Hope dzerufu dzinotityisa. Sezvineiwo, mazhinji acho anogona kududzirwa nenzira yedimikira, yedimikira. Asi zvakadini nezviitiko zvezviroto zveuporofita zvakafanotaura rufu? Muzivi Sharon Rowlett ari kuyedza kufunga musoro wacho, achishandisa data kubva kuongororo ichangoburwa.
Muna December 1975, mumwe mukadzi anonzi Allison akamuka kubva mukurota kwakaipa uko mwanasikana wake ane makore mana okukura Tessa akanga ari munjanji yechitima. Apo mukadzi wacho akaedza kuendesa mwana kwakachengeteka, iye amene akarohwa ndokuurawa nechitima. Allison akamuka achichema ndokuudza murume wake nezvenyaya yaityisa iyi.
Pasina mavhiki maviri, Allison nemwanasikana wake vakanga vava pachiteshi. Chimwe chinhu chakawira panjanji, uye, achiedza kuisimudza, musikana akaitsika. Allison akaona chitima chaiuya achibva amhanya kuti aponese mwanasikana wake. Chitima chakavarova vese kusvika vafa.
Murume waAllison akazoudza munzveri wezviroto Dr. David Ryback zvakanga zvaitika. Arwadziwa nokurasikirwa kunotyisa, murume wacho akataura kuti nyevero yaakawana iye naAllison nguva pfupi njodzi isati yaitika yakamupa nyaradzo. “Zvinoita kuti ndinzwe ndiri pedyo naAllison naTessa,” akanyorera Ryback, “nemhaka yokuti chimwe chinhu chandisinganzwisisi chakanyevera mudzimai wangu.”
Kune nyaya dzakawanda dzezviroto dzinoyambira nezverufu, anonyora Sharon Rowlett, muzivi uye munyori webhuku nezve masangana uye basa ravanoita mukuitika kwevanhu. “Zvingangodaro kuti iwe kana kuti mumwe munhu waunoziva akarota zvinotyisa zvakafanana. Asi zvingangova zvangoitikawo here? Pakupedzisira, zviroto zvakawanda pamusoro perufu hazvizomboitiki - ndiani anozviona?
Zvinoitika kuti munhu mumwe chete akaronda nyaya dzakadai. Dr. Andrew Puckett pachake akanga asina chokwadi nepfungwa yokuti zviroto zvinogona kufanotaura nezveramangwana. Akatanga kuchengeta dhayari rakadzama rezviroto zvake kuratidza kuti zviroto zvake zve "chiporofita" zvaive zvisiri chimwe kunze kwezvigadzirwa zvehuropi.
Mumakore makumi maviri nemashanu, kubva 25 kusvika 1989, akanyora gumi nerimwe rezviroto zvake. Akatora zvinyorwa pakarepo mushure mokumuka uye kurota kusati kwagona "kuongororwa". Muna 2014, Paquette akaburitsa ongororo yezviroto zvake zverufu.
Achiona kufa kweshamwari muchiroto, musayendisiti akamuka aine chivimbo chakazara chokuti kurota kwaiva kwouprofita.
Puckett akatanga chidzidzo nekutarisa "database" yake. Mariri, airondedzera zviroto umo mumwe munhu akafa. Akatsvaga hope dzaakaona asati awana ruzivo rwekufa kwemunhu airota. Mudhayari, makanyorwa nezvezviroto zvakadaro 87 zvaisanganisira vanhu makumi mashanu vaaiziva. Panguva yaakaita ongororo, vanhu gumi nevaviri kubva pamakumi mashanu (kureva 50%) vaive vafa.
Tsvakurudzo haina kugumira ipapo. Saka, vanhu gumi nevaviri vakafa zvechokwadi pakupedzisira. Chiremba akaenda pamusoro pezvaakanyora ndokuverenga mazuva kana makore muchiitiko chimwe nechimwe pakati pehope nechiitiko chaicho. Zvakazoitika kuti kune vanhu 12 kubva kune gumi nevaviri kurota kwe "chiporofita" kwaiva kwekupedzisira kwezviroto pamusoro pemunhu uyu. Zvimwe zviroto zvaPuckett pamusoro pavo zvakaitika kare kare uye, saizvozvo, kubva pazuva rekufa.
Ivhareji yepakati pakati pekurota pamusoro pekufa kweshamwari uye magumo chaiwo ehupenyu hwake aive makore matanhatu. Zviri pachena, kunyange kana kurota kuchionekwa sechiporofita, hazvibviri kuvimba nekufanotaura kwezuva chairo rekufa.
Chakanyanya kushamisa yaive nyaya apo Puckett akarota hope dzakadai husiku hwakatangira kufa kwemurume uyu. Panguva imwe cheteyo, mugore rakanga rapfuura, Paquette, kwete iye pachake kana kuti kuburikidza nevanozivana, vakaramba vachionana naye. Zvisinei, aona kufa kweshamwari yake muchiroto, akamuka aine chivimbo chakazara chokuti chiroto chacho chaiva chouprofita. Akaudza mudzimai wake nemwanasikana nezvake uye zuva rakatevera chairo akagamuchira email ine nhau dzinosiririsa. Panguva iyoyo, hope dzakafanotaura chiitiko chaicho.
Maererano naSharon Rowlett, nyaya iyi inoratidza kuti unogona kudzidza kusiyanisa pakati pezviroto zvine chokuita nerufu. Iyo yekutanga inoshanda seyambiro yekuti rufu nderwechokwadi - ichangobva kuitika kana kuti ichauya nekukurumidza. Vekupedzisira vanoti rufu ruchaitika mushure menguva yakati, kana kuishandisa sedimikira.
Kumwe ongororo yebasa raPuckett uye iyi dingindira rose inogona kuburitsa zvinonakidza mhedzisiro, Sharon Rowlett ane chokwadi. Dambudziko nderekutsvaga vanhu vakakwana vanoda kunyora zviroto mumakore apfuura uye kupa zvinyorwa zvekudzidza.
Nezve Nyanzvi: Sharon Hewitt Rowlett muzivi uye munyori weChikonzero uye Zvinorehwa Nezviitiko: Kunyatsotarisa kune Zvinoshamisa Chokwadi.