Mukati
“Kwekanguva, mhomho yevanhu yakashamiswa nokushamisika.
Uye akati kwavari, “Kana munhu akaudza Mwari kuti chaainyanya kuda kuita ndechekubatsira nyika yakazara nekutambudzika, zvisinei nemutengo wakadii, uye Mwari akamupindura achimuudza zvaaifanira kuita, oita sezvaaida kuita. akaudzwa?"
"Zvirokwazvo, Mudzidzisi!" chaunga chakadanidzira. “Anofanira kufadzwa kunyange nokutambura kunorwadza mugehena, kana Ishe akamubvunza nezvazvo!”
"Uye zvisinei nekurwadza kwacho uye kuti basa racho rakaoma sei?"
“Kuturikwa kukudzwa, kurovererwa pamuchinjikwa nokupiswa, kana Ishe akumbira,” vakadaro.
“Uye muchaiteiko,” Mesia akadaro kuboka, “kana Ishe akataura nemi, akati: NDINOKURAIDZAI KUTI MUFADZE MUNYIKA INO KUSVIKIRA KUPERERA HWENYU. Uchaita sei ipapo?
Vanhu vakamira vakanyarara, pasina kana inzwi rimwe chete, hapana kana inzwi rimwe chete rakanzwika pamateru egomo nomumupata wose wavakamira.
R. Bach "Illusions"
Zvakawanda zvakataurwa uye zvakanyorwa pamusoro pemufaro. Ikozvino yave nguva yangu. Ndakagadzirira kutaura izwi rangu rakajeka, mota!
Chii chinonzi mufaro
Mufaro ndipo paunonzwisiswa ... (chinyorwa kubva muchinyorwa chekuchikoro)
Mufaro uri nyore. Ndinozviziva zvino. Uye mufaro uri chaizvoizvo mukumuziva.
Mufananidzo unoenderana
Manheru. Starbucks paPokrovka, shamwari yangu neni tiri kugadzirira kuenda manheru manheru. Ndinogara ndiri pamakombi ari kutengeswa, ndinobata maceramics avo, ndinotarisa mifananidzo iri paari, ndinofungidzira ndakabata mugi ine kofi yakasimba, inopfungaira ... ndinonyemwerera papfungwa dzangu. Mufaro. Ndinoona musikana akagara padivi petafura: ane “Pusya” yakanyorwa pakapu yekofi ine chicherechedzo — ndiwo maziviro aakaita paakaodha Espresso yake kana Cappuccino… Zvinosetsa. Ndinonyemwerera uyezve mufaro. Munightclub OGI boka rangu randinoda, uye ruzha rweacoustics avo akaisvonaka anodururira munzeve dzangu sechishamiso chebharisamu, ini handiteereri kumashoko, ndinobata chete mamiriro uye manzwiro erwiyo, ndinovhara maziso angu. Mufaro. Uye pakupedzisira, ndinoona jaya nemusikana, vakagara patafura, vachitarisana mumaziso uye vakabatana maoko. Uye kuseri kwehwindo ravo kwakafanana nebast ine yellow, matte light. Kufanana nengano, yakanaka kwazvo. Mufaro…
Mufaro uri mukumonyoroka nekushanduka kwezvinotemerwa, zvinhu, zviitiko. Semunyori, muimbi, nyanzvi huru, iwe unogona kutora kutarisa kunoshamisa kwehupenyu hwako uye funga zvaunogona "kubika" kubva pane izvi "zvakanaka". Bofu, kanda, gadzira. Iri ndiro richava basa ramaoko enyu, tarenda renyu rakachenjera; kumirira mufaro kubva kunze isayenzi yakaoma, kutambisa nguva, pane imwe nguva iwe uchiri kunzwisisa kuti munhu mumwe nomumwe anozvigadzirira mufaro wake oga, haana hanya nevamwe ... Hongu, kwete, kwete. Uye kana izvi zvese zvave pachena uye zvinonzwisisika, ipapo iwe unogona kutanga kugadzira yako wega nzira dzemashiripiti dzekuwana Mufaro; iyo yakanakisa, yakanyanya kugadzirwa uye ine mashiripiti.
Mufaro ndewe kuva nenguva, kunzwisisa kuti uri munzira yakarurama, kuziva simba rako uye kuona mugumisiro wezviito zvako. Hapana chikonzero chekuedza kuve wepasirese kana, pane zvinopesana, cheka muti wemufaro wako muchimiro chakafanana nevamwe. Hakuna uye hakugoni kuva nerufaro rwepasi rose nekuda kwekuti tese takasiyana. Pachave paine plus kana minus, pachagara paine kuzivikanwa kwakasiyana. Nekudaro, nzira uye nzira dzekuzivikanwa uku dzinogona kunge dzakafanana.
Ziva mufaro wako.
Hupenyu humwe chete
Uenoy akaverenga kubva mubvunzurudzo:
Ndechipi chipo chisina kujairika uye chinoshamisa chawakagamuchira muhupenyu hwako?
