Kutanga bhasikoro, yekutanga skating rink, yekutanga "isingatyisi" jekiseni ... Yakanaka uye kwete mapeji ekare kure. Asi zvimwe zviitiko zvouduku hwedu hatitombozviyeuki. Sei zvichiitika?
"Ndarangarira pano, handicharangariri pano." Ndangariro yedu inoparadzanisa sei gorosi nehundi? Tsaona makore maviri apfuura, kutsvoda kwekutanga, kuyananiswa kwekupedzisira nemudiwa: zvimwe zviyeuchidzo zvinoramba zviripo, asi mazuva edu akazadzwa nezvimwe zviitiko, saka hatigoni kuchengeta zvinhu zvose, kunyange kana tichida.
Huduku hwedu, sekutonga, tinoda kuchengeta - idzi ndangariro dzenguva inofadza uye isina makore inotangira pubertal mhirizhonga, yakanyatsopetwa mu "bhokisi refu" pane imwe nzvimbo yakadzika mukati medu. Asi kuzviita hakusi nyore! Zviedze iwe: unorangarira zvakawanda zvezvidimbu uye mifananidzo kubva kure kure? Kune zvimedu zvakakura zve "tepi yefirimu" yedu yakachengetedzwa zvinenge zvakazara, uye pane chimwe chinhu chinoratidzika kunge chakachekwa nekuongorora.
Vakawanda vanobvuma kuti hatigoni kuyeuka makore matatu kana mana okutanga oupenyu hwedu. Mumwe angafunga kuti uropi hwomwana pazera iroro hahukwanisi kuchengeta ndangariro dzose nemifananidzo, sezvo husati hwanyatsokura (pamwe chete nezvinobvira kunze kwevanhu vane eidetic memory).
Kunyange Sigmund Freud akaedza kuwana chikonzero chekudzvinyirirwa kwezviitiko zvehuduku. Freud angangodaro aive akarurama pamusoro pekurasika kwendangariro muvana vakashungurudzika. Asi vazhinji vaive nehudiki husina-hwakashata, pane zvinopesana, vachifara uye vasina kushungurudzika, maererano nendangariro shoma dzinogoverwa nevatengi nenyanzvi yepfungwa. Saka nei vamwe vedu vaine nyaya dzeuhwana shoma pane dzimwe?
“Kanganwa zvese”
Neurons vanoziva mhinduro. Kana isu tiri vaduku zvikuru, uropi hwedu hunomanikidzwa kutendeukira kumifananidzo kuitira kuti tiyeuke chimwe chinhu, asi nekufamba kwenguva, chikamu chemutauro wezviyeuchidzo chinooneka: tinotanga kutaura. Izvi zvinoreva kuti itsva zvachose "operating system" iri kuvakwa mupfungwa dzedu, iyo inodarika mafaira akachengetwa akare. Zvose zvatakachengeta kusvika zvino hazvisati zvarasika zvachose, asi zvakaoma kuzvitaura mumashoko. Tinoyeuka mifananidzo inoratidzwa nemanzwi, manzwiro, mifananidzo, manzwiro mumuviri.
Nekukura, zvinova zvakanyanya kutiomera kurangarira zvimwe zvinhu - isu tinonzwa zviri nani pane zvatinogona kutsanangura mumashoko. Mune kumwe kuongorora, vana vane makore ari pakati pematatu nemana vakabvunzwa nezvezviitiko zvakanga zvaitika kwavari nguva pfupi yapfuura, zvakadai sokuenda kunzvimbo inochengeterwa mhuka kana kuti kunotenga. Apo makore mashomanene gare gare, pazera ramakore masere namapfumbamwe, ava vana vakabvunzwazve pamusoro pechiitiko chimwe chetecho, vakatadza kuchirangarira. Nokudaro, "amnesia yehucheche" inoitika pasati papfuura makore manomwe.
tsika factor
Chinhu chakakosha: mwero weamnesia wehudiki unosiyana zvichienderana netsika nemitauro yeimwe nyika. Vatsvakurudzi vanobva kuNew Zealand vakawana kuti “zera” rendangariro dzapakuvamba zvikurusa dzavanhu vokuAsia rakakwirira zvikuru kupfuura iro ravaEurope.
Nyanzvi yepfungwa yekuCanada Carol Peterson zvakare, pamwe nevamwe vake vekuChina, vakawana kuti, paavhareji, vanhu vekuMadokero vanogona "kurasikirwa" nemakore mana ekutanga ehupenyu, nepo vanhu vekuChina vachirasikirwa nemamwe makore mashoma. Sezviri pachena, zvinoenderana netsika kuti ndangariro dzedu "dzinoenda" kusvika papi.
Semutemo, vatsvakurudzi vanorayira vabereki kuti vaudze vana vavo zvakawanda nezvezvakaitika kare uye vabvunze pamusoro pezvavanonzwa. Izvi zvinotibvumira kuita mupiro unokosha ku "bhuku rekuyeuka" redu, iro rinoratidzwawo mumigumisiro yezvidzidzo zveNew Zealanders.
Zvichida ichi ndicho chaicho chikonzero nei dzimwe shamwari dzedu dzichiyeuka uduku hwadzo kupfuura zvatinoita. Asi ikoku kunoreva here kuti vabereki vedu vakataura nesu kashoma zvikuru, sezvo tichirangarira zvishomanene?
Nzira ye "kudzorera mafaira"?
Ndangariro dzinozvimiririra, uye saka zviri nyore kwazvo kugadzirisa nekuzvikanganisa (tinowanzo zviita isu pachedu). Dzakawanda dze“ndangariro” dzedu dzakaberekwa chaizvoizvo kubva munhau dzatakanzwa, kunyange zvazvo isu timene tisina kumbonzwa zvose izvi. Kazhinji tinovhiringa nyaya dzevamwe nendangariro dzedu.
Asi ndangariro dzedu dzakarasika dzakarasika zvachose - kana kuti dziri mune imwe kona yakachengetedzwa yekusaziva kwedu uye, kana zvichidikanwa, dzinogona "kusimudzwa pamusoro"? Vatsvakurudzi havagoni kupindura mubvunzo uyu kusvikira nhasi. Kunyange hypnosis haitivimbisi huchokwadi hwe "mafaira akadzorerwa".
Saka hazvina kunyatsojeka zvekuita ne "memory gaps" yako. Zvinogona kunyadzisa kana munhu wese akatenderedza achitaura achifara nezvehudiki hwavo, uye isu tinomira pedyo toedza kupinda nemumhute kuenda kundangariro dzedu. Uye zvinosuruvarisa chaizvo kutarisa mapikicha ako ehuduku, sokunge vakanga vasingazivi, vachiedza kunzwisisa izvo uropi hwedu hwaiita panguva iyoyo, kana iwe usina kuyeuka chero chinhu zvachose.
Nekudaro, mifananidzo inogara iinesu: ingave mifananidzo midiki mundangariro, kana makadhi eanalogi mumaarubhamu emifananidzo, kana edhijitari palaptop. Tinogona kuvarega vachitidzosera kumashure munguva uye pakupedzisira tive izvo zvavanofanira kuva - ndangariro dzedu.