PSYchology

Mufananidzo unozivikanwa kubva paudiki: gamba riri pabhiza — paforogo pamberi pedombo. Kana ukaenda kuruboshwe, ucharashikirwa nebhiza rako; kurudyi, iwe ucharasikirwa nemusoro wako; kana ukafamba zvakarurama, uchararama nokuzvikanganwa. ChiRussia chemazuva ano chinogara chine dzimwe sarudzo mbiri dzasara: gara wakamira kana kudzokera kumashure. Mungano, izvi zvinganzi uchenjeri. Asi nei isu kazhinji tisingaoni sarudzo zvachose kana kuzviita nenzira yechienzi?

“Ndingati padombo hapana chakanyorwa. Asi vanhu vatatu vakasiyana vachaswedera pairi uye vanoona zvinyorwa zvakasiyana zvachose, "anodaro Konstantin Kharsky, munyori webhuku rinonzi "Big Change". — Mazwi iwayo atinokwanisa kutevera anojekeswa ne yedu pachedu «flashlight» - seti yehunhu. Kana iwe ukabvisa tochi kubva padombo, inova yakaenzana uye chena, senge skrini iri mubhaisikopo. Asi paunounza chiedza chechiedza zvakare, unoona "zvakanyorwa" zvingave.

Asi nzira yekucherechedza zvimwe zvinyorwa - shure kwezvose, ivo vanowanzove varipo? Zvikasadaro, ngano ingadai isina kuitika, uye mune iyi sarudzo yenguva dzose yegamba rega rega kwekuenda uye maitiro ekuita ndiko kurongeka kukuru.

Magamba akajairika anogara achinzvenga

Konstantin Kharsky anoitisa kudzidziswa uye makirasi echienzi munyika dzakasiyana, asi mune chero horo umo mune kanenge Slav imwe: Russian, our country, Belarusian - paakabvunzwa kuti gamba rinofanira kuenda kupi, inzwi rinonzwika richipa mamwe maitiro akati wandei. Murairidzi webhizinesi akacherechedza chimiro ichi kwenguva yakareba. Hazvibviri kutsanangura izvi zvine musoro, asi ane comic version, iyo yaanotaura nemufaro kune vatori vechikamu chekudzidzisa.

Maererano neshanduro iyi, Mwari, pakusika nyika nevanhu, akaita chikanganiso chikuru: akabatanidza kubereka uye kufara, ndicho chikonzero uwandu hwehomo sapiens hwakakura nokukurumidza. "Paive neimwe mhando yedata hombe, data hombe yaifanira kudzorwa neimwe nzira," murairidzi webhizinesi anotsanangura. — Kuti aite chimwe chinhu, Mwari akakamura vanhu kuva marudzi. Hazvina kushata, asi hazvina kukwana kuvasiyanisa.

"Muchinjikwa" wedu unozviratidza mune zvese: mukuyedza "kungobvunza" mumutsara pakiriniki kana mukuyedza kuvhara nhamba yemotokari.

Ipapo akaisa kumunhu mumwe nomumwe muchinjikwa wake. Mumwe akava munhu anoshingaira, mumwe munhu anoshanda nesimba, mumwe munhu anofara, mumwe munhu akachenjera. Ndine chokwadi chekuti Ishe akaenda nemaarufabheti, uye paakasvika kumaSlavs, pakanga pasina michinjikwa yakakodzera yakasara. Uye ivo vakawana muchinjikwa - kutsvaga maworkaround.

Uyu "muchinjikwa" unozviratidza mune zvose: mukuedza "kungobvunza" mumutsetse pakiriniki kana mukuedza kuvhara nhamba yemotokari kuitira kuti pasave nemunhu anobhadharwa nokuda kwekupaka kusina kubhadhara. Muzvitoro, vashandi vanokotama pavanenge vachifamba nepamusuwo. Zvechii? Zvinoitika kuti KPI yavo inoverengwa maererano nemaitiro, apo denominator ndiyo nhamba yevatengi vakapfuura nemasuo. Iyo yakakura denominator, iyo mhedzisiro idiki. Nekufamba kwavo pachavo kuburikidza nemusuwo une sensor, ivo vanoderedza kuita kwavo. Ndiani angadai akafungidzira izvi? Hapana mumwe kunze kwevaSlav.