— Hungu, Upenyu uhwu chaihwo.
Hupenyu hunoshamisa, hwakasiyana-siyana uye hunogara huchichinja. Zvichida iwe unongoda kubata iyi rhythm - munhu wese ane yake - rhythm yekuchinja; bata yekutanga, yechipiri, yechitatu uye yechina kurova, syncopated, uye pamwe kunyange rhythm blues. Mumwe nemumwe ane zvake, mumwe nemumwe ane mutinhimira wake. Asi kuita kuti hupenyu huve hwakanaka, hwakajeka, husingakanganwiki divertissement iwe nevamwe - izvi, pamwe, ibasa remagamba chaiwo!
Maminitsi ose akazadzwa neshuga yakawanda yekufara zvokuti dzimwe nguva inova isina kugadzikana. Uye dzimwe nguva unogara manheru manheru uye uchifunga nezve ramangwana, nezve zvinoreva hupenyu, nezve chokwadi chekuti mudiwa haasi pedyo zvachose uye haazombove mumwe, asi ... mufaro chaiwo wezvaunofunga, kunzwa, kufunga. inoita kuti ufare zvisingaite. Uye hapana "chaiyo" maitiro kune chimwe chinhu, kune yakasarudzika yakatarisana nehupenyu, yako chaiyo yengano-ngano yenyika, ndizvo zvese. Uye iwe unogona kuona kutonhora, kurira kwematoni uye semitone kwese kwese, kana iwe unogona kuwana akajeka uye anodziya leitmotifs pasina kupokana uye kuoma.
Ndinotarisa apuro riri patafura. Ndinofunga nezvemavara anonakidza ainobatanidza, ndinofunga kuti ndeipi rudzi rwependi yandingatora: kraplak tsvuku, ndimu, uyezve ndaizowedzera aquamarine kumuganhu we chiaroscuro uye ocher kune reflex ... saka ndinodhirowa mufananidzo wangu, ndinosarudza mavara ini uye ini pachangu tinozadza zvinhu zvine zvazvinoreva. Uhu ndihwo hupenyu hwangu.
Nyika haina kupera nguva, inofinha, ine vanhu vakafanana, zvinhu, mafungiro, zvirevo, sub-zvinoreva. Anogara achigara, chaizvo miniti yega yega achifamba uye achizvarwa patsva. Uye pamwe chete naye tinodonha mukumhanya uku kusingagumi, tinoshandura, maitiro akasiyana-siyana emakemikari uye emuviri anoitika matiri, tinofamba uye tiripo. Uye izvi zvakanaka, uyu mufaro.
Mufaro unogara uripo. Panguva ino chaiyo. Mufaro hauna kare kana ramangwana. “Mufaro” uye “ikozvino” mazwi maviri anenge anoenderana, ndosaka usingade kubata Mufaro nemuswe. Inogara inewe.
Zvakakosha chete kuzorora uye kunzwa.
mufaro mukati
Mufaro watova matiri uye matiri chete. Isu tinozvarwa tiinazvo, nekuda kwechimwe chikonzero gare gare tinokanganwa nezvazvo. Isu takamirira kuti mufaro uwire kubva kumusoro, tinoenda kubasa, kubhizinesi, kune vamwe vanhu, isu tiri kutarisa kwese kwese, sebhora rakapetwa, kune inodhura zvakanyanya, yakakosha, yakajeka uye yakakosha - mufaro wedu wega.
Upenzi, unyengeri, nekuti mufaro uri mukati uye unofanirwa kusvika pazasi payo, tsvaga mafambiro akakodzera uye maitiro ekukwezva kunze.
Iwe ucharangarira kuti kamwe kamwe kwakatonhora zvikuru, kuchitonhorera; iwe wakaenda kune imwe nzvimbo nemumwe munhu, wakaenda, wakazorora, wakanzwa pamhepo, wakanga uine manzwiro akawanda akanaka, uye zvinoratidzika: iyi ndiyo mufaro. Asi imwe nguva yapfuura, shamwari dzako dzakatizira kubhizinesi radzo, iwe wakasara wega, uye ... mufaro wako ... wakapera? Akabuda achibva avhara gonhi. Uye pane kumwe kunzwa kuparara, kusuwa kushoma, kuodzwa mwoyo kuduku?
Muverengi anodiwa, ndingatadza.
Asi mufaro, mumaonero angu akazvininipisa, hauna kusungwa neshinda isingaoneki kune munhu kana kune imwe nyaya, chinhu kana chiitiko. Hazvibviri kubata Mufaro seShiri yeMoto, woivharira mukeji, uyezve, uchipfuura, tarisa mukati uye wochaja nayo.
Kana iwe ukadzidza kuzvifadza iwe pachako (pane nzira yako pasina mumwe munhu kutora chikamu), uye kwenguva yakareba (semuenzaniso, mazuva akati wandei), ipapo bingo, shamwari dzangu, uri munzira chaiyo.
