“Ndicharwara ndofa,” mukomana wacho (kana kuti zvimwe musikana wacho) akasarudza kudaro. “Ndichafa, uye ipapo vose vachaziva kuti zvichava zvakashata sei kwavari ndisipo.”
(Kubva pamifungo yakavanzika yevakomana nevasikana vakawanda, pamwe nevasina sekuru namainini)
Pamwe, munhu wese kamwechete muhupenyu hwake aive nefungidziro yakadaro nezvehurwere hwake nerufu. Apa ndipo pazvinenge zvaita sekuti hapana anokuda, munhu wese atokanganwa nezvako uye rombo rakanaka rabva kwauri. Uye ini ndinoda kuti zviso zvese zvinodikanwa kwauri zvitendeukire kwauri nerudo uye nehanya. Mukutaura, mafungiro akadaro haabvi kubva muupenyu hwakanaka. Zvakanaka, zvichida pakati pemutambo unonakidza kana pazuva rako rekuzvarwa, pawakapiwa chinhu chaicho chawainyanya kurota, pfungwa dzakasuruvara dzakadaro dzinouya here? Kwandiri, semuenzaniso, kwete. Uye hapana shamwari dzangu zvakare.
Mifungo yakaoma yakadaro haiitiki kuvana vaduku zvikuru, avo vasati vava muchikoro. Havana zvakawanda zvavanoziva nezverufu. Zvinoratidzika kwavari kuti vakagara nguva dzose, havadi kunzwisisa kuti vakambove vasipo, uye kunyanya kuti havazombofi vakavapo. Vana vakadaro havafungi nezvechirwere, sekutonga, havazvioni sevanorwara uye havasi kuzovhiringidza mabasa avo anofadza nekuda kweimwe rudzi rwehuro. Asi zvakakura sei kana amai vako vachigarawo kumba newe, vasingaendi kubasa ravo uye vanonzwa huma yako zuva rose, vanoverenga ngano uye vanopa chimwe chinhu chinonaka. Uye zvino (kana iwe uri musikana), uchinetseka pamusoro pekushisa kwako kwepamusoro, iyo folda, yauya kumba kubva kubasa, inopikira kukupa mhete dzegoridhe, dzakanakisisa. Uye ipapo anovaunza achimhanya kubva kune imwe nzvimbo yakavanda. Uye kana iwe uri mukomana ane njere, saka pedyo nemubhedha wako wakasuruvara, amai nababa vanogona kuyananisa nekusingaperi, avo vasati vakwanisa kurambana, asi vanenge vakaungana. Uye kana iwe uchinge watopora, vanokutengera marudzi ese ezvakanaka izvo iwe, une hutano, waisatombo funga nezvazvo.
Saka funga nezvekuti zvakakosha here kugara uine hutano kwenguva yakareba pasina anorangarira nezvako zuva rose. Munhu wose akabatikana nezvinhu zvake zvinokosha, semuenzaniso, basa, iro vabereki vanowanzouya naro vakatsamwa, vakaipa, uye mongoziva iwe pachako vanowana kukanganisa nenzeve dzako dzisina kugezwa, zvino nemabvi akatyoka, sekunge ivo pachavo vakageza uye havana. vakavarova vachiri vaduku. Ndiko kuti, kana vakacherechedza kuvapo kwako zvachose. Uye ipapo imwe yakavanzwa kubva kune wese munhu pasi pepepanhau, "Amai mukadzi akadaro" (kubva pamufananidzo wemusikana mudiki akataurwa naKI Chukovsky mubhuku "Kubva paVaviri kusvika Kushanu") akaenda kuimba yekugezera kunogeza, uye iwe hauna. imwe yekuratidza dhayari rako nemashanu.
Aiwa, kana uchirwara, upenyu zvechokwadi hune mativi ahwo akanaka. Chero mwana akangwara anogona kumonya tambo kubva kuvabereki vake. Kana tambo. Zvichida ndicho chikonzero, mune slang yevechiri kuyaruka, vabereki dzimwe nguva vanonzi - tambo dzebhutsu? Handizivi chokwadi, asi ndiri kufungidzira.
