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Rori kana dinette, ngavasarudze!
Mazhinji emabhuku ematoyi ane mapeji akatsaurirwa kuvasikana kana vakomana. Panzvimbo pokusava duku, izvi zvinopesvedzera vana zvakasimba. Izvo zvakakosha kuti munhu wese atambe neyakakura kwazvo inobvira renji kuitira kukudziridza kugona kwavo.
Gore negore, itsika imwe chete. Mumabhokisi etsamba nezvitoro zvemadhipatimendi, mabhuku ematoyi eKisimusi ari kuwanda. Mini-oveni, mota dzinodzorwa kure, zvidhori kana mitambo yekuvaka, iwo mavara akakamurwa kuita maviri: pink kana bhuruu.. Hapana mumvuri, se "girini-grey" yevakomana vanonyara kana "ruvara rweorenji" yevasikana vane daredevil. Kwete. Pamapeji nemapeji, marudzi acho akaparadzaniswa zvakanaka. Vane madhiri, zvinodiwa zvemumba kana zvipfeko zvemukoti (hapana chiremba, usawedzere!) Kana mwanasikana wamambo; kwavari mota, ma backhoe loaders, zvombo nezvifukidziro zvevanodzima moto. Kisimusi yadarika, kabhuku chete ezvitoro zveU ndiye akagadzira ruzha nekupa matoyi airatidza murume nemukadzi. Kudzokera kumashure kune shanduko yenharaunda, kubva kuma2000s, chiitiko chekusiyana kwemusikana nemukomana chinosimbiswa.
Lego ane bvudzi rakanaka
Mumakore ekuma90, waigona kuwana mutsvuku wakaita semadonhwe maviri emvura sePippi Longstocking, achiratidza kudada kuvakwa kweLego kwakaoma. Nhasi, iyo yakakurumbira yekuvaka toyi brand, iyo yakaramba iine unisex kwemakore, yakatanga "Lego Shamwari", mutsauko "wevasikana". Zvimiro zvishanu zvine maziso makuru, masiketi uye vhudzi rakanaka. Ivo vakanaka kwazvo, asi kuvaona kwakaoma kusarangarira ma80s, kwataitamba kwemaawa, vasikana nevakomana, nevakomana vakakurumbira vane misoro yero, nemaoko akacheka uye kunyemwerera kunoshamisa. Mona Lisa… PhD mudzidzi mune zvemagariro evanhu, Mona Zegaï akazviona izvozvo musiyano pakati pevarume nevakadzi mumabhuku emakatalog unotoitika mumafungiro evana. Mumifananidzo inoratidza vana vadiki vachitamba, vakomana vadiki vane zvimiro zvechirume: vanomira netsoka, zvibhakera muhudyu, pavanenge vasingabati bakatwa. Kune rumwe rutivi, vasikana vane zvimiro zvinoyevedza, pane tiptoe, vachipuruzira matoyi. Kwete chete makatalog ane mapeji epingi nebhuruu, asi zvitoro zviri kuzviita. Nzira dzakaiswa zviratidzo: mavara maviri emasherufu anoratidza zvakajeka ndima yevabereki nekukurumidza. Ngwarira uyo anotora dhipatimendi risiri iro uye anopa kit kit kumwanakomana wake!
Mitambo yevasikana kana mitambo yevakomana: huremu hwezvakajairwa
Izvi zvinomiririra zvepabonde mumitambo zvine simba guru pakuvakwa kwekuzivikanwa kwevana uye maonero avo enyika.. Kuburikidza nematoyi aya, angaite seasina kukuvadza, tinotumira meseji yakajairika: hatifanirwe kubva pasocial framework yakapihwa nesosaiti. Avo vasingakwane mumabhokisi havagamuchirwe. Buda kune vanorota uye vanogadzira vakomana, gamuchira mhirizhonga ine ruzha. Ditto yevasikana vadiki, vakakokwa kuti vave zvavasiri vese: vakapfava, vanozvininipisa uye vanozvibata.
"Gendered" mitambo: njodzi yekubereka kusaenzana pakati pevasikana nevakomana
Chinangwa chekutanga chatinopa vasikana: kufadza. Iine akawanda sequins, ribhoni uye frills. Zvisinei, chero munhu akambova nemwana chaiye ane makore matatu pamba anoziva kuti musikana muduku haagari (kana kumboitika!) Ane nyasha kana kuti akapfava zuva rose. Anokwanisawo kusarudza kukwira pasofa achiti igomo kana kukutsanangurira kuti ndi “tain conductor” uye anokuendesa kwaambuya. Mitambo iyi, yatinotamba kana kusatamba zvichienderana nekuti tiri murume here, inogonawo kukanganisa kuberekana kwekusaenzana.. Zvechokwadi, kana pasina simbi kana vacuum cleaner inopiwa nebhuruu, ine mufananidzo wemukomana anochenesa, sei kudzorera kusaenzana kunoshamisa mukugoverana kwemabasa epamba muFrance? Vakadzi vachiri kuita 80% yayo. Ditto pamwero wemuhoro. Nebasa rakaenzana, murume ari mubazi rakazvimiririra achawana 28% kupfuura mukadzi. Sei ? Nokuti iye murume! Saizvozvo, musikana mudiki asina kodzero yekupfeka Spiderman anogona sei kuvimba nesimba rake kana kugona kwake gare gare? Zvakadaro, uto rave rakavhurika kuvakadzi kwenguva yakareba ... Madzimai aya ane mabasa makuru ikoko, havachasiyi vakomana vavo mumunda kupfuura varume vavo. Asi ndiani anopa musikana muduku pfuti yemuchina, kunyange kana akaichemera? Ditto kudivi remukomana: nepo kubika zviratidzo nevabiki zvichiwanda, loulou inogona kurambwa mini-cooker chete nekuti ipingi. Kuburikidza nemitambo, tinopa hupenyu hwakaganhurirwa mamiriro : kunyengedza vasikana, humai uye mabasa epamba uye simba revakomana, sainzi, mitambo nenjere. Mukuita izvi, tinodzivirira vanasikana vedu kuti vasave nechishuvo chavo uye tinorambidza vanakomana vedu avo vanozoda: "kugara pamba kuti vachengete vana vavo gumi". Gore rakapera vhidhiyo yakatorwa paInternet. Tinoona musikana ane makore 10 okukura ari muchitoro chematoyi achishora zvinonzwika uku kusarura, nepo kwaari, zvinhu zvakasiyana zvikuru: “” (“Vamwe vasikana vanoda magamba makuru, vamwe machinda; vamwe vakomana vanoda magamba, vamwe machinda. ”) Riley Vhidhiyo yaMaida pakushambadzira ndeyekuona paYou Tube, inonakidza.