Ndinotaura izvi kwete chete nokuti iwe uchanzwisisa mutemo (maitiro) ekuwana mufaro kubva muupenyu, iwe pakupedzisira uchakwanisa kuita kuti vamwe vanhu vafare. Dzidziso imwechete inoshanda pano semurudo. "Kutozosvikira iwe uchizvida, haugone kuda vamwe zvechokwadi." Ndizvo zvakaitawo mufaro: kusvikira wadzidza kuzviita kuti ufare, iwe uchagara uchida kuti vadikani vako vakuite kuti ufare, saka kutsamira, kuwana kutariswa, rudo, kutarisira. Hunyoro. Uye newe?:)
Saka, mutemo wekutanga wekufara: Mufaro wakazvimiririra. Zvinotsamira pachedu chete. Zviri mukati.
Mufaro unodzidziswa muhuduku here?
Saka ndaifunga kuti hapana anokudzidzisa kufara. Neimwe nzira ndeyepasirese kana chimwe chinhu kana isiri yakakomba. Vabereki vedu vanodiwa vanotarisana nemabasa akasiyana zvachose: vana vanofanira kunge vane hutano, vakanyatsodyiswa, vakanyatsodzidza, vakagadziridzwa, vane ushamwari, vanodzidza zvakanaka, nezvimwewo.
Ndinorangarira, somuenzaniso, kunyange zvakapesana, zvinoratidzika kwandiri. Ndakadzidziswa (kuiswa mumusoro mangu) kuti kusvikira wakangwara, wakanaka, wakarurama, nezvimwewo, hauzokodzeri ... Zvinoita sekuti hapana akataura zvakananga uye nenzwi guru, zvakadaro. Pfungwa dzemwana dzinoda kuziva uye dzakasiyana mumhando dzese dzekufungidzira, ndosaka ndakafunga: kuti kana ndikasa ... zvakati nezvakati, saka handizotarisirwe, kutarisirwa, mufaro, kudziya - verenga "Mufaro Muupenyu". Uye mufananidzo wakadaro unogona kazhinji kutora chimiro (chakashata mumaonero angu) kuti iwe unofanirwa kugara uye usinganeti kuratidza kuti iwe wakakodzera (kune) chimwe chinhu uye kubuda munzira yako kuti uzviratidze kune vamwe. Pane kuti ubve watanga kuvaka mufaro wako uye ufare.
Suwa.
Zvisinei, kana kunzwisisa uku kunouya, unogona kudzinga zvose "kana" uye ingosvika kune bhizinesi. Zvekuvaka kweMufaro wako.
Mufaro - kunaani?
— Unoda kuva chii kana wakura?
— Kufara.
Hauna kunzwisisa mubvunzo!
Hauna kunzwisisa mhinduro… (C)
Mufaro mutoro. Ndinofunga kuti chingava chinhu chakanaka kutaura.
Ndichataura zvakawanda kuti unogona uye unofanira kufara. Uye iwe unofanirwa kutanga wazvifadza iwe - zvishoma kune imwe mugove, uye wozotora kune vamwe. Kana uchinge uchifara, vanhu vepedyo vanongoerekana vafara padivi pako - chokwadi chakasimbiswa.
Mutsika dzedu, zvinoratidzika kwandiri, "Mufaro iwe pachako" unoonekwa sechinhu chine udyire uye chakashata, chinotopomerwa uye chinopomerwa. Kutanga kune vamwe, asi pamusoro pedu ... zvakanaka, neimwe nzira ipapo tichazvitarisira.
Iyi inhau yorudzidziso, ndinoratidzika kwandiri, uye ndinoremekedza zvikuru Orthodoxy, asi ndinosarudza kuzvifadza ndimene, uye ipapo kufadza vamwe vanhu upenyu hwangu hwose. Isarudzo yangu.
Ndinotenda kuti munhu anofanira kutanga kuvaka hwaro hwehupenyu hunofadza uye hunofadza, kusimbisa mukati wake wemweya musimboti, kugadzira mamiriro ese ekuwedzera kugarisana kunofadza, uye otanga kuita kuti vanhu vakamupoteredza vafare.
Ndingaita sei kuti mumwe munhu afare kana ini pachangu ndisingamire netsoka dzangu, ndisingafambi nenhanho yakasimba muhupenyu, pandinenge ndakasuruvara / ndakaora mwoyo / ndakazvibata / ndichiita kuora mwoyo uye kuora mwoyo? Kupa mumwe uchibira? Unoda chibayiro here?
Zvimwe chibayiro chakanaka uye chakanaka, asi chibayiro hachisi chipo chepachena, musanyengerwa. Patinenge tichibayira, tinogara takamirira chibayiro chekudzorera (zvichida kwete pakarepo, asi zvino zvakakosha). Kana iwe ukagadzira "akabatwa" uye uchizvibata saizvozvo, saka ini ndinokurudzira kuyeuka kuti hakuna munhu anokoshesa vakabatwa uye hapana munhu anobva abhadhara kune avo vakabatwa (nokuti avo vamakasarudza kuzvibayira ivo havana kuzvikumbira).
