Mukati
I need to be a mother, ine simba kundipfuura
“Handina kukwanisa kunyatsotsanangura chikonzero nei uye rini, asi ndinoziva kuti ndagara ndichida kuva nevana. Chero zvazvingava, chinhu chisina kumbondityisa. Ndinototenda kuti ndingadai ndakava nemwana ndiri ndega kana kumutora. Mushure mezvose, ndeimwe nzira yekutanga mhuri iwe usati wawana munhu akakodzera. Ini pachangu, ndaive nechido chekuva amai (ndichiri nacho), kupfuudza zvinhu uye kupa rudo. Zvingangove zvakare zvakabatana nekuti ini ndagara ndichinamata vana, vadiki, ini zvakare ndakaita misasa yezhizha uye ndinorangarira kuti ndainyatsodanana nevana vemakore 4-5. Mushure, ichi chishuwo chemwana chakasimbiswa uye chakaitika pandakasangana nemurume wangu. Kwatiri zvakabva zvangooneka zvekuti ndakamisa piritsi zuva rapfuura muchato wangu. Tinoda mhuri huru, vana 3, 4. Ndinoona kuti mune chimwe chinhu chakanaka mumhuri huru, takabatana zvakanyanya. Asi parizvino, hazvina kutanga zvakanaka: Ndine kakomana kadiki kanosvika makore maviri uye kwave kutoda gore tichiedza kuita mwana wechi2. Mishonga yekurapa ine iyi yakashata mhedzisiro iyo kuda kwangu kuita mwana kwakawedzera kagumi uye dzimwe nguva anozopedzisira anyanya kunyanya kana magirlfriends aita mimba. Ndinowedzera kusashivirira, kune rumwe rutivi nemhaka yokuti ndakava neakawanda akakwana majekiseni anodzokororwa uye ultrasound uye, kune rumwe rutivi, nokuti ndinoda mwana uyu. Handikwanise kuita mwana mumwe chete. ”
Laura
Kufa kwevabereki vangu kwakabva kwaita kuti ndide mwana
“Ndakanga ndisiri musikana mudiki aitamba nezvidhori, ndaisava nehanya nevana. Ndinofunga kuti rufu rwevabereki vangu rwakaita kuti ndide kutanga mhuri, kuti ndigadzirise zvandakanga ndarasikirwa nazvo. Ndaitoda kuita zviri nani, kuratidza kune avo vakandipoteredza kuti ndaigona kuita vana, vana vakawanda (taiva vaviri nehanzvadzi yangu). Ndine vanasikana vatatu vakura, asi hupenyu hwakonzera kufirwa nevana vaviri, mwana mukomana ane mwedzi 9 nemusikana anenge ari muchibereko. Mushure mekufa kwemwana uyu, ndinoyeuka ndichikumbira chiremba wevakadzi kuti vasunge machubhu angu. Akaramba achindiudza kuti ndaive mudiki. Aitaura chokwadi nekuti papera gore, ndakazvara mwanasikana wangu wechitatu. Sezvineiwo, zviitiko zviviri izvi zvinosuruvarisa hazvina kuderedza chido changu chomwana. Ndinofunga kuti ndine imwe nzira yekutsungirira uye kuti chishuvo changu chokuva amai chakanga chakasimba nguva dzose kupfuura kutambura kwangu, zvisinei zvikuru sei. ”
Evelyn