Panzvimbo yekuremekedza - simba

“Ndakambozorora muOdessa. Akatenga bhokisi remanuts. Musoro wepamusoro wakanga wakanaka, wakagadzirwa nemiti yose, asi pakarepo patakasvika pasi, zvakaparadzana zvakawanikwa, - anoyeuka Konstantin Kharsky. Tinorarama muhondo dzenguva dzose, tichigezana. Tine kurwa kusingaperi - nevavakidzani, hama, vatinoshanda navo. Kana iwe uchigona kutengesa zvinhu zvakaderera - wadii kuzviita? Kana yangoshanda - ndichaitengesa zvakare.

Isu tajaira kugara mukusaremekedzana zvachose. Kutanga nevana vangu. "Usatarise chirongwa ichi, usatambe komputa, usadya ice cream, usashamwaridzana naPetya." Tisu tine simba pamwana. Asi isu tichakurumidza kurasikirwa nazvo achangosvika 12-13 makore. Uye kana isu takanga tisina nguva yekuisa maari hunhu hwaanozotarisa pakusarudza: kugara patafura yake kana kuenda kunotamba nhabvu kana kuverenga bhuku, dambudziko iri, kushomeka kwemaitiro ekusarudzwa, kuchazviratidza. zvizere. Uye kana tisina kuisa rukudzo maari, tichimuremekedza, haasati achizoteerera chero ipi zvayo yenharo dzedu uye achatanga kumuendesa kugehena.

Asi kana iwe uchifunga nezvazvo, zano iri - kukotamisa mitemo - harina kubva kupi zvako. MuRussia, semuenzaniso, zviyero zviviri chikamu chekodhi yetsika. Kana kurambidzwa kwegirazi tinting kukaunzwa mumotokari, ipapo mutyairi wese achabvunza kuti: “Vatungamiriri venyika nevaya vari pedyo navo vacharegawo kutyaira netinting here?” Uye munhu wose anonzwisisa kuti imwe inogoneka, uye imwe haigoneki. Kana zviremera zvichitsvaga magadzirirwo, saka nei vamwe vasingafaniri kuita zvimwe chetezvo? Kutsvaga dzimwe nzira inyaya yetsika. Iyo inogadzirwa nevatungamiriri, ivo vane mhosva kune izvo zviitiko zvakakosha izvozvi, izvo zvinodzika midzi pakati pevanhu.

Unogona kupedza hupenyu hwako hwese ne "flashlight" imwe - kukosha kunonzi "simba" - uye hausati waziva dzimwe sarudzo nemikana.

Isu hatiratidzi ruremekedzo kune mumwe nemumwe, tinoratidza simba: pamwero wehama kana pasi. Watchman Syndrome inogara mukati mevazhinji vedu. Ndicho chikonzero muRussia kuedza kuunza kukosha kwehutungamiri mubhizinesi kunozokundikana, Konstantin Kharsky ane chokwadi. Makambani eTurquoise - iyo yakanakira manejimendi theorists - yakavakirwa pakuzviziva kwega kwega mushandi, kunzwisisa kwemabasa uye mabasa.

"Asi bvunza chero muzvinabhizinesi - achataura achipokana nehurongwa hwakadai. Sei? Mubvunzo wekutanga uchabvunzwa nemuzvinabhizimisi ndewokuti: “Ndichaitei ikoko? Kune ruzhinji rwevamabhizinesi vekuRussia, simba, manejimendi kutonga. "

Nekudaro, pane nguva dzose sarudzo, isu hatigone kana kusada kuiona. Ratidza simba kana kuzvibata zvakasiyana? Kuve mhuka inogara mune mumwe nemumwe wedu (uye ichi chikamu chehunhu hwedu, pamwero wehuropi hwereptilian), kana kudzidza kudzikisira? Uye iwe unogona kupedza hupenyu hwako hwese ne "tochi" imwechete - kukosha kunonzi "simba" - uye uchiri kusaziva dzimwe sarudzo nemikana. Asi tingavaziva sei kana tikasarudza nzira yebudiriro?

Kuda kupikisa vamwe

Unogona kuita izvi uchibatsirwa nevamwe vanhu. Kana tikatarisa muenzaniso wedombo pamharadzano yenzira uye tochi sedimikira, saka tiri kutaura nezvekubatana. Icho chokwadi chekuti isu tinogona kuwana ruzivo rutsva rwakasiyana neyedu chete kubva kune imwe tochi.

