Mukati
“Ndaisakwanisa kudanana nomwanakomana wangu”
"Panguva yekubvunzana kwangu general practitioner, Ndakamuudza nezvemarwadzo emudumbu. Ndaive nemakore 23. Senzira yekuzvidzivirira, akandiraira ongororo yakakwana, nekuonekwa kwe beta-HCG. Kwandiri zvaiita sezvisina basa nekuti ndainge ndagadzikana uye ndisina kana chiratidzo. Zvichitevera kuongororwa ropa uku, chiremba wangu akabva andibata kuti ndiuye nekukasika, nekuti akanga awana maresults angu uye pane chimwe chinhu. Ndakaenda kubvunzana uku, ndipo payaakandiudza nezvenhumbu yangu... Uye kuti mwero wangu wakakwira zvakanyanya. Ndakatozofonera maternity ward aive pedyo akandimirira Shandisa scan chimbichimbi. Chiziviso ichi chakandibata sebhomba mumusoro mangu. Ndakashaya kuti chii chaiitika kwandiri, nekuti nemurume wangu takanga tisina basa rekutanga mhuri nekukasira, nekuti ndakanga ndisina basa rekugara. Svika pa chipatara, ndakabva ndachengetwa na gynecologist nokuda kweiyo ultrasound, ndichiri kufunga kuti yakanga isiri yechokwadi. Panguva yandakaoneswa nachiremba mufananidzo wacho, ndakaona kuti ndakanga ndisiri munhanho dzokutanga dzenhumbu asi kuti ndakanga ndava padanho repamusoro. Zvakandirwadza ndipo paakandiudza kuti ndaiva nepamuviri pevhiki 26! Nyika yakaputsika yakandipoteredza: pamuviri wakagadzirirwa mumwedzi 9, uye kwete mumwedzi mitatu nehafu!
Akandidaidza kuti "mama" pazuva rake rekuzvarwa rechipiri
Mazuva mana mushure mekuzivisa uku, dumbu rangu riri kunze, uye mwana akatora nzvimbo yose yaaida. Kugadzirira kwaifanira kuitwa nekukurumidza, nekuti sezvakaitika kuramba nhumbu, ndaifanira kuteverwa muCHU. Pakati pezvipatara, zvose zvaifanira kuitwa nokukurumidza. Mwana wangu akazvarwa ku34 SA, saka mwedzi isati yasvika. Nguva yekuzvarwa kwake ndiro zuva rainyanya kundifadza muupenyu hwangu, zvisinei nekushushikana kwaindishungurudza: dai ndaizova “amai chaivo”, nezvimwewo. Mazuva akafamba ndine mwana akanaka uyu pamba… asi handina kukwanisa’ t hukama nemwanakomana wangu. Pasinei nokumuda kwangu, ndakanga ndichiri kunzwa kure kure, kwandisati ndisati ndagona kurondedzera nhasi. Ukuwo murume wangu akaita ushamwari hwepedyo nemwanakomana wake. Kekutanga mwana wangu akandifonera haana kuti “amai” asi akandidaidza nezita rangu : pamwe ainzwa kuti ndine malaise mandiri ,. Uye nguva yokutanga yaakanditi "amai" ndiyo paakasvitsa makore 2. Makore apfuura uye zvino, uye zvinhu zvachinja: Ndakakwanisa kuumba ukama uhwu nemwanakomana wangu, zvichida kutevera kuparadzana nababa vake. Asi nhasi ndinoziva kuti ndainetseka pasina uye kuti mwana wangu anondida. “Emma
“Handina kumbobvira ndanzwa mwana mudumbu mangu”
« Ndakazoona kuti ndaiva nepamuviri pasara awa imwe chete ndisati ndasununguka. ndanga ndine sunga, saka shamwari yangu yakandiendesa kuchipatara. Chii chakatishamisa patakaudzwa nemunhu wekukurumidzira akazivisa nhumbu yangu ! Tisingatauri mashoko ake ane mhosva zvikuru, kwete kubvuma kuti takanga tisingazivi nezvazvo. Uye zvakadaro chaive chokwadi: handina kumbofunga kweminiti kuti ndaiva nepamuviri. Ndakarasa zvakawanda asi, kuna chiremba, zvakanga zvakarurama gastroenteritis. Ndakanga ndapfekawo huremu hushoma, asi sezvinei ndinowanzoita yoyo side kilos (tisingarevi nyaya yekuti tinodya nguva dzese mumaresitorendi…), handina kunetseka. Uye pamusoro pezvose, handina kumbonzwa mwana mudumbu mangu, uye Ndakanga ndichiri kutevera! Mumhuri umu, munhu mumwe chete ndiye akazoreurura kwatiri kuti pane zvaaifungira, asina kumbotiudza, achifunga kuti taida kuvanza. Mwana uyu takanga tisingamudi pakarepo, asi pakupedzisira chaive chipo chikuru. Nhasi, Anne ane mwedzi gumi nemishanu uye isu vatatu tinofara chose, tiri mhuri. “
