhu hwedu hwese. Uye mupfungwa iyi, kunyange kwenguva pfupi «isu» muchinangwa chavo, simba rinova maitiro akasimba kwazvo.