Simba ndiro simba redu rehupenyu, ratinoda kuti tirarame hupenyu hune simba, huzere uye hunofadza. Asi vazhinji vedu vanoita sevasina hupenyu pakupera (kana kutanga) kwezuva. Mishonga yepfungwa yakaratidza kubatana kwakasimba pakati pepfungwa nemuviri, izvo zvinoreva kuti simba shoma ratinaro, tinowedzera kurwara, kuora mwoyo uye kuzvidya mwoyo.
Kune vanhu muhupenyu vanowanzoda kusveta simba kubva matiri nekukurumidza. Uye kana iwe uri munhu anonzwira tsitsi kana tsitsi, iwe uchave uine pfungwa ine simba yekuti ndiani arikuyamwa simba rako uye rinhi. Nepo vamwe vanhu vachiti simba vampires vanhu vasingakwanisi kuchengetedza simba rehupenyu hwavo pachavo, vamwe vanotenda kuti simba vampires vane vavariro dzakanaka uye vakajairwa, asi vanhu vane masimba. Muzviitiko zvakawanda, simba vampires havatombozivi nezvezviito zvavo.
Nzira yekuziva sei simba vampire
Uri kusangana nezviratidzo zvinotevera:
Kushaya simba Marwadzo emuviri (musoro, kurwadza kwemuviri, etc.) Kuneta mupfungwa uye mumuviri Kushatirwa kana kufunganya.
Iyo simba vampire, zvakare, inogona kuratidza akawanda eanotevera maitiro:
Big ego, anofarira kukakavara Hasha kana kungoita zvehasha maitiro Paranoia Kuratidza chigumbu nehasha Narcissism Melodramatic maitiro Kuchema uye kugunun'una Makuhwa Kugara kunoda kusimbiswa uye kugamuchirwa Kunyengedza, kushungurudza manzwiro, etc. Godo
Zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti simba vampires haisi nguva dzose vanhu. Inogona zvakare kuve mamiriro uye kunyange zvinhu zvenyama senge internet, TV, redhiyo, runhare, dzimwe mhuka.
Chinhu chakanyanya kuoma ndechekuti simba vampires vapinda mudenderedzwa remhuri yako kana shamwari. Saka, tingamisa sei kuyerera kwesimba kubva pachedu kana tikataurirana nemunhu ari kushingaira kuripedza?
Rega kutarisa maziso kwenguva refu
Ndiyo imwe yemasinji makuru emagetsi. Kunyanya kutarisisa kwaunoita, ndipo paunonyanya kubatanidzwa muhurukuro uye hautombooni kuti hauna chinhu. Muchiitiko ichi, kuonana neziso nguva nenguva kunodiwa.
Isai nguva yemazuva
Nguva yako inokoshawo, uye haufaniri kumirira maawa 1-2 kusvikira simba rako rapera zvachose uye uropi hwako hwapera. Zvinoenderana nehuwandu hwesimba rako, isa muganho we5, 10, 15, 20 maminetsi.
Dzidza kusaita
Chinokosha zvikuru. Energy vampires inodya pane zvinoitwa nevamwe, zvichikumanikidza kuti urambe uchivaratidza. Zvakakosha kuti udzidze kusatora rutivi mukudyidzana kwako nevamwe vanhu. Iwe unofanirwa kunyatso tarisa kuratidzwa kweakanyanya kunaka kana manzwiro asina kunaka.
Dzidza kusaita nharo
Hongu, zvinoyedza, asi pakupedzisira haugone kushandura vamwe vanhu kunze kwekunge vazvishandura ivo pachavo - kana ukanyanya kuvadzivisa, ivo vanokupedza.
Kurukura naye muri pamwe nevamwe vanhu
Kuswedera kune simba vampire nemumwe, vaviri, kana vatatu vamwe vanhu zvichabatsira kuderedza kushanda nesimba uye kukanganisa kutarisa. Kuti izvi zvishande, unofanirwa kuve nechokwadi kuti vanhu ava havasi simba vampires zvakare.
Teerera kupfuura zvaunotaura
Kazhinji kazhinji, mavampires anongoda kuteerera. Paunowedzera kutaura, simba rakawanda raunorasikirwa naro (kunyanya kana iwe uri introvert). Kushandisa mazwi akadai se "nei", "rini", uye "sei" anokurudzira vampires kutaura zvakanyanya, izvo zvichachengetedza simba rako. Ingoedza kusateerera kune zvose zvakakwana, kwete kuzvitora iwe pachako uye, zvakare, kwete kuratidza manzwiro.
Edza kuomerera kunyaya dzakareruka
Hurukuro dzako hadzifanire kunge dzichidzvinyirira. Kana zvichidikanwa, tora kutonga kwehurukuro uye shandura musoro wehurukuro kune chimwe chinhu chakareruka uye chakareruka.
Ita mupfungwa
Vanhu vazhinji vanoti kuona zvidziviriro zvesimba zvinodzivirira kunobatsira kubvisa kuneta kwepfungwa uye kuchengetedza kusarerekera uye kudzikama. Ingoedza.
Dzivisa Energy Vampires Kana Zvichibvira
Hazviiti nguva dzose, asi inzira iri nyore yekuzvibatsira. Nekudaro, iyo shoma iwe yaunosangana neane simba vampire, mishoma mikana yauchazove yekuvandudza nekuisa mukudzidzira hunobatsira uye hunodiwa hunyanzvi hwehupenyu.
Cheka kuonana
Iyi ndiyo yekupedzisira uye yekupedzisira sarudzo. Dzimwe nguva, nekuda kwehutano hwako uye mufaro, iwe unofanirwa kuita sarudzo dzakaoma pamusoro penzvimbo yako. Pakupedzisira, kana ukaramba uchitambura, sarudzo yakanakisisa ndeyokurega kubata munhu uyu.