Kune vanhu vanowana Mufaro wavo mukuita kubatsira vamwe vanhu. Zvichida havasi kufara zvakakwana uye zvakakwana, asi vanofara kuunza zvakanaka kunyika, zvinounza kugutsikana kwavari. Ichi hachisi chibayiro. Saka usavhiringika.
Ini handikurudzire kuzviraramira uye iwe wega, hauone zvinoreva zvakadaro mumashoko angu. Ini ndinongokurudzira kushandura maitiro - kutevedzana kwekuita zvakanaka - kubva pauri kuenda kunyika.
Muchidimbu, ini ndichataura kuti kana vadikani vako / vadikani vasingabvumirani nenzira dzako dzekufara (basa idzva / bhizinesi / zvekuzvivaraidza), uchishandisa mambure ekuchengetedza (basa rakagadzikana, mari, kubatanidza, nezvimwewo) ita zvaunofunga kuti ndizvo zvinodiwa pakuvaka mufaro wako.
Kunyangwe ini ndichataura pano zvakare: kana kuedza kusingabudiriri nguva dzese, uye vadikani vako vaona kuti wakangobhowekana uye hapana mufaro mukuita kwako, vanorega kukutenda. Unoida here? Ita zvisarudzo zvine musoro pamusoro penzira yako. Rombo rakanaka!
Mufaro wangu here kana wemumwe munhu?
Nyaya yangu yandinofarira. Ndinozvibata nekutya, nekuti ... nekuti isu tine zvakawanda zvezvinhu zvese zvekumwe, mumaonero angu. Zvino ndichatsanangura. Kana mwana achikura, anotora zvinhu zvose. Anonzwisisa chakanaka, chakaipa, chakanaka nechakaipa, anoumba mipimo yake, maonero, kutonga, nheyo.
Vanhu vakangwara vanoti munhu haachakwanisi kugadzira chero chinhu chitsva maererano, semuenzaniso, mararamiro ehupenyu. Zvose zvinokosha, zvakadai se: mhuri, basa, kukura kwemunhu, mitambo, hutano, kutarisira mhuka dzemhuka, nezvimwewo zvakatofungwa kare. Akangotarisa / kutarira kubva kune mumwe munhu ndokuzvitora.
Zvinoita kunge zviri nyore kutora pane kudzosera, kunyanya kana izvo zvakagoverwa zvakatokura, zvakatora midzi uye zvave zvekuzvarwa zvachose. Vabereki vedu kazhinji vari vega, pasina kubatanidzwa kwedu, vanogadzira zvinangwa kwatiri - nzira dzedu dzeMufaro. Izvi hazvina kunaka kana zvakaipa, asi kazhinji nzira idzi ndedzavo.
Vabereki vakachenjera vevana, chokwadika, vanodzidzisa nokudzidzisa. Chete ivo havanyore mumatema uye machena "zvakarurama sei", asi kuti "zvisizvo", asi tsanangura kuti mushure mekuita kwakadaro uye kwakadaro migumisiro yakadaro, uye mushure meimwe - migumisiro, maererano, yakasiyana-siyana. Vanopa sarudzo. Kana zvisiri nguva dzose, saka kazhinji. Uye kupa mwana kodzero yekukanganisa uye kuputsa mhino dzake ari oga. Chinonyanya kukosha, pachiitiko chitsva chekutanga, vanogara pasi nemwana uye pamwe chete vanoongorora zvakaitika; fungisisa, ita ruzivo rwekubatana uye mhedziso.
Ngativei vabereki vakachenjera, mwana munhu anodiwa, wepedyo, anodiwa. Asi uyu munhu akasiyana, akatoparadzana uye akazvimiririra nenzira yake.
Ndakanzwa kuti vabereki, pasinei nokuti vanotibata sei, vanofanira kuudzwa zvinhu zviviri chete: kuti tinofara uye kuti tinovada. Zvinoitika kuti ichi ndicho chinhu chinonyanya kukosha kwavari.
Uye vana vakachenjera, uyewo, vose vana vakachenjera, handizvo here? Pa 17-18, iwe unogona kunge uchiri kufunga nezve nzira yekuenda nayo, uye pa20-22 iwe wakatogadzirira kutora mutoro wezvaunosarudza uye hupenyu hwako mumaoko ako; tanga kushanda, sarudza nzira yako uye bhizinesi rako. Mufananidzo wako weMufaro - wako mavara ane mavara emifananidzo - anounganidzwa mazuva ese, akaumbwa uye akaumbwa, uye iwe watove kukwanisa kutanga kuisa kunze mufananidzo wako wehupenyu hunofadza.