Bvumira vana kutamba nezvose!
Pakati pemakore maviri ne2, kutamba kunotora kukosha kukuru muhupenyu hwemwana. matoyi emota kumubatsira kukudziridza, kushandisa kuwirirana kwemaoko ake nemakumbo. Zvisinei, varume nevakadzi vose vanofanira kurovedza muviri, kumhanya, kukwira! Makore maviri ndiko kunyanya kutanga kwe "kutevedzera mitambo”. Vanopa vana vadiki mukana wekuzvisimbisa, kuzvimiririra, kunzwisisa nyika yevakuru. Nokutamba "kunyepedzera", anodzidza maitiro uye maitiro evabereki vake uye anopinda munyika yakapfuma kwazvo yekufungidzira.. Mucheche, kunyanya, ane basa rekufananidzira: vasikana nevakomana vanonyatsobatanidzwa nayo. Vanotarisira diki, vanobereka izvo vabereki vavo vanoita: kugeza, shandura diaper kana kutuka mwana wavo. Iko kukakavara, kuvhiringidzika uye kuomerwa kunoitwa nemukomana mudiki kunoburitswa kunze nekuda kwechidhori. Vakomana vaduku vose vanofanira kukwanisa kutamba. Ngozi, kana tikasimbisa mafungiro ezvepabonde, kuburikidza nemamiriro ezvinhu nemitambo, ndeyekupa vakomana (uye varume venguva yemberi!) Macho orientation.. Sezvineiwo, taitumira vasikana vadiki meseji nezve kuderera kwavo (kwaifungidzirwa).. PaBourdarias nursery muSaint-Ouen (93), chikwata chakashanda kwemakore akati wandei pachirongwa chedzidzo maererano nezvevakadzi. Pfungwa yacho? Kwete kubvisa mutsauko pakati pevarume nevakadzi, asi kuona kuti vasikana nevakomana vakaenzana. Uye izvo zvinoitika zvakanyanya kuburikidza nekutamba. Saka, mukireshi iyi, vasikana vaigara vachikokwa kuti vaite mabasa emaoko. Vachitarisirwa nomunhu mukuru, vanorovera zvipikiri mumatanda emapuranga, vachirova zvakasimba nesando. Vakadzidziswawo kuzvimanikidza, kuti “kwete”, pavanenge vachinetsana nemumwe mwana. Saizvozvowo, vakomana vaiwanzokurudzirwa kutarisira zvidhori uye kutaura manzwiro avo uye manzwiro avo. Kubva ipapo, vezvematongerwo enyika vakaibata. Gore rakapera, General Inspectorate yeSocial Affairs yakatumira mushumo kuna Gurukota Najat Vallaud-Belkacem pamusoro pe "Kuenzana pakati pevasikana nevakomana muurongwa hwekuchengeta vana". Pamusoro pekusimudzira ruzivo pakati penyanzvi dzevadiki nezvenyaya dzekufungidzira, kubva pakutanga kwegore rechikoro ra2013, kabhuku neDVD pamusoro pekusaenzana zvinofanirwa kupihwa kuvabereki nanababa kunyanya.
Kuzivikanwa kwevakadzi hakufurirwa nemitambo
Kurega vakomana nevasikana vachitamba nemhando dzose dzemitambo, pasina kunetseka pamusoro pemavara (kana kutsvaga mavara "asina kwaakarerekera": orange, green, yellow) zvakakosha pakuvaka kwavo.. Kuburikidza nematoyi, panzvimbo pekubereka nyika yekusaenzana, vana vanoona kuti vanogona kuwedzera miganhu yevakadzi nefararira: chero chinhu chinogoneka. Hapana chakachengeterwa chimwe kana chimwe uye chimwe nechimwe chinosimudzira hunyanzvi hwayo, ichizvipfumisa nehunhu hwemunhukadzi kana mumwe. Nokuda kweizvi, hongu, haufaniri kutya iwe pachako : munhu ane ruzha anotamba nezvidhori haaite ngochani. Tinofanira kuzviyeuka here? Kuzivikanwa kwevakadzi hakusi kukanganiswa nemitambo, iri mu "chimiro" chemunhu, kazhinji kubva pakuberekwa. Tsvaga ndangariro yako nekuchenjera: hausati wadawo chitoyi chisina kuchengeterwa rudzi rwako? Vabereki vako vakanga vaita sei? Wakanzwa sei pashure? Tinyorere kuhofisi yevapepeti, maonero ako panyaya iyi anotifarira!