Ndiko kuti, mwana ari kurwara, hongu, kwete nemaune. Haatauri zvitsinga zvakaipa, haaiti mashiripiti anopfuura, asi chirongwa chemukati chekubatsira kwechirwere nguva nenguva kunozvitanga pazvisingabviri kuwana kuzivikanwa pakati pehama dzavo neimwe nzira.
Iyo nzira yekuita iyi iri nyore. Izvo zvinobatsira kumuviri uye hunhu neimwe nzira zvinongoitika zvoga. Uyezve, muvana, uye munenge vanhu vakuru vose, hazvizivikanwi. Mukurapa kwepfungwa, izvi zvinonzi annuity (ndiko kuti, bhenefiti-inopa) chiratidzo.
Mumwe wevandaishanda navo akambotsanangura nyaya yekiriniki nemumwe mukadzi wechidiki akarwara nebronchial asthma. Zvakaitika nenzira inotevera. Murume wake akamusiya ndokuenda kune mumwe. Olga (sezvatichamudana) akanga akabatanidzwa zvikuru nomurume wake ndokuwira mukuora mwoyo. Akabva abatwa nedzihwa, uye kekutanga muupenyu hwake akava nechirwere cheasthmatic, chakanyanya zvokuti murume asina kutendeka aitya akadzokera kwaari. Kubvira panguva iyoyo, akanga amboedza kudaro, asi akanga asingakwanisi kusarudza kusiya mudzimai wake airwara, uyo aiva nedenho dzaitowedzera. Saka vanogara padivi padivi - iye, akazvimba kubva kuhomoni, uye iye - akadzikama uye akapwanyika.
Kana murume aiva noushingi (mune imwe chirevo zvaizonzi utsinye) kuti asadzoke, kuti atange batano ine utsinye uye yakasimba pakati pehosha yacho uye mukana wokuva nechimwe chinhu chinodiwa, vaigona kubudirira, seimwe mhuri iri mune imwe mhuri. mamiriro akafanana. Akamusiya achirwara, aine fivha huru, aine vana mumaoko ake. Akaenda akasadzoka. Iye, apengenuka uye atarisana nechido choutsinye chokurarama nacho, pakutanga akapotsa arasika pfungwa dzake, ndokuzojekesa pfungwa dzake. Akatowana hunyanzvi hwaaisaziva nezvake kare - kudhirowa, nhetembo. Murume wacho akabva adzokera kwaari, kune uyo asingatyi kusiya, uye naizvozvo haadi kuenda, iyo inofadza uye yakavimbika pedyo naye. Izvo hazvisi kukuremedza munzira, asi zvinokubatsira kuenda.
Saka toita sei varume pakadai? Ndinofunga kuti hazvina kunyanya kuvarume, asi zvinzvimbo zvakasiyana izvo vakadzi vakatora. Mumwe wavo akatora nzira yekusazvisarudzira uye yekusaziva manzwiro ehudzvanyiriri, mumwe wacho akashandisa kuoma kwakamuka semukana wekuve iye, chaiye. Nehupenyu hwake, akaziva mutemo wekutanga we defectology: chero kukanganisa, kukanganisa, inokurudzira kukura kwemunhu, muripo wehurema.
Uye, kudzokera kumwana anorwara, tichaona izvozvo kutaura idi, angada chirwere kuti ade kuva noutano hwakanaka, hachifaniri kumuunzira maropafadzo uye chimiro chendangariro chiri nani kupfuura kumunhu ane utano. Uye mishonga haifaniri kunge inotapira, asi yakaipa. Zvose zviri mu sanatorium uye muchipatara hazvifaniri kunge zviri nani pane kumba. Uye amai vanoda kufara kumwana ane utano, uye kwete kumuita kuti arote chirwere senzira yemwoyo wake.
