Hofisi haisi nzvimbo yehondo? Hazvina mhosva kuti sei! Kufona kwese kubva ku "Ngatigarei pamwe chete" kwakateedzera kukundikana, nekuti midziyo yedu yekutanga inosanganisira kurwa, nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Tatyana Muzhitskaya anotenda. Asi tinogara tichinzwisisa here kuti zvii zvinokonzeresa zvinotungamirira kumakakatanwa, uye zvinogona kudzikiswa here?
Nezuro chaiye, vatinoshanda navo vanoda rugare nhasi vanongoerekana vatanga kurira semangwe, kunyange zvazvo pakanga pasina zviratidzo zvehasha. Nhaurirano dzakagadzirirwa dziri kuputsika pameso edu, uye chibvumirano chinobhururuka chichipinda mudengu. Pamusangano, kamwe kamwe, pasina chikonzero chakajeka, munhu ari wose aripo anochema, uye ipapo haagoni kutsanangura chakaitika pamusoro pavo. Chii chinokonzera kukakavara kwechisimba uye kuti tingazvidzivirira sei?
Psychology: haigone kushanda pasina kupokana? Hazvibviri kubvumirana here?
Tatyana Muzhitskaya: Iwe uri chii! Kukakavadzana kwebasa mumakambani mune vanhu vaviri hakudzivisiki, kana zvisina kudaro ihurongwa husina hupenyu. Wrestling inosanganisirwa mune yedu yekutanga package. Kazhinji kazhinji inobatanidzwa nenharaunda uye hierarchy.
Heino mamiriro chaiwo: maneja wekutengesa uye maneja weprojekiti vanouya kuzotaurirana. Vanoudzwa, kuti: “Endai kukamuri rokusanganira, torai makapu api naapi amunoda, mugare pasi apo panokodzera.” Umwe akatora cup yegrey ndokugara pa chairwo zvayo. Uye mumwe akasarudza muga ane chinyorwa "Ndinoda London" uye akatora chete chigaro cheganda. Yakanga iri sachigaro wemumwe wevatungamiriri, vakagara vakapesana panguva yenhaurirano (iyo mumutauro usingatauriki inoreva kushorwa), uye mugi wacho waiva wemukuru wedhipatimendi reHR, uyo akabhomba vaenzi nemibvunzo inonyengera.
Nhaurirano dzakakundikana. Mumwe maneja wepurojekiti akaenda kumusangano unotevera, akatora kapu yegrey, akagara pachigaro. Mharidzo haina kuchinja mune zvinyorwa, yakangodhindwa zvakasiyana. Iyo purojekiti yakagamuchirwa: "Zvakanaka, ndiyo imwe nyaya!" Ichi chimwe chinhu chisina anombotaura nezvacho - chingofunga, mukombe, chigaro chemaoko ... Zvinotendwa kuti kunetsana mumasangano kune chekuita nechiremera, zviwanikwa, mazuva ekupedzisira.
Huwandu hukuru hwemakakatanwa hunomuka kare kupfuura kupihwa kwemabasa. Isu tisingazivi, pamwero wemhuka, tinoona chimwe chinhu sendima yedu. Kana izvi zvikapindirwa, tinogumbuka uye tinotsvaka pokurasira hasha dzedu.
Muhofisi, midziyo, fenicha ndeyehurumende, kunyange nzvimbo yakajairika inzvimbo yakazaruka. Chii chiripo chokugoverana?
O, zvakawanda! Bhizinesi chido chenzvimbo yakazaruka, kune rumwe rutivi, inotungamirira kukusununguka. Kune rumwe rutivi, kunoparira kukakavara kwakavanzika.
Muenzaniso: vashandi vekambani yekubvunza vanofamba vachitenderera maguta, uye ivo havana matafura avo, zvese zvakafanana. Uye mazvikokota wemwero wakakwirira zvikuru, ane madhipuroma maviri eEurope, anondiudza, kuti: “Ndakashanda patafura kwemwedzi miviri, ndairangarira kuva yangu ndoga, uye kamwe kamwe mumwe wandaishanda naye akapinda nendege usiku ndokuitora. Maererano nemitemo, zvinhu zvose zvakanaka, asi ini handigoni kuzvibatsira - mukomana uyu anonditsamwisa zvikuru, uye zvinotora kushanda nesimba kuti ndidzokere kuchiteshi chinovaka muhurukuro.
Huwandu hukuru hwemakakatanwa hunomuka nekuda kwekuti vanhu vazhinji vanovhiringidza chikumbiro nechikumbiro.
Mumwe muenzaniso. Mukambani yeIT, unofanirwa kusiya nzvimbo yebasa yakachena kumashure. Asi chokwadi mumwe munhu achakanganwa "netsaona" chinyoreso kana dhayari - isu tinomakawo mabhedhi ezuva munzvimbo dzekutandarira nematauro. Uye tinotsamwa kana mumwe munhu akagara pamubhedha wedu wezuva, pasinei nechiratidzo.