Iwe unofanirwa kugara wakatarisa mberi uye neushingi kutora basa, kunyange idzva. Iwe uzere nesimba, hutano uye simba. Kumhanya kwakazara pamberi!
Kana iwe uri kufunga uye uchifungisisa kwekuisa simba rako rine hutano uye kufarira, ini ndinokupa akati wandei maitiro ekuziva bhizinesi rako / nzira:
1) Unogona kugara (zvakawanda) kutaura nezvazvo;
2) Iwe unogona kutsanangura zvakabatana kuti nei uchichida (zvakajeka uye zvine musoro, dzimwe nguva dzimwe nguva kungonzwa chete, asi ndinozvitenda ne bang);
3) Iwe unogara uchida kukudziridza nekuvandudza mune izvi (fambira mberi);
4) Unogona kutora mufananidzo wega kuti zvichave sei (kunyangwe iwe pachako usingatendi zvizere mazviri uye pasina mari yayo);
5) Nhanho imwe neimwe itsva inokupa simba, simba uye kuzvivimba;
6) Kuita bhizinesi rako (sarudzo), iwe unoshandisa yakazara kana inenge yakazara seti yematarenda ako uye kugona. Iwe unozvishandisa nemazvo uye unozvishandisa;
7) Bhizinesi rako rakakosha uye rinobatsira kune vamwe vanhu. Inodiwa.;
8) Iwe unoona mugumisiro wezviito zvako, uye uku ndiko kutenda kwevanhu vakakupoteredza.
Uye, hongu, kana uchitaura newe, maziso ako achaudza munhu wese: kana vakapisa panguva iyo iwe uchitaura nezvechinangwa chako, bhizinesi rako, saka zvese zvakanaka, chinangwa chako, uye ipapo iwe uri munzira chaiyo - kuenda. Mufaro.
Mufaro ndiwo maitiro?
Vakawanda vanoona Mufaro senzvimbo yevakasimba, vanopfuurira, vane hasha, vakachenjera. Mufaro iwoyo unowanikwa, unofanirwa kuwanikwa.
Kune vanhu vanovaka mufaro kubva kune akati wandei (kazhinji zvinhu zvenyama), mufaro pane imwe nguva ungaite senge mazino chimera isingagoni kubatwa nemuswe, uye kwete chero nzvimbo yekutenda. Nei izvi zviri kuitika?
Mufaro zvechokwadi unoda vakachenjera, saka ngative ivo.
Ndakatonyora kuti Mufaro haugoni kusungirirwa kune chimwe chinhu kana mumwe munhu, mufaro unogara mukati memunhu pachake, izvo zvinoreva kuti hazvigone kuwanikwa munguva uye nzvimbo (inogara iinesu).
Chimwe chinhu ndechekuti isu takakwanisa kuwana sosi iyi matiri, kuita hushamwari nerufaro rwedu, kuita mubatsiri wedu muhupenyu.
Kana Mufaro unoratidzwa sechinangwa chekupedzisira, saka mushure mekubudirira kwayo, hupenyu hunofanira kupera (uye nei uchiramba uchirarama kana chinangwa chepamusoro chasvika?), Kana kuti munhu achanzwisisa kuti aita zvakanaka, awana, asi Mufaro neimwe nzira hauuye kwaari kumhanyira kuuya.
Chokwadi ndechekuti kuzadzisa zvinangwa kunogona kuita kuti tive vapfumi, vabudirire, vakanaka, vane utano hwakanaka, vane chivimbo, uye chero chimwe chinhu, asi tisingafari.
Ukatanga kundivhiringa pano worangarira kufara kwamakaita pawakasangana nemusikana uya kana mukomana uya nekusvetukira kwawakaita padenga handizvibvume. Sei? Nokuti hazvina kutora nguva refu. Kwaiva kufara, mufaro, kunzwa kwerombo rakanaka, kubudirira, asi kwete mufaro.
MUFARO inzira yakareba, yakareba (sezvinoita nguva dziri kuenderera mberi muChirungu). Mufaro unogara uripo.
Isu tinotora kubva pane uyu mutemo wechipiri weMufaro:
Mufaro muitiro. Mufaro unogara uripo.
Mutemo wechipiri weMufaro wakanangana nemutemo wekutanga, kana iwe uchifunga nezvazvo. Chero bedzi isu tichirarama, mufaro uri mukati medu, izvo zvinoreva kuti nguva dzose inogara nesu, inorarama uye inofema nesu. Anofa pamwe chete nesu. Ameni.
Mufaro - mukuenzanisa?
Pandakanga ndichinyora basa iri, ndaive nemusoro wakasiyana wakatsaurirwa kunzwisisa kunobva mufaro (kwaunobva, nemamwe mazwi, nekuti kashoma vanhu vanoenda kwairi vega uye nekuziva). Ndakafunga, ndakarangarira chiitiko changu pachangu, ndakabvunzurudza vanhu.
