Sei vasikana vachikwezvwa nevarume vendebvu kudaro? Ndeapi maitiro akadzika anosanganisirwa muvakadzi pakuona kwezvinomera pachiso cheanogona kufambidzana naye? Mashomanana anogombedzera nharo mukudzivirira ndebvu.
Ndebvu dzadzoka mufashoni here kana kuti hadzina kumbobuda mufashoni? Kubva pakuona kwekushanduka-shanduka - yechipiri. Mumakwikwi ekutarisirwa kwevakadzi, varume vane ndebvu vanotanga uye vanokunda.
Nyeredzi zhinji, kubva kuvatambi kusvika kuzvidhori zvedombo, dzinopfeka ndebvu. Ndebvu dzakazara, asi vamwe vanhu havasati vadzida. Vasingazivi chinhu pamusoro pomunhu, vanomhanyira kuita mhedziso pamusoro pake, vasina nguva kana kuti vasingadi kuziva hunhu huri seri kwezvinomera.
“Zvisinei, munhu upi noupi anodisa kubvuma rondedzero dzakadaro uye kusvetukira kumhedziso seakarurama anofanira kuziva kuti ari muubati ushe hwechimiro chendangariro,” anoyeuchidza kudaro Wendy Patrick, munyori webhuku rinonzi How to Read People.
Zvakavanzika zvekukwezva murume
Kukura kana kusakura? Sarudzo varume vazhinji vanotarisana nayo nguva nenguva. Paunenge uchizviita, zvakakosha kuti vafunge nezvehupenyu hwavo hwemagariro evanhu, maitiro, mararamiro ehupenyu, nzvimbo yebasa, maonero emudzimai nezvimwe zvinhu.
Ndebvu inoshandura zvakanyanya chitarisiko chemurume, uye izvi zvinowanzoshandiswa, semuenzaniso, muindasitiri yemafirimu, kushandura chitarisiko chevatambi nacho. Kune vakawanda, runako rwake rwuri pakuti kana akaneta kana kuti asingaendi, unogona kumubvisa mumaminetsi mashomanana. Asi handizvo zvoga: ongororo ichangoburwa yakaratidza kuti vakadzi vanowana varume vane vhudzi kumeso vachikwezva uye vane masimba mumagariro nenyama.
Varume vane ndebvu vane chitarisiko chechirume vainzi vanoyevedza nevatori vechikamu.
Chidzidzo cheYunivhesiti yeQueensland chaisanganisira vakadzi ve919 vane makore 18 kusvika ku70. Vakaratidzwa mapikicha evarume vane marudzi akasiyana-siyana ebvudzi rechiso uye vakakumbira kuyera mumwe nomumwe. Vatori vechikamu vakaona 30 mifananidzo yevarume: mumwe nomumwe akatanga kutorwa mifananidzo asina ndebvu, ipapo aine ndebvu dzakakura; nyaya dzacho dzakaratidzwawo retouched versions dzemifananidzo umo zviso zvacho zvairatidza kuti zviri zvechirume. Vakadzi vakazviyeresa nekuda kwekukwezva kunoonekwa kwehukama hwenguva pfupi uye kwenguva refu.
Zvakaguma nei? Kuwanda kwebvudzi pachiso, varume vanonyanya kukwezva, nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzakasvika pakugumisa uku. Varume vane ndebvu vane chitarisiko chechirume vaionekwa sevakanyanya kukwezva, kunyanya kuhukama hwenguva refu.
Ndebvu uye cheeky
Vatsvakurudzi vakasvika pamhedziso yokuti tinoona chiso chemurume sechiratidzo chokuti munhu ane nzvimbo yepamusoro munzanga uye ane simba remuviri. Bvudzi rechiso rinosimbisa maitiro echirume nekuvharira nzvimbo dzisinganyanyi kukwezva.
Vanyori veprojekti vakasimbisa kubatana pakati pemaitiro echirume echiso uye simba remuviri, kugona kurwisa uye chinzvimbo chepamusoro munharaunda. Mukuona kwavo, vachitarisa chiso chemurume, vakadzi vanotora mhedziso pamusoro pesimba uye hutano hwemurume, izvo, zvakare, zvinogona kukanganisa zvavanoda muwanano.
Zvinoratidza kuti nekumera ndebvu, murume anogona kusimbisa urume hwake? Zvinoita kunge zvakadaro. Tsvagiridzo inoratidza kuti varume vendebvu ivo pachavo vanonzwa sechirume uye vanogadzira yakawanda serum testosterone, iyo inozowedzera mazinga ehutongi hwemagariro.
Havasi vese vakadzi vanofarira ndebvu
Panguva imwecheteyo, havasi vakadzi vose vari muprojekti vaifarira zviso nezvinomera: kunyanya, vamwe vaitya kuvapo kwezvipembenene mubvudzi kana paganda revarume. Vamwe vanoona zviso zvisina kuveurwa sechiratidzo chekuti murume haateveri chitarisiko chake.
Zvisinei, hukama hahushandi mune zvinopesana - vakadzi vane hupamhi hwepamusoro hwekuvenga zvirwere vainyanya kuda varume vane ndebvu, izvo zvingaratidza kuti vanofunga kuti vhudzi rechiso sechiratidzo chehutano hwakanaka.
Vakadzi vasina varume vane vavariro dzokubereka vaiwanzofarira zviso zvevarume zvakagerwa zvakachena.
Vanyori vechirongwa ichi vakawanawo kuti vakadzi vane “chishuwo chikuru chokubereka” vaisanyanyoda varume vane ndebvu. Zvisinei, apo masayendisiti akafunga nezvehutano hwewanano yevatori vechikamu chepurojekiti, zvakazoitika kuti, kazhinji, vose vakadzi vasina kuroorwa uye vakaroorwa vaida kubereka vakawana vakadzi vane ndebvu vakanaka kupfuura vakadzi vasina kurota kuva amai.
Vakadzi vasina varume vane vavariro dzokubereka vaiwanzofarira zviso zvechirume zvakagerwa zvakachena, nepo vakadzi vakaroorwa vairatidzira mafungire akaipa kwavari.
Zvechokwadi, maonero echitarisiko chemitezo yakasiyana-siyana inyaya yekuravira, iyo inoumbwa pasi pesimba rezvikonzero zvakawanda. Asi zvinoratidzika kuti masayendisiti akaratidza zvakare kuti isu tinotungamirirwa zvakanyanya nemasikirwo uye maitiro akaiswa pasi mazana, kana kwete zviuru zvezvizvarwa zvakapfuura. Uye zvino, kuongorora, semuenzaniso, mafirimu ane Sean Connery, munhu anogona pakupedzisira kunzwisisa kuti nei Bond yakaveurwa yakachena ichiita seisinganakidze kupfuura mavara anotambwa nemutambi makore mazhinji gare gare ane ndebvu dzakanaka uye dzakashongedzwa zvakanaka.
NezveMunyori: Wendy Patrick igweta rekutongwa, nyanzvi yezvesainzi, uye munyori we Maverengero Evanhu.