Mukati
Zvichida vaviri vakaroorana vanorota nezvehukama hwakanaka uye hunofadza. Asi neiko mimwe mibatanidzwa ichikwanisa kukurira zvinetso zvipi nezvipi, nepo imwe ichiparara pakusangana kwokutanga nezvipingamupinyi? Mikana yewanano yenguva refu inowedzerwa zvakanyanya kana vaviri vakaroorana vaine humwe hunhu, anodaro murairidzi uye mupi wezano mukukura kwemunhu uye hunyanzvi hwehukama Keith Dent.
Kana iwe wakaverenga mabhuku akawanda uye zvinyorwa pamusoro pehukama, zvichida wakacherechedza kuti pane maonero maviri anopikisana pamubvunzo wekusarudza shamwari. Dzimwe nyanzvi dzinovimbisa kuti "vanopikisa vanokwezva", vamwe kuti, pane kudaro, zvakakosha kutsvaga munhu akafanana nesu sezvinobvira.
“Asi chokwadi ndechokuti unhu hwako hunoenderana here kana kuti hauna basa nazvo,” anodaro murairidzi wacho Keith Dent. Chero hupenyu hwemhuri huzere nematambudziko, uye rudo handirwo chete chinhu chinochengetedza hukama hwakanaka. “Mune dzimwe mhuri, varoorani vakafanana pahunhu, mune dzimwe havana kana kumbofanana. Kubva pane zvakaitika kwandiri ndinogona kuti: vose vari vaviri vanogona kugara pamwe chete nerufaro nokusingaperi.
Chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti vadiwa vane humwe hunhu.
1. Kukwanisa kugamuchira pasina kutonga
Izvo zvakanyanya kukosha kuti ugone kunzwisisa uye kugamuchira mudiwa neake ese maficha, kusanganisira kwete ayo anonyanya kufadza.
Kana ukaedza kugadzirisa mumwe wako, imba yako inotanga kuparara. Hazvisi zvetsaona kuti wakambosarudza munhu uyu nekutadza kwake kwese. Mukuwedzera, hapana anofarira kuteerera kutsoropodza, uye vamwe vanotozvitora sekutuka kwega.
2. Kuvimbika kumudiwa
Kuvimbika chiratidzo chehukama hwakasimba hwepfungwa pakati pako. Zvakakosha kuti iwe unoda kuchengetedza muchato - kwete nekuda kwekuita basa, asi nokuti muri boka rimwe uye makatsunga kuita zvose zvinobvira kuti mugare pamwe chete.
3. Trust
Wakambosangana nevaroorani vanofara umo mudiwa mumwe chete aizoita sarudzo dzese kune vese? Izvozvo hazviitiki. Mumwe nomumwe wevakaroorana anofanira kuva nechokwadi chokuti mumwe wake achamutsigira mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu uye acharamba achiremekedza pfungwa dzake, maonero uye manzwiro ake. Nokuda kweizvi, kuvimba uye kukwanisa kuteerera kune vamwe zvakakosha.
4.Kutendeseka
Zvinonyanya kukosha kuti ugone kutaura pachena nezvezviitiko zvako. Kazhinji isu tine hunyengeri kana kuvanza manzwiro edu echokwadi, nokuti, kuziva mudiwa, tinonzwisisa kuti maonero edu kana mazano achasangana nekusatenderwa. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, usareva nhema kana kuvanza chimwe chinhu, edza kutsvaga nzira yekutaura zvaunofunga, asi nenzira iyo mumwe wako achanzwisisa.
5. Kukwanisa kukanganwira
Mune chero hukama, kusanzwisisana, kukanganisa, kukakavara, kusawirirana hazvidzivisiki. Kana vakaroorana vasingazivi kuti vangakanganwirana sei, muchato wacho haugari kwenguva refu.
6. Kugona kuonga
Zvakakosha kukwanisa kuonga zvose izvo munhu waunoda anokupa, pasina kuzvitora, uye kukudziridza pfungwa yekuonga mukati mako.
7. Kunzwa kuseka
Zvakanaka nguva dzose kukwanisa kuseka kusawirirana kwenyu uye kusawirirana kwenyu. Kuseka kunobatsira kuchengetedza kufarirana uye kudzikisira mamiriro ezvinhu nekufamba kwenguva. Zvinonyanya kukosha kuti upinde munguva dzakaoma muhukama.
Nezve munyori: Keith Dent murairidzi, budiriro yemunhu uye hukama arts consultant.