Imwe tekinoroji yakazviwana pachayo. Ndiri kutaura.
Kazhinji ndainzwa nharo dzakadai dzekuti mufaro ndewekuti, "kana uchitya uye uchitya, uyezve zvese zvakanaka", kana "Mufaro imvura, uye murarabungu ...", nezvimwewo. Uye America yakavhurika mukati mangu. musoro: mufaro uri mukuenzanisa.
Zvechokwadi, iwe unoyeuka mashoma majee ekare akanaka pamusoro peizvi. Nezvekuti shamwari yakakurudzira sei shamwari kutenga mbudzi kuti inzwe mufaro wehupenyu, kana zano risinganzwisisike pamusoro pekupfeka shangu dzine saizi diki pane yakajairika.
Isu tinowanzo kuseka zvinhu zvakadaro, asi isu hatisi nguva dzose kunzwisisa zvizere munyu uye homespun chokwadi chevanhu huchenjeri.
Mushure mokuongorora manzwiro angu uye evamwe vanhu uye maitiro emhinduro, ndakaona kuti kuti munhu afare, haadi nguva dzose kuita "zvakanaka" (zvishoma, izvi zvingasashanda nguva dzose kusvika pamwero wandinoda) ; kuitira kuti munhu afare, unofanira kutanga wamuita - kuregerera chiFrench changu - "chakaipa", uye "chakanaka" (haufaniri kunyange kuedza zvakanyanya muchikamu chechipiri, chinhu chikuru ndechokuti pane musiyano pakati pezviviri izvi). Zvakanaka, ndizvo chete, zvichida: ikozvino iwe unoziva teknolojia yemashiripiti yekuita kuti vanhu vafare.
Ndiri kuita jee, hongu, unogona kuziva izvi, asi hazvisati zvakodzera kunyorera.
Uyezve, kana iwe ukabvunza vanhu kana vachida rudzi urwu rwehupenyu, ivo vachati ivo vakanyatsogutsikana, uye vanobvuma kuti zvose zvinozivikanwa mukuenzanisa. Kunyange nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinotaura kuti kutsamwa, kutsamwa uye kutsamwa kunodiwa kana chete nokuti kunzwisisa kuti Mufaro chii, zvinoreva kuti vanofanira kuva neruzivo, uye kwete kuchengetwa mauri.
Kune rumwe rutivi, ini zvino ndinofunga: sei munhu ane ndangariro pfupi kudaro? Kana iwe uchifunga zvine musoro, saka kuzvidzivirira: munhu haagone kugara achiona manzwiro akajeka, zviitiko mune zvachose zviitiko zvese muhupenyu hwake, rangarira zvese zvakaonekwa zvakauya mupfungwa dzake, uye shandisa ruzivo rwake rwakaunga pano uye ikozvino: musoro wake zviri nyore. handaikwanisa kutsungirira mitoro yakadaro. Dai tese taive takachenjera kudaro, pamwe psychology yaisazodiwa.
Zvinoitika kuti kuderera munguva yekusafara, uyezve kudzokera kune mufaro, tinoona mutsauko mupfungwa uye physiologically uye tinonzwa mutsauko mumadonhwe (iyo inonzi delta yematunhu). Nokudaro kusimba kwekunzwa.
Kana tichitaura nezvenguva dzekufara kwehupenyu - nguva dzakanaka muhupenyu, pano tinogona kutaura nezve "kuwedzera dhamu." Kune vanhu vanoda zvakanyanya uye nguva dzese, ndiko kuti, kuchengetedza hupenyu hwehupenyu, muviri wavo unoda kuwedzera muyero wekufara kana mahormone anoenderana muropa.
Pano ini ndichayeuka kudzidziswa "World of Emotions" uye "Grafu yeEmotional State". Vanhu vazhinji, pavakabvunzwa nezvemhando yemafungiro avanoda kuzviraira kwezuva, vhiki uye hupenyu hwose, vanoramba hurumende yakasimba "Nyika yakaisvonaka", vachisarudza kuibatanidza nevamwe iyo yakaderera maererano. chiratidzo. Kazhinji varairidzi vanotsanangura izvi nenyaya yekuti vanhu havangoziva kuti ndeapi mavara uye anoti "Nyika yakanaka" nhanho inogona kusanganisira. Zvichida muitiro wakafanana unoitika nomufaro. Uye vanhu intuitively vanotarisa (kumirira, kudiwa, kuwana anokwezva) mamiriro ekuchinja kubva kune kuwedzera kune minus uye zvakasiyana, nekuti ivo havazive kuti ese mamiriro anogona kuve akanaka uye anogona kurarama sezvinodiwa uye zvinobatsira - kufara. Zvinoitika kuti nezvose zvakasiyana-siyana zvehupenyu, vanhu vanofara zvechokwadi vanoramba vachifara uye havaori mu "mufaro" wavo.
