Kutaura nezve smartphones uye makomputa, isu tiri categorical: inobatsira uye inodiwa, asi yakaipa. Mhuri yepfungwa dzepfungwa Katerina Demina ane maonero akasiyana: majeti ane pluses akawanda kupfuura minuses, uye kunyanya zvakadaro, haagoni kuva chikonzero chekukakavadzana mumhuri.
Psychologies: Kumba manheru - amai vanokurukura vari mutumwa, baba vanotamba pakombuta, mwana anoona Youtube. Ndiudze kwakanaka here?
Katerina Demina: Izvi zvakanaka. Inzira yekuzorora. Uye kana, pamusoro pekurembera mumagajeti, nhengo dzemhuri dziwane nguva yekukurukura nemumwe, saka zvakajairika zvakanaka. Ndinoyeuka kuti mhuri yose - vana vatatu nevakuru vatatu - vakaenda kunozorora pagungwa. Kuti vachengetedze mari, vakarenda imba duku mumusha muduku. Manheru, takaenda kune imwe cafe yegungwa uye, takamirira kuraira, takagara, mumwe nemumwe akavigwa mufoni yake. Tinofanira kunge takaratidzika semhuri yakaipa, yakaputsika. Asi kutaura zvazviri, takapedza mavhiki matatu mhino kumhino, uye Internet yakabatwa chete mune iyi cafe. Gadget mukana wekuve wega nepfungwa dzako.
Zvakare, nyaya yako ingangove iri yepwere. Nekuti mwana wechikoro haakubvumidze kugara muhurukuro kana mutambo wepamhepo. Iye achabvisa mweya kubva kwauri: kwaari, nguva yakapedzwa nababa naamai inokosha zvikuru. Uye kumunhu ari kuyaruka, nguva yokutandara nevabereki ndicho chinhu chisinganyanyi kukosha muupenyu. Kwaari, kutaurirana nevezera rake kunonyanya kukosha.
Uye kana tikataura nezve vaviri? Murume nomudzimai vanouya kumba vachibva kubasa uye, panzvimbo pokuzvikandira mumaoko emumwe wavo, vanonamatira kumidziyo ...
Padanho rekutanga rehukama, kana zvese zviri pamoto uye zvichinyungudika, hapana chinogona kukukanganisa iwe kubva kune waunoda. Asi nekufamba kwenguva, kureba pakati pevadyidzani kunowedzera, nekuti isu hatigone kupisa nguva dzese. Uye magajeti inzira yemazuva ano yekuvaka ichi chinhambwe mumaviri. Kare, garaji, hove, kunwa, TV, shamwari, vasikana vakabatira donzo rimwe chetero, “Ndakaenda kumuvakidzani, uye unokunga poriji pamaminiti mashanu ari ose.”
Hatigoni kugara tichibatana nemumwe munhu. Akaneta, akatora foni, akatarisa Facebook (sangano rinonyanyisa rakarambidzwa muRussia) kana Instagram (sangano rinopfurikidza rakarambidzwa muRussia). Panguva imwe cheteyo, tinogona kurara parutivi pamubhedha uye mumwe nomumwe anorava tepi yake amene, tichiratidzirana zvimwe zvinhu zvinosetsa, tichikurukura zvatinorava. Uye ichi ndicho chimiro chedu chehukama hwepedyo. Uye tinogona kuva pamwe chete nguva dzose uye panguva imwe chete tichivengana.
Asi foni nemakombiyuta hazvikonzeri kurwisana here kana mudiwa “akatizira” mazviri, totadza kumuwana?
Gadget haigoni kuva chikonzero chekukakavadzana, sezvinongoita demo risingagoni kupomerwa mhosva yekuuraya, uye peni haigoni kupiwa mhosva yekunyora tarenda. Mafoni uye mahwendefa mudziyo wekutumira mameseji. Kusanganisira dimikira - mwero wakasiyana-siyana wepedyo kana hukasha. Zvichida hukama hwave huri kuputika pamakumbo kwenguva yakareba, saka murume, auya kumba kubva kubasa, anozunungusa musoro wake pakombiyuta. Aigona kuwana tenzikadzi, otanga kunwa, asi akasarudza mitambo yepakombiyuta. Uye mukadzi ari kuyedza kunanavira..
Zvinoitika kuti munhu haana hukama hwepedyo, chete gadget, nekuti zviri nyore navo. Izvi zvine njodzi?
