PSYchology

Ndiani angaziva kuti handifarire sei mamiriro ezvinhu kana, ndatenga chimwe chinhu, ndouya kumba, ndovhura pasuru, uye chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka pachigadzirwa! Pamwe hoko pahembe dzakarukwa, kana bhatani risipo, kana chigadzirwa chadzikira.

Zvinogumbura, asi chero zvakadaro, unotarisana nesarudzo - kana kutakura zvinhu kudzokera kuchitoro, kana "kumedza" uye kungorasa chinhu ichi kure. Pano, chokwadi, mutengo wenyaya unobata basa rinokosha. Kana chinhu chacho chichidhura, saka unofanira kuenda kuchidzorera, iwe haugoni kuwana chero kupi zvako.

Asi kana iri katoni yemukaka, kana katoyi kadiki? Zvinoita kunge zvisingadhure futi. Zvakakodzera here kupedza nguva, uye dzimwe nguva tsinga (vanhu vazhinji vangangove vakatarisana nemamiriro ezvinhu apo vasingade kudzosa zvinhu zvakadaro muchitoro) kuti vadzose chigadzirwa chemhando yakaderera? Ukuwo, haudi kunzwa uchinyengwa.

Imwe nyaya yakaitika kwandiri nguva pfupi yapfuura. Ndakatenga seti yekugadzira muchitoro cheVana World. Iine zvidimbu zvemachira zvakawanda zvinoda kusonerwa kugadzira toyi nyoro. Ndakaunza seti iyi kumba. Ini nemwana hatina kuzvitanga pakarepo, asi mushure memavhiki maviri (nguva chete yekuchinjana kwezvinhu yakanga yapfuura).

Takaburutsa, takaisa mativi acho, ndokutanga kusona pamwe chete zvishoma nezvishoma. Zvisinei, kushungu dzedu, kana zvasvika kune spout, hatina kuzviwana pakati pezvimwe zvinhu. Zvakanaka, hapana chekuita, vakaunganidza zvese mubhokisi.

Uye heri basa riri pamberi pangu. Kune rumwe rutivi - chitoyi chakachipa, pamwe haufanirwe kutambisa nguva uye kuenda kuchitoro chekuchinjana? Mufananidzo unotyisa pakarepo wakaonekwa pamberi pemeso angu: Ndinouya kuchitoro, tsanangura mamiriro ezvinhu kuti hapana mhino, havanditendi, vanotanga kuratidza kuti ndarasikirwa nemhino iyi. Uye kazhinji zvinhu zvakatengwa kupfuura mavhiki maviri apfuura.

Hongu, pamusoro pazvo, ndakarasa cheki pachayo, iyo ine rondedzero yekutenga, pakanga paine cheki chete ine mari yese yakabviswa kubva pakadhi, uko isingaratidzirwe chero nzira kuti seti iyi inosanganisirwa mari yakatarwa.

Kazhinji, pandakangofungidzira kuti ndaizotsanangura zvakawanda sei, ndakasarudza kusiya pfungwa iyi uye kuchengetedza mitsipa yangu nenguva.

Asi imwe pfungwa yakandibata - pakupera kwesvondo ndakaenda kuburikidza neNheyo yeKuvimbika kudzidziswa, uye ndakawana hunyanzvi hwekuita kana ukatanga kukahadzika iwe pachako. Saka, ndakasarudza kuenda kunochinja seti.

Chinhu chekutanga chandaifunga ndechekuti mumamiriro ezvinhu akashata kudaro, ndaizokwanisa kuita huvepo hwakadzikama. Tevere, ini ndichaedza kudzivirira miganhu yangu (yakafanana neyeMutengesi-Mutengi maitiro atakaita pakudzidziswa).

Kazhinji, ndakazvigadzirira mupfungwa kuti nditaure zvisingafadzi.

Zvisinei, mushure mokuverengazve zvinyorwa zvangu kubva pakudzidziswa, ndakakanganwa zvachose pamusoro peizvi.

Chimwe chezvikamu zvesimba remukati kurongeka mune zvemunhu pfungwa, nguva, nzvimbo

Saka, panzvimbo yemufananidzo unotyisa une tsananguro dzandaifungidzira zvakajeka, ndakatanga kudhirowa mufananidzo wakasiyana:

  • Pakutanga, ndakatsunga kuti vashandi vandaizokurukura navo vaizova vane ushamwari zvikuru;
  • Ipapo ndakagadzirira chinyorwa chakapfava chinotsanangura chinetso changu nechitoyi;
  • Chokwadika, handina kutaura idi rokuti nguva yokudzokera yakanga yanonoka;
  • Uye zvinonyanya kukosha, ndakazvigadzirira mhedzisiro yenyaya yacho - vangave vanotsiva iyo yese package, kana kuti vanondipa iyo isipo (mhino).

Uye nemafungiro aya, ndakaenda kuchitoro

Ndinogona kutaura kuti hurukuro yese haina kutora maminitsi anopfuura matatu. Ndakawana chaizvo mushandi ane hushamwari akapinda munzvimbo yangu zvinyoro nyoro ndokuti kana paine imwe pasuru yakadai, ipapo chikamu chichabviswa ipapo. Kana zvisina kudaro, ivo vachatora chinhu chacho zvakare. Sezvineiwo, pakanga paine imwe pasuru yakadaro ine seti. Vakandipa mhino yangu pasina kana dambudziko, ndakafadzwa nazvo. Nenzira, havana kana kutarisa cheki!

Ndakaenda kumba ndikafunga kuti maproblems mangani atinozviitira. Mushure mezvose, kana iwe ukazvigadzirira iwe pachako kuti uwane mhedzisiro yenyaya yacho, saka kunyangwe zvese zvikasafamba nenzira yawakapenda iwe pachako, saka hapazove nekusagadzikana kusingafadzi kunzwa kuti zvese zviri munyika ino. pamusoro pako. Iko kurongeka kwemafungiro epfungwa yako pachako kunokanganisa zvakanyanya mhedzisiro inodiwa yenyaya.

Dhirorera mifananidzo yakakodzera iwe pachako
uye zvechokwadi kuchave nezvimwe zvakanaka muhupenyu hwako!

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