Kushanda munzvimbo yakazaruka, kunyanya kune vanotanga, yakazara nemakakatanwa. Mumwe munhu ari kutaura zvinonzwika parunhare, mumwe munhu akazvizora nepefiyumu yakasimba, uye izvi zvinokonzera kushatirwa kwemhuka zvachose matiri. Hatizive kwayakabva, asi isu tiri kutsvaga nzira yekubuda nayo uye, sekutonga, tinoregedza mhepo mukushanda.
Uye vatinoshanda navo vanofarira kutora stapler kana peni vasina kubvunza. Uye tinotsamwa tisati tatomboziva kuti ibullshit. Hapana kuremekedzwa kwemiganhu mutsika dzedu, nekudaro kune makakatanwa mazhinji asina kufanira. Uye tichine zvakawanda zvekugadzirisa.
Nzira yekuderedza kushushikana uku?
Teerera iwe pachako: manzwiro aya akabva kupi? Semukireshi, saina zvinhu zvako. Tsanangura paumire. Gamuchira kuti chigaro netafura iyi inzvimbo yekambani yeKushanda innovation, uye wangozvitora nhasi. Kana iyi iri hofisi ine makabati, zvino gogodza pamusuwo uye pinda nemvumo.
Bvunza: "Ndingatora vashandi vako here?" Iko kubvunza, kwete kuzivisa kana kukumbira. Kana ndikasvikirwa nechikumbiro, anofunga zvinotevera: "Ndinonzwisisa kuti unogona kunge uine mabasa ako uye kuti unogona kubvuma kana kuramba." Ndinobvunza kubva pasi zvichikwira. Huwandu hukuru hwemakakatanwa hunomuka nekuda kwekuti vazhinji vanovhiringidza chikumbiro nechikumbiro chinodaidzwa "kubva kumusoro kusvika pasi."
Uye kana inzwi rakadaro richitenderwa kune mukuru, ipapo ruvengo rwunobva rwamuka pakati pevanoshanda navo "vakaenzana pachinzvimbo". "Sei uri kutaura neni kudaro?" - izvi hazviwanzotauri zvinonzwika, asi chimwe chinhu chinotanga kuvira mukati.
Heino kurwa kwechinyakare. Mukuru wedhipatimendi rekutengesa: "Sei Samara asati agamuchira kutumirwa kubva kwandiri?" Mukuru wedhipatimendi rezvigadzirwa: "Sei uchindiudza nezveSamara izvozvi, uye kwete masvondo maviri apfuura?" Vese vari vaviri havana kugadzirisa dambudziko, vese vari kushushikana. Munhu wose anoona kuedza kutaura "kubva kumusoro" sekukonana nenharaunda yavo, izvo zvinongopisa kukakavara uye hazvigadzirisi dambudziko.
Output? Dzidza kutaurirana: "Iwe neni tine chinetso chakafanana, sezviri pachena, isu tose hatina kufunga pamusoro pechimwe chinhu, hatina kubvumirana pane chimwe chinhu. Chii chatingaite kuti tiwane zvigadzirwa zvedu kuSamara?"
Vanhu vakawanda vave kushanda vari kure. Zvichida izvi zvinobatsira kuderedza kusawirirana?
Kwete, panotanga hondo yayo yehutongi - yatichatamba nemitemo yayo. Wekutanga anonyora kuti: “Makomuredhi, kuti tiite mushumo, tinoda data kubva kudhipatimendi rega rega kwemazuva matatu. Wechipiri anopindura kuti: “Chaizvoizvo, izvi handizvo zvinodikanwa kumushumo wacho zvachose.” Chechitatu: “Wagadzirira kupa data. Pane anoida here?" Chechina: "Takapa munhu wese iyi data kare. Sei tiri patsamba ino yetsamba?
Hapana mhinduro iri papfundo. Uye mhinduro dzese dzinobva munhevedzano "Isu tiri vepamusoro mune hierarchy. Uye ndiwe ani pano? Mazwi okuti “chaizvo” mune chero chinyorwa anobva aita kuti rimwe divi riite nharo. Muoffice munotova nyore: vakabva vangotarisana ndokuenderera mberi. Uye mutsamba, mafungu aya anosimuka, uye hazvisi pachena kuti ungabhadhara sei.
Enda kune chero mubereki chat uye uone kuti ihondo rudzii inotanga paunoda kusarudza chipo chevasikana musi wa8 Kurume. Munhu wese anobva angoisa maonero ake nyanzvi. "Chaizvoizvo, vasikana vanofanirwa kupihwa machira." “Kutaura zvazviri, vasikana havadi mapini ebvudzi, upenzi hwakadini! Chero boka rine simba rinosanganisira hondo pamusoro pekuti ndiani ari muhutungamiri achaita sarudzo.