“Munhu wose akaganhurirwa mukuona kwenyika, uye mikana yaanocherekedza yakamupoteredza ishoma. Semuenzaniso, musoro wemhuri unoda kutanga bhizinesi rake, - munyori anopa muenzaniso. - Ane sarudzo: Ini ndichatenga mota uye ini ndicha "hack" mumigwagwa. Mudzimai anouya ndokuti: uye iwe uchiri kuziva nzira yekunamira Wallpaper zvakanaka uye kupenda madziro. Mwanakomana anoyeuka kuti baba vake vakatamba bhora zvakanaka naye neshamwari dzake, zvichida pachava nekumushandisa ikoko? Murume wacho pachake haana kuona sarudzo idzi. Nokuda kweizvi, aida vamwe vanhu.

Kana tikashandisa dimikira iri kubhizinesi, saka mukuru wese anofanira kunge aine munhu ari mudonzvo rake anomutsamwisa kana kutomutsamwisa. Izvi zvinoreva kuti ane tochi inoburitsa hunhu hwakapesana zvachose. Uye kunze kwake, hapana achataura izvi zvakakosha uye haazozviratidze.

Kana tatarisana nechisarudzo chinokosha, zvechokwadi tinoda mumwe munhu asingabvumirani nesu. Kuda munhu anoona dzimwe sarudzo

“Munhu uyu akasiyana newe. Uye nazvo, iwe unogona kuona nyika nemeso akasiyana - nzira iyo vazhinji vanoiona nayo, iine matochi akafanana neako anogumbura waunoshanda naye. Uye ipapo mufananidzo unova wakawanda, "anoenderera mberi Konstantin Kharsky. "Kana uine sarudzo, unoda anopindirana, mumwe munhu anokuratidza zvimwe zvingangoitika."

Kana tatarisana nechisarudzo chinokosha, zvechokwadi tinoda mumwe munhu asingabvumirani nesu. Shamwari hadziite pano kunze kwekunge dzichifunga kuti ushamwari ndeyekusabvumirana uye kubvumirana. Tinoda munhu anoona dzimwe sarudzo.

"Waizosiya basa nekuda kwemukuru wemudzvinyiriri," anodaro Konstantin Kharsky. — Uye uyu munhu asingabvumirani newe achati kushanda nashefu akadaro kwakanaka. Muchokwadi, uku ndiko kudzidziswa kwezuva nezuva kuwana kiyi kumutungamiri akadaro: ndiani anoziva uko hunyanzvi hwakadaro hucharamba huchiuya. Iwe unogona kugara pane mukuru-mudzvanyiriri uye wova mukuru iwe pachako. Uye interlocutor anoratidza kugadzira chirongwa chakakodzera. Etc. Panogona kunge paine dzimwe sarudzo dzakawanda. Uye taingoda kurega!”

Kudzokorora tsika

Chechipiri icho munhu akatarisana neforogo mumugwagwa anofanira kuita kubvuma chokwadi chokuti zvizhinji zvezvisarudzo zvaanoita zvinongoitika zvoga, uye kwete zvachose zvakavakirwa patsika. Pane imwe nguva, takaita sarudzo yedu yakawedzera kana kushoma mune imwe mamiriro ezvinhu. Vakabva vadzokorora kechipiri, kechitatu. Uye ipapo sarudzo yakava tsika. Uye zvino hazvina kujeka - mukati medu mune munhu mupenyu kana seti ye otomatiki maitiro?

Tsika dzine basa rakakosha - dzinochengetedza simba. Mushure mezvose, nguva dzose pakuita sarudzo yekuziva, kutarisa uye kuverenga zvingasarudzwa, zvinonyanya kushandisa simba kwatiri, kana iri mubvunzo wekuvaka hukama kana rudzi rwesausage kutenga.

“Tinoda kuvandudzwa kwemaitiro edu. Iwe unofanirwa kutarisa nguva nenguva kana ichi kana iyo tsika ichiri yakakosha? Isu tinonwa mhando imwechete yetii, tinofamba nenzira imwechete. Hatisi kurasikirwa nechimwe chinhu chitsva here, neimwe nzira yatingasangana nayo nemunhu anokosha kana kunzwa mamwe manzwiro matsva nemanzwiro? anobvunza Konstantin Kharsky.

Kusarudza nekuziva, zvichibva pane zvakakosha, uye kwete pa automata kana sarudzo dzinoratidzwa nevamwe vanhu - izvi, zvichida, zvinofanira kuitwa negamba munyaya yedu yega.

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