“Mangwanani, ndakanga ndichiri nedumbu rakadzikama! “
“Ndakaona kuti ndaiva nepamuviri pandaiva pamwedzi mina yenhumbu. Mumwe musi uri Svondo, ndakamboti ndisagadzikana pandakaenda kunoona mumwe wangu aitamba bhora. Ndaiva nemakore 27 uye iye aiva nemakore 29. Kakanga kari kekutanga kuitika kwandiri. Mangwana acho, tichitaura nezvekupera kwevhiki kwangu, ndakaudza mumwe wandaishanda naye nezvekusagadzikana kwangu uyo akandikurudzira kuti ndiende kunotsvaka kuongorora ropa,nekuti hanzvadzi yake yaingonzwawo kusagadzikana paaiva nepamuviri. Ndakapindura ndikati hazvaibvira kuti ndiite nhumbu sezvo ndainwa mapiritsi. She insisted zvekuti ndakazoenda masikati acho. Manheru ndakaenda kunotora maresults angu ndipo pandakazoshamisika kuona varimu laboratory vachindiudza kuti ndaiva nepamuviri. Ndakasvika kumba ndichichema ndichishaya kuti ndoudza sei mumwe wangu. Kwandiri zvaive zvakandinakidza kushamisika, asi ndakafungidzira kuti zvaizonyanya kumuomera. Ndakataura chokwadi nokuti akabva angotaura neni nezvekubvisa pamuviri asina kana kumbobvunzawo maonero angu. Takafunga kutanga taona kuti ndaive nemimba kwenguva yakareba sei. Sezvo ndakanga ndamboenda kuna chiremba wangu wechikadzi mwedzi wakanga wapfuura, ndakafunga kuti ndakanga ndichangotanga kubata pamuviri. Zuva rakatevera, chiremba wangu akarayira kuongororwa kwakadzama kweropa uye Ultrasound. Pandakaona mufananidzo pachiratidziro, ndakaputika nemisodzi (yekushamisika uye manzwiro), ini uyo aitarisira kuona "rukova" ndakazviwana ndine mwana chaiye pasi pemaziso angu. , uyo aimukwenya tumaoko nemakumbo. Zvaifamba zvekuti chiremba weradioologist akanetseka kutora zviyero kuti afungidzire zuva rekubata pamuviri. Mushure mekuongororwa kunoverengeka, akandiudza kuti ndaiva nepamuviri pemwedzi mina: Ndakanga ndaremerwa zvachose. Panguva imwe cheteyo, ndaifara zvikuru kuva noupenyu huduku uhu hwaikura mandiri.
Zuva rakatevera ultrasound, ndakaenda kubasa. Mangwanani ndakaramba ndiine mudumbu mangu uye manheru iwayo pandakadzoka ndakanzwa matinji angu azara : ndichisimudza juzi rangu, ndawana dumbu rakanaka rakatenderedzwa. Ukangoziva kuti wava nepamuviri, zvinoshamisa kuti dumbu rinokurumidza kukura sei. Aive mashiripiti kwandiri, asi kwete kune mumwe wangu: aitsvaga kuti ndibvise nhumbu muEngland! Haana kuterera maonero angu ndakapedzisira ndazvivharira mubathroom ndichichema kuti ndizviparadzanise. Pashure pemwedzi akaona kuti aisazozadzisa zvinangwa zvake, uye akasarudza kuenda (nemumwe).
Nhumbu yangu yanga isingaite zuva nezuva uye ndaipasa ndega bvunzo zhinji, asi ndinofunga kuti zvakatowedzera hukama pakati pangu nemwana wangu. Ndakataura naye zvakawanda. Nhumbu yangu yakapfuura nekukasira: zvaive zvechokwadi nekuda kwemwedzi mina yekutanga yandisina kurarama! Asi kune rumwe rutivi, ndakanzvenga kurwara kwamangwanani. Sezvineiwo, pakuzvarwa kwangu, amai vangu vaivepo padivi pangu, saka ndakagara zvangu murunyararo. Asi ndinobvuma kuti manheru ekupedzisira kukiriniki, pandakaona kuti baba vemwana wangu vaisambouya kuzovaona, zvakanga zvakaoma kugaya. Zvakaoma pane kuramba nhumbu. Nhasi, ndine mukomana akanaka ane makore matatu nehafu, uye uku ndiko kubudirira kwangu kukuru. ” Eve
"Ndakasununguka zuva rapfuura pandakaziva"