Saka inyaya isingapere…
Izvo zvichave zvisingagumi kana murongi wenhaurirano akapa rusununguko kubva ku "Ngatisarudze chimwe chinhu" nhevedzano. Izvi zvinokonzeresa hondo yekuti ndiani achataura mitemo uye ndiani anozopedzisira asarudza. Idzo dzinotaura pakanyorwa kuti: “Sasachigaro wedare revabereki, ndinokuzivisai kuti takasarudza kupa mudzidzisi chitupa nebhuti zvinokosha 700 rubles, zvishande zvinobudirira. Ndiani asingabvumirani - ipa chimwe chinhu chako pachako.
Nyaya imwe chete mumisangano. Kana ivo vari pane imwe nyaya isinganzwisisike: "Nezvemamiriro ezvinhu pachirimwa", saka hapana dambudziko rinogadziriswa uye hondo yehumambo inovimbiswa kana kungodonhedza kune yakaunganidzwa. Basa racho rinofanira kupa chigumisiro. Semuenzaniso, kana mugadziri mukuru akaunganidza tekinoroji kuti vaone kuti chikanganiso chii uye nei muchato uri kuitika, ipapo dambudziko rinogona kugadziriswa.
Ndiko kuti, pasina basa, musangano haubatsiri?
Kudyidzana mumakambani echero nhanho kunoitika pamwe nematemo matatu: axis yemabasa, axis yehukama uye axis yesimba. Muhupenyu hwangu hwekambani, ndakaona misangano yakawanda inoitika kwete nokuti kune mabasa, asi nokuti vakambosarudza: Muvhuro wega wega na10: 00 unofanira kunge uri pa "mangwanani maitiro". Kana pasina basa rakajeka, hukama uye simba rinobva ratanga kushanda. Vanhu vanotanga kuyera kuti ndiani.
Dzimwe nguva kukakavara ndiyo nzira chete yekusimudza simba muboka, uye vamwe vatungamiri vanoshandisa izvi, vasingazivi dzimwe nzira - kutungamirira munhu wose kune chinangwa, kugovera mabasa, kukurudzira. Zviri nyore kuti vaparadzanise uye vatonge.
Pese paunopinda chero mamiriro ekushanda kwekudyidzana, iwe unofanirwa kunzwisisa: chii chinangwa changu? Chii chandinoda maererano nemabasa, hukama uye simba? Chii chandinoda kubva pano?
Kana takarurama, tinonzwa takakwirira muukuru, zvinoreva kuti tine simba rakawanda, mungava mumhuri kana muchikwata.
Kana ndauya nepepa rekupfuura kune "mugadziri wemoto", uye akandibvunza kuti: "Sei usina kundipa mushumo?", Ipapo ndinogona kuwira nokuda kwekutsamwiswa kwake ndokutanga kumutsanangurira kuti ndiani, asi ndinogona. iti: “ Heino midziyo yangu, ndapa. Saina nzira yekunzvenga."
Kana zvisina kudaro - pamwe chete neaxis yemabasa - inogona kuitika seGogol's Ivan Ivanovich naIvan Nikiforovich: mumwe aida kubvunza mumwe pfuti yekare, asi vakapopotedzana pamusoro pezvisina maturo kwemakore mazhinji.
Zvakadini kana tisingabvumirani?
Kana iyo dhigirii pamwe chete neakisi yesimba ichienda kure, unogona kushandisa iyo «Mvumo pasina mvumo» nzira. Semuenzaniso, dhipatimendi renyu rinofunga kuti takaita basa rakaipa, asi redu rinofunga kuti takaita basa rakanaka. Chibvumirano chinowanikwa mumutsara mumwe. “Semanzwisisiro andinoita, iwe neni hatina maonero akafanana pamusoro pemhando yebasa. Unobvumirana nazvo here? Vanhu vanoti, "Zvakanaka, hongu." Panguva ino, vapikisi vane hasha vanoshanduka kuita vanopindirana vakakwana avo vanogona kutotaura nezvemabasa.
Hondo dzinoteura ropa rakawanda dzinorwirwa kuti dzive dzakarurama. Nei tichipupa furo kuratidza kuti takarurama? Nokuti kana takarurama, tinonzwa takakwirira muukuru, zvinoreva kuti tine simba rakawanda, mungava mumhuri kana muboka. Iyi kazhinji ihondo yekusaziva, uye mukudzidziswa kwangu, semuenzaniso, tinodzidza kuiunza mukuziva. Mutsara unowanzopedza kupokana: "Hongu, ndinofungidzira kuti wakarurama." Zviri nyore kuti nditaure izvi, asi munhu haabudi panzira yake yekundiratidza chokwadi.