Uye kana mwana asina imwe nzira yekuziva nezve rudo rwevabereki vake, kunze kwekurwara, iyi ndiyo nhamo yake huru, uye vanhu vakuru vanofanira kufunga nezvazvo zvakanaka. Vanokwanisa here kugamuchira nerudo mwana mupenyu, anoshanda, ane misikanzwa, kana kuti achaisa mahormone ake ekushushikana munhengo inodiwa kuti avafadze uye achange akagadzirira zvakare kutamba basa remunhu akabatwa netariro yekuti muurayi achaita zvakare. utendeuke uye ugomunzwira tsitsi?
Mumhuri dzakawanda, chinamato chakakosha chechirwere chinoumbwa. Munhu akanaka, anotora zvose kumwoyo, mwoyo wake (kana musoro) unokuvadza kubva pane zvose. Izvi zvakafanana nechiratidzo chemunhu akanaka, ane tsika. Uye akaipa, haana hanya, zvose zvakafanana nepizi pamadziro, haugoni kumupinza nechero chinhu. Uye hapana chinomukuvadza. Zvino kumativi ose vanoti nokurangwa:
"Uye musoro wako haurwadzi zvachose!"
Mwana ane utano uye anofara anogona sei kukura mumhuri yakadaro, kana izvi zvisingagamuchirwi neimwe nzira? Kana nekunzwisisa uye tsitsi vanobata chete avo vakafukidzwa nemaronda akakodzera uye maronda kubva muupenyu hwakaoma, uyo anoshivirira uye zvakakodzera anokweva muchinjikwa wake unorema? Iye zvino osteochondrosis yakakurumbira zvikuru, iyo inenge inoputsa varidzi vayo kuti vaome mitezo, uye kazhinji varidzi. Uye mhuri yose inomhanya-mhanya, pakupedzisira ichitenda munhu anoshamisa ari pedyo navo.
Yangu nyanzvi ndeye psychotherapy. Anopfuura makore makumi maviri eruzivo rwekurapa uye rwaamai, ruzivo rwekubata neangu ega ega zvirwere zvisingaperi, zvakatungamira kumhedzisiro:
Zvirwere zvakawanda zvehuduku (zvechokwadi, kwete zvekuzvarwa) zvinoshanda, zvinogadziriswa mumasikirwo, uye munhu zvishoma nezvishoma anokura kubva mazviri, sekubva pabhurugwa pfupi, kana aine dzimwe nzira, dzinovaka dzehukama nenyika. Semuenzaniso, nerubatsiro rwechirwere, haafanire kukwezva kutarisa kwaamai vake, amai vake vakatodzidza kumuona aine hutano uye kufara maari saizvozvo. Kana kuti haufaniri kuyananisa vabereki vako nechirwere chako. Ndakashanda sachiremba wechiri kuyaruka kwemakore mashanu, uye ndakashamiswa nechinhu chimwe chete - mutsauko pakati pezviri mumakadhi evanorwara kunze atakagamuchira kubva kumakiriniki evana uye chinangwa chehutano hwehutano hwevechiri kuyaruka, iyo yaigara ichiongororwa kwemakore maviri kusvika matatu. . Makadhi aisanganisira gastritis, cholecystitis, marudzi ose dyskinesia uye dystonia, maronda uye neurodermatitis, umbilical hernia, zvichingodaro. Neimwe nzira, pakuongororwa kwemuviri, mumwe mukomana aive asina umbilical hernia inotsanangurwa pamepu. Akataura kuti amai vake vakapiwa kuvhiyiwa, asi vakanga vasingakwanisi kusarudza, uye panguva ino akatanga kutamba mitambo (zvakanaka, usatambisa nguva, chaizvoizvo). Zvishoma nezvishoma hernia yakanyangarika pane imwe nzvimbo. Ko gastritis nezvimwe zvirwere zvakaendepi, vechidiki vaifara vaisazivawo. Saka zvinopera - kunze.