Uye apo vamwe vose vanoita sevanotasva roller coaster, kana vachiwira mugomba rakadzika-dzika kana kukwira kumatenga, vachigamuchira chikamu chikuru cheendorphins muropa muhafu yezviitiko uye vachizviti mufaro, vanorarama muupenyu hwavo hwemazuva ose husina hunyoro uye hunopenya. mifaro miduku nemikuru youpenyu, ichiziva zvakasimba ukoshi hwayo chaihwo.
Mazano uye Mabikirwo eMufaro
Kufunga pamusoro pemusoro kunoshamisa, asi iwe unofanirwawo kudzidzisa kuti sei. Kudai kudzidzisa Mufaro kwakanga kuri nyore kudaro, ndaizosvika mamiriyoni avanhu ndokuwana chitsama chikuru chemari, uye ndaizofara zvisingatsananguriki panguva imwe cheteyo.
Ini ndichapa gwara rakajairwa: kutanga zvakanyanya theoretical, wozoshanda. Ndine chokwadi chokuti munhu wose achabudirira, chinhu chikuru chido.
- Mufaro ibasa remaoko ako chete (hapana akambovimbisa kuti achakufadza, naizvozvo, iva netsitsi, uzvifadze);
- Mufaro uri mukushanduka-shanduka maererano nenyika uye iwe pachako. Rasa zvese zvitema, zvichena uye zvine misimboti uye uchaona kuti nyika izere nemavara akasiyana. Kuti ufare pano uye ikozvino, iwe unoda kuva wakasiyana: mutsa, uipi, ushamwari, gooey, kushingaira, kufinha, nezvimwewo, chinhu chikuru ndechokunzwisisa kuti nei uri mumamiriro ezvinhu aya ikozvino, izvo zvinoshanda;
- Inotevera kubva yechipiri. Batidza kuziva, usarega hupenyu huchitora nzira, iva munyori / muridzi wehupenyu hwako - zvigadzirire zvinangwa uye uzviite;
- Iva nehanya, kuda kuziva uye kuve nechido. Mune mamwe mazwi: iva mwana.
- Koshesa zviri pano uye ikozvino. Icho chokwadi chekuti kune maoko, makumbo uye musoro wekufunga zvakatokura!
- Kuparadzanisa zvakakosha kubva kune zvisingakoshi, gorosi kubva kumandi. Batidza kusava nehanya kune hutano pazvinenge zvichidikanwa uye zvichibvira, shanda uye ita nhamburiko pazvinenge zvichidikanwa;
- Ida nyika uye iwe pachako munyika ino! Vimba, batsira vanhu, shanda uye ufare. Chakakupoteredza ndicho chiri mukati mako.
- Dzimwe nguva zvakakosha kufunga nezverufu, nezve magumo ehupenyu. Steve Jobs akanyora kuti manheru ega ega aienda pagirazi ozvibvunza kuti: “Kudai iri rakanga riri zuva rokupedzisira roupenyu hwangu, ndaizoda kuti zuva rino riende seizvi here?” Uye kana kwemazuva akati kuti akatevedzana akapindura zvisina kunaka, akachinja chimwe chinhu muupenyu hwake. Ndinokukurudzirai kuti muitewo saizvozvo.
- Tenda kuti zvinhu zvose zvichabudirira. Zvakakodzera.
Zvino ngatienderere mberi nekudzidzira:
Mabikirwo emufaro
- Nhamba yekutanga: sungirira zvimiti zvakatenderedza imba zvine makotesheni anokurudzira anokurudzira hupenyu, basa uye mufaro. Kupenya, ruzha, resonant. Shandura zvinoenderana nemanzwiro ako uye manzwiro aunoita izvo zvakatovakwa muhupenyu;
- Recipe mbiri: rarama nguva dzehupenyu uye mapikicha atove otomatiki akadzima maziso ako, sechinhu chitsva. Chokwadi, zvitsva. Kunyangwe muzvakaoma, kune mamorekuru anogara achifamba. Chii chatingataure nezvemunhu waunogona kuwana zuva rega rega uye kudzidza nenzira nyowani!
- Recipe yechitatu: teerera kune kufara, kwakanaka, mimhanzi inopenya. Mimhanzi inogadzira mamiriro ehupenyu. Rangarira kuti mimhanzi ipi inokwidzwa kumutambi wako. Kana iri dombo, heavy metal, ipapo life leitmotif ichapenyawo nemavara emabhesi anorema uye tambo dzegitare dzine ruzha. Nyora muunganidzwa wako mutsva unosimudzira mweya wako, unokukurudzira kuimba, kushanda uye kunyemwerera. Hooray!;
- Recipe yechina: shandura kutarisa kwekutarisisa kubva kwauri kuenda kune kunze kwenyika. Teerera uye iwe unobva waona mararamiro evamwe vanhu, zvipfeko zvavanopfeka, zvavanodya, teerera, zvavari kutaura nezvazvo. Fungidzira kuti iwe uri mutori wenhau kana munyori, unofanirwa kutarisa uye kunyora pasi zvese zvinonakidza, zvemazuva ese, zvakanaka. Ita chega chega chega chega chega chekugadzira mise-en-scène; bata chitauriro, matauriro, matauriro, matauriro, kumbomira, tsumo. Zvimwe uchazviwanira mauri nyanzvi yemashoko kana mutungamiriri. Pamberi!
