Kubva pakuberekwa kwomwanasikana wangu, ndakanzwisisa kuti nzira iyo vanaamai vaduku vanoonekwa nayo yakasiyana zvikuru neGermany neFrance. “Oh maita basa zvikuru! Ndakadaro ndichitoshamisika mbuya vemurume wangu vari muward maternity. Ndakanga ndichangobva mukupetenura chipo changu chekuzvarwa ndokuona nekushamisika seti yakanaka yezvipfeko zvemukati. Ambuya vakandipa panguva iyoyo zvisinganzwisisiki: "Haufanire kukanganwa vaviri vako ..."
Zvishoma zvingataurwa ndezvekuti chirongwa ichi chingaite sechisingakoshi muGermany, uko vakadzi vechidiki vachangosununguka vanozova vanaamai vakawanda kupfuura vakadzi. Zvinotova muropa kumira kwemakore maviri kurera vana. Kana tikasadaro, tinokurumidza kunyorwa saamai vasina kukodzera. Mai vangu, wekutanga, vanoramba vachindiudza kuti tinozvara vana kuti vaone vachikura. Haana kumboshanda. Asi iwe unofanirwa kuziva kuti iyo yeGerman system inokurudzira vakadzi kuti vagare pamba, kunyanya, kune rubatsiro rwehurumende. Mukuwedzera, kusiya mwana wako mune nanny kana mukireshi hazvina kunyanya kuwanda. Sezvo maawa ekuchengeta asingapfuuri 13 pm, vanaamai vanodzokera kubasa vanogona kungoshanda zvishoma. Kindergarten (Nurseries) vari, chero zvakadaro, vanongowanikwa kubva pamakore matatu.
"Mupe paracetamol!" »Ndine fungidziro yekunzwa mutsara uyu uchidzokororwa pano kana vana vangu vachingofemba kana kuita fivha. Izvi zvinondishamisa zvikuru nekuti nzira yekurapa muGermany ndeyemusikirwo. Chokutanga pane zvose, tinomirira. Muviri unozvidzivirira uye isu tinourega. Mishonga ndiyo yekupedzisira. Maitiro emumba, kusiiwa kwezvigadzirwa zvemaindasitiri kuri kuramba kuchiitika: hapana zvirongo zvidiki, organic puree, manapukeni anogezeka ... Nenzira imwecheteyo, vakadzi vari kufuratira epidural kuti vanyatsoona kuzvara kwavo. Kuyamwisa kwakakoshawo. Isu tinoudzwa kuti zvakaoma, asi kuti isu tinofanirwa kusungirira pazvose. Nhasi, kubva kune yangu expat maonero, ndinozviudza kuti maGerman ari pasi pekumanikidzwa kunoshamisa. Ndakakwanisa ndisina mhosva, ndakasarudza kurega kuyamwisa pashure pemwedzi miviri nokuti mazamu angu airwadza, akanga asingafambi zvakanaka uye kwakanga kusisina mufaro kuvana vangu kana kwandiri.
MuGermany, kudya hakusi kutamba. Kuva patafura, kugara pasi zvakanaka, kunokosha kwatiri. Hapana mwana anotamba netoyi tichiisa chipunu mukanwa asingazive. Zvakadaro, nyika iri kufunga kuumba nzvimbo dzakatsaurwa dzevana mumaresitorendi kuitira kuti vaende kunotandara. Asi kwete patafura! Kusiyanisa chikafu kunotanga mumwedzi wechinomwe nezviyo. Manheru kunyanya, tinopa porridge yezviyo yakasanganiswa nemukaka wemhou nemvura, zvese zvisina shuga. Kamwe mwana akatendeuka akasimba, tinomisa bhodhoro. Kamwe kamwe, 7nd kana 2rd zera mukaka haupo.
Mishonga uye mazano
Kana vacheche vachirwadziwa nemudumbu, vanopihwa infusions yefennel, uye kuti vadzikame, vanopihwa inodziya chamomile herbal teas kubva mubhodhoro.
Kukurudzira lactation, tinonwa doro shoma risina doro.
Dzimwe nguva muFrance ndinoona vabereki vachituka vana vavo mumugwagwa, mupaki, chimwe chinhu chaisazoonekwa muGermany. Vana vadiki tinovatsiura kana vangosvika kumba kwete paruzhinji. Takamborova maoko kare kare, asi kwete. Nhasi, chirango kurambidzwa kweterevhizheni, kana kuti vanoudzwa kuti vaende kukamuri yavo!
Kugara muFrance kunoita kuti ndione zvinhu nenzira yakasiyana, pasina kundiudza kuti imwe nzira iri nani pane imwe. Somuenzaniso, ndakasarudza kudzokera kubasa vana vangu pavakanga vava nemwedzi mitanhatu. Kutaura zvazviri, dzimwe nguva ndinoona zviratidzo zviviri zvakanyanyisa: shamwari dzangu dzeFrance dzinofunga nezvekutangazve basa radzo uye "rusununguko" nokukurumidza sezvinobvira, apo avo vari muGermany vakanyanya kukanganwa.
Kuva amai muGermany: nhamba
Chiyero chekuyamwisa: 85% pakuzvarwa
Chiyero chemwana / mukadzi: 1,5
Maternity leave: 6 mavhiki prenatal uye 8 postnatales.
Zororo revabereki ye1 3 makore kusvika inobhadharwa pa65% yemuhoro wenet wemubereki afunga kusiya
inogonawo kuitika.