"Makore matatu apfuura, zvichitevera kurwadziwa kwakanyanya mudumbu uye maonero ezvechiremba, ndakaita mimba test. POSITIVE. Kushungurudzika, kutya, uye chiziviso kuna baba… Yakanga iri katyamadza, mushure megore risingasviki rehukama. Ndakanga ndiri 22 uye iye aiva 29. Husiku hwapfuura: hazvibviri kurara. Ndakanzwa kurwadziwa kukuru, dumbu rangu richitenderera, uye kufamba-famba mukati! Kuseni ndakafonera sisi kuti vandiperekedze kuchipatara nekuti mumwe wangu aive ataura nezvebasa rake. Ndichisvika kuchipatara ndakaiswa mubhokisi retsiva. 1 hour 30 minutes ndega ndakamirira kuudzwa maresults kuti ndaive nemwedzi mingani. Uye kamwe kamwe, ndinoona gynecologist, anondiudza izvozvoChokwadi ndine pamuviri, asi kunyanya sezvo ndave kuda kusununguka : Ndapfuura temu, ndiri pamwedzi 9 uye 1 vhiki… Zvese zviri kukurumidza. Hatina zvipfeko kana zvokushandisa. Tinodaidza mhuri yedu, iyo inopindura nenzira yakanaka kwazvo. Hanzvadzi yangu inondiunzira sutukesi ine hembe dzisina kwazvakarerekera, nekuti takanga tisingazive bonde remwana, zvisingaonekwe. Kubatana kukuru kwatanga patiri. Zuva rimwe chetero, na14:30 manheru, ndakapinda mukamuri rokutakurwa. Na 17 pm kutanga kwebasa, uye na30 pm, ndaive mumaoko angu mukomana mudiki akanaka anorema 18 kg uye 13 cm ... Zvinhu zvese zvakafamba zvakanaka muwadhi yemadzimai. Isu tinofara, takazadzika, uye munhu wese ane hanya. Mazuva matatu akapera ndokubva tadzokera kumba...
Patakasvika kumba, zvakaita sokuti zvinhu zvose zvakanga zvarongwa: mubhedha, mabhodhoro, mbatya nezvose zvaienda nazvo zvakanga zviripo… Mhuri neshamwari vakanga vatigadzirira zvose! Nhasi, mwanakomana wangu ane makore matatu, iye mwana akanaka kwazvo azere nesimba, watine hukama hunoshamisa, anogovera zvese nesu. Ndiri pedyo nemwanakomana wangu zvekuti handimbomusiya, kunze kwekubasa nekuchikoro. Hukama hwedu nenyaya yedu inoramba iri nyaya yangu yakanakisisa… hapana chandingamuvanzira kana asvika: angori mwana anotsvagwa… asi asina kurongeka! Chikamu chakaomesesa mumamiriro ezvinhu aya hachisi kuramba: chakanyanya kuoma kutongwa kwevanhu vakapoteredza. »Laura
Marwadzo iwayo emudumbu aiva mafinya!
“Panguva iyoyo ndaingova nemakore 17 chete. Ndakadanana nemumwe murume aitovewo kumwe. Taigara tichiita bonde zvakachengeteka nemakondomu. Ndakanga ndisiri pamapiritsi. Ndagara ndakagadziridzwa zvakanaka. Ndairarama hupenyu hwangu hudiki hwekuyaruka (kuputa fodya, kunwa doro manheru…). Uye zvese zvakaenderera kwemwedzi nemwedzi ...
Zvese zvakatanga husiku kubva Mugovera kusvika Svondo. Ndakarwadziwa nemudumbu zvokuti kwakatora maawa nemaawa. Handina kuda kuudza vabereki vangu nezvazvo, ndichizviudza kuti kurwadziwa uku kwaizopera. Yakabva yaenderera mberi nekurwadza kuzasi kwemusana. Waive musi weSvondo manheru. Ini handina chandakataura asi pazvairamba zvichiwedzera. Saka ndakaudza vabereki vangu nezvazvo. Vakandibvunza kubva rinhi zvairwadza. Ndakapindura: "Kubva nezuro". Saka vakandiendesa kuna chiremba aiva pabasa. Ndainge ndichiri kurwadziwa. Chiremba anondiongorora. Haana kuona chero chinhu chisina kujairika (!). Aida kundibaya jekiseni kuti ndisununguke. Vabereki vangu vaisada. Vakasarudza kundiendesa kukamuri rokukurumidzira. Kuchipatara chiremba akanzwa mudumbu mangu akaona kuti ndairwadziwa chaizvo. Akafunga kundiongorora nhengo yesikarudzi. Dzakanga dzava 1:30 mangwanani. Akandiudza: "Iwe unofanirwa kuenda kukamuri yekuberekera". Ikoko, ndakasangana neshawa huru inotonhora: Ndakanga ndiri mubishi rekusununguka. Anoenda neni mumba. Mwana wangu akazvarwa na2 am on Monday. Saka marwadzo ese aya panguva yese iyi aive ma contractions!
Ndaive nezvimwe hapana chiratidzo kwemwedzi 9: hapana kusvotwa, kana kunzwa mwana achifamba, hapana. Ndaida kuzvara under X. But luckly my parents were there for me nemwana wangu. Dai zvisina kudaro nhasi ndingadai ndisina kuwana mukana wekusangana nerudo rwekutanga rwehupenyu hwangu: mwanakomana wangu. Ndinotenda vabereki vangu zvikuru. »EAKM