- Recipe shanu: ita sarudzo nekukurumidza. Izvi hazvirevi kuti sarudzo inofanira kunge isina kufunga, zvinoreva kuti haifaniri kuitwa mukurwadziwa uye kutsenga, kudzokororwa, kuyamwa kakawanda, kakawanda. Ndakasarudza - ndakazviita, ndokubva ndafunga chimwe chinhu zvakare - ndakazviita zvakare. More rhythm yehupenyu uye kuzvivimba;
- Nhanhatu: funga zvishoma, taura zvishoma, ita zvakawanda. Funga zvishoma - kune vanhu vanofarira kuita demagogy uye kunakirwa pfungwa ... Taura zvishoma - kune avo vanofunga zvakanyanya uye vachiri kuzvitaura kushamwari dzavo nevavanoziva. Mamwe mafambiro pachikamu chenguva. Kufunga, kubvunza kwakakosha, asi zvese zvakanaka zvine mwero. Kunyangwe ukakanganisa, zvakare zvakanaka, chiitiko. Zvino, zvichibva pane ruzivo, unogona kuita sarudzo dzine ruzivo uye kuenda kuchinangwa .;
- Chinomwe: Fungidzira kuti iwe uri protagonist wefirimu rauri kuona iwe pachako. Iyo hero inodiwa uye inofanirwa kuvimba uye kutenda. Mukufamba kwemufananidzo (hupenyu), hero inofanira kutarisana nezviitiko zvakasiyana-siyana. Hunhu hwako hunoita sei? Ungada kuti aite sei kuti arambe ari padanho rekuvimba neruremekedzo? Iyo dhizaini ndeyekuti hausi muoni chete, iwe uri zvakare director, director, uye mukuru scriptwriter. Iwe unotova mugadziri wekugadzira uye mugadziri wezvipfeko, muimbi uye mugadziri. Iwe unoziva ese manomano uye akavanzika mabikirwo egamba RAKO kuti arambe ari gamba chairo ... saka mubatsire kuti ave mumwe .;
- Eight: rangarira chiitwa "kunzwa kunakidzwa", bata mafaro kubva kuzvinhu zviri nyore zvemazuva ese uye maitiro, tora uye uzvigadzirire buzz chero nguva .;
- Zvipfumbamwe: ronga mazororo madiki iwe pachako, ronga mafaro. Kuenda kumabhaisikopo, theatre, zvisikwa; shamwari itsva, mabhuku, zvekuzvivaraidza, ndiro.; tarisa kubudirira, kufara kwevanhu vanotaurirana, kuzvibata, kutarisa hupenyu. Adopt chiitiko, wana mifananidzo, mapikicha ehupenyu hunofadza. Ipapo iwe unozonzwisisa zvaunoda kuenda uye kushingirira, wobva wasvika ikoko nekukurumidza..
Vanofara vanhu manejimendi
Ndinofunga. Ndakafunga nezve zvematongerwo enyika (hazvina kunaka chete kutaura nezve psychology) uye ndakaona kuti kunyangwe mune demokrasi (nei "kunyangwe", nenzira, "kunyanya" mune demokrasi) nyika, zvinodikanwa kuve neakakosha mavheti ekudzora vanhu. .
Nyika imwe neimwe ine mitemo yayo uye maitiro ekuzvibata kwevagari vemo, izvo zvinoreva kuti zvinokwanisika kutora mafomula (tekinoroji) yekufurira nhengo munharaunda yakadaro.
Vanhu vasingafari vari nyore kubata, kubata, kune akawanda mapoinzi ekuvimba, kuwedzera. Ndiani anoda vanhu vanofara nokusingaperi vanokwanisa kurarama uye kufara mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu? Kusiyana neizvi, nzira dzakadaro dzinodiwa kuitira kuti vanhu vaitwe "vakaipa" - kutsausa pfungwa dzavo kubva kune dzimwe nyika dzezvematongerwo enyika kana chidzidzo - kuti vazive kuti zvingave sei kana vakasaita sezvavanofanira (rangarirai. Khodorkovsky, kuputika mu metro, Domodedovo).
Munhu anofara munhu anonyatsoziva, uye anoziva zvose zviri kuitika kwete mukati make chete, asiwo kunze. Uyu munhu mutungamiriri, kwete muteveri, saka zvakamuomera kwazvo kuwana nzira dzekupesvedzera. Uye hurumende ipi inoida? Unobvumirana nazvo here?
Ziva, fara, tenda mauri. Rombo rakanaka.