Tiri kuvhiringa chikonzero nemhedzisiro here? Kwagara kune vanhu vasingagone kuvaka hukama. Pakutanga, vakasarudza kusurukirwa kana hukama hwemari, nhasi vanowana hutiziro munyika chaiyo. Ndinoyeuka takakurukura nomumwe wechiduku ane makore 15 okukura kuti anoona sei ukama hwakanaka nomusikana pachake. Uye netsitsi akati: “Ndinoda kuti ive pagokora pangu pandinoida. Uye kana zvisiri madikanwa, hazvina kupenya. Asi uhwu ndihwo hukama hwemwana naamai! Ndakaedza kumutsanangurira kwenguva refu kuti hwaiva hucheche. Iye zvino murume wechidiki akura uye ari kuvaka hukama hwevanhu vakuru ...
Kutizira kunyika chaiyo inowanzoita hunhu hweavo vasati vakura uye vasingakwanise kubereka mumwe munhu padivi pavo. Asi zvigadzirwa zvinongoratidzira izvi, kwete kuzvikonzera. Asi muvechiri kuyaruka, kupindwa muropa negajeti idambudziko rine njodzi. Kana asingadi kudzidza, haana shamwari, haafambi, anotamba nguva dzose, anoridza alarm uye pakarepo tsvaka rubatsiro. Inogona kuva chiratidzo chekuora mwoyo!
Mukuita kwako, paive nemienzaniso apo magajeti haana kukanganisa mhuri, asi, pane kudaro, akabatsira?
Zvakawanda sezvaunoda. Muvakidzani wedu ane makore 90 okukura anodana vazukuru vake nevazukuru chibvi zuva rose. Anodzidzisa nhetembo navo. Inobatsira neFrench. Inoteerera kuti vanotamba sei zvidimbu zvavo zvekutanga papiyano zvine mutsindo. Dai Skype isina kugadzirwa, aizorarama sei? Uye saka anoziva nezvezvinhu zvavo zvose. Imwe nyaya: mwanakomana wemumwe wevatengi vangu akapinda mudambudziko rakasimba revechiri kuyaruka, uye akachinjira kukunyorerana kwakanyorwa, kunyangwe vaive mufurati imwe chete. Nekuti "Ndapota itai izvi" munhume hazvina kumuitira hasha sekupinda mukamuri: "Bvisa pfungwa dzako pamutambo wako, nditarise ini uye uite zvandinokuudza."
Zvishandiso zvinorerutsa zvakanyanya kutaurirana nevechiri kuyaruka. Unogona kuvatumira chero chaunoda kuti vaverenge uye ivo vanozotumira zvakare chimwe chinhu. Zviri nyore zvikuru kuvadzora pasina kupindira. Kana mwanasikana wako asingadi kuti uende kuchiteshi chechitima kuti usangane naye usiku, nokuti mukuru uye anoenda neshamwari, unogona kumutumira tekisi uye kutarisa motokari munguva chaiyo.
Kusakwanisa kutevera hakuzoiti kuti tinyanye kunetseka here?
Zvakare, magajeti anongova maturusi. Havazoiti kuti tizvidye mwoyo zvakanyanya kana tisingazvidye mwoyo nemasikirwo.
Ndezvipi zvimwe zvinodikanwa, kunze kwekurukurirano nomukana wokuva woga, izvo zvinogutsa?
Zvinoita sekuti chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti magajeti anopa manzwiro ekuti hausi wega, kunyangwe uri wega. Iyo, kana iwe uchida, nzira yekutarisana neiyo iripo yekushushikana uye kusiiwa. Uye handigoni kana kutaura kuti inhema. Nekuti vanhu vemazuva ano vane makirabhu ekufarira, uye iwe neni tine vatinoshanda navo uye shamwari dzatingasamboona, asi tinonzwa sevepedyo. Uye vanouya kuzonunura, vanotitsigira, vanonzwira tsitsi, vanogona kuti: "Hongu, ndine matambudziko akafanana" - dzimwe nguva izvi zvakakosha! Ani nani ane hanya nekuwana simbiso yehukuru hwake achaigamuchira - achapihwa zvaanoda. Ndiani ane hanya nemutambo wehungwaru kana kuzara kwemanzwiro, anovawana. Magajeti chishandiso chakadaro chepasirese chekuzviziva iwe nenyika.