Vese vanobatwa zvakanyanya nemanzwiro nezviito zvevamwe vanhu. Vanoda kunyarara uye vanotsvaka kubatsira vamwe vanhu. Vanotsamwiswa nenzvimbo dzine vanhu vakawanda uye hwema hwakasimba. Zvisinei, chiremba wepfungwa Judith Orloff anosimbirira kuti tsitsi dzine maitiro adzo akasiyana. Ngatiedzei kuzvinzwisisa.
Semuongorori wepfungwa uye anonzwira tsitsi, ini ndinowanzo kubvunzwa mubvunzo: "Ndeipi musiyano uripo pakati pekunzwira tsitsi nevanhu vane hypersensitive?" Aya marudzi emanzwiro anowanzovhiringidzika nekuti ane zvakawanda zvakafanana.
Ose ari maviri ane kuderedzwa kwekunzwa chikumbaridzo, saka chero kukurudzira kunonzwika zvakanyanya. Nokuda kweizvi, vanoona chiedza chakajeka zvikuru, ruzha rukuru, kunhuhwirira kwakashata. Vose vari vaviri vanonzwa kudikanwa kwokuva voga kwenguva yakati uye havagoni kutsungirira mapoka makuru avanhu.
Asi vanhu vane hypersensitive vanoda nguva yakawanda yekupora kubva pazuva rinoshungurudza uye kugadzirisa kune yakadzikama nharaunda. Anenge ese ari introverts, nepo pakati pekunzwira tsitsi pane zvakare extroverts.
Tsika dzinogoverana rudo rwakanyanya rwechisikigo uye nharaunda yakanyarara, pamwe nechishuwo chavo chekubatsira vamwe. Vese vane hupenyu hwemukati hwakapfuma.
Nekudaro, tsitsi dzinorarama zvese zvinoitika kwavari, mumwe angati, padanho repamusoro. Vanoratidzirwa kune masimba asina kujeka - mutsika dzekuMabvazuva vanonzi shakti kana prana - uye vanovatora kubva kune vamwe vanhu, vatore kubva kunharaunda. Vanhu vane hypersensitive, sekutonga, havakwanisi izvi.
Tsitsi dzakawanda dzine hukama hwakadzama hwemweya nemasikirwo nemhuka dzesango.
Tsitsi dzakafanana nechiridzwa chinotapurika, chakanyatsokwenenzverwa kana totaura nezvemanzwiro. Vakafanana nechipanji chinonyudza kufunganya kwomumwe munhu, kurwadziwa uye kufunganya. Kazhinji izvi zvinotungamirira kune chokwadi chokuti hazvisi nyore kwavari kuti vaone chakakonzera kusagadzikana - zvakaitika kune vamwe vanhu kana ivo pachavo.
Zvisinei, vanoona manzwiro akanaka eavo vakavapoteredza zvishoma. Mukuwedzera, tsitsi dzakawanda dzine hukama hwakadzama hwemweya nemasikirwo, nyika yemhuka, iyo, sekutonga, haigoni kutaurwa pamusoro pevanhu vane hypersensitivity.
Zvisinei, marudzi aya epfungwa haasanganisi mumwe, uye ane zvakawanda zvakafanana pane kusiyana. Zvinokwanisika kuti munhu mumwe chete ave zvose tsitsi uye munhu ane hypersensitive panguva imwe chete. Asi kana iwe ukaisa vanhu vese kuitira kuti uwedzere kugona kunzwira tsitsi, unowana unotevera mufananidzo:
Muchikamu ichi, tsitsi dzakanyatsopesana nemanarcissists uye sociopaths, avo vanozivikanwa sevasina tsitsi. Pakati pechikero ichi anoiswa iwo akafanana hypersensitive hunhu uye vanhu vane yakakwana uye yakagadzikana kugona kuratidza tsitsi.
Ndiri munhu anonzwira tsitsi here?
Kuverenga tsananguro, waifunga kuti zvese izvi zvinokuyeuchidza iwe? Kuti uedze kana uri munhu anonzwira tsitsi, zvibvunze mibvunzo iyi:
Vanhu vanofunga kuti ndiri "kunyanya manzwiro" kana kunyanyisa?
Kana shamwari yakavhiringidzika uye yakaora mwoyo, ndinotanga kunzwa saizvozvo here?
Ndiri kukurumidza kukuvara here?
Ndaneta here nokuva mumhomho yevanhu zvokuti zvinotora nguva kuti ndipore?
Ndiri kuvhiringwa neruzha, hwema kana kukurukurirana kukuru here?
Ndinosarudza kuuya kumafaro nemota yangu kuti ndigobuda chero pandinoda?
Ndiri kudyisa kuti ndigadzirise kushushikana mupfungwa here?
Ndiri kutya kuti ndichapedzwa zvachose nehukama hwepedyo?
Kana iwe wakapindura hongu kune inodarika mibvunzo mitatu, wawana yako yemanzwiro mhando.